How long did it take?

[Anonymous 7]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

I’m not surprised. Men are the actual giving and compassionate gender. It’s a little sad actually.

Yeah, you are not wrong.

A single father reared me.

At an early age I had nothing to offer egg donor, thus I was ignored.

I was not first nor was I comely. My idiot twin was comely. He can take care of the bitch. Except, he is an idiot.
Revenge is a dish best served cold -Klingon Proverb.

Today, I am all that stands between her and an old age of pain and suffering with no help or relief. Guess what she gets?

And f~~~ no, I do not feel guilty.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Oldschool wrote:

I will never get over my 17 year marriage. But instead of crying about it I am now learning from it

MoreSky wrote:

t wasn’t the relationship or lack thereof that bothered me after separation, it was regret for wasted time, anger at myself, confusion as to how it could have happened, and lack of purpose that caused the issues.

Rhino wrote:

I am sure you guys heard this before but the road to success is paved with failure.

Wow, thanks everyone for sharing. It’s a crazy one isn’t. I think May7 sad you either love them or understand them…not both.

These comments show there’ so much more going on that just a feeling of loss.

Often it’s a constant struggle, but without that we don’t grow.

NT, totally agree – without daily ‘news’ and support from this site, I’d probably be a wreck haha.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m sorry for off topic, but I want to cheer up – Arcturis, that’s f~~~ing awesome! = )

THANKS BRO!

Totally missed this sorry. xD

I am OVER THE MOON!!!

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

I was married for just over 4 years before filing for divorce. I realized after 2 years that this was failing, though I tried. We went to marriage counseling for over a year which helped me through the last 2 stages of grief; depression and acceptance.

When I filed for divorce, I was looking forward to it. I’m lucky in that regard. My overall demeanor changed and co-workers commented on how happy I seemed.

Overall, it took the last 6-12 months of marriage to mourn its loss.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 38]

My ‘first love’ that f~~~ed me over, probably six months. That was one huge red pill even though I didn’t know it at the time.
My ‘unicorn’ ex I’ll never completely get over. I mean I’m over her, not pining because the red pill cuts that s~~~ out, but I can’t help the good memories coming into my thoughts regularly.
My marriage and all the inbetweeners, days or weeks. Having just broke up with my recent GF I’m ready to stop my short term relations~~~s for a while now, perhaps indefinitely.

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Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

@hermit

That’s probably exactly how my ex feels too.

I’m not going to pin a medal on you for cheating…you said it yourself, you are a selfish prick. I’d be a hypocrite to lament c~~~ cheating, if I didn’t apply the same standard to men.

Why get into a relations~~~ if you’re just going to cheat? I have no problem with a girl I’m banging, f~~~ing other guys. Just f~~~ing tell me up front that you’re s slut. A person that allows their partner to give ALL of themselves and then jumps into the sack with someone else for immediate gratification is a piece of s~~~, man or woman.

Tell the person up front.

Yep, not saying it was right. Just telling it like it is. Funny thing is, in all the relationships I’ve ever had, I never cheated on any of them. This was the very first and only time I had ever cheated. I guess it’s just because that’s how horribly wrong we were for each other. The first time I felt extremely guilty, but as the marriage when on, I had no guilt with the way the bitch was treating me. It was what it was.

Fair play. I’ve been in relationships that were just wrong from the outset. We both knew it but no one said it. If she knew that it was f~~~ed, then you didn’t hurt her.

I was probably projecting my s~~~ on you…I meant relationships where one partner was totally invested, like I was.

It hurts to your very core man.

No problems here, man. I actually feel exactly like you when it comes to cheating. I never did it before that s~~~ty marriage. It just so happened that she deserved what she got, even though to this day she has no idea I ever cheated on her.

I think by the time the divorce came, I was so damn bitter and so absolutely done with relationships, it was all behind me and there was no problem at all with me getting over it because I was already over it and just wanted my freedom back. It was all already over long before the divorce papers were signed.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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