Is sex completely boring to anyone else?

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

I don’t know about anyone else but I have lost complete interest in sex. These days I even find jerking off to be a boring activity, and I only do it because it is “necessary” or because I have wood that won’t go away. Guys, I’ve seen it all and done it all. You could even say I’m “over sexed”. I find it to be a boring chore nowadays and I really see no point in doing it anymore. For as long as I can remember, I always confused the pleasure of having sex with the pleasure of having an orgasm. There is a very big difference between the 2, but nowadays I know the difference. A simple jerk-off session lasting 3-5 minutes is more than enough to satisfy me. I even find those sessions boring and non-pleasurable sometimes. Still they beat a 30 minute time wasting session of a repetitive motion.

Sorry if I offend anyone who still enjoys sex, but I think people who enjoy sex still have a cave-man mentality. Its one of the most primitive acts a man can do. I don’t really see the appeal in repeatedly sliding your dick in and out of a pussy/ass anymore. And doing it in various different positions doesn’t change it much either. Maybe when I was a teenager that s~~~ was exciting but I’m almost 30 now and my mind has greatly evolved since then. When you throw in the STD risk (I’ve had my share of scares), the pregnancy risk (I’ve also had my share of scares/lies), and all the other bad s~~~ that comes with it, sex simply isn’t worth it.

I haven’t done had it since April and have no plans to have it on the horizon. I can make a few phone calls and send a few texts and get free sex with an attractive girl or 2 whenever I want, but I simply choose not to. Its not worth it. Anybody else feel the same?

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Too each his own my friend.

Ill say this: Im now 36 and my sex drive isnt nearly as high as it was in my 20s. Pereonally, I think this is due to stress and other factors, and NOT age. I could be wrong.

Do I still crave sex? Yes. Does it CONTROL me as much as in my youth: No. Why Im lacking in the sex craze is still questionable. Ive been in a mental rut for MONTHS now. That could be the culprit. I also think MOST of it is psychological: if you come to the conclusion that sex comes with SO much effort on your part, little to no effort on the females part, and for me the idea that women are “Sharing” this “experience” with MANY other men, then that is a turn off to me.

Regarding the STD/Pregnancy risk: When I was younger I was VERY concerned about STDs. I wouldnt even go down on a hot chick when I had the chance. When I read up on it, a man receiving an STD from giving a woman oral is rather rare. At least a serious STD. I cared much less about this aspect the older I got.

Pregnancy: dont know how, but Ive never had a scare there either. Its definitely a legitimate concern, I simply never dealt with it.

Abstaining from sex, for me, is more of the fact that Im turned off by women who think NOTHING of it. It seems its more of a higher value act for me than them.

I still think about sex. But its not NEARLY as some uncontrollable hormone act for me as it was when I was younger. Guys in their teens and twenties are out of controll hormonally. But women are still worse. You take a guy in that age range who was brought up beleiving sex was sacred, and NO woman will be as responsible.

So, ya I still want to f~~~. But it isnt the most dominant need in my life.

Resident cynic.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Guys, I’ve seen it all and done it all. You could even say I’m “over sexed”. I find it to be a boring chore nowadays and I really see no point in doing it anymore. For as long as I can remember, I always confused the pleasure of having sex with the pleasure of having an orgasm.

I’m with you on this one. I’m mid thirties and have F’ed my brains out prior to Mgtow.

I feel no need to give pleasure to any woman. And this fantasy that I will put any effort or listen to any of their bulls~~~ just will not happen, I’d rather jerk off or pay a professional.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

55 and I would say Im free 😃

Since I found sex to be ….. not worth the effort …. I haave found all other aspects of life have improved. My work life has become a wonderful hobby that Im paid for ….. my free time is booked up with fun and I am immune to the advances of women.

I would f~~~ if there was nothing better to do …… but ….. well …… I cant see that happening soon.

Sex is alright but you cant beat the real thing 😆

[RoyDalParticipant]

Never boring while doing it.
Annoyingly difficult to arrange before the doing.
Regretted afterward more often than not.

Final answer: One out of three is not good enough to make it worthwhile.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Too much bulls~~~, before, during and after.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Waking up with a hard on every morning like clockwork would suggest that no it isn’t boring just yet. 😉

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[Anonymous 12]

I’ve never had the usual male sexual problems, I have never had erection issues, and also never had premature ejaculation problems, in fact I tend to be the exact opposite extreme, I very rarely orgasm during sex and never from oral sex even when I lost virginity. Perhaps because of this sex has never been really exciting for me as it often ends up frustrating but also an ego crusher for the woman who I then have to listen to as she goes into female meltdown, I have even learned how to fake orgasms when I want to avoid that!

Also when I was younger I always worried about false rape claims and getting involved with headcase women etc, so it all added up to keep me paying for it to save the bulls~~~.

So yeah, sex is kind of dull for me. I can bring myself to orgasm much easier.

[ByronParticipant 465]

Spot on.

I’m 29 myself and have had my share of f~~~ing hot girls. My last girlfriend was a model with an astonishing body and after the 200th to 300th time of sex I was already bored. And that’s just a few months of f~~~ing. It gets really dull really fast.. and you find yourself needing new pussy all the time.. but once you’ve f~~~ed that new pussy it’s already dull again.

I’d say the more you f~~~ the more you realize it’s just flat out not that interesting. I started preferring jerking off to porn because I can switch the images at least.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

The pleasure to time wasted(flirting, date, texting, listening to her often s~~~ for brains opinions),  is just not worth it any more.

