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Anonymous9F~~~ no man.
It’s money, and then sex that makes the world go around.
In dressing nice, and practicing good hygiene it’s not only to look and feel good for yourself, but also to be attractive as a mate for someone.
I’ve tried to suppress my sexual urges, and all I’ve gotten was a fill of sexual tension and a lasting irritable mood.
I’ve also tried to channel my sexual energy into more creative pursuits, but my sex drive is overpowering.
At 31 I feel hornier than I did at 18.
It seems to get worse by the year.
If I don’t masturbate in the morning, my day is a struggle with erections coming out of nowhere; I usually end up looking at women in an objectified manner through the course of the day as well.
I am in absolute agreement with OP. Sex is not a skill that pushes human intelligence and understanding and men whose self esteem is based on how many women they can “charm”, “dominate”, “pork”, etc. are, in my opinion, wasting their time, energy, and resources. Women have successfully convinced men that men need them, when in fact, it is the other way around if one really takes the time to have an honest and open look at reality. I have never had sex, so I cannot attest to the feelings of penetration and what not, but I have been close and based on my short experiences in the romance area, pining for sex is simply not a good investment of my time. I have no desire to ever have sex. It evolves into a physical addiction I never want to have, even though most men won’t admit it. I have even restricted my exposure to mgtow content because it so good and so addicting to see men bond together it sometimes blinds me from my true goals. I would encourage all MGTOW to think very carefully about their sex drives and the amount of control they have over it. MGTOWS should not emulate PUAs even though their lifestyle may be appealing. I would even argue that MGTOWs should express the best levels of sexual control and discipline out of all groups within the manosphere.
PUAs pander to females and though they get satisfaction, in the end they are unsatisfied with how women treat them. MRAs are fighting a losing battle in which they are begging women and the government to listen to them, their pleas falling on deaf ears. Tradcons are busy trying to convince women to maintain a “traditional” lifestyle they know women will never adopt to given the current level of power women have. I am convinced these groups of men are filled with sexually frustrated individual who can’t find peace with their lives unless women are involved somehow. Sexual self control and discipline I truly believe will have a positive impact on MGTOW. It is a tough road, as it has been tough for me and most likely tougher for others, but how else can one achieve greatness if not by sacrifice?
In conclusion, yes. Sex for me is “boring”. Not in the sense that the act in itself is boring. The goal and motivation behind sex is. The moment you enter a female, you are not in control, your hormones and body are. You are vulnerable and women enjoy that level of vulnerability. It’s what makes them have influence. It fuels their need to feel needed. It’s actually somewhat sickening if you think about it. Men, avoid the nonsense if you can.
I think he just means to “dominate her.” I’ve worded it like he does occasionally, I admit. Women seem to love it when they’re told they’re going to be “dominated, owned, ruled, etc.”…that is, until you tell them what to do outside of the bedroom.
I agree that women do enjoy feeling dominated, but the they merely give men the illusion that they are in control in the bedroom. This inflates their ego. Men believe they are “owning” the woman, when really it’s the women owning the man by making him believe that he is owning her. A very sick psychological game if you ask me. I don’t need false signals of power. I can do without that nonsense.</p>
I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.
I think I need to require something I haven’t run into, because I can’t say I have run into sex ever that is so great, it ends up making me want to rearrange my life around it to get it. There is the pretending it is awesome, but that is pretending. The real act by itself? Well, it is just a biological release.
Sex, as something from a frame of myself being alone, becomes like any activity. It can get boring over time.
"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.
I’m in my late 40s and I am seeing a woman the same age as me. We have sex once or twice a month.
She gives me what I want. I give her what she wants. Snacks after.
I would hate to think what it would take for me to find another like her and have the same arrangement.
Looking for someone that wants the same arrangement, that isn’t too crazy or clingy or demanding, would be a virtual impossibility.
If not for what I have going on, I probably would be in the same boat as you.
"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.
Anonymous9Some of you seem to end up trapped by a woman if you f~~~ them.
The pussy is so powerful that you have to come up with rationalizations as to why you shouldn’t have sex with a woman because of the direction your life will take. You should think of your dick in the same way; actually I think what we refer to as a sexual weapon is much more powerful on our end.
I don’t see sex as some debilitating act to avoid where I’m reduced to a needy man because I like it.
