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Hey guys. Haven’t had much to say lately, so I just haven’t said anything. I am posting this, knowing some of you will be quick to rush to judgement. But this site is supposed to be about helping men, and this post may just be what some men, especially young ones need to hear. I still believe there are a few decent women out there, and this might help someone who like me, just could not give up hope for a good relationship. Maybe this post will be deleted, because it isn’t all “anti female.” But there is wisdom in this post for those who seek it. Please read on.
I am 44 years old, and a couple of weeks ago I married a drop dead gorgeous 21 year old girl. She was everything I had ever wanted in a woman. Despite the age difference, she seems to be crazy about me. She tells me she loves me every 10 minutes, and she tells everyone she talks to how happy she is with me. Curvy, but with a muscular build, smart, funny, sweet, and she is the ideal 1950s housewife. She cooks, (although it isn’t always great, she is young and learning though), she cleans, and I just woke her up for sex at 4am, with no complaints from her. Banged her twice and then let her go back to sleep. I get a hand job anytime I ask, my clothes washed, and pretty much anything else I ask for. So far, after her living with me for a month, I don’t have a single complaint. Sure, it annoys me a bit having her clothes all over the place. I have lived alone for awhile and got used to things being a certain way. But she picks them up eventually. I had to get used to having my sink covered in makeup and hair stuff. But other than a few minor things, I can’t find a flaw about her. There are always gonna be little things that get on your nerves when you live with anyone, no matter who it is, so you have to be a little forgiving.
For those still reading, you may not believe me, and that’s fine. But I have nothing to gain by posting this. You’ll probably say it won’t last, and maybe it won’t. But I am simply not the type to live alone. Some people are just fine living by themselves, but I knew that I could never be happy that way. I was drinking a ridiculous amount of alcohol, staying stoned all the time, and fairly suicidal before I met her. And now, 6 weeks later, I am happier than I have ever been in my life. I would much rather give this marriage a chance than drink myself to death or blow my brains out living alone, and that is just what would have happened.
But let me tell you gents, the journey to get here was absolutely BRUTAL and not for the faint of heart. I have been lied to, cheated on, punched, kicked, and generally mistreated in one way or another by thousands of women. No, that is not an exaggeration, or any kind of bragging about my sexual escapades. It is the literal truth. I’ve been married 4 times prior, lived with about 20 women over the years, ranging from 2 weeks to 3 1/2 years, been on hundreds of dates, and talked to thousands of women via phone, text, or email in my search for the one. Any man with sense would have given up years ago, but I am stubborn when I want something. But each one of these women I encountered, made the list of things I did NOT want in a woman grow longer. But it also helped me to define what I did want.
And so did MGTOW. I am very appreciative of the info I found here. It all helped me to see this picture clearly, and figure out a way around the trap. And here is how I did it.
First, I stopped letting women walk on me. I was a total simp back in the day. A real pussy beggar. I would put up with anything for sex. But that all changed a few years ago, as I gained confidence and wisdom. Since then, I have told some really, and I mean REALLY hot women to go f*** themselves. And each time I did that, my self confidence went up a notch. I stopped pandering to fake, stuck up women just because they were hot. I stopped putting up with being ghosted, lied to, ignored, or played. I started giving them ONE chance… and only one. If they p~~~ed me off or disrespected me one single time, I was out the door. When they ignored my texts for 3 days…. then wanted to hook up on day 4, I told them to kiss my ass. When they wouldn’t put down their phone on a date with me, I paid for my half of the ticket and walked the f*** out. I demanded respect. I demanded that they focus on me. If I dated a woman with kids, I demanded that she make time to talk to me on the phone, and see me in person. And if they didn’t…… NEXT!!!!
Women today are truly terrible. And I completely agree that 99.9999999999% of them are absolutely worthless. But we as men must share some of the blame, because we have allowed them to become that way. It is no secret that most women can not support themselves financially or manage their resources well enough to survive. And that is where we have the upper hand. This is the key to the whole mess. We must stop giving them ANYTHING unless they deserve it. That means no hookers, no sugar babies, and no free meals…. unless they are showing you the respect and attention that you deserve. Don’t be afraid to pay your half of the bill and walk out on a date. Nothing illegal about that. Stand up for yourself. If all men stood together, and cut off resources from females, women would get their act together or starve to death real quick. The mangina beta wallets (I used to be one) are at the root of this problem. Paul Elam makes some great points about all this in his youtube videos. Men must STOP giving anything, including our time, attention, and resources, to self centered women with poor behavior. WE as men, must hold them accountable for their actions, and if they refuse to correct their s~~~ty behavior, WALK THE F*** AWAY! No pussy is worth giving away your self esteem to be walked on like a doormat. But if you want a really good woman, you have to make enough to support them. We have been the breadwinners in our species for thousands of years, because we were bigger, stronger, and in my opinion, smarter. If you expect a woman to assume her traditional role, you have to assume yours as well. There is nothing wrong with a female of any species seeking a male that can provide safety and security. That isn’t gold digging. That is just nature and reality. There is a difference between a woman wanting a nice home to live in, or just wanting jewelry and expensive clothes. You can’t expect to snag a hot woman that f***s like a porn star if you are the night manager at Taco Bell, and living in your parent’s basement. But if you are willing to work hard, and realistic about your expectations, you can find a meaningful relationship with a female when your SMV is at it’s peak. Several of my friends found their wives after 40, and are very happy. But you’re a fool if you don’t think your income and assets should or will play a part in that.