 

Even if you skip on giving her the number, it’s easy for them to find you just through social media, simply by asking around, and start wanting to talk and all kinds of nonsense, that I simply do not want to indulge in, and worst of all, we live in a society now, where women can call the rape card, if they simply regret last night’s affair, if you weren’t treating them with all the attention, they thought/expected, they were entitled to, after riding your dick.

 

Women demand ownership over a man, a lot faster, than they used to. And quite frankly, it’s just getting so much of an annoyance, that skipping on the sex, seems a lot smarter, and probably is.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I’m 55, married twice, 6 and 4 years and lived with 3 women for over 3 years. I have a very high sex drive which lead to some of these disasterized relationships.

Two cheated, two were psycho’s who covered it up until commitments (since my word is my bond, I took very seriously) and one simply got bored. The last one called the cops because I asked her not to trash my house. I was lucky that she didn’t say I hit her or I would now have a criminal record.

After this relationship, 7 years ago, I have not been in a sexual relationship with any woman except professionals. And that is rare, twice a year. I use pornography almost every day and really enjoy the variety and actesses pretending to like sex.

Is my sex drive diminished? It’s starting to be. Not because I don’t like sex but because when I rationally judge the pro’s and con’s the con’s win out.

I used to worry that this and other sites that point out these pitfalls were causing me to lose my desire for sex so I went to see a big time sex specialist in a major city. He read my bio here and stated that I was “bitter” about my past experiences. I didn’t hate women or anything like that but was simply bitter at the treatment I have received from the women in my life. He concluded that this is contributing to my fear of sexual relationships and this was totally appropriate given the circumstances.

I don’t “hate” women, I just have an appropriate and healthy fear of the environment we live in.

In fact talking with you guys helps to calm my fears learning that I am not unique in my having been mistreated by women so much I no longer trust them and all interactions are dangerous.

Sex is not boring, it’s like playing with a hungry tiger, just not a good idea.

In fact I think sites like this help me understand my feelings better by hearing other men suffering the same sense of fear and outrage at a system designed to control men through manipulation of normal heterosexual sex.

Chait writes that, instead, “[the law] will technically deem a large portion of sexual encounters to be rape, but prosecutors will only enforce it if there is an accusation. And since most, and possibly near all, sexual encounters will legally be rape [under the new standard], then accusation will almost automatically result in conviction.”

Read more at: http://www.nationalreview.com/article/420870/college-affirmative-consent-contract

PS: Oral sex given to a female with the most common STD, genital warts is more and more being seen as caused by HPV infection, in other words oral sex with women.

HPV infection and lung cancer:

Because of the major clinical impact of bronchial cancer worldwide, the possibility that human papillomavirus (HPV) contributes to its pathogenesis as a co-carcinogen is an intriguing one. Bronchial squamous cell carcinoma develops through well defined precursor lesions, often at the sites of squamous metaplasia. Benign squamous cell papillomas are rare but HPV DNA has been found in almost half of those studied, implicating a causal association. In invasive bronchial cancer, morphological changes seen in HPV lesions elsewhere are often seen. HPV DNA has been detected in 21.7% of the 2468 bronchial carcinomas analysed to date and the same high risk types implicated in other squamous cell cancers have been identified. Clearly, more effort should be focused on assessing the role of HPV in bronchial carcinogenesis, by analysing the synergistic effects of carcinogenic agents (cigarette smoke, radiation, asbestos, etc) and HPV in different experimental settings.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1769837/

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[BloodyNineParticipant 87]

I do not find it boring. I personally love owning a woman’s body and spraying my seed in/on it. Is sex a primitive act? Perhaps. But so is taking a s~~~.

[davParticipant 422]

A woman wants me to come over for sex right now but instead I’m reading mgtow.com forums on my laptop in bed.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

dav wrote:

A woman wants me to come over for sex right now but instead I’m reading mgtow.com forums on my laptop in bed.

and that’s how it’s done gents 😆

Attend her when all the important stuff is done and you have absolutely nothing better to do 👍

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

@ Cicero

I find it offensive that you want to “own a woman’s body”.

Troll much?

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

@ Cicero I find it offensive that you want to “own a woman’s body”. Troll much?

I think he just means to “dominate her.”  I’ve worded it like he does occasionally, I admit.  Women seem to love it when they’re told they’re going to be “dominated, owned, ruled, etc.”…that is, until you tell them what to do outside of the bedroom.

I remember reading a woman’s stupid quote recently: “Do NOT tell me what to do or control me in any way whatsoever…except in the bedroom.”

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I could be wrong. We’ll see.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BloodyNineParticipant 87]

@ H.R. Pufnstuf

Megachris explained it well. I am not talking ‘ownership’ in the literal sense.

[ArchGHOWParticipant 42]

As one who hasn’t had sex that often, I admit I would still like it. I’m in my early thirties and still find myself aroused at plugging some random c~~~ and filling it. Even then I’ve turned down so many women it makes me question my want of sex. It might be due to my lack of having so many sexual partners or fighting against societal norms (probably the former) but even then I think what’s really driving me is the want for children. Yes, I want to have progeny but considering the option of ‘significant others’ the idea repulses me. At the moment I’m torn between the two ideas but still like sex.

These are the times I think of adopting, which I would if I were prepared to take care of a child and were even allowed to because from what I’ve experienced (from second-hand knowledge of others trying the same thing), it would be nigh impossible for me.

 

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

I wouldn’t say it’s “boring”, but it sure is over-rated. Plus all the s~~~ you have to do to actually get sex IS indeed boring.

Plus, I’m done with dating and feeding the trollop’s already oversized egos.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

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