How would a MGTOW handle a bully?

[Lone WolfParticipant 205]

I’d like to start off saying that I am glad that I discovered this website now as a Senior in High school, rather than discovering it MMM (middle-aged, married, & miserable). This might be a little off topic, but I’m curious on how a MGTOW might handle this type of situation.

I’ve gone to a private elementary school, a private middle school, and even a private high school, so I’ve generally been surrounded with descent people all my life. But every school still has it’s fair share of assholes. This one prick goes out of his way to attempt to dehumanize me or belittle my accomplishments solely through verbal abuse. I’m not scared of the guy, but I’m wondering how a man would handle this.

Here are the consequences I know of:

I fight back.
– If I verbally insult him, it would lead to a physical fight or an immediate verbal assault from his group of friends and a roar of laughter.
– If I kick his ass, I get suspended or maybe even expelled, but I would get the pride of knowing I stood up for myself and did not back down.

I snitch on him.
– The word would quickly pass around and before I know it, him, his friends, other students, or even the class would continue with this subtle verbal abuse that no authority could pick up on.

I ignore him.
– This would give off the impression to all my friends that I am just a pushover that lets him say/do whatever he wants to me, and that I lack the strength to hold my own.
– Yes, it might just stop the bullying, but no one will have any respect for me whatsoever.

After reading countless articles on confronting bullies, I can never find a clear answer. What would an MGTOW do?

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"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

I wanted to originally tell you to kick his ass, but this will only f~~~ up your future. You’re a senior in high school. So in a matter of a few short months all this high school s~~~ goes away forever, and you will all go your separate ways.

For the time being, do your best to ignore him and/or just tell him off as you see fit. After your finals are done, and your graduation is set, or even after graduation, then if the opportunity presents itself, and you are physically capable, then kick his ass. At this stage of the game, the school can’t do anything to harm you or your future.

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[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

F~~~ his sister….no no no just kidding. Kick his ass. Its the only solution….better to do it now then at some class reunion 30 years down the road.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

My MGTOW believe is self-preservation and living well is the best revenge.

You are looking for validation for your “ignore him option” as well as “snitch on him”. Verbal assault him does more harm than good in the future. I’ll go with ignore him for now.

[Anonymous 42]

Sticks and stones can break you’re bones so don’t ever f~~~ with me! Just kidding.

learn martial arts and you’ll be allot better off if someone ever tries to smash your skull or poke holes in it with a red Stiletto!

Not responding isn’t good when the other person thinks they can p~~~ on you at will, I’ve defended myself with words that let them know they’re in for some trouble, they back off because inside they’re fools that will learn what it’s like to get a beating or even a knife in the gut like a bully I knew when I was a kid, he was stabbed by a kid half his size and the steak knife was plunged pretty deep, try not to be the guy that teaches him a lesson, but the fact that he’s agressive toward you is because you don’t know how to mop up his ass in a split second.

learn the arts and assholes like him fear you the way you fear a venomous king cobra! There’s some pretty mean motherf~~~ers out there just learn the art of being meaner!

[SolidParticipant 7520]

My high school looked like a penitentiary, so I grew up basically in the middle of a lot of criminals.
People pick on me because I wrote down some book pages on my notebook to be able to read them in school, I was too poor to afford them, so I basically read my notes about computing during our classes, while they keep doing s~~~ty stuff. And that kind of person will pick in anyone who is different from them.

Fortunately, I look like a criminal, I’m ugly as f~~~, and I started to workout soon, so, in high school I was much more muscular then the default thugs. So I just kick their asses, I intentionally showed some extremely violent behaviour, like a psycho, just slapped them in the face for no reason, promise to kill some of them and their families, promise to kill the young brother of one of those guys who once burned my notebook.

In that episode, I get so furious and kicked his ass so hard, that I got 4 cracked ribs and I didn’t even “feel” it in that moment, he got 3 broken teeth. There is no win or lose, you have just to protect yourself showing not only to him, but to everyone who knows about what happened, that they can’t mess with you without getting into trouble.

In a fight no matter if you are skilled or not, you have to show yourself in a way that, or he kills you, or if he beats the s~~~ of you he is f~~~ed for life. There is no win in a fight, you have just to prove that they can’t mess with you and get out without any trouble. No matter their size, no matter if they beat you, because everyone’s fear a guy who is insane, no matter his size, skill, strength. The last kind of guy that I would mess in life, is a guy who has nothing to lose and is willing to do whatever it takes to crush everyone who crosses his way.

Show yourself as someone who would remove his eye with a bite, that even if he kicks you ass, you will stab him in the back in a dark street when he pass by, and you are safe. It’s not about who you are, it’s about what those guys think of you. I’m completely normal, I would NEVER beat a kid, but it’s like prison, if you don’t show what happens if people don’t respect you, those thugs will never respect you. In prison, if a guy “challenges” you and you don’t face it, you lose your respect, and in that place is the only thing that you have. In real world isn’t different, my uncle did some time in jail, he told me several stories about that place, and well, didn’t change too much for my school.