I see it as a conquering act where no violence is involved but only the governance of base passions.
Final answer: One out of three is not good enough to make it worthwhile.
Great comment, nothing worse than a star fish that thinks she is doing you some kind of service,
After having dated a few professionals, most women are just disappointing in bed, nothing compares to a nutjob crazy slut, only problem is the bulls~~~ that comes along with them which can ruin your life, which results in another cost/benefit analysis failure.
Still rather jerk off.
Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.
Interesting topic.
Sex isn’t actually “sexy”. Only IMPLIED sexy is “sexy”.
Women have totally lost the ability to flirt – and be sexy.It’s a goddam art form. And if a girl is s~~~ at creating “anticipation” or not getting a good rally going, I know the sex will be no better than jerking off. Doesn’t anyone think it’s a rip-off already that she expects you to take her out and feed her AND f~~~ her too?
The way women pretend we should give a s~~~ about their orgasm – but they don’t give a f~~~ about HIS – is already rip off enough.
A married woman wrote to us 2 days ago and complained her husband was only f~~~ing her two days a week.
I asked her “Oh yeah? How many times a week are YOU doing any work? How many lasagnas did you bake for him??”F~~~ing is just too much trouble.
Only a woman spends 1/2 a lifetime complaining “all men want to do is f~~~ her”… and then spends the rest of her life complaining nobody wants to f~~~ her – while failing to realize she just isn’t worth it. All the hoops she expected men to jump through were NEVER worth it. In fact, that’s why they make men jump through hoops for it: to over inflate the value of sex. In doing so, she virtually guarantees he will lose interest quickly.
What happens when a dog chases a car and initially catches up with it?
He completely loses interest. One day – after chasing enough cars – he realizes it’s a completely useless waste of time.In recent years I have backed off being the aggressor and doing all the work…. and have observed how women are generally useless. And I mean for sex too. Women can’t even open a conversation without a man’s help. A door. A Jam jar. Nail polish. Potato chips. Their legs. Women have expected me to open all of that s~~~ for them. That’s why my interest takes a dive SECONDS after I blow my load and I can’t wait to be rid of her.
She’s boring after that. And too many are too boring bother with. One girl I remember who put all this effort and energy into a obsessing over her Victoria Secret collection of panties and bras and everything else….. but when she FINALLY got on the bed she was totally cold and motionless. She just laid there and kind of looked at me with her arms folded. I have never seen such a “dead fish” in my life. No game.
Oh she let me do whatever I wanted with her, but it was like f~~~ing a synthetic doll, and playing tennis with a wall.
No more. If she doesn’t throw her vagina at me – for free – with enthusiasm, I couldn’t give a s~~~ about it.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.In recent years I have backed off being the aggressor and doing all the work…. and have observed how women are generally useless. And I mean for sex too. Women can’t even open a conversation without a man’s help. A door. A Jam jar. Nail polish. Potato chips. Their legs. Women have expected me to open all of that s~~~ for them.
Actually women are good at opening
-Joint bank accounts to f~~~ you over when they divorce your sorry ass
-Your wallet
-Their mouths (to say stupid s~~~ most of the time, but still!)KM, you need to give women more credit!
It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.
I find vanilla sex boring. I like kink and role play. I’m at a point where vanilla sex is something I don’t do.
Like others have said here, all the headache that goes with sex is just too much. Wooing, dating, relationships, dancing around like a circus clown…it’s just not worth it.
I’m 38, so my sex drive isn’t what it used to be. Nowadays, I think with the upper head, which keeps me out of trouble.
Anonymous9Fishy vags, and we’re supposed to feel like we’ve missed out if we don’t pursue it?
After you’ve jumped through all of the hoops to f~~~ her, and then once it’s time to get down to business you realize you may as well be f~~~ing a blow up doll.
It’s like one big joke. And that’s why after I f~~~ a girl, I don’t lose my head over some pussy. I’ve had more chicks lose their head over my dick than I have out of the many girls that I’ve f~~~ed.
I only know of 2 chicks where I honestly felt like I was pussy whipped; fortunately that was back in the day.
