IS CLOSURE POSSIBLE ?

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Quell wrote:

In your mind she is still that hot twenty something.

Go find a picture of her as she looks today. 70 lbs heavier with deep wrinkles and jacked up teeth is who she is now. Instant boner killer and will erase the person in your mind of who you are pining after.

Damn. That vulva by now probably looks like a hardback public library copy of “50 Shades of Gray” with the spine broken. Labia probably all stretched out and flopping around loose.

Anonymous wrote:

25 years ago I went through a bad breakup. They say that time heals all wounds, but for me it has not. I wish I could stop thinking about her. I wish I could erase all memory of her.

During the last 25 years, I have been in dozens of relationships, traveled the world, built my own house with my own hands, and lived in 3 different countries.

For the last 7 years I’ve not dated or even screwed any woman. True, my life is now much less complicated, but damn it, I can’t seen to get any closure.

I wish I knew what to do, because I can’t get her out of my mind. When I think of her I feel so sad and I’m sick of feeling this way.

Just remember how many dudes have jizzed in her over the past years, and how many times she’s been jizzed into just in the past couple days.

Not worth worrying about. You can’t seem to get any closure. I’m pretty sure her vagina never gets closed very often, either. Vagina always open for business with Chad.

That’s the reality of modern “womyn”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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Anonymous wrote:

Do most guys believe that forgiving my step-father for all the years of child abuse is absolutely necessary ? If so, can it be done without a conversation with him ?

To be perfectly honest, what I’d really love to do is take a baseball bat and beat him into a bloody pulp, yet leave him alive to experience the intense pain. The only reason I don’t is because I know that it would ultimately harm me far more than him.

Yes, because it is the 800 pound gorilla. You must always face into the wind (What you fear)

Why?
Because you are no longer a child. You saw everything through a child’s eyes. Your hate is through a child’s memory.

You must face the dragon in person. If you look him in the eyes and from your heart say “I forgive you for what you did to me” it will happen.

The hard part is to truly and completely forgive.

I thought I had forgiven my father at the end off his life. Turns out I was fooling myself.

A month ago I truly forgave him. (He is no longer alive)
I am now free.

The key is no bulls~~~ allowed.

Good luck brother. It will be the hardest thing you ever do!

Peace brothers

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