So after meeting all those useless women I dated, my radar was pretty impressive. I could spot a gold digger a mile away. I could see through those lies when they batted those eyelashes at me. Yes, I got fooled a few times over the last few years, and got hurt pretty good, but I learned to see women for what they were, and move on if I wasn’t satisfied. But then I met HER. I knew she was the one when we were making out in my kitchen, and we knocked over my beer. I grabbed some paper towels, but she took them away from me and said “that’s woman’s work.” I was shocked. You won’t hear that from women these days, especially not one that young. Later she said that she knew she better learn to cook when she was young, so she could get a good man. (Wow) She waits on me hand and foot. When I am working at my desk, she will come and pick up my beer to see if it is empty, and gets me another one if it is. She thinks feminism is ridiculous, and she can’t stand other women, because she knows what they are like. She is a true NAWALT. She is very, very different than most women these days. And there are very specific reasons why that you should understand here:
She was raised by her Grandmother (old school values and thinking)
She didn’t have internet until she was 15 years old.
She grew up in a small, rural community in Appalachia (living in a run down trailer with her grandma and several other people)
She grew up poor (everything she owned fit in the back seat of my car)
Several years ago I made the statement that I needed to find a poor country girl who was raised by her grandmother, and I finally did. She appreciates even the smallest things I do for her. In my experience, women with their own money and a career are the worst, absolutely intolerable. But here are some details on the financial end of all this. You young guys should pay special attention here.
First I protected myself. I placed everything I own in my daughters name a few years back. I trust my daughter 1 million percent, we are very, very close. I did not want her to deal with the BS of an estate when I die. So I gave her everything. This also protects me from divorce rape, and ensures my assets stay in the family. It also protects me in case my business were to get sued. I have had a vasectomy, and my income is mostly cash and impossible to prove. So child support and alimony are off the table. The new wife knows all the above, and she knows she won’t get a dime if we divorce. I covered my ass well. I know some of this is not possible for all of you to do, but for God’s sake, at least get a prenup, and get a damn good one.
Now here is the other part to understand financially. The new wife does not work, and I don’t want her to. I like that she has time and energy to take care of things at home, which allows me to focus on work. But guys, if you want this kind of arrangement, you have to learn to make enough money to support a woman completely. I worked my ass off for 25 years in construction to get where I am now.
You younger guys probably will not be able to support a woman this way. I couldn’t either back then. So you may have to accept that you, like a lot of my friends and other men, won’t find a happy marriage until you are in your 40’s. That is when your earning potential is highest, and being a provider is still a man’s job in my opinion. But my wife’s work around the house IS her job, so I give her $200 a week to spend on herself and her daughter. She has a daughter from a previous relationship that lives with the father. (Long story, but the kid’s dad’s parents are loaded, and they know influential people in their small town, so the dad got custody) Fine by me. The little girl visits now and then, no big deal. If my wife did not have a child, she would probably want one, and as I said, I am shooting blanks…. so I would rather it just be this way. We have plenty of time to ourselves to do whatever we like. I feel like I am getting a great deal. I used to spend more than $200 a week on hookers or sugar babies anyway. This way I get a clean house, meals cooked, laundry done, and all the sex I can stand…. no joke. I call that a bargain. If it stays this way, I will be one happy man.
So I guess I won’t be posting here anymore, since I am not exactly MGTOW. I have no doubt that some of you will have some nasty things to say and that’s fine. But I am thankful to MGTOW for giving me the b~~~~ to stand up for myself, and remain single until I found someone truly deserving this time. I will however, post each year on our anniversary, to let you know how things turn out. Maybe this post will help someone out there to find their happiness as well. Take care guys.Good Luck sir. Check back in every now and then and let us know how things are going.
Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
That is a massive wall of text to describe a simple humble unicorn.
Thanks for sharing brother. Best of luck. I wish you and your wife well.
To me, MGTOW is going your way, and if choosing this path is your way, then that is MGTOW to me. I am hopeful some responses here can give you some very practical information about how you can maximise your safety and protection in this life you have chosen.
Being a MGTOW monk, I do not have anything to offer except my best wishes.
Hiding assets in other names doesn’t work actually. Remember family court is sort of civil, it doesnt require beyond reasonable doubt proof. If they slightly think it’s yours they can make you pay, even if it isn’t actually yours, and there are forensic accountants whose sole job is to determine that.
You’re really to early in to claim unicorn status. It’s fairly normal for the relationships to go well early on. Hit us back in 5-10 years when the sex fueling love chems wear off.
Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.
Anonymous12see you in a couple months.