I’m a virgin so take my opinion with a grain of sand, the way I look at it is: I’ve always thought of sex as something to bond with the other person, or connect spiritually (or at least that’s what I was taught)…ya know, deep s~~~. I’ve come to realize women don’t and never will look at it this way, they see sex as meaningful as taking a dump. In realizing this and the fact you have to solve riddles and s~~~ just to get them into bed it ain’t even worth it.
Even though my hormones are raging like crazy I got other ways of dealing with it, the risks are just not worth it.
I think with the upper head
Even when i was 17 I remember that expression never sat well with me. “Men only think with their little heads”… or “guys just think with their dicks”. I know what you meant but it’s the way OTHER people use it that I have a problem with. I knew when I was 17 that girls were bad news because I thought with my HEAD. Aging only confirmed it. But the “guys just think with their dicks” thing is just the world telling you that you’re a f~~~ing idiot.
And it’s true. The world actually DOES think we’re f~~~ing idiots. I have used this to my advantage and “played stupid” on many occasions, but boy does the world ever hate it when they’re wrong and they meet a smart one.
I can see why the world thinks it.. but it’s not actually true. The reason they think we’re f~~~ing idiots, is because WOMEN KNOW THAT SEX ISN’T WORTH WHAT THEY EXPECT FOR IT – AND THEY ARE USELESS FOR ANYTHING ELSE.
Oh yeah, I said it.
For a woman to watch a man chasing after her with bunch of roses and offering her to buy her dinner out of the blue… it must look really “stupid”. And you keep calling her after she flakes on you? To a woman, it MUST look like “guys just think with their dicks” and I don’t blame her at all for thinking that. That’s why they flake and don’t text back, to try and see just how STUPID you are.
But where she fails to entertain the thought to completion is: If we thought with our big heads and brains… we wouldn’t come running after you at all. We wouldn’t’ buy you s~~~. We wouldn’t listen to you. We wouldn’t sign a marriage contract to your worthless ass. We wouldn’t put up with ANY of your s~~~.
You stupid f~~~ing bitch.
Women actually believe and brainwash themselves into thinking “Men only want one thing” and “All men want is sex”. But in reality, every time I have used my head and waited for a woman to bring anything but vagina to the table, there was nothing else there. TRULY, women should be glad men don’t think with their brains, because a smart man would want nothing to do with her at all. And they know it.
“Men are stupid!!! Men only want one thing!!!”
“Well WHAT ELSE could he want? If you want a man to want you for anything else, lady, it’s really not up to HIM. It’s up to YOU. Get busy. Or shut the f~~~ up. Because a smart man like me will want nothing to do with you at all.”
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Me. Wife’s idea of fun is to receive entertainment. She’s pretty much all take, no give. The process and timing are predictable. I know it will only happen on a weekend and a lot more likely when she’s ovulating. I have more sex than most of you guys and it’s boring.
Not necessarily.
The hoops one has to jump through to get it are another matter entirely. We’ve all had to jump through said hoops to wind up having sex with someone as lively as a felled tree.
If it comes along, great. If not, plenty of free porn and the local massage parlor.
I have better things to do than be a stand up comic-fire bomb juggling-hoop jumping-unicycle riding-clown for the 0.01% chance of a second date, much less sex.
Fuck this planet.Women actually believe and brainwash themselves into thinking “Men only want one thing” and “All men want is sex”. But in reality, every time I have used my head and waited for a woman to bring anything but vagina to the table, there was nothing else there. TRULY, women should be glad men don’t think with their brains, because a smart man would want nothing to do with her at all. And they know it.
I agree with your entire post.
When someone says “thinking with the lower head”, they mean driven by sex and hormones – not logic. I firmly believe any guy who enters an LTR and/or marriage is not thinking with his brain and logic.
Women say that a guy is thinking with his lower head as a means to manipulate. It’s a way to shame and mold him. Whether they realize it or not, a guy who’s raging with hormones and like a dog in heat will be easy to manipulate, and this is exactly what women want and need. Otherwise, he can’t be manipulated and he won’t tolerate her bulls~~~.
Before i liked it but at that time i actually believed in NAWALTS , now it’s impossible for me to enjoy it and it doesn’t matter if she’s the most physically attractive woman in the world.I know what a deranged and f~~~ed-up being is in that attractive body.And what made the body attractive in the first place was the person who is the body.
