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When I first read this, I was like everyone else- One hell of a red flag. I don’t know the woman. I can see situations were a young woman sees a way out of 5 kids in a trailer park with a husband that makes minimum wage life. If he is smart and rides the train right she will be his for life.
Wishful thinking………………
Ya’all seem to forget something: It’s not just about him(his attitude/actions), it is about hers , and others as well.he;s 40’s ; she’s 21
he’s 4 times on the merry-go-round; its her first ride and she doesn’t even know there’s a brass ring, others on the ride, and she can get off anytime she wants without consequence.
he’s happy getting all the pussy he wants;when he wants; she’s happy with the utility of a man that is a steady provider.
They BOTH seem to like their Ganja a little too much. (too much haze)
Wait until another man shows interest in her after a few years, or a woman to him.
or until he can no longer provide what “The Jones’ next door,” have (and SHE wants)
or until 1 day his guard is down, and the hive finally reaches his backwoods princess.Reminds me of a movie I seen with a chic about a single mommy working out in the middle of nowhere as a waitress. Her life is soooo dull/mundane and she accepts it ,……… UNTIL,………. 1 day this wealthy dude stops in for breakfast at her diner. He becomes enamoured by her and she befriends him knowing he has a lot of money. He encourages her, but the only thing she can do well is bake pies.
Long story short: he dies, and leaves her his fortune. She goes into business making pies…… nothing was ever mentioned about his past/present, but whattaaya expect ??? It was a chicflick !Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
Reminds me of a movie I seen with a chic about a single mommy working out in the middle of nowhere as a waitress. Her life is soooo dull/mundane and she accepts it ,……… UNTIL,………. 1 day this wealthy dude stops in for breakfast at her diner. He becomes enamoured by her and she befriends him knowing he has a lot of money. He encourages her, but the only thing she can do well is bake pies.
Long story short: he dies, and leaves her his fortune. She goes into business making pies…… nothing was ever mentioned about his past/present, but whattaaya expect ??? It was a chicflick !I think I saw that movie too. Doesn’t the guy come back to life and everybody who eats the pies turns into a vampire? I must have seen the Quentin Tarantino version of that story…
Reminds me of a movie I seen with a chic about a single mommy working out in the middle of nowhere as a waitress. Her life is soooo dull/mundane and she accepts it ,……… UNTIL,………. 1 day this wealthy dude stops in for breakfast at her diner. He becomes enamoured by her and she befriends him knowing he has a lot of money. He encourages her, but the only thing she can do well is bake pies. Long story short: he dies, and leaves her his fortune. She goes into business making pies…… nothing was ever mentioned about his past/present, but whattaaya expect ??? It was a chicflick !
The only movie I’ve ever seen like that was Waitress and it was a terrible chick flick. Couldn’t watch the whole thing.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
The OP has his wisdom.
I have mine.
I once read a story by someone who had hit the lottery. In it, the lottery winner explained how he chose his numbers, and bought a ticket, and eventually won. That story, like this one, was impossible for me to verify. And like this one, I gave that story the benefit of the doubt that it may well have been authentic.
But I did not go out and start gambling enormous amounts of my money buying lottery tickets. His result, even if authentic, is not realistically reproducible.
However, for this person, assuming the story is real, things may be a little different. If he would rather be dead than single, then he is in a position where he owes his life to whatever woman agrees to be with him. She saved his life. He pretty much acknowledges this. He is paying her $200 a week for it. To me, this seems suspiciously similar to the relationship a parent has with a child (who gets an allowance for being responsible for doing chores around the house). Only in this case, the chore is to keep a 40-something year old man sober and alive. That might be more responsibility than is wise to place on a 21 year old kid who you pay $200 a week.
I’m a medical doctor. And in my specialty, I’ve shouldered the responsibility of holding the lives of some very sick patients in my hands for limited periods of time. Education and training aside, I don’t think I would have been capable of reliably shouldering that responsibility at 21 years old. This is after all, just barely old enough to buy a beer. Apparently, a family court has agreed that this particular 21 year old is similarly unprepared to be responsible for the life of her own child, and has placed that child with its father. Regardless of the father’s status, that is not a small detail. There are women who are convicted felons who have not lost custody of their children. For a family court to take that step should be an enormous red flag. And subsequent to that, she has accepted a role much more akin to a child of his than a parent to her own. But he has decided that she will be the person who is charged with the responsibility for insuring that he will find his life is worth it to continue living…?
