How Do You View & Interact With Women Now ?

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Hermit,
There’s probably not much chance of getting your friend to see the reality of the world all at once. It’s just too much to swallow in a single bite. But you might adopt the strategy of incrementalism, which is to give him a little bit at a time (bite sized portions) until he has the whole thing down…

If your friend is willing acknowledge that women are a little ‘backstabby’, there might be some hope for him to see more of the truth. Maybe you can try out these observations on him and see if you can get some curiosity going on his part. That men are less “backstabby” means that we form teams and work together for goals bigger than our individual selves more easily than women. For example, I can walk onto a public basket ball court in any city park anywhere and join a pick up game with a bunch of guys I have never seen before, just because I am a guy. And I and my new team mates understand that we have to work together to succeed here. We don’t need this explained to us. We don’t need to be paid, or inspired, or otherwise incentivized. We don’t really see this behavior much among women anywhere in the world.

Your friend will probably agree.

This natural willingness to work together on a team in a competition is an easier concept for men to grasp, because we are less “backstabby”. It’s not so much that women don’t compete. They just do it differently. With women, competition among them is one on one. If you ask little kids what they want to be when they grow up, boys will give an answer like playing in the NFL, or the NBA, or being in the army. Many of them won’t even name a position. They just want to be on the team. Girls will give answers like being a movie star, ballerina, gymnast etc. And they don’t want to be just any ballerina. They want to be THE STAR. They want to be THE Gold Medalist. These are one-on-one, winner-take-all competitions, populated by women, and they are notoriously “backstabby”.

Your friend will probably agree.

While your friend may only be willing to acknowledge these small differences in mindset, once he does, you can start to slowly explain to him the enormous differences in effects that these small differences have had. For example, if you’re tired of mongols coming over the mountains and raiding your country, and you need a gigantic wall across the continent to make that s~~~ stop, then you get an enormous number of men to build the Great Wall, and put an army on it. Same for the Pyramids. Same for the Panama Canal. Same for the moon landing. Same for splitting the atom. Same for breaking the sound barrier. Same for setting up a government, an army, a Fortune 500 company, or a stock exchange on which it’s traded.

No individual can accomplish goals this large. And no team of females has the cohesion to cooperate for more than 10 minutes at a time without getting “backstabby” over who the star is going to be.

When you need to cure cancer, or double the agricultural output of the planet over the next 20 years, or solve the energy crisis, or the water crisis, you probably are going to go with the solutions that have already worked:

All Men. All the time. Every time.

Now give your friend the options that he is going to have for choosing who will drive this system that only men have created, only men could have created, and only men can maintain.

His options are: 1) Men 2) “Backstabby” Women 3) Children

I’m writing this because I have had some varying degrees of success with this incremental strategy in trying to explain to a few blue pillers and feminists over the years that there is indeed a difference between men and women, and this difference is not going away anytime soon. I’d be interested in hearing how you do with this in helping your friend see the reality, if you choose to try. There’s obviously more to it than just this point, but maybe give him this small bite and see if he can take it…?

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Honestly I think Ogre and Johnny zero are closer to the truth with ghosting. I think with some women some of the time the; “Polite, terse and dismissive” will work fine but not always.

After mulling it over, Rauel, I find myself agreeing with you. The problem has been my perspective. Let me try to explain.

I travel frequently on business, not as much as I used and I’m trying to ease out of doing it at all, but I travel quite a bit. My “Polite, Terse, & Dismissive” advice comes more from a business and travel perspective and not a social one.

When I arrive at a customer’s facility, I have to quickly establish a rapport while also setting boundaries. That last part is important. I’m there to get to bottom of things, to fix issues, to identify problems. I can’t play favorites.

On the other hand, while keeping a certain distance has to be part of the process, I still need to build relationships because the people there are going to be my primary sources of information and the ones who implement my solution(s).

Accordingly, I try to be an honest, forthright, just the facts, kind of guy you can trust to be fair. That works fine with men because men are fundamentally fair, honest, trustworthy, etc. and appreciate the same. You can work with them, call things as you see them, and still be personable because men understand the difference.

That doesn’t work with women because women are f~~~ing snakes. With women you have to set firm boundaries, never deviate from them, and never ever never engage in any type of conversation of any personal nature.

At work and while dealing with the usual travel minutiae of waitresses, car rental clerks, and the like, my polite, terse, and dismissive mantra works. At home and socially though? I ghost just as you, Ogre, and the others suggest. Not engaging is easier than constantly controlling the level of engagement.

Thanks for your response, brother, and thanks for making me think!

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[HermitParticipant]

BrainPilot wrote:

Hermit,
There’s probably not much chance of getting your friend to see the reality of the world all at once. It’s just too much to swallow in a single bite. But you might adopt the strategy of incrementalism, which is to give him a little bit at a time (bite sized portions) until he has the whole thing down…

That does sound like a good strategy indeed. However, this guy’s head is harder than the hull of a battleship. He won’t even open up to the smallest of suggestions. He has all the answers and everyone else is just stupid.

