How Do You View & Interact With Women Now ?

[trader1913Participant 1577]

I prefer to live my life with freedom; which includes interacting with women. I act as I normally do around women except I no longer approach them for romantic reasons. I get told often by women that I would be a good catch and should be in a relationship. I tell them that I prefer to have my freedom.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Anonymous wrote:

Which means for the most part I no longer talk to them about anything.

This. Being stoic has a lot of advantages. They can’t just strike up conversations or hold them against your indifference, aloofness, and disinterest. Yet they can’t say I’m not intelligent since I can basically talk another “coded” language to my buds. Hell even my boss doesn’t know what the f~~~ I’m talking about in casual conversation if I’m talking about guns right next to him. Speak 133+, speak in meme, and speak in depth. You can’t be touched.

[Anonymous 6]

I view women as a menace.
I try to watch for any manipulation of my instincts in any interaction, no matter how small.
I’m more polite to them than I think I should be.
I’m working on that.
Gotta be careful though, with polite they think they have me under their control.
I do find however that any dishonesty on my part actually blinds me to their machinations.
Of course they are attracted to mean and threatened by equanimity which makes it tricky to make anything like a standardised approach.
So being lazy minded seems to be my biggest problem.

[OldBillParticipant]

As I’ve written many times before, polite, terse, and dismissive is the way to go.

Remain polite so they have no real cause to complain. They’ll still complain, you just shouldn’t give them any extra ammo.

Keep the conversation terse. Stick to the topic and only the topic at hand. Once that topic is over, end the conversation. The less you converse and otherwise interact with them, the less chance they can stir up s~~~.

Maintain a dismissive demeanor. Do not allow them to extend the conversation, introduce new topics, gossip, or start any “chit-chat”. End the conversation on your terms when the initial topic is over. Be Joe Friday of Dragnet and insist on “Just the facts, ma’am”.

Polite, terse, and dismissive. It hasn’t steered me wrong in decades.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I don’t interact with trollops very often because I love peace and quiet more than surround sound bitching!

[1MGTOWSpectator 301]

I remember myself being very naive when I was younger. I was thinking that I had to always talk nicely to women (even when they were wrong or offensive) just because they were… women. Highly naive!

I now talk to them like they are everybody else. I interact with women on a daily basis. Only greetings and stuff like that, no compliments or whatsoever.

[Anonymous 3]

I totally agree with Old Bill. Feigned civility,subtle disregard, take nothing they say seriously & then a tip of the hat & ” hi-ho Silver & away” Once you know the game. The game ends

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I think I am starting to just perceive them like small children. They can be cute and entertaining (from a distance) with some of the silly things they think or say or do. But I DO NOT want to be trapped on an elevator with one. I DO NOT want to have to have a real conversation with one. And I SURE AS HELL DO NOT want to be made responsible for one.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[GetaPoasParticipant 73]

Let me tell you my latest story of the search for a nawalt.

So met some Filipino girl. Friend told me ooooh non-American girls are so much different. They’re kinder, more reserved, loyal, blabber blabber blabber. What a sales pitch…

Two weeks in I already want out. Been on this ride before with a bitch who wants a husband and kids as soon as possible and doesn’t give a f~~~ if hubby kills himself over the stress. So I block her and everything. Well she knows she can’t corner me, so she goes after my naive friend knowing that’s my weakness and I’ll listen to him.

Sooo I give her a second chance.

Than a third chance.

Than a fourth.

So on and so fourth it’s the same s~~~ over and over. Now mind you I’m more aggressive and assertive with her than I’ve ever been with any other girl. In fact it was a solid six months not in a relationship prior to her which for me is an eternity.

Anyway… No amount of “game” or “alpha male posturing” is gonna stop a woman from treating you like a utility. She knows I don’t play that s~~~ from exes, she knows I hate my job and am not wasting the money I work hard for on just anyone.

This is not to say I’m just mean and abusive to her. In fact I encourage her to go out with friends, have her independence, she wants to quit her job so I said go for it and I’d help her find a new one.

Not good enough… I should be visting her by the end of next year. Which would cut big into my savings I’m using to invest. In about three years I could be making two incomes and work only half as hard. But a stupid woman’s woowoo is screaming so lets just throw reason out the wondow right?

Hell it might take four years cause my legs are giving out. I’ve got a lot of physical problems and can’t do the physical work I’m doing right now much longer. I’m in a lot of pain and limping like f~~~ing Dr.House

All she can say to me is about how selfish I’m being for not coming to see her. Despite how I don’t have to include her in my future. These are my plans, my hard work, my pain, and I’m willing to let her live with me and she’s pushing it.