In the newspapers under the suicide section.I am 44 years old, and a couple of weeks ago I married a drop dead gorgeous 21 year old girl. She was everything I had ever wanted in a woman. Despite the age difference, she seems to be crazy about me.
The question isn’t “what can we say to help?”.
The question is “what could go wrong?”.
Answer, “Everything”. Murphy’s law.
You are beyond help of other men. You are in the blue pilled, I think there are Unicorn’s “Married Zone”…dum dum dum dummmm.
lol.
The only hope you have is to mitigate further damage. Translation: Do Not Have Children. I mean she’s young and you can wait 15 years to make that weighty decision.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
Enjoy the plantation.
The question isn’t “what can we say to help?”.
The question is “what could go wrong?”.
Answer, “Everything”. Murphy’s law.
You are beyond help of other men. You are in the blue pilled, I think there are Unicorn’s “Married Zone”…dum dum dum dummmm.
lol.
The only hope you have is to mitigate further damage. Translation: Do Not Have Children. I mean she’s young and you can wait 15 years to make that weighty decision.Hahahahaha Puff you are not holding back at least….
He still doesn’t feel the noose around his neck tightening with each decision he makes with this little Trojan horse, it will be fun once the legal justice system hangs him and shakes him off like a Pinata for everything he has, At that point he might return to tell us what 90 percent of men tell us here almost daily.
I am 44 years old, and a couple of weeks ago I married a drop dead gorgeous 21 year old girl. She was everything I had ever wanted in a woman. Despite the age difference, she seems to be crazy about me. She tells me she loves me every 10 minutes, and she tells everyone she talks to how happy she is with me.
If it stays this way, I will be one happy man.So I guess I won’t be posting here anymore, since I am not exactly MGTOW. I will however, post each year on our anniversary, to let you know how things turn out.
At 21 I don’t believe she’s matured enough to know what she wants for the rest of her life. I would think there’s a good chance she will eventually decide that she’s tired of playing housewife. As she gets older she will want more than just cooking, cleaning and pleasing her man. Things may stay this way for years, but eventually, she will turn; she will change.
I understand that some men don’t like living alone. I also agree with you that if you want to live with a woman, the man should take care of her and she should see to his wants and needs…………but the type of society where this works properly is no more. I don’t judge you for wanting this. Who wouldn’t want a hot young girl who behaves as she should? However, it’s a messed up world we live in these days and that hot young girl will be changed by it and it will mess her up. For your sake, I hope not, but I believe it cannot last with society being what it is.
As I said, I understand you not wanting to live alone, but why did you have to marry her? Why make that legal bond? You say you have protected yourself so it doesn’t matter, but I still don’t see the purpose of getting married when she could just move in and live with you without that nonsense.
I would prefer more frequent updates as I am curious what the future holds for this relationship. I wish you the best and I’m glad that you’re happy. Sure does sound good, so enjoy it while it lasts.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
WOW !!
All I can say is GOOD LUCK with ALL THAT !!!
Hopefully, you’ll get a couple/few ‘good” months/years ????????
WOW !!!!!
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Anonymous12sweetdaddy
DOM
420too much paying the whore
too much spanking
and too much Pot.Hey… when a man acts against empirical evidence…
he deserves what he gets – amiriteSome people can only learn by experiencing it for themselves, and can justify anything contrary in their own minds if it means they get their desires sated.
"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.
Just saying, 21year old Unicorns don’t usually come with a child that they don’t have custody of, and a baby daddy somewhere in the not so distant past ?????
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
WOW!!! What a f~~~ing mess your dick got you into dude.
I hope you come out of this with your sanity intact.Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist
What, you don’t think 90 percent of the guys who are on here after having gone thru a deteriorating marriage and divorce rape were not thinking, feeling, and expressing the same thing as you’ve just expressed…….when the relationship started.
First of all she is very young, and hasn’t had many life experiences. Young women tend to over-dramatize the depth and breath of their love, as they are easily swept away with emotions, haven’t had a lot of experience with relationships, and live in the moment.
Women that fall so quickly and so deeply in love, fall out of love just as quickly and with as much conviction.
You say she doesn’t work and you don’t want her too. Good, because…… come what will come what might……. you are now supporting this girl the rest of your life. No matter whose c~~~ she’s riding or whose dinner she making. You’ll still be paying.
Fresh faced 21 year olds…….so very very deeply in love, don’t stay fresh faced for ever. They become post wall 40 year olds.
And they often un-love you just as fast and with just as much vigor and force as they once professed to love you with.
Mainly you seem unaware of the danger you have put yourself in.
How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.
I sincerely wish you the best. I hope you actually caught a unicorn. I don’t wish ill will on anyone. Please do check in from time to time and let us know how it’s going. Not because we are waiting to say I told you so. It either works out for you and all is good, or it doesn’t and can help educate guys as to how relationships evolve. Either way it’s an education for men reading the boards.
Order the good wine
This isn’t going to end well.
Sincerely,
-your future self.Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...
Can’t spend time reading the account of a 4 time divorced man. The definition of insanity applies here. Doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. This will not end well. Obviously, the time you spent exploring manosphere content did not help you. You threw up the red pill.
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