BrainPilot wrote:

If you ask little kids what they want to be when they grow up, boys will give an answer like playing in the NFL, or the NBA, or being in the army. Many of them won’t even name a position. They just want to be on the team. Girls will give answers like being a movie star,

Ah s~~~…..I’ve wanted to be a movie star for a long time now. 🙂

BrainPilot wrote:

I’m writing this because I have had some varying degrees of success with this incremental strategy in trying to explain to a few blue pillers and feminists over the years that there is indeed a difference between men and women, and this difference is not going away anytime soon. I’d be interested in hearing how you do with this in helping your friend see the reality, if you choose to try. There’s obviously more to it than just this point, but maybe give him this small bite and see if he can take it…?

Thanks for this intelligent suggestion. While I highly doubt that this thick headed individual will respond in a positive manner, it may help with other friends who may be more open minded. This guy though, he’s kind of a dick and deserves to live in the land of lies. I only asked him his opinion of women to perform a small experiment.

Actually, a long times ago, I was promoting MGTOW before I even knew what it was; before realizing I was MGTOW; trying to warn young men who were on the verge of marriage. This guy got so upset with me that he started yelling at me to stop giving my opinion. Let him rot in his ignorance I say. Meanwhile, one of the young men I was warning got married and divorced a short time later. Don’t have the details. He’s another know it all. I’m sure he just thinks he picked the wrong one……as if there’s a right one…….

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 3]

Great post Brainpilot. It was the accumulated knowledge of MANKIND that allowed Neil Armstrong to step on the moon.
On another note, can you possibly in your wildest imaginations see women coordinating the movements & strategies of an aircraft carrier at sea during combat operations.
There is no such thing as gender equality.
You know puppies are cute but sometimes they f~~~ up personal items & p~~~ & s~~~ in the house. Generally someone has to clean up after them
But who will clean up the tidal wave of hypocrisy & nonsense that society has created. I can assure you it won’t b me. My days of being the White Knight are over. When the s~~~ hits the fan, I won’t b available for cleanup duty.

[Canis lupusParticipant 144]

For me, when in public, I do not speak to any of them. Neither do I look at them. This is especially true for the c~~~s who are looking for attention.
I avoid putting myself in situation where we would be walking through at door at the same time because I am not going to hold a door for a c~~~ who either, gets upset because I held the door for her or cannot cannot have the common decency to say thank you.
I do not wave them into traffic when driving and do not help them if they drop something or need help. I keep walking. You never know how they can twist your helping them into sexual harassment or even rape. F~~~ that.
When dealing with them such as making a transaction in a place of business I keep it simple, professional and no small talk. No longer do I care if I look like an asshole.
Unless I know them well, I interact very little if at all. Especially in public.

[crushhighlanderParticipant 239]

I no longer feel anxious for not having any girl. I also have lost the stupid custom of fantasizing about a girl and no longer try to impress them nor lie to not show what I really am.

I also don’t act all nice around girls nor do I feel bad for not being able to attract their attention. I feel better and have gained a greater focus and idea. I now see marriage for what it is; a soul sucking contract. I can confidently state that I feel better now that I belong to this community. Thank God for MGTOW.

No more hassles, no more nonsense, no more drama. Long live MGTOW!

[Anonymous 6]

OldBill wrote:

That doesn’t work with women because women are f~~~ing snakes. With women you have to set firm boundaries, never deviate from them, and never ever never engage in any type of conversation of any personal nature

Every time I make the mistake of giving them the benefit of any doubt they prove it too me again.

Thanks for the acknowledgement.

[HermitParticipant]

My son still lives with his mom so in order to see him, I have to see my X. Just came back from lunch at her house. I was talking to her when all of a sudden I saw that same old disgusting, p~~~ed off look on her face and she walked out the door. She’s such a miserable bitch. At first I was starting to get p~~~ed as well, but then I remembered that it doesn’t matter. I stayed there a while and finished my water in the air conditioning while she sat out in the heat and then I happily hopped in my truck and drove off. It was a good thing. I got a glimpse of the awful past. Not that I needed that to remind me how good I have it now, but it did put further emphasis it.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[cardenio27Participant 144]

Great tactic Ogre. I shall take notes from it.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

Good question. I don’t really know i think. I love them and I hate them. I avoid them and I search for them.

How do we know what stage we are in when taking the red pill? Is there a scale of achievement? Right now I’m sitting at the bar of a country bar and the blond bartender is trying to chat me up and I’m just not into it. Maybe because of a long day or an even longer life but I’m just not feelin it. She’d be a good f~~~ but I’m just burned out. Fortunately, I don’t have to deal with women much at all in my work, so I don’t go through a lot of what you guys go through. I’m toasty and just looking forward to next Wednesday when I go back to capitola and surf again. I see them there too and I just don’t feel anything anymore. So where am I? Have I accepted it now? Is this the placidity of reality?

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

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