How Do You View & Interact With Women Now ?

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

Knowing their nature, it’s hard to interact with them any more than you have to. Then it is just polite and business like.

I don’t think sex is worth the risk.

[Anonymous 6]

I don’t “treat” them, ever. They’re equal to me I’m told.

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

I have no interaction with the ‘fairer’ sex unless they are family members, serving me in shops & pubs or I have to speak to them at work, which is very rare, as I’m mostly employed on the road between men only work spaces.

I don’t bother them, and they don’t bother me. A mutually beneficial set of circumstances

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

I still socialse with women all the time, and about half of my regular friends are women. If I’m in pubs or social celebrations I’ll usually chat to quite a few women, especially as they tend to approach me. Though these days I’ve noticed it appears as a slightly different interest than I received in my teens and 20s – it seems less about my sexual appeal, and more about my social maturity – I swear this has happened since I grew my beard.

However, I’ve felt a dramatic change regarding intimate relations. Though I get clear opportunities and openings to start dating, I choose not to. Nine times out of ten their agenda (whether that be wanting marriage, a baby, a wallet, etc) is apparent to me within minutes, and even if it was an acceptable agenda (wanting occasional sex, wanting something casual) I still don’t act on it. I simply cannot take the risk of pregnancy anymore. I’ve been so lucky, despite several pregnancy scares. Nor do I want to be on the receiving end of their inevitable switch to bitch mode.

A lot of women will always seem like unicorns at first meeting, and because I now understand womens’ true nature, I conceive any potential relationship as being the same scripted nonsense over and over. So I do not, under any circumstances, let myself be more than a friend. I friendzone both myself, and them. That’s what going my own way means to me, and that’s how women now fit into it.

If I want sex, I use a really good sex club which is FULL of women of all shapes, colours, and sizes that actually enjoy having sex, and the entry fee is only a fraction of an hour with an escort. Some of the encounters and offers I’ve had are unbelievable.

[ResParticipant 542]

I treat women they same way I would treat a man. In general I avoid people and keep to myself, I’m a natural introvert. Even when I go out to bars, I sit by myself. People leave me alone and I leave them alone. It’s never been an issue. I can’t say I’ve ever been “hit on” by a woman or approached at random. I’ll interact with someone if they talk to me and I’ve had a few good conversations, but otherwise I’m happy in my own company.

After reading this forum now I tend to view women as whores. I’ve always felt that way to some extent, but now more so than ever. They want to claim their independence, yet they rely on men for sex. They won’t admit it of course, but that’s how it is. Always chasing after Chad for the next big thrill, even after spitting out a couple of children and raping the father for cash.

Mr. Boats: "'Avoid the reeking herd! Shun the polluted flock! Live like that stoic bird, the eagle of the rock!' You know what that means, son?" -American Splendor

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

I keep it civil. Nothing more. Nothing less.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Risk management. I smile and move on. If I become a target, I’ll at least be a moving target.

[chirParticipant]

I don’t.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[TwistParticipant]

We tee off first. The women are not allowed to play before 11, and we are done by then. Somehow these simple rules seem to work.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I do my best to minimize all interactions with women. I stopped saying “thank you” or “please” or “excuse me” to them. I used to hold the door open for elderly women by lately I noticed that women in this age group act pretty nasty towards me, so I stopped doing that.

When I am walking down an aisle way in a store or a sidewalk or hallway and a woman approaches me. I refuse to look at her and I refuse to move out of the way.

I am considering no longer tipping any waitresses but only tipping waiters when I am in an restaurant.

I stopped all dating. I still look around a little, but I do not interact in any fashion.

Over time I’ve come to the conclusion that women in general refuse to treat men as equals or fellow human beings, and frequently pretend as if men do not exist. I have responded in kind.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

In the workplace, I listen, smile, offer advice, answer questions and shut up.

Away from the workplace, I ghost. I pursue interests and hobbies and don’t think about women often. If I encounter women, I’m polite. I smile. I don’t engage in small talk.
I don’t take them home.

