How do you cope when God brings you nothing but misery?

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Romulus wrote:

You flatter yourself, you aren’t important enough to be blamed for “all” the evils of the world. For my part, I, not knowing you, haven’t blamed you for even one evil things. The truth is, most people on earth don’t even know you exist.

My dad gave me an iron pill when I was nine: “Son, nobody else gives a s~~~ about you. Work hard, be useful, and take care of yourself because nobody else will.”

If, hypothetically, this god exists, he’s too busy ignoring the other 2 billion Christians to pay attention to you. At the very absolute best, your god is as indifferent to you in the deluge of other whining “alter reality for me please senpai” Christians.

The ultimate red pill is acknowledging that this last social construct is a control, and if you were born in a sandy hell hole your god would be browner and you would be wage slaving to some THOT in a beekeeper outfit. None of this matters, your god isn’t real, and you only have the purpose in life that you explicitly give yourself. It’s exactly like playing The Sims or Minecraft–there is no direction, no purpose, but you have a ton of tools and specific rules on how they work.

This is a god damn (no holy) kindness. In your own holy book, Satan is the actual hero (inspired and modified from the Prometheus myth of old) and God is, in his own inspired writing, an asshole who not only permits the torture and suffering of his “chosen people,” but he is DIRECTLY responsible for it.

The only two options you can come to are A) god is an indifferent bully who gets off on human suffering and B) the god in the Abrahamic tradition is just a pre-feminist social control that people swallow because we are panicky pattern-seeking apes that have to insert meaning and order where there isn’t any.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[AutoliteParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Now to autolight and the other atheists please do not bother commenting on my thoughts, as I have no interest in debating fools.

I have no interest in debating fools either. But I DO have a problem when a brother MGTOW comes on-line with an issue and people like you only exacerbate said issue with your bulls~~~.

You’re doing the exact opposite of what this forum and these threads are suppose to do and that is helping fellow MGTOWs. For me, what you’re doing is infuriating… 😡

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Autolite wrote:

You’re doing the exact opposite of what this forum and these threads are suppose to do and that is helping fellow MGTOWs. For me, what you’re doing is infuriating…

How about putting your pacifier back in your mouth.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

F~~~ god, reward?

Yeah I will suffer, in exchange I WANT HIS HEAD.

If I where you, I wold pray god doesn’t exist, because if he does he is a f~~~ing sadistic asshole.

The only thing GOD infuse in people is FEAR, something you fear can’t be good.

You are alone, do your best with what you have, one day you will go down the Grave anyway, so don’t worry about it.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 13]

Faust, I’ll keep it simple.

God or no God,

You asked how to cope.

Know what has always helped me?

GET OUT IN NATURE.

Take yourself off and just be out there, walking in it.

A beach, a wood, a canal side.

That aside, hobbies and looking after yourself keep a healthier mindset.

It works for me.

[HermitParticipant]

Zarathustra wrote:

I have posted in defense of Atheism before but every once in a while I look at it from another angle and realise, anew, how ridiculous theism really is. Here is my new angle, with respect to Christianity, what kind of parent kills his only son (Jesus). I mean really, if you look at that situation in any other context its ridiculous. If anyone kills one of his children do you say: “Wow, there goes one truly loving person” or do you say: “that’s one evil SOB.” Its really insane the moral and logical hoops the religious have to jump through to make all the contradictions and nonsense palatable.

Hello my atheist friend. God didn’t kill his Son. His Son freely gave his life so that others might be saved.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

The only thing GOD infuse in people is FEAR, something you fear can’t be good.

I have a carrot, and I have an iron anal plug wrapped in barbed wire and glass. If you take the carrot, you don’t get the plug. Don’t make me give you the plug.

The f~~~ kind of incentive is that? The god in the bible rewards ignorance and blind obedience, except in the specific cases in the Jesus myth where skepticism was rewarded as the exception to the rule.

It’s almost like it’s a myth born from a sandy hell hole void of meaning and purpose in a time before science or even the Socratic method were commonly used. It’s almost like the church actively worked to withhold literacy in order to control how people “received” the “word of God.”

It’s a control and you’re just a battery.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Agreed Hermit. Sacrifice for the good of another is the definition of love. (Incidentally this is why women are incapable of love…they cannot sacrifice their own self interest for another.) God allowed his only son to sacrifice himself to save humanity. The crucifixion is a demonstration of the extent of God’s love.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

GET OUT IN NATURE.

