Im a Purple Pill – Need pushing over the edge

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

This will be long so thanks in advance. I met a girl at uni aged 19. We both lived in the same halls and had the same social circle so we lived together from day one. As crazy as it sounds it was actually fantastic I was living every teenagers dream my life was pretty much just waking up having sex and watching movies all day, takeaways at night then out drinking and back for more sex. Little studying got done 😅. This lasted three years until last week, a month after we both graduated, I ended the relationship.

Why? I was exhausted. I work in a very high paid industry and was able to make alot of money during the summers between uni. This enabled me to buy a car which my girlfriend used as a personal taxi all thoughout uni. Im very money orientated so I stopped going out drinking in second year and got a job on nights alongside studying at uni. My girlfriend continued. I would drop her everywhere and even pick her up from the club in the middle of the night so that she didn’t have to use the quite frankly largly perverted taxi services.

On top of this i spent alot of the money I made on her. She never paid for anything like meals out and I went all out with holidays which admittedly I wanted to go on myself. I took her to Edinburgh, Munich, Nuremberg, Rome, Venice, Paris and Istanbul in top end hotels because she liked to travel and I wanted to make her happy.

That has always been my thinking if I try my hardest to make you happy you will do the same for me. Wrong.

I come from a working class background so my holidays as a child were more low key. We went to Cornwall every year camping and so last week I decided to take her camping there. After a five hundred mile drive I pitched the tent only to be told I hate camping I only came because my mum said I had to because your friend died. (One of my best friends growing up committed suicide at the start of the month) I was raging but laughed it off.

We were supposed to go for five days. We left on the third. She complained about everything. The tent, the hairdryers, the weather (it was beautiful btw), the showers and more. Id had enough of the constant whining everything was my fault everything was not good enough. I told her to choose something she wanted to do, she did and so I drove her to some stately home she wanted to look around fourty miles away only to be told this is crap I wont be recommending this to anyone.

In that moment the penny dropped. Why am I always trying to make YOU happy? I said ‘I think this relationship is over’ Not a word from her, not a tear. We went back to the campsite I packed up while she sat in the car then I drove her 6 hours to her house in silence no tears no apology no protest and she had her back turned to me. I dropped her off and then drove another four hours to my house. The next day I get a text telling me that she has come up to my house on the train and that she has booked a hotel for the night so that we can ‘work things out’. I told her to f~~~ off home and in fairness she was apologetic in her texts. Too little too late?

She has gone on holiday for two weeks and I agreed to talk to her when she gets back. I need advice. She can be brilliant at times but I do feel like she has just took and took from me without giving much back. She has never really done anything nice for me equivalent to what I have done for her. Im starting to think that she loves what I can give her as opposed to the person that I am.

What would you do in my situation. Thanks for reading I appreciate it!

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[ghostParticipant]

I understand your situation completely because I have been there. Contrary to how you may FEEL right now, the BEST thing you can do is to go full NO CONTACT with her. DO NOT answer her calls, messages, etc. Block her if you have to. This will make you STRONGER as a man and will also make her realize what she missed out on. Take control of YOUR life and DO NOT let anyone occupy your mind who has caused you so much pain and frustration. We are all here for you. There is a world of knowledge in these forums. Spend the day today and go through some of it on your own. There are so many old threads which are as good as gold. Just DO NOT talk to her or ANY woman for that matter. Do something else like working out, driving, reading, writing, drawing, watching youtube, anything.

[Anonymous 43]

next time you think you want another woman in your life, slam your doinkus in a kitchen cabinet door. if the thirst for pussy continues, slam again repeatedly, until thirst subsides.

stay the f~~~ away from women.

this chick? no contact. move away from there if you can.

do not talk to her, do not think about her. do you think about the deuce you dropped in the toilet this morning? no, you pushed it out, wiped, and flushed. you pulled up yer pants and move on.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Thanks for your quick response. She has already told me she regrets the way she has treated me but then has spamed social media with pictures of her having a great time on holiday!. I know what you mean I have been thinking about spending the rest of 2017 just focusing on me, making money, working out and hanging out with friends and family who appreciate what I do for them. But still part of me remembers the good times and its pulling at me in all honesty.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Haha I am new to MGTOW and to be honest I dont know if I can give up sex completely. Is that central to the MGTOW philosophy?

