how to avoid the temptations?

[nick123Participant 137]

Hello,

First of all Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all of you and your family and have great New Year. May 2017 bring all happiness to all of your kind brothers. now new to MGTOW and bule pill dude here and want how to avoid the temptations of female? I want actual methods from people done it and had some success. See i go alone and chill and then my mind wants pussy and want sex and want female company. endless battle and not worth it because every time i go behind pussy i waste time and nothing good comes of it. so i want to figure a way to end this cycle of flip flops.

Thank you very much
Air

Get your fill with a prostitute, go to a licensed establishment, pick one of your liking, pay the fee and have a great time. then go home and chill. Better this way, you get your sex and get to be free at home with no haranging c~~~.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Airbander wrote:

ee i go alone and chill and then my mind wants pussy and want sex and want female company. endless battle and not worth it because every time i go behind pussy i waste time and nothing good comes of it. so i want to figure a way to end this cycle of flip flops

First you need to know what will happen to you – not ‘may’ but ‘will’.
You will get about 4.5mins of sex that you could have done yourself.
After that you ask yourself ‘s~~~ what am I doing here?’
Because you will not have a moment’s peace after that.

Assuming she doesn’t get you arrested for arguing with her.
You will be charged with a felony and will go to prison.
Then you won’t be able to find a job except as a gang member or a rent collector.

Want me to go on? Or have you got the message bro? It will happen sooner or later if you carry on thinking this s~~~.

Listen to your lizard brain you must not. Keep busy you must. Go away the evil feelings they will.

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Meister wrote:

Women will still approach you …
It’s hard to explain. It has to be experienced.

And I haven’t experienced it, because, women have never approached me (48 years old). That has to be because of my looks. I’m not ugly or fat. If fact I’m skinny, 5’8, bad hair, and dressed like I didn’t have a chance.
I never had to change personality, because no one ever found out my ‘good’ traits. But from this site, I see that I’d just be ‘friend’ material.

Tinder: Old women looking for security-betas. Men looking for ... the same old thing (and it's getting older all the time). No sex, no people, no problems

[Carbo RaiderParticipant 82]

Northern Soul wrote:

If you simply cannot live without sex then every once in a while treat yourself to a high class hooker

You CAN live without sex. I’ve done it. And I think, going to a hooker, is like a drug addict having a binge once in a while. It just keeps it in your system.
And it’s expensive.
And when you DO find it in your system, I think it’s better to turn to porn (do you KNOW what’s online these days? I won’t go into it; I don’t wanna get it in your system. But lets just say, I don’t even watch intercourse anymore)

Tinder: Old women looking for security-betas. Men looking for ... the same old thing (and it's getting older all the time). No sex, no people, no problems

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

Good thread, one of the better ones i have read lately. Like several of the ideas and hope others keep adding to it. For me it is the ultimate question. The Lizard brain versus our MGTOW logic. Sort of the new battle of good and evil in my mind anyway. Trying to avoid the lizard brain but also wanting to indulge it. I am currently breaking free from marriage and ecstatic about the prospects moving forward. But this idea of banging or not banging is one of the main questions on my mind every day.

So I do not have the answer as i have not proven s~~~ yet. But what i am doing is;
1 – reading here every day.
2 – I have also written a list of why i am not suited for relations~~~s.
3 – I have done a bucket list of what i want to do in life and I know having a chick around would only reduce my ability to do it.
4 – I am physically building my life to reduce the attractiveness of my lifestyle to women. So small place, limited furniture, no junk. However, i have tons of things they want and i am not sure how i will handle it.
5 – I have 4 close friendships with women and all the women are awful for the guys they are with. They all want what i have and i just know that they are all just awful people. None of them give a s~~~ about me, but want my care. Sort of like how a patient wants a doctor. I think of them and it helps me because it is just more information telling me how bad women are in general.
6 – I listen to women wherever i go and remind myself how much i don’t want that in my life.

So overall it is self conditioning. There are many ways you can self condition. I am doing it in a very organized, very aware manner. I still do not know my exact plan and still do not know how successful I will be.

It is a personal process. But one that makes you much smarter and happier.

One thing i do not do though is hate. I just care for everyone as best as I can. I realize that hate has it;s value but i do not want that in my life. I want to be good to them and not f~~~ them and not sit there talking about why i won’t f~~~ them. They can figure it out for themselves.

Just my way not saying it is for you.

Let the good times roll

[Pulse.q8Participant 2]

You have to be realistic, it’s almost impossible to completely stop your mind from bringing memories or thoughts about sex. When these arousing memories come, do not be harsh on yourself, in your mind, label these moments as “thinking”, and then bring your mind back to what you’re doing, as if nothing happened. The most effective way to convince someone to do something is to be nice with them, it is no different than with yourself, you won’t have a positive outcome if you are harsh on yourself. When thoughts about sex come to your mind, don’t be afraid that you’re failing yourself, but also don’t intentionally spend a long time fantasizing. The key is to accept that it takes some effort to shift your habits. When you stop thinking and practicing sex for a long time, it’s like pushing a heavy ball up a hill, unfortunately what you’re doing is causing this ball to collect potential energy (as in physics), and if it’s not stable up there, it is bound to roll down with immense energy, going back to its equilibrium. Before you start, realize that it is a difficulty and it requires effort, otherwise, you will inevitably return to your habits.

“A noble and Godlike character is not a thing of favour or chance, but is the natural result of continued effort of right thinking, the effect of long-cherished association with Godlike thoughts. An ignoble and bestial character, by the same process, is the result of the continued harbouring of groveling thoughts.” — James Allen

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