how to avoid the temptations?

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

Hello,

First of all Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all of you and your family and have great New Year. May 2017 bring all happiness to all of your kind brothers. now new to MGTOW and bule pill dude here and want how to avoid the temptations of female? I want actual methods from people done it and had some success. See i go alone and chill and then my mind wants pussy and want sex and want female company. endless battle and not worth it because every time i go behind pussy i waste time and nothing good comes of it. so i want to figure a way to end this cycle of flip flops.

Thank you very much
Air

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

This method has not failed me:

1. Get a fleshlight
2. Ejaculate inside
3. Swallow a redpill
4. Repeat until the urges are gone

I guarantee that this will work for you.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

This method has not failed me:

1. Get a fleshlight
2. Ejaculate inside
3. Swallow a redpill
4. Repeat until the urges are gone

I guarantee that this will work for you.

I have no idea what these steps are to be honest except number 2 lol
Thanks

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Airbander wrote:

007 wrote:

This method has not failed me:

1. Get a fleshlight
2. Ejaculate inside
3. Swallow a redpill
4. Repeat until the urges are gone

I guarantee that this will work for you.

I have no idea what these steps are to be honest except number 2 lol
Thanks

I will elaborate

1. A fleshlight is a sex toy that looks and feels exactly like a vagina. It eliminates the need for a woman.

3. A red pill is a metaphor for basically any type of information that reveals the true nature of reality. In this particular situation, information that shows you that women are parasitic and manipulative if you get sexually involved with them. Good examples of redpills are browsing the MGTOW forums and watching MGTOW youtube videos. Some good redpill channels are sandman, barbarosa, and raging golden eagle. I can’t stress this enough. If you want to go MGTOW, you have to swallow red pills on a DAILY BASIS. Otherwise, you’ll slip up. Trust me on this one.

4. Follow steps 1-3 whenever you get the urge and you will be free.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Airbander wrote:

First of all Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all of you and your family and have great New Year. May 2017 bring all happiness to all of your kind brothers

Right back to you. What a thoughtful opener.

Airbander wrote:

avoid the temptations of female?

Don’t pay ANY attention to what she “says”.
Only pay attention to what she DOES.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh

Personally, my experiences have led me to control my desires and that reduces “temptations”.
What I could have, had I not spent so much money and time allowing myself to fall for “temptations”.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Keymaster wrote:

Airbander wrote:

First of all Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all of you and your family and have great New Year. May 2017 bring all happiness to all of your kind brothers

Right back to you. What a thoughtful opener.

Airbander wrote:

avoid the temptations of female?

Don’t pay ANY attention to what she “says”.
Only pay attention to what she DOES.

SPOT ON!

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

When you feel horny do some weight-lifting. It can be as satisfying as sex and you’ll end up with more to show for it. Don’t just take my word for it. ..

30 secs to 1.30 is the important bit.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[Anonymous 43]

pussy is squishy for the first 1/2 inch, and a disease ridden garbage disposal grinder the rest of the way.

You still want to put yer doinkus in that ?

[Anonymous 0]

You may want to read up on PUA (it’s kind of a subset of MGTOW). Check out this old post: /forums/topic/glad-ive-found-you-guys/#post-374942

If you can’t turn the temptations off, at least you can make sure they don’t trap you.

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

Don’t pay ANY attention to what she “says”.
Only pay attention to what she DOES.

This is truth. As I get older, I run everything through this process.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[AttonParticipant]

I want actual methods from people done it and had some success.

Trick your brain that simple.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

I usually don’t have this problem(and I’m a loner). But I’ve been struggling the last year.
As for pure sex-drive, you can get that to a manageable level.
I agree with masturbating. It’s especially effective without using visuals (cause it’s not as fun, but releases desire). I’m not sure about the fleshlight. Wouldn’t that just remind you of actual sex? You wanna shift away from those thoughts and get into hobbies, and more fulfilling recreation (exercise, sports, music)

For me, I’m reminded of sex from TV and internet. So limit the internet; esp social media (the mix of Youtube and porn has been a disaster for me in 2016, so I cut way back.

As for TV, turn down the color(B&W for best results)
My high sex drive led me to an epiphany: I upgraded the screen-size of my TV a couple years ago. You can almost feel all that flesh that women like to show us. (PS – I can’t even watch CNN anymore, cause all the hot fleshy women)

As for deeper emotions than sex-drive… Visit this site when you think you want female companionship. I now think it’s all a hormonal delusion to keep us procreating.

See through their camouflage. When women try so hard to look alluring, they often trying to hide some bad stuff – on the inside.

Anonymous wrote:

If you can’t turn the temptations off

You can …or at least turn them down like a TV.

PS – Arnold actually brought that up on TV in 2003? (and WHILE running for gov of CA!) LOL it was funny. With his wife next to him, he said “Pump is better than C**” … his wife getting her hand over his mouth just after the “Cu”
I was actually going to bring that up anyway.

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[BadgerParticipant 2277]

My motto has always been: “Lead me not into temptation. I can get there on my own.”

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Carbo Raider – I agree – cutting back on porn is a must. I would say my sex drive reduced by around 50% when I cut it out. It’s like any vice the more you have it the more you want it so just eliminate.

