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Seeing as you have posted again I think you ‘maybe’ for real and I wish you the best OP – BUT there are lots of red flags in your story which others have mentioned and I will add the following:
Or how she told me she loved me 5 times in 10 minutes when we woke up this morning.
My last exGF was like that – first few months were great then it turned into a nightmare. My ex was a sort of EMOTIONAL narcisist – she love bombed me – that often hooks the man – im not saying yours is.
Also someone that gushes her love like that at such a young age ‘may’ not know what she is talking about it could just be young emotion that can easily change – i.e. also she probably hasnt matured yet at 21 so she will ‘likely’ change. I say likely as there is imho a very small chance she wont change in a bad way – I know 2 couples that have a very good ‘pure’ marriage BUT theirs is based on definite spiritual guidelines that the man and woman adheres to – their situations is VERY different to yours.
You dont see how she brags about me to her friends and family.
And that is good how ? my ex bragged about me too – probably all of us on here had girls that bragged about us – that means little in the scheme of things – what about when she starts complaining to her friends about you.. or bragging to her friends how she secured your house in divorce court?
Okay so its perhaps good that she was raised well and rural etc – I think there is some limited validity in this approach I had a nice exGF once like that – BUT when she got to the city she gradually changed – gyno society will probably change her – also the internet will probably change her as another poster mentioned. Unless you have a super spiritual marriage living according to definite guidelines on how to live ‘purely’ as a married couple in this messed up society (which you dont) she will very likely change.
Also as Hermit and others say WHY GET MARRIED ?? IF YOU REALLY NEED A WOMAN WHY NOT JUST LIVE WITH EACH OTHER..
Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready
Ugh, all that “I love you” bulls~~~……it’s just emotional nonsense, just something most people say so they can hear it back. Remembering that slop from my past makes me ashamed that I was part of it.
No 21 year old remains who they are for very long whether it be a woman or a man. This girl is still a child and will grow out of this game of playing housewife. Her eagerness to please her man will fade and the willingness to have sex anytime she is asked will become boring and tiresome for her.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Its true. We just have to be destroyed as individual men before we really get it. I wish you well OP. I truly do. But when the inevitable happens, I also truly hope you swallow that bitter pill that all men are handed at some time in their lives. Hell I was handed it 5 times and refused it. Now I’m much better. My soul is mending. I’m actually happy of my own volition now.
For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.
I think This is trolling or tuna. Why would you think any MGHOW would be remotely impressed by bagging a younger woman saying she loves you every five minutes. Marriage is crazy in today’s society and virtually every woman I’ve been with has said she loved me. It’s the biggest female lie out there. You sound completely blue pill. If this story is true, you’re an idiot…
If you fall down 7 times, get up 8
Lol.
That’s all I got.
I don’t intend to add to the railroading but i just want to add one more bit i haven’t seen pointed out.
That point just raised about how she acts and appears to be deeply head over heels. The op himself recognizes that one of her biggest motivators is the financial benefit. Well one thing that isn’t really discussed much here, because we generally don’t care, is the female side of this.
From her perspective, she currently sees you(op) as the knight in shining armor that’s saved her and promises a good foreseeable future. Unknown to her what that does is actually guide many aspects of her chemistry, and she probably truly feels quite strongly for you at the moment, the standard breeding chems that i mentioned very early in the post. Even though she herself may be aware of how she’s happy she was rescued, i believe she legitimately believes that her feelings for you are somewhat separate from what you provide for her. The problem is that they aren’t. If you were to, for some reason, put new serious restrictions on expenditures her feelings would quickly disperse and you would be in the same boat you’ve been in 4 times already.
Really it’s not all that different from what we expect. All we really wanted was some sex and loyalty. Near failure in marriages the sex is usually taken from us, so we stop wanting to be a part of it because it’s a waste of our time. This is one of the foundations of mgtow really. Sex should be an open freedom in marriage, it costs nothing is fun for both and should never be used as a tool for bargaining. However, money and resolution to disputes of daily life can not be so greedily demanded to always go in the woman’s favor because that’s a much more serious matter requiring serious effort and is capable of altering the condition of your entire life.
Over time she’ll acclimate to her new lifestyle and no longer see it as a privilege, it will be something she deserves and expects because legally she will be entitled to it after a point. Furthermore, those chemical feelings are very short term. At most there could be a few years of the good feels keeping a good momentum that’s strong enough to prevent the normal things that start breaking the marriage down.
Once those feelings fade, the usual symptoms will start. Changes in the conditions of the marriage such as sex frequency and who gets priority decisions on matters, doing your extra share of work around the house and such, sudden complaints about things you believed to never be an issue in the past such as complaining about things as simple as where you place things, minor quirks of the way you act, and this pattern progresses and continues until the marriage becomes an unbearable mess.
