How do I convince my friend to stay MGTOW?

[AttonParticipant]

Teach him to reject social pressure, thus rejecting some people who push them.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

May 7, I ALWAYS enjoy reading your posts. A lot of times they are hilarious. Other times (such as in this thread), I ponder how or why the hell you haven’t stuck a 12 gauge under your chin. You truly have been run through the meat grinder.

I don’t know how Nordman’s friend is going to make out. Hopefully, he will listen to reason. Probably, he won’t. But take comfort May 7, your posts DEFINITELY bring up some painful memories from my own experience of marriage and divorce. I thank you for your memorable and priceless contributions. You might save a single man from setting the stage for a lifetime of misery. I just wish like hell that I was reading your posts 15 years ago before I made the plunge into my own personal hell by getting married. I’m glad you’re here.

Nordman, sometimes you can’t save your friends and that sucks.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

And mean nasty old Gargamel has to chime in and say that what May writes has been going down in front of my eyes SO MANY F~~~IN’ TIMES among my 4000 customers in my 18 active years…

May’s story – and the PTSD it leaves – is real. I had it too, but as a child and young boy.

Every word May writes is more than true. Men are dismounted, ripped out from the roots after a divorce that always becomes BLOODY because women are all insane and want to take revenge on “good” men. It gives them joy to “ground” good men.

Women are miserable creatures and the more nice – and I mean nice – a man is, the more they feel their own s~~~tyness in his presence. Women hate it if you behave unselfish, they hate when you give money to a homeless… And it makes them see how faulty their own mindset is.

And they want to take you down. Compulsively, hot even on purpose or “planned”… They just hate you for being good and handsome and they want to make sure that you will not get up and recover after they are through with you.

That’s why c~~~s are so bloody and unfair in their ways.

Your friend is sleeping with the devil. As ALL women are LIKE THAT.

As I say: Subconsciously, driven by instincts aka “feelings”, they will ruin you. Slowly but surely.

Or why did I always stay away from them. 6 foot 3 tall, blonde, wealthy, blue eyed… sometimes drowning in compliments… ???

Into any conversation with any c~~~, I always said: “No woman will ever pull that s~~~ on me that they pull on other men… If she does that, there are plenty of ways to get even with her… Don’t f~~~ with an electronics developer that has knowledge in chemistry…”

That even scares the devil away. Any women really in love with you will not be offended by words like these because the pure thought of you having to take revenge on her for anything would just be absurd to her…
BUT: Because it was not absurd and it hit their TRUE HIDDEN INTENTIONS right on the nail’s head, they were offended by these words and stayed away from me. What I said, meant: “Go get yourself an easier prey. It will save your life not exploiting and kicking me around”…

Your friend must read my story, they way I grew up as a model-MGTOW-prototype…

… and he must open and swallow my “first aid kit” of red pills in my profile.

Your friend shall also give brother May 7 2020 a lifetime PayPal donation for writing so much truth about the way women are today.

And become a supporting (paying) MGTOW.com member…

I can confirm every word of May’s story. Even if we are on opposite sides of the planet, women are all the same.

MGTOW.com might save your friend’s life life. But even reading my “little book”, he might already find traits of his “future ex” that he now ignores – blinded by love – but that will bite him in the ass down the road.

I pray for him.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Atton wrote:

Teach him to reject social pressure, thus rejecting some people who push them.

Yes, that is MGTOW “basic training”. That is the water needed for the plant to grow.

Social pressure? Who is social? Who is “society”?

ANSWER: Women. And they are ones that want to exploit the hell out of us.

So, “social pressure” is comparable to the faked “false” order from the enemy troops to your soldiers to leave their safe position, get up and walk straight into their firing line…

…aka TRAP.

You are pressured to give your s~~~ to any narcissistic c~~~.

I always asked myself: “How much does it cost me to play “against the rules” for some time, get no “pat on the back” from random people and get strange looks every once in a while?

Nothing, absolutely nothing. “Social pressure” is all in your head.

Not getting accepted by any c~~~ hive is a small price to pay for your freedom. But the reward is also there:

“I rather be the sought after bachelor than a wounded and scolded husband”…

(Took me a while to put that in English, meaning a literal and exact translation)

That expression always settled guilt shaming discussions in public.

… Until all of them leave you alone. Women see how you tick, and that you know more about them then they want you to know… And the “social pressure” subsides.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Some men need to learn their lesson the hard way.

Nordman wrote:

But he really feels a social pressure and says he feels it would be more socially accepted to marry and divorce, than to have been only single.

Holy s~~~ that’s an expensive way to try for social acceptance.

Which men never actually get, and isn’t worth a f~~~ing thing anyways.

Seriously, denying men “social acceptance” is one of the ways society manipulates them to keep their shoulders to the plow.

[JVBParticipant]

You can only show him the way. Some will have to learn the hard way.

Peace is > piece.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Our society and the legal system just screams that marriage is a horrifically bad idea for men. I am absolutely baffled and perplexed as to why this isn’t now obvious to all men.

