Im a Purple Pill – Need pushing over the edge

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Thanks to everyone who has replied some solid advice taken on board.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Anonymous 13]

The silent treatment.

THAT is emotional abuse right there.

This girl sounds like a f~~~ing RIOT.

Run man.

RUN.

[Anonymous 42]

Epiphany52 wrote:

I have been thinking about spending the rest of 2017 just focusing on me, making money, working out and hanging out with friends and family who appreciate what I do for them.

Why stop at 2017? Why not keep going?

Epiphany52 wrote:

I am new to MGTOW and to be honest I dont know if I can give up sex completely. Is that central to the MGTOW philosophy?

I’m a MONK after years on the turntable, the core principles are;

NO MARRIAGE

NO COHABITATION

NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS

NO BULLS~~~

Many of us refuse to risk our health on sex given the promiscuity average and infectious STD average, 1 in 3 in the USA or one hundred million people walking around spreading a cornucopia of STDs’ many with no known cure.

We tend to ourselves with the greatest urgency to remain safe and unharmed.

Modern women harm men, children, families, and society at large, to deal with them is like juggling live grenades, eventually one will have a pin pulled out then explode in your face!

The “juice” is not worth the “squeeze” especially when squeezing grenades!

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Epiphany52 wrote:

In that moment the penny dropped. Why am I always trying to make YOU happy?

Nailed it.

Think about doing that for your entire life for less and less rewards in return.

You forget who You are. Then one day you wake up and 10 years have gone by, your friends have vanished, you are physically and mentally drained. You have taken on a s~~~ load of debt for things that You never actually needed or wanted. You are probably sexually frustrated. Bored and starting to feel resentful but can’t figure out why.

And the kicker is, that after all this time and all this effort, She’s still not happy.

There is still something expensive and time consuming you are being told You need to make life better. You look around at the other guys in the same situation and they appear to be barely existing Zombies with no direction other than that provided by thier women.

They distract themselves with sport or TV shows but where is thier own life?, and why do they desperately need more escapism to tollerate it?

You look to the future and can see nothing ever changing. Just a treadmill that you somehow stepped on 10 years ago and now feel you can’t step off.

You can. You can break free. Live life for you and not to make someone else happy – which is impossible by the way.

You can get out. Downsize. Minimalise. Do the amount of work you need to do, not the amount of work society tells you you should be doing.

After basic needs are met, Time is more valuable than Money.

Don’t waste yours playing a game you cannot win.

It’s your life.

Live It.

It's Time to get Wise

[Anonymous 13]

[Anonymous 3]

Epiphany52 wrote:

But still part of me remembers the good times and its pulling at me in all honesty.

Know that. I remember all the good times with my ex girls. And I remember all the times when they annoyed the s~~~ out of me.

Epiphany52 wrote:

Haha I am new to MGTOW and to be honest I dont know if I can give up sex completely. Is that central to the MGTOW philosophy?

Just giving up sex with physical women. They are very far away from ideal, to say it simple. You can still imagine f~~~ing and cuddling that cute pornstar girls you see on Pornhub, and imagine as something perfect, that will feed your emotional needs without physically having a girl in your life.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Some ‘red pill’ moments from the recent past that have started to make me think all women are insane.

1. A female housemate moved her boyfriend into our flat when he didn’t pay rent the rest of the housemates asked me to tell her to get him to pay rent. She flipped at me and cut me out of the social circle.

2. I cooked tea for my mum yesterday she filpped because I forgot to get the plates out of the cupboard and screamed all the expletives under at me. She also leaves me lists of jobs to do. I moved back from uni 4 weeks ago I work and pay rent and she knows Im moving out soon. Imagine if the list and the screaming was the other way around!

3. Took said girlfriend out for a pricey meal. A girl from my uni course waited on use by chance say the price of the meal and that I paid and so aggressivly persued me for a month despite obviously knowing that I had a gf and even though I kept saying no. Imagine that the other way around.

4. A different girl on my course aggressively persued me. She came to my own home when we had a house party even though she was NOT invited and only knew me at the party on multiple occasions. She would get drunk and throw herself at me and my gf would moan at me! Weird girl would send texts like ‘dont be with her choose me this is fate’ imagine that the other way around!

Are all women crazy please tell me they aren’t!!!!!

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[ghostParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Are all women crazy please tell me they aren’t!!!!!

They’re ALL crazy. It’s in their DNA.

[MATRIXParticipant 2342]

Every single one of them is either a PSYCHOPATH a SOCIOPATH or a NARCISSIST or any combination of the above, they are all f~~~ed up.

Don’t listen to believe or trust a single one of them.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[Anonymous 3]

ghost wrote:

Epiphany52 wrote:

Are all women crazy please tell me they aren’t!!!!!

They’re ALL crazy. It’s in their DNA.

I can second that. All girlfriends have gone crazy. They disguise themselves for some time, but they are crazy. It is reason they are ex.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Right now while you are reading this your ex girlfriend is on vacation trying to get laid by Chad. Sorry to break it to you if you didn’t already know but girls always do this sort of thing right after a break up it never fails. You never really have a girlfriend it is only your turn on her c~~~ carousel and believe me when I say you have already been replaced in the bedroom department.