Those kind of guys only respect who they fear, or who they need, don’t hangout with criminals, put them away. Several guys who were little thugs in school, now are in jail here, you don’t want to end up like those guys.

Another thing, don’t do the “gang” thing, because if some guy who once helped you get into trouble, you are in trouble too, and some guys just seek trouble all the time. Be responsible only by the s~~~ you do, don’t get into any gang or something like that.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Bullies are cowards deep down inside but your a senior in school, but if you fought him outside of school grounds… call his bluff don’t snitch won’t work. I would call him out on his bs remember bullies are cowards they only pick on the weak.

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[Anonymous 42]

Solid wrote:

Show yourself as someone who would remove his eye with a bite,

How do you bite out an eyeball? I never heard of that one! planting an elbow deep in the socket and breaking the cheek bone is my favorite way of destroying and eye and some other s~~~ too depending on the strike angle, but chewing an eye out of it’s socket is like trying to chew the meat out of the crotch of a T bone!

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

“Stop, please, don’t do that… come on man, you’re giving me an erection! Stop it!”

Some comedian came up with that and I wonder if it helps 😀

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[hmskl’dParticipant 6405]

High school is a weird prison where people are forced to co-exist and many of your peers (both male and female) are still immature idiots, many of whom will wander off into oblivion after graduation. When I think back at high school and how everything at that time seemed so important .. it’s amazing how very tiny the entire experience was/is in the grand scheme of things. High school is basically a wasted four years for some, I see no reason why it even exists between junior high and freshman college courses with technical training. I mean the first few semesters of college are basically a repeat of high school at a slightly faster but very manageable pace .. with the bonus of freedom to do your own thing and set you own way; total freedom which high school does’t offer.

[Anonymous 0]

Awakened wrote:

I wanted to originally tell you to kick his ass, but this will only f~~~ up your future.

What he said. I would like you to kick his ass except that my son is going through a world of s~~~ right now from a fake domestic violence charge from a c~~~. He got it pled down from multiple felonies to a misdemeanor battery. Even that minor battery conviction is f~~~ing with him. He’s been denied minimum wage jobs for that. Also, some apartments run a background check before renting to you. That will stay with you forever. You’ll never be able to get into Canada with that, probably. There are some other issues with it that I just can’t recall at the moment.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Lone Wolf wrote:

I’m not scared of the guy, but I’m wondering how a man would handle this.

Laugh at him next time he belittles you. Just kind of a inside joke chuckle. If he asks what’s so funny, just shake your head and say, “Nothing. You just reminded me of something.” Keep it vague, but sell the amusement. Continue it as needed.

By the way, nice work finding this while you’re in HS. Apply these principles as you move through adolescence and adulthood. They will save you a world of headaches.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 0]

Learn martial arts and take down moves so you can easily throw him on the ground without hurting him or you.

One time in high school this kid pushed my bag on the floor, the second my bag hit the floor I gave him two black eyes. It worked perfectly. I ended up getting a 2 day suspension, but it was worth it.
I don’t care to live in a world where I can’t defend myself.
he did what he could to get a reaction, so I gave him a reaction, he had his fun I had mine.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

If you want to handle a bully you first have to understand why it is that he bullies people. (I say he because the only method for handling a female bully is to avoid her).

Bullies pick on the weak in order to make themselves feel strong… because they are themselves weak on the inside. To defeat a bully, give them a method to become strong that doesn’t involve denigrating someone else.

The best way to defeat your enemy is to make him your friend.

[Joey CusackParticipant 1044]

Learn some basic fighting skills (if you have not already) be sure to include some basic grappling – Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I presume the bully, like most, can’t really fight.

Find him outside of school hours when he is alone with no other witnesses around. You have a friend with you to take video.

Beat his ass. However, and this is where grappling comes in, don’t mark him up to avoid physical evidence. Choke his ass unconscious and p~~~ on his face while he is sleeping. Rub your dick across his lips, etc. Then edit your face from the video.

Tell him that from now on he will ignore you or you will put the video on social media (world star!)

Now go forth young man and enjoy your high school years.

[Anonymous 24]

When I was young I would beat the s~~~ out of them. Now? Avoid them at all costs, push me far enough though and I may come for you in the dark of the night.

[BobbyParticipant 140]

Ask the bully if he dislikes you so much, why he is always giving you so much attention? Tell him if he dislikes you so much, he should just ignore you. Tell him he seems obsessed by you. To prove he is not obsessed with, tell him he should ignore you.

[BobbyParticipant 140]

Or just go up to him real close, look him in the eye and tell him to leave you alone.

[bladeParticipant]

A senior in high school . How old are you t i mean bro ?

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