I do have some lady friends I sometimes golf with. Sometimes I’ll take a lady to see a movie.
But I don’t sleep with them.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

The same way I always have, politely. But I don’t have conversations with them. I abide by the rule of saying only what is absolutely necessary.

Essentially it amounts to treating them like they all work in a store and I have a question about something. Calling a woman under 30 “ma’am” seriously messes with her head, you should all try it.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Anonymous wrote:

Now as a MGHOW,

Which means for the most part I no longer talk to them about anything.

^this has been the biggest change for me.

On the weekend a girl was trying to get in thru the main door of apartments. She expected me to have a convo. Nope. I have chit to do.

Same at gym, besides hi and bye. It’s like they are genuinely offended by not partaking in convo.

I still have the same lust towards some women, but that can be fixed with fap later on. That alone… doesn’t involve calling them an uber, them sleeping at my place, or wasting money on food etc.

That’s how I view them now really… fap material. I don’t care how their day is going, whether they are single, married, have 15 guys r00ting at once. Who cares? I care about myself.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Like the rest of you, pretty much like a dude, only:

1. Treating everything she says as a lie

2. Constantly steering what little conversation is held in the direction I want it to be in.

3. Immediately ignoring her presence once I am done.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[markParticipant 451]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

In the workplace, I listen, smile, offer advice, answer questions and shut up.

Very, very dangerous, to offer advice. My advice to you is to agree with whatever they say, and no advice.

[narwhalParticipant]

I treat them like a man in certain situations. At work, in a basic social setting, not a whole lot different. Unlike a man though, I feel like I have to much more careful with them if I ever opt to get more personally involved with them.

So I can invite a dude over to watch a game. No worries. Unlikely for him to behave badly. If he does, I have the law for protection. I cannot do the same with a woman. There is a greater chance that she will behave badly, and the law will not protect me from her.

I can’t say I’d treat her like a teenager though, because that’s inaccurate. I have no problem having a couple teenage neighbor boys come over to my place. If the boys AND their mom come over, I have to be more careful.

It’s really pretty sad overall if you think about it. The women who behave the worst will only be encouraged to do so. The women who behave ok, will get desperate and start behaving badly as well, because they are tired of being overlooked. The whole system is designed for this to only get worse and worse.

Ok. Then do it.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Except for professional matters I keep myself at a distance. I’m probably viewed as ‘arrogant’ by these women, but IDGAF.

Women do NOT enrichen my life, they only demand, demand, demand and bring MISERY – so I try to avoid eye contact and general contact with them in public when possible.

Obviously if I’m in a crowd with lots of women I just see right through them, but, for example, if I were to take a walk in a quiet area and a woman were walking towards me, sometimes I take great joy in crossing the street to walk in the other side with a look on my face that says: ‘leave me alone, you no-good potential accuser!’

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Same as I always have with the exception that I look for, recognize and react to red flags in a more guarded and protective manner. I see AWALT as a sliding scale and keep to the least AWALT woman.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

-I am a lot more peaceful now thanks to the lack of unnecessary drama and bulls~~~.

Anonymous wrote:

AVOIDANCE is the BEST POLICY!

Stealth wrote:

I am functionally polite

MonkeyMind wrote:

I’m polite to them and get on with them, but i view most of what comes out of their mouths mindless babble similar to stroppy teenagers.

Doc Holliday wrote:

Outside of sex, I view women as emotionally manipulative creatures, so I try to remain cognizant of this fact when forced into other conversations.

Feigned civility,subtle indifference & in public generally ignore. the result is I live in peace & I come & go as I please

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I view them as a potential hazard/danger that should be avoided which keeps my interaction with them only professional. Since I only have one female boss in a 4 month rotation, even this is limited.

My interaction in stores is avoided if possible. I always have at least a 3 foot buffer in any line.

Fuck this planet.

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