Im a Purple Pill – Need pushing over the edge

[Anonymous 1]

Psh I don’t think it’s mean. @oldbill I just recognize that not everybody has the ego-strength that you and I have. I couldn’t give less of a f~~~ what people say or think about me, and I’m sure you feel exactly the same way. I just don’t want new members turned away because more senior members are a bit crass with them. Not everybody starts off being strong enough to challenge others. Some have to work up to that.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

You make matters worse for yourself when you break up with a chick and then spent time driving her home. You break it off with her, fk her! Let her figure her own way home. She used you as a utility. You have no obligation to her! If she’s not gonna play right, then send her on her way. Ghost the s~~~ out of her. The more you’re in contact, then the further she keeps her hooks into you.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Seriously? You need “pushing over the edge”, despite all the content that’s here on this site? After all the war stories, and s~~~ women say and do that is documented on this site? Wow…

Anonymous wrote:

Epiphany52 wrote:

Thanks for the help I appreciate anyone who gives positive input and helps me learn about MGTOW!

Yeah, but as much of an ass as he was being, OldBill did have a point. You really should look into these things and not expect others to do all the work for you. Just like me, you’re new, so I think it’s not a big deal, but if you really want to be a true MGHOW, you need to put the work in yourself. It’s a personal choice, and nobody can reinforce or strengthen that other than you.

Epiphany52 wrote:

Basic to you not to me as I said I didnt know if its was common or not but don’t worry I won’t ask for your advice if its too much hastle for you.

and yes…. its Turkey

Listen to Bill. He’s a well respected member here because he knows what he’s talking about. If he fired a shot across your bow, then it’s because you had one coming. Also, in today’s society with cell phones everywhere and internet access at everyone’s finger tips, there’s no excuse for not googling stuff yourself if you don’t know what something means.

[Anonymous 43]

my response was too harsh and too angry, I apologize.

I would stay away from this woman. but I have been burned by several women. it took the third relationship, marriage to really shake me awake. good on you for finding this mgtow community and asking questions. Good luck amigo.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Thank you for the wisdom men of MGTOW especially you Old Bill. I can see you have my best interests close at heart.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

SJAWMan666 – ego strenght? I just read your victim thread…. you look like you have got a big ego and thin skin to me.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Anyone can say whatever the f~~~ they want hear – I will have been called much worse face to face but if you write something on an anonymous thread that you wouldn’t say to a mans face in person then you know what that makes you.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Once bitten twice shyParticipant 78]

Hi Epiphany52,

I’m also new here, I’ve given my introduction and as mentioned it that I’ve been lurking in the forums for months prior to me joining.

This is my own little take on “women” that has taken me over 15 years to suss out and to put into my own terms that I understand, it maybe that this doesn’t fit for everyone.

Think of women as you would a car.

We are born into the world and cannot drive and we have no need for a car.

Same goes for a female partner, we are born and we cannot date them, nor have a committed relationship with them and have no need for them.

As we get older we see the usefulness of both cars and females.

Cars symbolise freedom, a way to get from point A to point B at any time you choose. Some look good, or go fast, or sound nice.

Females symbolise a partnership for males, a way to have some fun with, share good times, have sex, etc. Some look good, or go fast, or sound nice.

Now for most of us males when we have passed our driving test and even when we’re older, we are limited as to which car we can buy. We don’t have the money to buy an expensive one, to insure it or to keep it running. So we compromise and choose what we feel best suits us.

The same goes for females, not all are available, some maybe short, tall, skinny, fat, have features that were not dead set on but we compromise.

Here is the important part – both cars and females have the ability to ruin us. With a car you are in the driving seat, so if you choose to drive that thing as fast as it will go it’s on your shoulders as to the consequences if you get caught. It may break down on you, you may f~~~ things up and crash the thing altogether. You may not f~~~ things up and still crash the thing.
The same for females, you choose to get with them, you are in the driving seat, they also have their own risks of breaking down, getting tired, looking worn out, ruining you.

Now when you’ve had enough of your car, do you feel remorse when you get rid of it? Maybe a little, you’ve had some good times with it but at the end of the day there are millions more cars out there that will all serve the same purpose. It may one day be running great, almost begging you to forgive the fact it’s let you down numerous times before. You may decide to go back and drive the thing a few more miles for it to leave you stranded in the middle of nowhere. That is a risk that you take.

Take that mindset with a women. There are millions more out there. Some may ruin you, some may go on for years and years without issue and only routine servicing. Some maybe high maintenance, some maybe cheap to run but at the end of the day they all have a bork factor. You want one, you take the risk. It is on you.

Some people don’t want to take a risk, they can get by without one and if they really need one they’ll rent instead, a short term fix for that precise point in time where they need one.

Now in your situation take the above and apply it. She has let you down, if your car had done that and left you f~~~ed 6 hours away from home and you had to spend hundreds of pounds getting it recovered back to your home, you would be p~~~ed off and would objectively look at it and thought f~~~ it I’m getting rid. Some other mug can put up with it. There are plenty more out there if I want to go down that route. Just remember though they can always go wrong.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

A good analogy and reminds me of something may dad always tells me – T~~~ and tires, you’ll never have any money!

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Parker (Freedom Fighter)Participant 99]

Hi, Epiphany!

Welcome to the MGTOW forums!

Just wanted to see how things were working out with your situation!

I would agree with the men on this forum. Their advice would be well heeded by you, my friend!

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Hi Steven thanks for the welcome!

Basically she is on holiday for another week. I have had no contact and don’t plan on getting in contact. As many have already told me to do I’m running and never looking back!

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Epiphany52 wrote:

…but then has spamed social media with pictures of her having a great time on holiday!

…

But still part of me remembers the good times and its pulling at me in all honesty.

1. Women don’t love men, they love what men can do for them. You are a utility, a tool to them.
2. Women are Fake. Hence your gf posting about her fake good time with you on social media — Fakebook or whatever.
3. Your relationship with her was fake, it was all in your head.
4. Pussy may feel good, but it is just a meathole with beef curtains. Fapping is less mentally confusing and is better because it doesn’t cost you money, 18 years of childsupport, a lifetime of alimony, or an STD.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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