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Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do
Your back handed self morality is noted. You are free to have opinions but to try to make yourself try to seem superior because of them. I don’t give a s~~~ if I ever have sex again but this relates way too much to the southern saying “Bless their heart, insert insult” Tell me could you go 30 days without masturbation and porn?
It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything
Sex to me is a distraction.
A little story:
I was unwinding in a c~~~tail bar after a hike in Southeast Asia. An Korean tourist plopped her bag on the seat (attention grab) and looked bored at me. Turns out her “tinder date flaked” on her. 2-3 drinks later she’s feeling tipsy. Bartender smiles at me and winks to make a move. Being not tipsy since I ate a meal before drinking I told her what’s wrong with her (playing stupid). Lady says “It’s time to take me home” and slaps me on the shoulder. Saying that my feet were muddy and I was pretty dirty from my 5km hike didn’t help. She offered me some pills “to help her get really going” tonight. She took 2 in front of me! Just some painkillers she said.
All I was thinking in my head was a probable rape charge if things ever went sour. She was probably a 6-6.5 tops So I said “no thanks”. She thought I was playing hard to get. She started massaging my back and grabbed my ass! Kept telling her no then a “go away you drunk floozy go swipe for another dick” she got furious! The bartenders face was like he saw a ghost. We both parted ways exiting the bar.
Now in that case sex was used as a lure for me. If I f~~~ed her than would it have been “boring”? Probably not. But a bitch popping pills in front of a stranger is a warning sign to anyone listening. Guessing she has more issues than Time magazine.
Sex to me is a distraction. A little story: I was unwinding in a c~~~tail bar after a hike in Southeast Asia. An Korean tourist plopped her bag on the seat (attention grab) and looked bored at me. Turns out her “tinder date flaked” on her. 2-3 drinks later she’s feeling tipsy. Bartender smiles at me and winks to make a move. Being not tipsy since I ate a meal before drinking I told her what’s wrong with her (playing stupid). Lady says “It’s time to take me home” and slaps me on the shoulder. Saying that my feet were muddy and I was pretty dirty from my 5km hike didn’t help. She offered me some pills “to help her get really going” tonight. She took 2 in front of me! Just some painkillers she said. All I was thinking in my head was a probable rape charge if things ever went sour. She was probably a 6-6.5 tops So I said “no thanks”. She thought I was playing hard to get. She started massaging my back and grabbed my ass! Kept telling her no then a “go away you drunk floozy go swipe for another dick” she got furious! The bartenders face was like he saw a ghost. We both parted ways exiting the bar. Now in that case sex was used as a lure for me. If I f~~~ed her than would it have been “boring”? Probably not. But a bitch popping pills in front of a stranger is a warning sign to anyone listening. Guessing she has more issues than Time magazine.
May have also had a partner hiding in a dark corner waiting for you…seen it happen many times when I was in the military.
Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do.
Your back handed self morality is noted. You are free to have opinions but to try to make yourself try to seem superior because of them. Tell me could you go 30 days without masturbation?
I believe that I can. I once went 14 days without an ejaculation of any sort. The streak ended when I had sex and after that I began jerking off again. I am in tune with my mind and I believe I can control physical urges no matter how powerful they may become. The reason I don’t is because I’ve read that there are health benefits to having a release. So as long as I don’t devote too much time and energy into ejaculating, I don’t see the harm. Its a bit boring but its also annoying if I DON’T do it because then I will start popping boners mid-day. I don’t like these urges because they remind me that I still have a “primitive” characteristic even though I like to think I’m more evolved than that. I’m not really sure what you are trying to get at though.
I have been without sex for nearly a decade by choice. The first year was the most difficult, but over time its absence has become normal and a non-issue. I’m 37 so my sex drive is easing off some which certainly helps. Life is so blissfully simple right now and I truly love it.