However shifting thoughts away to other activities never does it for me. If the temptations of attractive women is too much, just think of 3 realities that would put you off that women standing at the bar. This really works for me;

1) Women look hot due to modern make up. Once they scrape it off they all look like s~~~. In the morning she will look horrific and her breath will still stink.
2) She may dress to impress but outside of bars and clubs she will make zero effort around you. Once in her home it will be PJ’s and tracksuits.
3) Attitude: She may look nice on the outside but when you actually get speaking her she will have bags of attitude. She won’t be interested in you but will have an agenda. She will most likely have some form of mental health problem. I have yet to meet one that isn’t somewhere on the psychosis/immaturity spectrum.

These are hard realities – if you combine all 3…. well that fit chick at the bar is now actually a repulsive troll. Walk away and find something else to do with your free time. I am finding exercise and clean living a good antidote. When I have more time and money then I intend to start some hobbies.

If though you simply cannot live without sex then every once in a while perhaps treat yourself to a high class hooker to get that fix but leave it at that. I personally just wouldn’t bother.

Finally don’t flirt with the opposite sex – you are putting yourself at unnecessary risk.

As for female companionship – avoid, avoid, avoid. Throw yourself into work and get a dog. They can be fiercely loyal. Female companionship will end up with her staying over. You will then have to put up with 1, 2 & 3 on a daily basis and will engage in all sorts of activities that you have no interest in. The whole companionship thing is a slippery slope as she will work on you to turn it into a relationship. You are thinking sex – she is thinking 10 moves ahead. Just avoid in the first place.

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

All good stuff, Northern Soul.
“slippery slope”
That’s what I was thinking. That term is used a lot in my health/diet community. I’ve been able to eat super clean for many years. Speaking of living clean, what are you doing in a bar? 🙂 …not a place to go if you’re avoiding vices.

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[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Ha ha yes good point. All my friends and family still go to pubs/bars regularly and I often join them. I just use the excuse that I have to drive to avoid the booze.

That said, this time of year my clean living goes out the window. Gotta treat yourself once a year. But back on track again after tonight. Then back to work. Just had 2 weeks off and it’s been bliss. Roll on 2017.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

I’ve been a ghost for over a decade now so I know what I am talking about.

Follow these steps:

1. Don’t socialize!
It’s a waist of time and it will draw you into the socially controlled group consciousness.
Only hang out with other mgtow or stay in solitude.

2. Stay away from sensual stimuli: porn and interactions with hot women

3. Exercise and eat healthy.
Certain foods will stimulate your sex drive. Avoid eggs, excessive protein, sugar, alcohol, drugs and cigarettes.

4. Make yourself unattractive to women.
Now there are plenty of ways to do this:

– cultivate bad hygiene: eat garlic, stop washing or combing your hair, shower less

– dress bad: unfashionable clothing is a real turnoff for women, wear old, dirty and outdated shoes, they hate that

– develope annoying character traits: women like men who are socially controlled, so you want to be rude and maladjusted

Developing an undesirable character is the most important!

Let me elaborate:

Women do not think like men. Their psychology is different.

When I decided to go full monk I changed my diet, I stopped socializing, I didn’t cut, comb or wash my hair for years!!, I ate loads of garlic, I wore socks and sandals.
And there were still women that approached me!

What I then discovered was that if you really want to chase them away you don’t have to change your looks – you have to change your behaviour.

Rude and socially unadjusted mem are a huge turnoff!
This is harder then it sounds because we are trained from childhood to behave and to please.

The good things are that once you manage to change your character to something women find repulsive

– you can go back to dressing normal and washing yourself.

– you have an unconscious defense system because it is hard to change character traits at a whim. so if for some reason a woman manages to weave her web around you and you fall for her charms, once she gets to know you better, she’ll feel repulsed by your rude, unpleasant manners.
This can be a real lifesaver if you ever get blindsided.

Monk

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Meister wrote:

Follow these steps:

1. Don’t socialize! It’s a waist of time

(agreed)

4. Make yourself unattractive to women.
– cultivate bad hygiene: stop combing your hair, shower less
– dress bad: unfashionable clothing is a real turnoff for women, wear old, dirty and outdated shoes, they hate that

This has worked for me my whole life … and I wasn’t really TRYING. (well, I probably was subconsciously. I feared a social life)

Meister wrote:

Rude and socially unadjusted mem are a huge turnoff!

Now this has confused me. I’ve heard on this site (or on reddit/mgtow) that most women gravitate to rudeness/men who seem to care less whether women like them.

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[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Carbo Raider wrote:

Meister wrote:

Follow these steps:

1. Don’t socialize! It’s a waist of time

(agreed)

4. Make yourself unattractive to women.
– cultivate bad hygiene: stop combing your hair, shower less
– dress bad: unfashionable clothing is a real turnoff for women, wear old, dirty and outdated shoes, they hate that

This has worked for me my whole life … and I wasn’t really TRYING. (well, I probably was subconsciously. I feared a social life)

Meister wrote:

Rude and socially unadjusted mem are a huge turnoff!

Now this has confused me. I’ve heard on this site (or on reddit/mgtow) that most women gravitate to rudeness/men who seem to care less whether women like them.

Yes and no.

It’s kinda hard to explain.

In a nutshell:

Women do gravitate towards men who go their own way and don’t care whether women like them or not. That is true.
But only up to a point.

They like rude, untamed males because:

1. high testosterone = good f~~~ing

2. more importantly: they can attempt to control them

Now once you reach a level of being uncontrolable they sense that it’s the biggest turnoff there is.

That’s the state you want to attain.
Women will still approach you, but once they get to know you a bit better they will realize that you cannot be controlled, charmed and persuaded. This will confuse the s~~~ out of them.

And ag that point you will be immune against them.

It’s hard to explain. It has to be experienced.

Monk

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