You’ve been through that part 4 times already i’m sure. We’re just letting you know ahead of time that this time won’t be different. There’s nothing wrong with that in a way. It’s certainly not mgtow to simply accept the current environment, marry, and willingly subject yourself to everything that normal blue pillers do, but if you choose to do that then perhaps going your own way simply isn’t for you and that’s fine too.
My advice tailored for you in this matter OP. Don’t think for a second you’ve found a unicorn. Instead, accept that you’re participating in the normal pattern of things and that the early stages make you happy. Know and accept that in a few years things will, overwhelmingly likely, start breaking down. Be willing to deal with that when it happens and move on with whatever expenses it costs you, and if need be, be prepared to simply find someone else that’ll make you happy afterwards. This isn’t mgtow advice, it’s advice tailored to someone who’s been so deeply ingrained into the standard western marriage culture that you’re unable to escape it. Accept that you’re in it and try to be happy.
Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.
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I was also going to query why anyone would expect a serious MGTOW response to this. It reminds me of someone spending time pursuing red pill content then saying to us actually we all got it wrong and “I met this special unicorn” who disproves what all you bitter men think, or some kind of trolling post like ” Do MGTOWS think it’s a good idea to bareback hookers? “
If you fall down 7 times, get up 8
I am 44 years old, and a couple of weeks ago I married a drop dead gorgeous 21 year old girl.
The question is why did you marry her if you could enjoy the Relationship without such a commitment (of course Yam has not been here 40 something years but even i can tell something is up). When a Woman marries it tends to be for security reasons with the first few years being the Honeymoon faze and then after the Kids are born the Relationship drastically changing.
. Some people are just fine living by themselves, but I knew that I could never be happy that way. I was drinking a ridiculous amount of alcohol, staying stoned all the time, and fairly suicidal before I met her. And now, 6 weeks later, I am happier than I have ever been in my life
So let me get this straight you married a Woman you knew for only 6 weeks or the Marriage has only been 6 weeks (aka you have known her longer)? but outside of this you just probably (not 100 percent but pretty sure of) just delayed your Suicide rather then anything cause if she leaves and takes half your s~~~ you will be closer to Suicide then in any other point of your existence. So if you were gonna kill yourself before you get divorce, you are sure as hell gonna kill yourself (this is not in a positive light in any means just the hard facts) after one.
You can’t expect to snag a hot woman that f***s like a porn star if you are the night manager at Taco Bell, and living in your parent’s basement
Depends on how you define the term Snag as if you mean just F~~~ (aka just sex) then i disagree with you there as it depends on your skill (i know Managers of Fast Food who can f~~~).
so I give her $200 a week to spend on herself and her daughter. She has a daughter from a previous relationship that lives with the father.
I am glad that i have read this far because now i know you are one dumbass. Of course the Wife is gonna act like the Queen especially when she has another Kid so she struck a goldmine with you but even best is that your so called Traditional Woman is still devoid of values (she cannot even fake em). Because having Kids from another Relationship outside of Marriage is not good wholesome values in any means (she would be referred to a a Whore, a Bitch, a Ho, a Puta, a Putain, a Hure and plenty of other words meaning the same exact thing).
Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.
she acts and appears to be deeply head over heels.
the thing she is an act.She smells like tuna, not flowers She is not sure of her real hair color buy now. She does not look like that around the house, She looks better to other guys than she does to
. all others. It take hours for her to put her war paint on before going in Public. The woman that told you she loves you is an actrees,playing the part,speaking the lines of the charector that she is playing part of to get your assetsI have seen far too much hateful speech here directed at others, which is why I quit posting.
You should go to your safe place with puppies and coloring books. You quit posting sounded good,but it is not true. So much about you knowing what your talking about
Some of you sure are mouthy little pricks…. behind the anonymous safety of the internet. I am 6 foot 6, around 220….. very strong from 25 years of construction. If you said the things you’ve said to me here, to my face, I would snatch you up by the throat beat your ass. Anyone that would like to arrange said meeting, PM ME PLEASE!
AGAIN…. I did not post this for validation. I dont know a single one of you, and therefor dont give a flying s~~~ what you think of me, or my situation. This post was intended to help those who still date avoid mistakes I have made in the past. That’s it. Period.
Over the years… I have met many women whom I could have had a good relationship with. I just wasnt attracted to them. Finally I have found one that I am actually attracted to. I am happier than I have ever been in my entire life, and I will be the one laughing in 5 years when I am still getting country home cooking and hot young pussy every night, while you are still jerking off and playing video games. And now I will be sure to come back here and rub it in your face.
I’m gonna go wake up my wife with my c~~~, and then have her fix me some lunch. Enjoy your Fortnite, Call of Duty, or whatever other pathetic waste of time you had planned today.
Grow the f~~~ up losers.I am happier than I have ever been in my entire life, and I will be the one laughing in 5 years when I am still getting country home cooking and hot young pussy every night, while you are still jerking off and playing video games. And now I will be sure to come back here and rub it in your face.
I don’t play video games, but jerking off does suck.