All the while I told her look c~~~… I’m willing to pay to get you here, willing to help you find work, willing to even go there with my uncle, I’m not having this argument with you.

And she’s gonna give me a run around and the only reason I’ve let it go on this long is because she putsout. I don’t even have to ask and she’s always getting on cam f~~~ing herself, she always begs and apologizes, she plays that submissive harem game something fierce and she knows as an masculine male I’ll fall for it. Maybe not concisely but like Abridged Vegeta “you know…I know you’re playing me…but you’re right. >: )”

But that only goes so far. Luckily maternal instincts kick in and even my mom and aunt are suspicious of her. They figure if someone’s gonna control me It’s them lol. And even my cuck friend is regretting letting it get this far and while he still tells himself foreign chicks are little angels “she’s a shutin and that’s a big burden to ask of you…”

She’s not a shutin she’s just a tradcon. I’ve been with tradcons before. They want what they want and one way or another they’re gonna get it. She figures with me she can get out of her toilet country, have kids, make her friends back home jealous, ANNND get plowed by a Chad. What a deal! And all she has to do is put on an act of “Oh I’m so innocent but for you I’ll be a little sex slave and even though i can be a ravenous bitch I’ll say I’m sorry and get on my knees and beg five minutes later…”

I gotta admit she puts in more effort for her hypergamy than any American whale ever did but it’s just a show none the less. She’s even fumbled and admitted it when she says she’s had to swallow her pride so much for me. What pride? Over what? I’m not an idiot I just really really hate American women.

Oh and she keeps pulling the “I don’t mean to rush things but you don’t even seem concerned” IT’S BEEN LIKE THREE MONTHS NOT EVEN.

Literally there’s no way to even rush that. But ehhhh feels before reals lol. And I say this s~~~ not for sympathy but so other men, younger men than me, can see this s~~~ don’t get better. And that p~~~es me off as in life if you try ten different ways of doing something it SHOULD work

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

if you are searching for a nawalt, it’s because somewhere inside you believe that one exists.

Mistake number 1.

Pay attention here. If you go out into the world with a pocket full of cash and announce that you are willing to give up that cash in exchange for a living, breathing dinosaur, it won’t be long before someone presents you with the living, breathing dinosaur (that you already should have known are extinct). you can accept that extinction while you still have your money. Or you can accept it later after your money is gone.

That country is full of women who will get on their knees and pretend to be the girl of your dreams in exchange for a shot at your cash. Hell, if the rumors are true, there’s probably a s~~~ load of MEN in that country who will do that for a shot at your cash.

A woman, (especially one as desperate as the one you describe) will do ANYTHING to get what she wants from you… right up until she gets it. Then you are as expendable as the cardboard box her new shoes arrived in. She wanted the shoes. The box is the trash they arrived in, and will soon be discarded. The only reason she still answers when you call, is that you have not yet delivered what she wants. When you have delivered it, you’ll be tossed out with the rest of the trash.

I don’t believe I have told you anything here that you do not already know. You’re just being distracted from it by the sex show she is putting on for you.

You have two options and a decision to make. It sounds like you understand both options very clearly. Make the decision when you don’t have a face full of pussy, and you’ll probably make the correct one.

The third option is to just audition another one. That country is full of women exactly like her willing to try just as hard…

I hope this hasn’t seemed to harsh. I hate American women for the same reasons as you: Too much demand from them, not enough effort from them.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[GetaPoasParticipant 73]

Nono man you’re right. It’s like alcoholism or heroin. I have a void and I’m trying to fill that void and unlike a friend or family these girls don’t give a crap about me either which way. It’s more toxic than the alcohol or heroin because those are substances, they don’t choose to be those things, and frankly they’re cheaper and less heartaching longterm as they don’t make you question if it was ever your fault. Noone has ever said “alcohol deserves my left kidney after all I put her through” lol.

[Anonymous 3]

American women are the worst. Try not to hate you’ll b better off. Just always remember what your dealing with.
There is a saying among addicts ” One shot & then I have a going out of business sale ” From reading I think your involved with something like that. Better to b MGTOW

[OgreParticipant 5863]

My natural personality is an absolute goofball. I don’t care how I look to anybody.

My actual appearance is a middle aged man with a pony tail and a huge beard.