He mentions that most women cannot manage their own resources well enough to survive very well on their own without a man. I wont argue with that, based on the experience I have had with some of the women I’ve known. But he literally cannot survive at all without a woman. From the sound of it, he can be neither sober, or even alive without a woman.
If he would rather die than be single, then he has to have a woman to survive. And if he has found a woman that will allow him to survive, then good for him. He gets to live one more day.
Personally, I do not need a woman to survive. In fact, I have been through divorce court once, and have decided that NO woman has anything to offer me that is so valuable that I would be willing to EVEN RISK repeating that trip back through divorce court in order to get it. I would much rather die alone than have even the risk of repeating that experience. But for the OP, he would rather die than not take that risk.
To the OP: you survive (for now) at the mercy of a 21 year old woman. We here at MGTOW have survived the best efforts of much more capable women who were fully intent on destroying us. Hence you are married (because you have to be), and we are MGTOW (because we choose to be). I wont fault you for being married if it’s what you need to do to survive. But ask yourself: why that is so? Why is it impossible for you to survive without a woman, when so many other men do so just fine? Perhaps if you look, you might find a reason to live that is from within yourself, and not the result of the external acceptance and approval of someone else.
That’s my wisdom for you.
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime contract. “til death do us part. That is what is SUPPOSED to get when one marries. Its the benefit many of us thought we would get when we got married but were divorced raped instead. It is the lifetime of this contract that matters. So why is it that about every two months we get some guy, a few months or just a few years into marriage, saying he’s got a Unicorn? The proof is in the pudding. Get back to us in 30 years. If you’ve had a happy marriage and still think she’s a unicorn that would mean something.
Picking up on imickey503 analogy you are like a guy who just drove a car off the lot with 25 miles on it saying what a reliable car you’ve got. You can’t say a car you just bought and has low miles is reliable. When you’ve put 200,000 miles on it without any major work, except the usual maintenance, again you are entitled to say its a reliable car.
And you say you’ve been divorced 3 times! To continue with the analogy…. you are like a guy telling me what a great car you bought but the last three cars you bought were an Edsel, a Gremlin and a Pacer. So, you’ll forgive me if I look for advice elsewhere.
Hermit wrote:The only movie I’ve ever seen like that was Waitress and it was a terrible chick flick. Couldn’t watch the whole thing.
Yeah, I think that was the one. Twas a long time ago when I was dating. In-house movie night,…. I picked mine; this was hers. I remember wanting to leave,but instead kept rolling my eyes, praying for a power failure.
Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
Personally, I do not need a woman to survive. In fact, I have been through divorce court once, and have decided that NO woman has anything to offer me that is so valuable that I would be willing to EVEN RISK repeating that trip back through divorce court in order to get it. I would much rather die alone than have even the risk of repeating that experience.
BP:
your replies are always thought provoking and insightful. I concur with your quote above; especially the bold. I Feel it better to have been true to oneself with HONOR, and to have helped others throughout my lifetime. I will probably die like “Michael” in God Father 2 at the end, alone ……………. and MY WAY.Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
Hermit wrote:The only movie I’ve ever seen like that was Waitress and it was a terrible chick flick. Couldn’t watch the whole thing.
Yeah, I think that was the one. Twas a long time ago when I was dating. In-house movie night,…. I picked mine; this was hers. I remember wanting to leave,but instead kept rolling my eyes, praying for a power failure.Well now I’ll have to watch it just to see how bad it really is…
Some of you really need to stop and think about the venomous things you say to others on here. Please remember that men come here for help, and helping each other is the entire purpose of this site.. I have seen far too much hateful speech here directed at others, which is why I quit posting.
For those who do not think I am real, or that this is a fake story, send a private message and I will gladly provide proof. I have been called “tuna” every time I ever posted anything here that wasnt just about hating women. It gets old. I am real, and so is my entire story.
For those who are hung up on the $200 a week that I give my wife… let me remind you that I am getting my house cleaned, laundry done, and meals cooked every day. That is worth something. I would have gladly paid that to somebody’s grandma to do those things for me, and I was just about to hire a housekeeper/cook had I not met my wife. I am a successful businessman with a good income, a house and vehicle that are paid for and I do not have time or energy for cooking and cleaning. She EARNS what I give her. I make as much as $200 an hour sometimes, and it takes way more than an hour to do all the work she does here every day, so I am coming out ahead. I am probably saving at least $100 a week by not dining out as much as I was. Not to mention I get whatever I want sexually anytime, day or night, with a smile. For all that, I will GLADLY pay $200 a week. You bet your ass I will.