Hey, if you’re happy, do what makes you happy. I hope it does last 5, 10, 20 years. Me being a believer in AWALT, I don’t believe that it can last, especially because of her age.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
I am happier than I have ever been in my entire life, and I will be the one laughing in 5 years when I am still getting country home cooking and hot young pussy every night, while you are still jerking off and playing video games. And now I will be sure to come back here and rub it in your face.
Awesome. I can do it one better. I had a hot young wife whose virginity I took. Raised our kids in a house in the country. Had the happy little family. But discontentment inevitably grows within the female mind.
There is a reason pretty much any ancient civilization worth its salt had to assign significant punishments to women being disloyal. They were fighting against nature.
But anyway, I don’t want to rip on you. Congrats on your career success and all that. What’s done is done and I hope you’re the one in a million where your marriage lasts and is overall relatively happy. It happens once in a while. But yeah check back in every 5 years.
Some of you sure are mouthy little pricks…. behind the anonymous safety of the internet. I am 6 foot 6, around 220….. very strong from 25 years of construction. If you said the things you’ve said to me here, to my face, I would snatch you up by the throat beat your ass. Anyone that would like to arrange said meeting, PM ME PLEASE!AGAIN…. I did not post this for validation. I dont know a single one of you, and therefor dont give a flying s~~~ what you think of me, or my situation. This post was intended to help those who still date avoid mistakes I have made in the past. That’s it. Period.Over the years… I have met many women whom I could have had a good relationship with. I just wasnt attracted to them. Finally I have found one that I am actually attracted to. I am happier than I have ever been in my entire life, and I will be the one laughing in 5 years when I am still getting country home cooking and hot young pussy every night, while you are still jerking off and playing video games. And now I will be sure to come back here and rub it in your face.I’m gonna go wake up my wife with my c~~~, and then have her fix me some lunch. Enjoy your Fortnite, Call of Duty, or whatever other pathetic waste of time you had planned today.Grow the f~~~ up losers.
You seem like you care alot, otherwise why seek our opinion.
You seem to think we are jealous of you and use shaming language – just like a woman would.
People will tell you the truth here. Your story goes against all MGTOW principles. You espouse NAWALT and try to persuade others to accept that. Please do come back in five, ten, fifteen years and tell us how it went for you.
If you were close to suicide that is a terrible place to be but happiness with women is fleeting and male purpose must be built on other pillars, especially in light of unplanned pregnncies, false allegations etc etc, being cheated on, given stds.
If you are a man of experience it baffles me you would wilfully ignore that or threaten to beat to a pulp those who disagree. It comes across as insecure and “hot young pussy” as you put it is at best an enjoyable pleasure, at worst a venus fly trap.
We all must pursue our own happiness. I guarantee you it’s not in the arms (or legs) of a woman. Hope it works out regardless. I’d love to be wrong here but much experience has taught me otherwise.If you fall down 7 times, get up 8
Enjoy your Fortnite, Call of Duty, or whatever other pathetic waste of time you had planned today.
Looking back over my marriage, I would say time spent trying to make women (temporarily) happy is more of a waste than any gaming I’ve done. And at far greater cost. I think I’ll do some paper work, hike some trails, putter with machines in the garage, and THEN play some games in the evening. And I will enjoy it.
Keep in mind, unless your marriage goes better than the majority of others, it will eventually be a different guy waking her up with his c~~~. It’s how it is and it’s just how they are. My ex wife was infatuated with me and super horny for many years. Far more so than a lot of other guy’s experiences I read online. A bad enough illness or other event, and it’s off to a different “love of her life”.
I only say this for the newbies that may happen to be browsing this site.
You’re tossing up more flags than THE NORTH KOREAN ARMY!!! Dude…it’s not a matter of being “anti-women”…it’s a matter of SPOTTING AND DENOUNCING BLUE PILL behaviors and knowing what NOT to do!!!
4 divorces…boasting abuse by 1000 women…and going for a marriage to a white trash story…who lost custody of her kids…is a story for Corey Wayne…a story for Facebook or Twitter! You’ll get the most support there…but not on MGTOW!
It’s like saying “I had 4 DWI’s…but I’m headed to the bar tonight” thinking the outcome will be different!!!!
It’s like lighting striking 4 times in the same place…not realizing a LIGHTNING ROD IS THERE!
Dude…this is a classic case of a female narcissist “LOVE BOMBING YOU!”
She tells you she’s crazy about you EVERY 10 minutes…it’s not healthy!You are already dead on arrival
Anonymous12a Man who has no life except for his wife.
a man who would shoot himself through the brain if he is alone and with no wife.
…on a MGTOW forum.
Nah.
fake news.TL;DR after the “I used to be a real pussy beggar” line….cus you still are! It don’t matter what she is today…it matters what she will *be* in a year, 2,3 or 5 years from now. She will be your worst nightmare. But…you deserve it. You are weak and worthless. Married 5 times and still didn’t learn? Go f~~~ yourself…..before she does!
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