I’ve been celibate for so long because sex was always something I preferred to do inside a “serious” relationship, and I have not crossed paths with a NAWALT in the last ten years (surprise, surprise). However, after finally swallowing my red pills I’m considering experimenting with how I interact with women moving forward, leaving the door open for temporary relationships and casual sex.
So for me right now, sex is totally not needed and its absence keeps life easy. However, it has been a long time so I am curious if I might get something out of a quick fling every once in a while. We will see…
Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do.
Your back handed self morality is noted. You are free to have opinions but to try to make yourself try to seem superior because of them. Tell me could you go 30 days without masturbation?
People without needs always are superior to people with needs. Look at the junkies and alcoholics you see; they have needs you may not have. They tremble and yearn for things you can do without, you may look at them and think “how can they stoop so low? How can they degrade themselves for this?”, and you would feel right in doing so since they have a craving, a weakness that you do not. It’s no different to be asexual in any way and look at sex addicts in all forms. I do that myself, so I can relate to the TS.
But the sum of it all never change though; we all have our weaknesses. Mine when it comes to women isn’t sex but being close in other forms. Not all the time, but every now and then. Basically I just need a cuddle bitch. :-I
Anonymous11I still find sex fun, but the bulls~~~ involved with getting it just doesn’t make it worth it. Our local hookers are pretty much all drug addicts so they are ruled out for that reason. The meat markets are filled with overweight blobs so that’s a real boner killer for me though not others.
The nice thing about being older is the hormones don’t push you as hard. The plumbing still works quite well over here, but I prefer to avoid the vast majority of women at all costs.
Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do.
Your back handed self morality is noted. You are free to have opinions but to try to make yourself try to seem superior because of them. Tell me could you go 30 days without masturbation?
I believe that I can. I once went 14 days without an ejaculation of any sort. The streak ended when I had sex and after that I began jerking off again. I am in tune with my mind and I believe I can control physical urges no matter how powerful they may become. The reason I don’t is because I’ve read that there are health benefits to having a release. So as long as I don’t devote too much time and energy into ejaculating, I don’t see the harm. Its a bit boring but its also annoying if I DON’T do it because then I will start popping boners mid-day. I don’t like these urges because they remind me that I still have a “primitive” characteristic even though I like to think I’m more evolved than that. I’m not really sure what you are trying to get at though.
What exactly makes it more evolved not to enjoy sex. I understand the concept that we have almost perfected the point of reproduction. That we have reached a point where our existence must transcend primal needs and must move further. Reproduction is becoming a problem. There is no need for a society to worship sex. But at its base form it creates a powerful bond that can conquer anything. But such a bond has been mutilated by so many forms its disgusting.
However, I will not deny that these primal needs are part of why we are here and who we are as humans. So instead of ignoring, disregarding and being ashamed of them as inferior I personally find <span style=”line-height: 1.5;”> power in them. Channeling sexual energy is one of the biggest obstacles we face as humans. If such energy was used for better use. Where would we be? </span>
<span style=”line-height: 1.5;”>I guess the difference is that I see sexual energy is so powerful that it is best to be used than wasted. If I decide to let mini-me do some hide and seek with an attractive female every once in awhile I don’t feel bored.I might seem to be in the minority. But I see the sexual drive of a man as a blessing and not something to be cursed.</span>
It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything
Anonymous9Bored? Nah. But it is an awful lot of work to put in for someone who will not appreciate it…it is taken for granted that a man will work up a good sweat wearing out the vagina. Up until I was 40 or so I still did, several times a week…. but now at 47….she better be willing to just bend over the tub and take it from behind….I am over weight, have a tumor in my head, and I smoked for 36 years, just quit last March…. pleasing a woman in the sack is the furthest thing from my mind, even when I am b~~~~ blue horny… part of it I guess is the “owning” of it…..I just cant do it like I did most of my life and in all honesty getting a chick dick whipped was very entertaining…. Back in my early thirties I did go on a spree for a few years where it was all about the chase….there comes a time when a chick looks at you like a fat broad looks at cake,…when you get her to that point you know everything she has to offer is yours if you want it….once I saw that look I would just walk away…. it was no fun any longer. The ol’lady is starved for it but for the first time in my life it just does not bother me to not get laid…I kinda like it…being a slave to my c~~~ never brought me anything but trouble.
