Is Anyone Else Completely Oblivious When Women Hit On You?

[KingofWisdomParticipant 72]

Most women don’t show clear signs of attraction. They do bulls~~~ like smile at you or twirl their hair, crap that someone might do normally anyway. I read somewhere that even women have trouble spotting these cues in other women.

[JayjaysParticipant 44]

I’ve known this woman for a few years now at work and she has recently told me that she’s had feelings for me all this time. She recalls times where she has flirted with me on numerous occasions and it’s gone above my head.

It’s got very awkward as she asked me out right how she felt and because she’s married and I don’t fancy her its gone really weird. I think she’s thought I would take her advances and agree to mingle just because I’m a man. When I told her no she asked me if I was gay ha ha. “No love I just have morals”

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Franky wrote:

I’m actually glad I don’t know if a woman is hitting on me. It’s a blessing, makes ignoring them easier.

This is me. I’m absolutely rubbish at reading the non-verbal female signals. Nowadays, a man is safest (from accusations) if he doesn’t make the first move on a woman. Actually, since adopting a MGTOW mind-set, I am just starting to ignore women in the main.

I work with women in a Local Government office, so I cannot ignore women totally, but I just ignore them as much as I can. One girl at work keeps making-up/preening herself in front of me and she keeps tapping her nails on my desk as she passes me (i.e. attention-seeking), but she already has a long-term boy-friend. Another girl really smiles at me everytime she sees me (I don’t know whether this is just friendliness or another non-verbal attraction signal); she is really lovely and she appears to be more friendly/genuine than the other girl, but she has a boy-friend in the Army. At the end of the day, there’s nothing doing with them, as they’re both spoken-for; besides, it’s a golden rule of mine to not get involved with a work colleague.

[Parker (Freedom Fighter)Participant 99]

Yes, I am in the same boat as the rest of you gentleman!

I am completely oblivious when women have hit on me. This is indeed a blessing because I have absoulutely no interest in following that up with a date or a relationship of any kind.

Glad I cannot tell when they hit on me!

Course, another blessing is the fact that I am so far underneath women’s radar that I am not noticed by women at all. Or, at least that I can tell.

Works for me! That way, I don’t have to put up with the BS that comes out of every woman!

[Subcomandante SantiagoParticipant 149]

No woman has ever hit on me.

Gentlemen - we are at war.

[Anonymous 0]

Anytime a girl talks to you and its not business related she is interested. This is not a suggestion of how to think its a fact.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Biting their lip, licking their lips, touching your arm, or thigh.. Teasing… All flirtatious behavior. I admit, I’ve sometimes been oblivious to women who have been interested in me. So much that I’ve had other people tell me.

[MartyParticipant 29]

I’m quite oblivious too, i remember at my job (one i quit 2 years ago) there was a girl that was hitting on me, and i didn’t understood, until she started asking me for hugs and s~~~. She was engaged to some other guy, and was planning a wedding.

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