For those worried about alimony, child support, and losing my things…. Again, I have had a vasectomy. My home and vehicle were placed in my daughters name over a year before I met my wife. I trust her completely, and I know damn well that my wife can not legally touch those things if we split up. My income is mostly cash, and there would be no way for my wife to ever prove that I make any money at all really. I can close my business at any time and open under another name. I am not an idiot. I have protected myself very, very well.
My entire reason for starting this thread was to convey a message to any young men here that might be still dating, that they should protect themselves if they ever get married, and that they should not tolerate s~~~ty behavior from women. Also, I was hoping to convey that IF a guy is going to date, he should be looking for a female from a rural area who doesnt have a whole lot, and might actually appreciate a man that can offer a better life. Just passing along 25 years of dating experience. That’s it. Period. I dont need any validation from anonymous people that I will never meet in real life. Some of you need to grow up a bit.
For those that doubt it will last, you dont see the way she giggles when I touch her. Or how she told me she loved me 5 times in 10 minutes when we woke up this morning. You dont see how she brags about me to her friends and family. You dont see how mature she is because she had no choice but to grow up quickly in her environment. You dont see how she waits on me, or the 100 little things she does every day to make my life a hell of a lot easier. You dont see how she says “thank you” for every little thing I buy her. I am telling you…. this one is special. I’ve known enough bitches to know that she is very different.
So…. I will report back every few months, and let you all know how it goes. I will be honest about the outcome, as I have been honest about everything else so far. I do not believe that the bridge between men and women is impossible to repair. I simply believe that women will change when men start walking away from s~~~ty behavior, and stop giving resources to women that do not act appropriately. That’s my 2 cents. Take it or leave it.Get back to us in 30 years. If you’ve had a happy marriage and still think she’s a unicorn that would mean something.
Not long enough. I made it to 30 years, in the end that was meaningless to her. You’re never safe unless you’re fortunate enough to achieve the sweet relief of death, as Al Bundy used to say.
The longer it goes, the more it hurts, financially and emotionally. I would think OP has some pretty good callouses by now, having 3 under his belt. He’ll survive it. Pity to waste the time though.
Best of luck to you. I think the skepticism comes from their experiences and your acknowledged failed previous relationships. I’ll never hope for another man to fail. I do know for sure that I am not the same person I was 10 years ago, and my starting point was 36, not 21. She’s bound to go through similar significant changes.
It sounds like you’ve covered your ass pretty well. I’ll be hoping to see happy updates from you periodically.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
I fell too hard and much too deep in love with you
I let you come and go at will it seems
You’re back again this time you say forever
But I wonder just how long forever means
How long is forever this timesource: https://www.lyricsondemand.com/w/willienelsonlyrics/howlongisforeverlyrics.html
I have been fortunate to have a Thia chick with a Thia stick that said se would love me long time.
It is only yours when your in her. If you write a popular country song telling how stupid you are.The coppy rights may get some of your money back.
But the old school definition of alimony” the f~~~ing you get ,for the f~~~ing you got” will say it allWishing you the best too. I can see why people are being cynical, and I’m inclined to agree with them that this probably won’t work out well, but we’re all different and as you say, you’ve taken steps to protect yourself.
For me, the thing which stands out in your first post is this:
I would much rather give this marriage a chance than drink myself to death or blow my brains out living alone, and that is just what would have happened.
No-one here wants you to blow your brains out, man. I think a lot of us here are pretty comfortable with our own company, and there’s something to be said for everyone working on that, but everyone is different and some people crave company more than others. I might suggest getting a dog instead–endless affection without many of the downsides of a marriage–but you know yourself best and I think what you’ve got now is probably better than being dead.
One other thing: I’ve a fair bit of experience with women that age, and I think one of the biggest risks of her changing comes from technology. Sooner or later she’s gradually going to see stuff online, talk to people, connect with the hive, and assimilate a lot of the bulls~~~ she’s not grown up with. That I think is the most likely reason she’ll stop being the sweet girl she is now and turn against you. Unless you go full-on Amish and live without any internet, there’s not much you can do about that. Just worth bearing in mind.