Which is more or less what I said. Go rub one out and work out until you puke.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Anonymous wrote:

Faust, I’ll keep it simple.

God or no God,

You asked how to cope.

Know what has always helped me?

GET OUT IN NATURE.

Take yourself off and just be out there, walking in it.

A beach, a wood, a canal side.

That aside, hobbies and looking after yourself keep a healthier mindset.

It works for me.

Matrix, I would love to have you point of view. But, that is not possible due to being in force into constant, intense physical and emotional agony through no fault of my own.

I have recognized the strings on people around me being pulled by an unseen hand, to bring me misery, decades after decades.

I already tried the hobby approach. The the hobby approach worked for around a decade.

I did not ask how to fight. I did not ask how to escape. All I asked was how to cope.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

MATRIX wrote:

GET OUT IN NATURE.

Which is more or less what I said. Go rub one out and work out until you puke.

Nature also helped me, I go to the mountains every time I need to think and forget, i challenge a 3000 mt peak and I come down as new.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 54]

If someone is struggleing with long tern Cronic Depression, Meds can be a trmondous help.
I have seen Welbutrine have tremendous sucsess.

Some brains are helped by product additives.

Like STP for your Brain.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

GET OUT IN NATURE.

That’s what I do.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 13]

Faust For Science wrote:

MATRIX wrote:

Faust, I’ll keep it simple.

God or no God,

You asked how to cope.

Know what has always helped me?

GET OUT IN NATURE.

Take yourself off and just be out there, walking in it.

A beach, a wood, a canal side.

That aside, hobbies and looking after yourself keep a healthier mindset.

It works for me.

Matrix, I would love to have you point of view. But, that is not possible due to being in force into constant, intense physical and emotional agony through no fault of my own.

I have recognized the strings on people around me being pulled by an unseen hand, to bring me misery, decades after decades.

I already tried the hobby approach. The approached for around a decade.

I did not ask how to fight. I did not ask how to escape. All I asked was how to cope.

Sorry to hear that, Faust.

Can you drive, get out there in the car and just sit and be in nature that way.

I have certain spots I drive to.

One is a headland with great surf waves and is quiet.

I can sit there for hours in the car and just read.

Sometimes you don’t feel like making the effort, but when you do and get back everything seems better again for a while.

A lot here are against TV.

I still have a nice 50” TV that I watch HD nature programs on and when they’re on I’ll have a cuppa and instantly feel calmed. In fact the programs inspire me to get out there next time it’s a nice day.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

Matrix, I would love to have you point of view. But, that is not possible due to being in force into constant, intense physical and emotional agony through no fault of my own.

I have recognized the strings on people around me being pulled by an unseen hand, to bring me misery, decades after decades.

I already tried the hobby approach. The the hobby approach worked for around a decade.

I did not ask how to fight. I did not ask how to escape. All I asked was how to cope.

Two words: convict conditioning. Learn body weight training techniques and you can get an aggressive, satisfying workout anywhere.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 13]

MUSIC.

The right music for YOU.

We all have different tastes.

The right sounds can instantly relax me and take me back in time.

The right sounds can also be very uplifting.

I’ve always loved driving to music.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Anonymous wrote:

One is a headland with great surf waves and is quiet.

I can drive, but not very long distances.

My health is screwed over. Mainly because everyone around me since I was child claiming that I was faking, or that it was in my head.

People wonder what a living Hell is.

My idea of a living Hell is being in physical agony and being made to suffer more pain on the accusation I am lying about being in pain.

I spent much of my youth in that state of Hell.

The doctors were to arrogant to even run tests on me. They just claimed it was all in my head, until a few years ago my body finally started to openly break down and the doctors whom saw me could not claim it was in head. But, by then I am permanently crippled and I am only getting worse.

And that is only one type of agony of so many others I have been forced to endure.

[Anonymous 42]

Why bitch? At least he’s bringing you something!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Two words: convict conditioning. Learn body weight training techniques and you can get an aggressive, satisfying workout anywhere.

See above post. I am physically crippled. I can walk with a cane. But, internally I am a mess.

[Anonymous 54]

And the Docs still have no diagnoses?

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