Interesting.
I’m 31, and I think I’m reaching that point with women.
@keymaster words of wisdom man…I check out this forum often, and you never fail to bring real s~~~.
Masturbating was and is generally better than real sex, ive had my share.
I am a virgin, so this is an interesting topic to me.
Partly this is my Asperger Syndrome that made me a little more asexual in my approach. Did not dampen me having romantic feelings all the same, just the act itself was never something to chase for me. Just the companionship with a women I wanted………….
……didn’t stop me getting f~~~ed once I got that though did it! 😀I haven’t had sex in 4 years since my last girlfriend, but I never found it boring and do miss it a lot. However I am 27 so I am still young. It is actually bugging me a lot because I am always horny, don’t sleep around, and have terrible luck trying to get dates so my young 20 something sex life is literally fading away. Plus I really want a daughter too so not having a woman to plant my seed in is making it even worse. I always found everything about sex fun too: kissing and undressing each other, feeling each other up, intercourse, cuddling and bonding afterward. As good as it felt physically though I seemed to enjoy the emotional part of it more for some reason although both parts are great lol. I have only had 2 girlfriends so my time having sex hasn’t been very long in total. Also I should mention that I have never really had to work for sex. I barely did it with my second girlfriend, but with my first, who I dated once again after my second, was a huge nympho so she was always horny which was great. On top of her being a nympho she was attractive, big t~~~, nice ass, didn’t make me wear a condom, and let me cum in her. If I did get another girlfriend I don’t think I will be that lucky again lol.
Interesting topic. Sex isn’t actually “sexy”. Only IMPLIED sexy is “sexy”. Women have totally lost the ability to flirt – and be sexy. It’s a goddam art form. And if a girl is s~~~ at creating “anticipation” or not getting a good rally going, I know the sex will be no better than jerking off. Doesn’t anyone think it’s a rip-off already that she expects you to take her out and feed her AND f~~~ her too? The way women pretend we should give a s~~~ about their orgasm – but they don’t give a f~~~ about HIS – is already rip off enough. A married woman wrote to us 2 days ago and complained her husband was only f~~~ing her two days a week. I asked her “Oh yeah? How many times a week are YOU doing any work? How many lasagnas did you bake for him??” F~~~ing is just too much trouble. Only a woman spends 1/2 a lifetime complaining “all men want to do is f~~~ her”… and then spends the rest of her life complaining nobody wants to f~~~ her – while failing to realize she just isn’t worth it. All the hoops she expected men to jump through were NEVER worth it. In fact, that’s why they make men jump through hoops for it: to over inflate the value of sex. In doing so, she virtually guarantees he will lose interest quickly. What happens when a dog chases a car and initially catches up with it? He completely loses interest. One day – after chasing enough cars – he realizes it’s a completely useless waste of time. In recent years I have backed off being the aggressor and doing all the work…. and have observed how women are generally useless. And I mean for sex too. Women can’t even open a conversation without a man’s help. A door. A Jam jar. Nail polish. Potato chips. Their legs. Women have expected me to open all of that s~~~ for them. That’s why my interest takes a dive SECONDS after I blow my load and I can’t wait to be rid of her. She’s boring after that. And too many are too boring bother with. One girl I remember who put all this effort and energy into a obsessing over her Victoria Secret collection of panties and bras and everything else….. but when she FINALLY got on the bed she was totally cold and motionless. She just laid there and kind of looked at me with her arms folded. I have never seen such a “dead fish” in my life. No game. Oh she let me do whatever I wanted with her, but it was like f~~~ing a synthetic doll, and playing tennis with a wall. No more. If she doesn’t throw her vagina at me – for free – with enthusiasm, I couldn’t give a s~~~ about it.