Before i liked it but at that time i actually believed in NAWALTS , now it’s impossible for me to enjoy it and it doesn’t matter if she’s the most physically attractive woman in the world. I know what a deranged and f~~~ed-up being is in that attractive body…
Northern Pikes said it best…video
I agree with your entire post. When someone says “thinking with the lower head”, they mean driven by sex and hormones – not logic. I firmly believe any guy who enters an LTR and/or marriage is not thinking with his brain and logic. Women say that a guy is thinking with his lower head as a means to manipulate. It’s a way to shame and mold him. Whether they realize it or not, a guy who’s raging with hormones and like a dog in heat will be easy to manipulate, and this is exactly what women want and need. Otherwise, he can’t be manipulated and he won’t tolerate her bulls~~~.
This subject is fascinating and we could go on for a week about it. The woman PREFERS it. She PREFERS him to be just a WEEEEEEEEE bit on the stupid side. That’s when she is “happy” and laughing at her husband saying s~~~ like “yeah, he’s a moron…. but he’s MY moron”.
Ever notice that “smart” is never on a woman’s list?
You know why that is? Because she doesn’t want you to be “smart”.Of all the adjectives women use to describe the Phantom Mr. Right. “Smart” is never – ever – on the list. He should be “successful”, “stronger”, “more established”, “financially secure”, “classically handsome” (or not), “taller”, “wealthier”… but “smart” is never on the list.
She can’t accuse a man of thinking with this smaller head…
when she prefers it when he thinks with his smaller head.
She can’t accuse a man of treating her like an “inferior”…
when she seeked out a man who was “superior” in every other way.Women are the creators of these conundrums and disasters in their own personal lives.
Here’s one of these stupid bitches now: Happily Married Dreaming of Divorce.http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/08/26/o.divorce.dreams/
Endless paragraphs complaining about the man who was stupid enough to marry her and put up with her s~~~ for the last 16 years. And she takes it to CNN and Oprah f~~~ing Magazine. Can you imagine being her husband and reading about it?
“Yeah he’s a moron, but he’s MY moron. That’s why Im happily married and dreaming of divorce”.
“Because no smart man would tolerate your s~~~ty, c~~~ing attitude and behavior, you stupid, miserable, discontent, harpie bitch. You got EXACTLY what you deserved”.
Men like James Bond, Indiana Jones, Mr.Big ( and characters like that ) she will never get. They would never put up with her. Contrary to popular opinion they don’t “think with their dicks”, they think wit their HEADS. James Bond actually makes fun of people who think of him as a “womanizer”. He doesn’t have time for her crap. Even if a woman DID land a man like James Bond…. she would complain that “he’s never home”.
When women meet men who are smarter and think with their heads – for realz – they lose their s~~~. They can’t handle it. In her mind, she ALWAYS has to be smarter than he. That’s why “smart” is never on her laundry list of requirements. As long as you’re a docile controlled schmuck who never bangs other women, quietly pays for everything, never question anything, and never pesters her for sex…. you’re the “ideal husband”.
And then one day after 16 years of busting your ass to make her “happy”, you get to read about it on CNN and Oprah how she hates your f~~~ing guts.
Nice.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Bored? Nah. But it is an awful lot of work to put in for someone who will not appreciate it…it is taken for granted that a man will work up a good sweat wearing out the vagina. Up until I was 40 or so I still did, several times a week…. but now at 47….she better be willing to just bend over the tub and take it from behind….I am over weight, have a tumor in my head, and I smoked for 36 years, just quit last March…. pleasing a woman in the sack is the furthest thing from my mind, even when I am b~~~~ blue horny… part of it I guess is the “owning” of it…..I just cant do it like I did most of my life and in all honesty getting a chick dick whipped was very entertaining…. Back in my early thirties I did go on a spree for a few years where it was all about the chase….there comes a time when a chick looks at you like a fat broad looks at cake,…when you get her to that point you know everything she has to offer is yours if you want it….once I saw that look I would just walk away…. it was no fun any longer. The ol’lady is starved for it but for the first time in my life it just does not bother me to not get laid…I kinda like it…being a slave to my c~~~ never brought me anything but trouble.
Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do.
Your back handed self morality is noted. You are free to have opinions but to try to make yourself try to seem superior because of them. Tell me could you go 30 days without masturbation?
It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything
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