Since I’m goofy and distinctive, and unavailable, I’m just the life of the party. Secretly, I’d rather be alone on a deserted island.

The combined effect is an easy going dude that everybody gets along with. Mostly it’s because I’ve learned EVERY trick, and I could end any person I meet without remorse.

For me it’s the ultimate ghost/feign beta. I’m in the middle of everything around me with no expectations. I’m a go-to on the things that nobody expects to get done, so failure or nope is absolutely an option.

As far as women go. I insure they continue to view me as harmless. Ghosting 101, never present a target.

I had three tables laughing at lunch today, not a single one wanted to f~~~ me.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 3]

Ogre: you have mastered the technique I have been shooting for
Right now, I am sitting in a coffee shop, wearing a pair of Big Dog shorts, a batman t – shirt & a hat with s fish on it that says ” old guys rule”. I thought I had it pretty down pat.
I’m a harmless old guy ( perfect ghost/feigned beta) but I acknowledge you as the Master. Great post. You have set the bar high, but I will get there. Thanks! MGTOW

[HermitParticipant]

BrainPilot wrote:

I think I am starting to just perceive them like small children.

I’ve seen them this way for a long time and this is exactly how they should be treated at times. ….and like a lot of children they can be annoying and make me not want to be around them.

I sometimes forget how irritating they can be and make the mistake of engaging in conversation. Sometimes I slowly try to leave. Other times, I just turn around and walk away while they’re still trying to talk to me.

Most of the time I just stay away from them and not speak to them at all. Funny, the more you avoid them, the more they want you to talk to them. They hate being ignored. They love attention. You can use that to manipulate them just as easily as they can manipulate a man. They’re just dumb animals.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Hermit wrote:

They’re just dumb animals.

When I was younger I perceived women as mysterious, all-knowing, misunderstood, and fragile, yet powerful beings. They seemed super human, almost goddess like. But once I (painfully) realised that’s utter bulls~~~, and saw them for the dumb, impressionable, and often cruel animals they really are, their power over me has gone from 100 to 0.

I still engage socially though, as they entertain me a little bit.

[Anonymous 6]

OldBill wrote:

Polite, terse, and dismissive. It hasn’t steered me wrong in decades.

I have been thinking about this for a few days now and honestly OldBill I did that for a while and while it did seem to work at least at first I found it actually made me more attractive to some women and they made a more concerted effort to ensnare me. Things got more than a little tricky and actually quite dangerous.
Honestly I think Ogre and Johnny zero are closer to the truth with ghosting. I think with some women some of the time the; “Polite, terse and dismissive” will work fine but not always.

[Anonymous 3]

Wow! So many of you guys think,see & behave exactly as I do. It’s very gratifying to me as an individual to know that despite the fact that I kept my own counsel for many years I was never really alone. I still maintain a silence among most but I now have this site to express myself & see myself mirrored in the posts of others. It is proof positive to me that: 1. That what we perceive is in fact the way things are. & 2. It very clearly shows the distinction between the genders ( there are still only two despite all that alphabet soup s~~~)
Anyone claiming gender equality is a Blue Pill freak & totally f~~~ing brainwashed by the feminized system.
Which I might add is self-destructing as we speak. Frankly, I will take great pleasure in its demise.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

It very clearly shows the distinction between the genders ( there are still only two despite all that alphabet soup s~~~)
Anyone claiming gender equality is a Blue Pill freak & totally f~~~ing brainwashed by the feminized system.
Which I might add is self-destructing as we speak. Frankly, I will take great pleasure in its demise.

….and those who are brainwashed refuse to wake up and don’t even try to suppose that maybe there is a huge difference between the genders. I was speaking to a guy just earlier and asked his opinion of women. I knew what his answer would be, because I know him pretty well, but it was still irritating to hear him speak. Everything I’d bring up about women, he’d just rebut with, “men are the same way……men do the same things”. I did finally get him to admit that women think quite differently from men and they are more, as he put it, “backstabby”.

When I do speak to the women I see every day, I find it very difficult to refrain from talking about sex and their bodies. I know I shouldn’t do this because even if they act like they’re insulted, I know they love the attention. However, what else is there to talk to them about? Anything else they have to say is annoying as hell.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 3]

Yes! Without sex they pretty much wash up on shore. And they live & die on attention.
You can buy a woman a house & she will bitch about the tree in the front yard, until YOU do something about it & then she will move on to item #2 to whine & so it goes ad infinitum

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