Her mother is giving her advice right now on how to hook you and reel you back into her spider web. As others have said you need to block her on social media and the phone and completely ghost her.

She will try every trick in the book and will beg you to take her back and will even offer to let you do anything sexual to her in order to win your trust again. It is all a trap I have been in your shoes and know exactly what is going to go down in the next few weeks. She is an anchor that is going to drown you and you know it. Time to cut her out of your life and study and work hard.

Finally and remember this well all women are like your girlfriend you are a utility to be used and discarded. Live your life for you without a woman is a blessing not a curse use this knowledge to your advantage.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

I have had these thoughts myself rhino. I have wondered if she is now f~~~ing some guy on holiday. From reading other threads im wondering if she has been in our relationship alot of guys seem to be saying women can hide it well and dont give a f~~~. God knows I had plenty of opportunities to cheat and tbh somethines I wanted to but I never did out of respect. One thing you said about her mother has struck a nerve with me. She has already said her mum told her to come up on the train to get ne back. If anything good comes from this it will be seeing if girls do all follow the same script…. unfortunately im finding out that they do.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Also if I block her as people have said wont she just come to my house again?

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Also if I block her as people have said wont she just come to my house again?

Yes and you need to be ready for when it happens. Tell your friends and family she is no longer allowed to contact you for any reason and to make sure they never let her near your place again. When she knocks have someone there tell her she is no longer welcome. Do not answer the door yourself if you can avoid it. If you have no one to do this for you just don’t answer let her pound on the door all day and night ignore her.

Get your phone out and record everything she does you will need it for evidence for later as she might try to break your property or try to break into your place. You want to avoid the mistakes this guy made here:

If you ghost her even at your place she can’t do anything to you, and if she starts breaking stuff call the cops right away and show them what you recorded, get a restraining order on her and be done with her. I know it is extreme but you have to understand you were her meal ticket and she planned on making sure you were her perfect slave. Now that is gone she could take crazy to another level.

Finally I was exactly like you when it came to my ex of 7 years. I had every opportunity to cheat even with her hot best friend and I didn’t do it. Turns out I found out she was sleeping with many men behind my back including a trip she took while on vacation. Her best friend gave me all the details once we broke up because she wanted to get with me. In the end you have to be strong and avoid the s~~~ storm that is about to commence when she gets back. Don’t be scared just be ready and ghost her and everything will work out if you do what we suggested.

If you get in contact with her again it will only get worse for you she has revenge on her mind she wants to get the last laugh and try to destroy you if she can’t have you.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Noted. Thanks for the tips.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[OldBillParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Also if I block her as people have said wont she just come to my house again?

If she does, you don’t open the door. If she continues stalking you, you got to the courts.

This isn’t rocket science so stop overthinking it.

Dump her, never contact her again, refuse all contact attempts she makes, and move on.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MATRIXParticipant 2342]

GET YOURSELF A BODYCAM, keep all text messages record all phone calls protect yourself.

She will try to destroy you.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

I’m a working class boy made good and I had a similar university experience to you.
Firstly, you are too young to be settled with one person. But for me, the shocker in this is her insensitive attitude to your friend’s suicide. If that can’t cause her to offer you some consolation instead of selfish moaning, what will it take?
Also the moody silence trick is just a complete no-no.
Give yourself a 12 month break if you can’t face ‘forever’. I can guarentee you won’t come back for more

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

I was shocked when she said what she did but I just raged inside and laughed it off. She now claims she didnt say that… in fact she is so convinced that she didn’t I started to question if she actually did because it was so bad. But then I remembered how p~~~ed and angry I was at the time so I know she definitely did say it.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Greg Honda wrote:

Epiphany52 wrote:

In that moment the penny dropped. Why am I always trying to make YOU happy?

Nailed it.

Think about doing that for your entire life for less and less rewards in return.

You forget who You are. Then one day you wake up and 10 years have gone by, your friends have vanished, you are physically and mentally drained. You have taken on a s~~~ load of debt for things that You never actually needed or wanted. You are probably sexually frustrated. Bored and starting to feel resentful but can’t figure out why.

And the kicker is, that after all this time and all this effort, She’s still not happy.

There is still something expensive and time consuming you are being told You need to make life better. You look around at the other guys in the same situation and they appear to be barely existing Zombies with no direction other than that provided by thier women.

They distract themselves with sport or TV shows but where is thier own life?, and why do they desperately need more escapism to tollerate it?

You look to the future and can see nothing ever changing. Just a treadmill that you somehow stepped on 10 years ago and now feel you can’t step off.

You can. You can break free. Live life for you and not to make someone else happy – which is impossible by the way.

You can get out. Downsize. Minimalise. Do the amount of work you need to do, not the amount of work society tells you you should be doing.

After basic needs are met, Time is more valuable than Money.

Don’t waste yours playing a game you cannot win.

It’s your life.

Live It.

This is fantastic advice. I wish I was given it as a young man

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