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[ghostParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

spamed social media with pictures of her having a great time on holiday!

She is just doing that to get under your skin. Block her.

Epiphany52 wrote:

the rest of 2017 just focusing on me, making money, working out and hanging out with friends and family who appreciate what I do for them.

Perfect.

Epiphany52 wrote:

But still part of me remembers the good times and its pulling at me in all honesty.

That’s fine. It means you are a good man and not an asshole. Just don’t also forget what you just wrote in your first post about how she made you feel. Do the cons outweigh the pros? It’s that simple.

[wyrParticipant 591]

Run and don’t look back.

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[Anonymous 43]

f~~~ your feelings. she bitched about everything, then posted bulls~~~ about what a good time. f~~~ her.

the good times begin when women are no where to be found.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

She has never really done anything nice for me equivalent to what I have done for her. Im starting to think that she loves what I can give her as opposed to the person that I am.

Bingo. You nailed it Sir.

[ghostParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Haha I am new to MGTOW and to be honest I dont know if I can give up sex completely. Is that central to the MGTOW philosophy?

You don’t have to but eventually you will stop caring for it. You haven’t had enough of it yet to feel exhausted from it. You can self release and calm yourself down anytime.

[Anonymous 3]

I suggest radio silence on that girl. You are right, she may like what you can give, not you in person. I was camping a lot with parents as a child (we were poor to afford hotels), and it is not that bad. (when they did not had conflicts, but that’s another story). I had no problem with the tent, but stray cats tend to somehow steal your steak while you sleep.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

Its funny you mention the pros and cons I made a list. The only ones I put for pros were can be kind if in the mood, get on with her family, and sex on tap.

Tbh I feel just this week that I am seeing women in a new light.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[MATRIXParticipant 2342]

Check out the threads

DIVORCE FROM HELL
&
SHE ONLY HAS TO MAKE A PHONE CALL

If anything is going to make you fully blue pill these will this is what you will face if you let a woman into your life because they are all lol that.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Haha I am new to MGTOW and to be honest I dont know if I can give up sex completely. Is that central to the MGTOW philosophy?

No.

Also, I think that MGTOW is a lifestyle, not a movement or philosophy.

[ghostParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

Tbh I feel just this week that I am seeing women in a new light.

You are wising up to female nature. You are wise beyond your years. Be strong and swallow the red pill completely. Focus on your health, family, friends and making money. Once you hit your first billion, her face will drop.

[Anonymous 13]

Oh man, let me see now, where do I begin.

Alright, everything else aside,

Any woman that can sit in a car with her back turned to you for SIX hours is no one you want to be near in any shape or form.

THAT behaviour ALONE says you would have a world of pain and loneliness ahead.

SIX hours silence and you’re not even married?

Can you imagine, days and weeks of that in your own home when you’ve got no where else to get away from it.

All the other stuff means you’re just going to be paying out constantly and working your butt off to try and keep her happy.

She will NEVER be happy.

YOU will be in a living hell.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

One classic line that made me think wtf on the holiday was when she said ‘I like how female peac~~~s are just plain and the males are all brightly coloured and have to work to impress the female, I wish humans were like that’ I thought to myself bitch I AM the f~~~ing male peac~~~ in this relationship I do everything for you and you do f~~~ all for me.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[Epiphany52Participant 70]

I actually asked her to think if something nice she had done for me in our three year relationship. Her answer – I made you valentines day and birthday cards every year! I was in hysterics and she just flat out admitted that she has done nothing kind for me. something that would make me happy.

There is either something or there is nothing and in the face of a paradox, nothing makes more sense than something.

[ghostParticipant]

Epiphany52 wrote:

I AM the f~~~ing male peac~~~

You are the prize. NEVER forget that. Don’t let the social brainwashing get to you. MEN have been the prize for millions of years. Just crack open the history books.

[Anonymous 13]

Epiphany52 wrote:

One classic line that made me think wtf on the holiday was when she said ‘I like how female peac~~~s are just plain and the males are all brightly coloured and have to work to impress the female, I wish humans were like that’ I thought to myself bitch I AM the f~~~ing male peac~~~ in this relationship I do everything for you and you do f~~~ all for me.

Didn’t you know?

Women are eternal victims and are oppressed by big bad mens.

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