I have a problem with my brain

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

People just need to accept you think before you speak. So what if theyre uncomfortable during silence. Stop seeking their approval. Approval is consuming your focus.

Say what you WANT to say not what you think they want to hear.

[Anonymous 54]

Some people have very methotical brains. Others quik and zippy. Just be yourself and make it work for you.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@ German Truther….

Based on everything you just added, I think you can see YOU don’t have a “problem” as much as you might think.

Ohno wrote:

I mean if the dynamics in conversations wouldnt always be that as soon as you take a little breath after a sentence, someone else immediately starts talking..I wouldnt have a problem.

Who’s “problem” is that?

• “I’m not finished”.
• “Let me finish my point”.
• “Don’t interrupt me”…. is what you – and they – need to practice.
• “I wasn’t talking about that”
• “Don’t change the subject”
• “Cute try and I see what you tried to do there”.

People (especially women!) will interrupt you and INTENTIONALLY deflect a conversation or debate into an entirely different tangent anyway.

“My last 8 girlfriends were all gold diggers, why do you girls all seem to be …. “

“NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!! YOU’RE JUST LOOKING IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES!!”

See what just happened there? You’re talking about women who ARE like that – not the ones who aren’t. She interrupts the entire point, and deflects it around attempting to turn it into YOUR PROBLEM. Now you’re gonna lose your train of thought and start explaining and thinking you’re the problem and you can’t keep the conversion on track.

It’s a basic example but you see my point. And maybe it applies to your specific “problem” which really isn’t your problem – based on what you added.

It’s DESIGNED to throw you off, and believe me, when a man says something VERY SMART or makes a VERY ASTUTE OBSERVATION…. people will interrupt you and try to “take/shoot it down”. So you tell then to shut up and listen instead of thinking you have a problem with your brain.

The world works VERY hard to make you want to believe that.
You don’t need to accept it.

Ohno wrote:

Well I must f~~~ myself then, because Im that person (concerned withe being perfect).

FACT: They aren’t perfect enough for you to feel inadequate about not being perfect.

Assume more control of the path of conversation.
Like a forums thread. Keep it relevant.

You don’t need to defer to your weak point, because it may not even be YOUR flaw or weakness. Establish that first before you think there is “something wrong with your brain”. If I choose not to fight you…. is there something wrong with my sword?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 54]

I had good freind that would leave the looooongest pauses between thoughts, or even mid sentence. It was sooo hard for me to patiently wait. A good leson for me. I learned to watch his brain thinking. And the perspective he offered was allways worth the wait. He died years ago. Ive allways wanted to ask him what was going on dureing thoses pauses.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Ohno wrote:

I made great progress in the last years in understanding how society works by being a geek on the internet.
While Im very good at everything that has to do with logic and stategy Im no spoke talent at all.
I lack concentration in a tremendous way when Im in a discussion.
I often forget what I just said or when talking about a subject I cant really go into detail even when I know alot about it.
Also when being interrupted while speaking it distracts me alot.

Now Im looking for ideas of how to gain access to all the information and knowledge that is in my brain, while being in a conversation with someone.

Do you have ideas how to improve my concenration?

Can be anything that helps except training to speak by speaking with other people more often. I know more practice in speaking would improve this skill, but this is not an option.

Check out my post on this same section, it will help you improve brain function naturally by taking Omega -3 and Olive leaf supplements, you can also do meditation like power meditation ( advanced ) or do meditation relaxation.
/forums/topic/honest-natural-advice/

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Anonymous wrote:

My point being that the brain is complex, no one here is qaulified.

Yea I know, but there could be other things that help increasing concentration. Well at least I hope so, because I will not take any medicine at all.
Maybe certain foods, or weight lifting for example.

Execration wrote:

First I’m not a clinical Psychologist, Second ,I’m not bad mouthing you but quite possibly,

You have expierienced some form of long-term emotional abuse or long term neglect during childhood.

It sounds to me like self-doubt that causes social anxiety.

Someone , at some point, made you feel inferior for a long time. you grew lonely and attempted to seek out this individuals approval and never receieved it.

Your first primary relationship could have been the cause.

The solution is to accept yourself as you are or you will question what ways you will need to improve yourself for the approval of others.

Remedy: if your young or in school seek out a school .psychologist

Being made to feel comfortable about who you are is important

Second, most people can’t live up to the standard you set for yourself and will think of you as strange because, to them your talking alien.While your concern is with seeking the approval of others by constantly learning or attempting to be perfect they havent even expierienced a conversation on that level.

Like KM said average people ramble on about the inconsequential.Try to have fun with that.

Yout too self-concious as to where others expierience less self doubt because they arent.