A-f~~~ing-men. Women have no idea how to turn a man on, they just act like dumb whores. This is why modern pornography is worthless. It’s about as sexy as watching livestock f~~~ing. If women are taking their cues from female porn stars then none of them are going to be worth banging.
I still consider Playboy from the 70’s, 80’s and 90’s as being some of the sexiest portrayals of the female body ever. Once the millennium arrived EVERYTHING went down the drain.
As far as sex being boring, it’s only boring if she’s just going through the paces. If she’s as determined to get you off as you are to get her off, even if it’s just casual sex, then it’s far more enjoyable.
The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.Masturbating was and is generally better than real sex, ive had my share.
At least the women in this scenario actually can meet our expectations without the unnecessary bulls~~~.
The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.I’m 24 and already bored of sex, maybe my partners have just been selfish. Who knows!
I’d much rather jerk off then have sex…it’s no longer motivating when jerking off for me works just as fine.
I’d much rather jerk off then have sex…it’s no longer motivating when jerking off for me works just as fine.
Same here but I’m finding it more and more difficult to even do that these days. Not because I have erectile dysfunction or a low sex drive, but because I am just bored with women. There’s only so many times I can see a girls asshole get pounded, some nice juicy t~~~, or hear her scream “F~~~ ME HARDER!”
It’s just boring and tired at this point. Nothing surprises me, nothing excites me. Doesn’t even matter if she’s the hottest girl in the world, Same s~~~ different toilet. Knowing that there are millions upon millions of others just like her, who are equally slutty and equally freaky, takes the fun away. Why should I jerk off to her? What makes HER special? NOTHING, she’s just another typical c~~~. Nothing is exclusive anymore amongst women.
An army of clones.
I’ve never had the usual male sexual problems, I have never had erection issues, and also never had premature ejaculation problems, in fact I tend to be the exact opposite extreme, I very rarely orgasm during sex and never from oral sex even when I lost virginity. Perhaps because of this sex has never been really exciting for me as it often ends up frustrating but also an ego crusher for the woman who I then have to listen to as she goes into female meltdown, I have even learned how to fake orgasms when I want to avoid that! Also when I was younger I always worried about false rape claims and getting involved with headcase women etc, so it all added up to keep me paying for it to save the bulls~~~. So yeah, sex is kind of dull for me. I can bring myself to orgasm much easier.
you have pretty much described me with this. No problems getting it up (touch wood lol) but once I get down to it it is all a big anti-climax and I usually just go for a 69 as that always seems to get me off but otherwise I just find it dull
I know other blokes who say exactly the same thing and once you remove the tiresome “lads” comments about it I think more people feel the same
After my divorce I gave up the whole emotional level of sex, and just did straight up f~~~ing a bitch 9 ways till Sunday type deal for awhile. Then this one girl was my f~~~ buddy for a few years and it was pretty nice. Right up until she called me over one day with a very serious tone in her voice. I always used protection and she was on the pill (even though I don’t believe that bulls~~~, so i use a condom for extra protection). Well she calls me over and gives me this song and dance about how she’s falling in love with me, and wants a relationship and a…..you guessed it “Baby”.
Ugh, I felt like someone just punched me in the face. I couldn’t do that whole relationship type s~~~ so I ended up leaving Her. The sex was great with her, I’m not even f~~~ing kidding. Since then I’ve banged a few Females but I’m in my 30s now, and Sex is just like a “Meh” thing for me now. I’d much rather go surfing, hiking, riding motorcycle, traveling, drinking with my buddies then have sex.
I don’t crave sex like i use to, for me now I can pop in a 80s horror movie and watch that and not even think about sex or porn. In my 20s it was all about sex, sex till the sun goes down, sex in the morning, sex at work, sex while I’m taking a s~~~. Yeah it was pretty unreal. Now All i really care about is my own happiness.
Not worth the effort, emotional bulls~~~, baggage, drama, clingy, s~~~ anymore.
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