Good luck and check back in sometime, will be good to hear how you’re doing.
There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.
But I truly have nothing to lose. My life before was empty, meaningless, and pointless.
And you think that you can fill an internal void with external things? Remember, the whole concept of a relationship is to find someone (or thing) that is complimentary to your existence, not supplementary.
I have been through enough women to know that this one is different.
I don’t know about that, usually the more familiar you become with woman, the more you realize they are all the same. The concept of a Unicorn is akin to having ‘One dick to rule them all”, it simply doesn’t exist. SEE Hugh Hefner…
Since I was about 8 years old, I have only really wanted 1 thing. To be happily married.
Again, going all Tuna on us. I wouldn’t go as far as to call you a bitch. I wouldn’t dare. That wouldn’t be fare. It wouldn’t be just, wouldn’t be morally correct from one man to the next. But I wouldn’t be doing you any favors by not stating that I think you have some female tendencies that you may need to examine.
So I am gonna go get some home cooked gravy and biscuits with bacon, and then bang a girl half my age with perky D cups, a Kardashian ass, and a gorgeous face. Even if it’s just for today….. I will gladly take it.
I don’t understand how this is any different from getting a woman to do the same things.. w/o the whole effect of marrying her. I just don’t..
Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...
So…. I will report back every few months, and let you all know how it goes. I will be honest about the outcome, as I have been honest about everything else so far. I do not believe that the bridge between men and women is impossible to repair. I simply believe that women will change when men start walking away from s~~~ty behavior, and stop giving resources to women that do not act appropriately. That’s my 2 cents. Take it or leave it.
I remember how awesome it was, getting into a new relationship with a hot young gal. What a great feeling……happy all the time…….couldn’t wait to see her again……wanting to spend as much time with her as I could……… Every one of them turned, like a damn zombie wanting to eat my face off. No matter how hot they were and no matter how loving they were and no matter how long it lasted, they all eventually turned like horrible, ugly zombies.
I don’t believe you’ve answered one question. Some of us have asked why you needed to get married. Why not just live with her? Why get married?
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
So…. I will report back every few months, and let you all know how it goes. I will be honest about the outcome, as I have been honest about everything else so far. I do not believe that the bridge between men and women is impossible to repair. I simply believe that women will change when men start walking away from s~~~ty behavior, and stop giving resources to women that do not act appropriately. That’s my 2 cents. Take it or leave it.
I remember how awesome it was, getting into a new relationship with a hot young gal. What a great feeling……happy all the time…….couldn’t wait to see her again……wanting to spend as much time with her as I could……… Every one of them turned, like a damn zombie wanting to eat my face off. No matter how hot they were and no matter how loving they were and no matter how long it lasted, they all eventually turned like horrible, ugly zombies.
I don’t believe you’ve answered one question. Some of us have asked why you needed to get married. Why not just live with her? Why get married?Trophy wife, paraded like a show pony.
Ok so I’m late to this thread, but upon reading the title I expected OP to post a picture of a car or something. Kind of odd to even post something like this, it makes me think he’s subconsciously seriously second guessing his wacky decisions and had to post this big justification here, on a mgtow forum of all places, to kind of get it out of his system.
Ok so I’m late to this thread, but upon reading the title I expected OP to post a picture of a car or something. Kind of odd to even post something like this, it makes me think he’s subconsciously seriously second guessing his wacky decisions and had to post this big justification here, on a mgtow forum of all places, to kind of get it out of his system.
I think he really believes he’s finally found “true love” with this “perfect girl”. His brain is high on dopamine and endorphins and life is all kittens and cotton candy right now. It will all be replaced with severe depression when the unicorn turns into a zombie and eats his face off.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Definitely. It’s just weird how being age 40 and having been in other relationships, he hadn’t seen right through this. I mean maybe if he was an incel or something he could still believe the ol’ Disney lie. Oh well. Hormones are stronger than logic for many.
Definitely. It’s just weird how being age 40 and having been in other relationships, he hadn’t seen right through this. I mean maybe if he was an incel or something he could still believe the ol’ Disney lie. Oh well. Hormones are stronger than logic for many.
Apparently, the desperation of someone who is afraid of living alone makes them ignore what happened in the past. A desperate man just doesn’t care and he’s willing to keep taking chances.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
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