Thanks for the effort…well you are not close really.
My parents never discussed anything with me, they just wanted to give orders and I rebelled…
but about my problem with not being a great speaker, this is the only thing that has to do with it.

I also cant speak 2 mins fluently when im alone and noones interrupting me. It doesnt have much to do with approval.
I would even say I need less approval then most people, because im not with the herd. Im a total thought criminal…If I would care about approval I would know what to say ( not the truth, but a popular fake opinion and all would be happy about that, except for me. )

Nah, the problem is that my IQ profile is very one sided.
To give you an idea why i know that…
I got tested once by the job department after I lost my job.
It was an IQ test without them telling you the IQ.
There were 7 categories.
From all people ( 100000+ ) I scored higher than 99% in 3 categories: Organization, Calculation and analytical thinking.
2 other categories better than 85%. One categorie I was average and in the category:
language skills: ( nothing to do with spelling and grammar ) worse than 2/3 of people. Thats the lowest categorie there was.
Maybe im worse than 90% even..but the chart stops there.

When you ask the people that know me…They would probably see me about average in all categories. Its due to my other skills, that people would probably rate my language skills way higher and my thinking skills way lower than they are.

My problem is not that I seek validation from the group.
I just want to be able to express myself better and longer, because this is a very usefull skill in life.
And especially in this society and also in the school system the language skill is by far the most important.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Ohno wrote:

Do you have ideas how to improve my concenration?

Yes: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/05/140516092519.htm

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[Anonymous 54]

I struggle with writeing. I look like a 12 year old in print. I only hope some intelect manages to shine trough.It will allways be my weak point. You just have to work around it.Freinds will be patient and listen, see the intelect behind the struggling words.

[HitmanParticipant]

be more patient with yourself.
it may be that time must pass ,
try not to focus on it and just be okay with yourself.
you remind me of ME,
i often can expect perfection from myself,
and then get mad.
find the no f~~~s given switch..
keep trying to let it go.
eventually it will not be an issue,
either because you have overcome it,
or that you no longer care so much about it.

[Anonymous 54]

Im gonna tell ya… It takes b~~~~ for me to get on here and write like a twelve year old in front of a bunch of intelectualls! Hahahha

[bladeParticipant]

My father has parkinsons and gets very vague at times staring of into space . He does alot of puzzles in the news paper . Parkinsons effects people in different ways . Sometimes i have a chat all about his past . I myself had a big break down some time ago threw past trauma which recent stresses brought up . Didn’t realise straight away but others brought some things to light then i noticed there was small things i had forrgotton and things i was good at no longer was . Things are comming back . The mind works in mysterious ways . The brain can act in a way to protect the bod from stress because stress can be a killer . If people don’t have your problem not all but Many will not understand . Learn not to give a f~~~ what people think . Don’t get thrustrated with yourself either . HORSE RADDISH AND GARLIC PILLS . Try em . Good luck brother

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[OhnoParticipant 668]

The man in the mountain wrote:

Check out my post on this same section, it will help you improve brain function naturally by taking Omega -3 and Olive leaf supplements, you can also do meditation like power meditation ( advanced ) or do meditation relaxation.
/forums/topic/honest-natural-advice/%5B/quote%5D

Omega 3 and Olive leaf supplements. I will get some of that. Ty.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

blade wrote:

My father has parkinsons

Damn. My uncle had that too…

blade wrote:

HORSE RADDISH AND GARLIC PILLS

okay good. I gotta look up what Horse Raddish. Never heard.
Im going to bed now.

[bladeParticipant]

Horse raddish and garlic are in the same pill . Get it from a health food shop . I thought it was bulls~~~ at first hearing of it but it really works . About a month of taking them you will be surprised .

People with add should try this

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[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Ohno wrote:

@ngelo(DOES) wrote:

Check out my post on this same section, it will help you improve brain function naturally by taking Omega -3 and Olive leaf supplements, you can also do meditation like power meditation ( advanced ) or do meditation relaxation.
/forums/topic/honest-natural-advice/%5B/quote%5D

Omega 3 and Olive leaf supplements. I will get some of that. Ty.

You are very welcome, i wouldn’t suggest this if i didn’t try it myself, i have been on it for 7 months and i can tell you that is a huge difference, i can now read books from top to back almost everyday and remember most of what was said, i can read more, write more and learn even more, i always had good concentration in my life when it came to anything, but these 2 supplements have taken my concentration to like godlike status.

[Y_Participant 4591]

I would agree with Jan (with respect to all the others here).
Usually when you know you have a problem it is not natural.
Your brain compares your current state to that it remembers before or you will not know there is something is wrong.

You need to seek professional help. Sometimes it can be psychological. Or maybe something physical.

In any case it would help pinpoint the problem. \

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