How bad does it have to get before all guys figure this out? I know that I sound like a broken record when I keep asking this same question but f~~~ me. What will it take, what has to happen to open up men’s eyes???

[experiencedParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Our society and the legal system just screams that marriage is a horrifically bad idea for men. I am absolutely baffled and perplexed as to why this isn’t now obvious to all men.

How bad does it have to get before all guys figure this out? I know that I sound like a broken record when I keep asking this same question but f~~~ me. What will it take, what has to happen to open up men’s eyes???

Trouble is that the laydeez know that it’s a horror-filled deal for men today.
Conflict of interest dictates that they misrepresent it through shaming etc.
Young men hopefully realize that the older guys here have no vested interest,
We just want to WARN other men about how horror-filled it actually is.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

Nordman wrote:

But… he’s fairly deeply sad for being alone and not having a family – wife and children, being with someone, sharing closeness… …..

Oh, man…. he’s got it bad. That’s where I was two years out of my fourth divorce.

he really feels a social pressure and says he feels it would be more socially accepted to marry and divorce, than to have been only single.

Ain’t going there…. 4 times out of the gate, and my races are DONE!

I feel at ease and peace with welcoming solitude. But is it really the only way, for every man to do his own marriage-mistake before getting red-pill enlightened?

Finally, I do, too…. but nope ‘fraid not. He is not in his right mind; he’s thinking with the wrong head. Just like me, he’s gonna have to get his b~~~~ stomped to set him straight. Tragically, he is still young enough to be feeling the raging hormones. The truth is, the desire for closeness never seems to go away….. that’s why I have a dog (male LOL)

I feel at ease and peace with welcoming solitude. But is it really the only way, for every man to do his own marriage-mistake before getting red-pill enlightened?

I think it is. I have been in a total of 8 serious relationships, 4 of them wedded p~~~. I am at the end of my row, any way I hoe it, and I just now finally got it.

I don’t know how to get the red pill passed to him in a good way, so he can cherish what he has and who he is, and be joyful over the good position he is in.

All you can do is be there for when this filly throws him, and TRY to convince him he doesn’t need to ride again.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

Keymaster wrote:

Tell him to drop the Jerry Maguire DVD and just back away.
That “you complete me” horse s~~~ is why he thinks he’s missing out.

Interesting thing is, I just watched that movie again a couple of weeks ago. Haven’t seen it in 20 years. His wife and a room full of women just said and agreed “men are the enemy”….. then he walks in and says “you complete me”.

Ever shoot skeet? Jerry Maguire, Sleepless in Seattle, You’ve Got Mail, Pretty Woman, etc, ad nauseum…. make pretty good clay pigeons…. Even the VHS versions 😉

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

Anonymous wrote:

Here’s how f~~~ed up things are…and see if your friend wants to be on the receiving end of this s~~~ sandwich.

Man! My heart bleeds for you….. I managed stay on top of my divorces an keep them equitable. I didn’t try to f~~~ them, just made damned sure they didn’t f~~~ me. Actually, I think that helped. The ,judges saw I was trying to be reasonable. The more reasonable I was the more s~~~ stuck to them. My third wife managed to come after me six years later…. she defaulted on *my* GI Bill mortgage (the default wound up on my credit record), and tried to make me bail her out. When I left, we figured out the bills….. her half totaled the projected child support plus a little. I asked her if she would trade child support if I paid her bills. Since she came out 15% ahead, she jumped on it, so my lawyer had it entered in the decree that I took her bills in lieu of child support, except 1 that she was 100% responsible for. She could NEVER get a child support increase. When we got into court, a liberal FemiNazi judge was hearing the case. She cried on the judges shoulder that I cheated her out of child support, and left her with bills, and a mortgage…. MY f~~~ing house! The judge looked over the decree and said she had never seen such an unfair settlement in her life, and for the record, wondered how it ever made it past the judge. Of course, it had both our signatures, and the judges sig. Her lawyer told her what a good deal it was! But on the strength of that the judge ordered me to pick up the tab on her single debt, that she hadn’t paid a dime on in 6 years….. Sux to be a man…. You ever wonder if this is why Bruce Jenner became a woman?

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

show him Terrence popp video’s, show him how much the “socially accepted” choice is actually going to cost him.

Terrence Popp Divorce bank

if the above was not enough, Lets ask: are you better off financially getting a hoe? or an exwife…lets find out!

Hoe VS EXWIFE
Stay single, stay strong dude. No PUSSY, no matter how eye rolling and amazingly glorious that pussy is…Not worth dealing with this. Hell NO.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Nordman wrote:

But… he’s fairly deeply sad for being alone and not having a family – wife and children, being with someone, sharing closeness…

While I can not answer your question, I can relate that it was precisely the part in bold that made me susceptible to MGTOW. I was at such a low point after many (too many…) years of that hellish yearning that I could not take it anymore. So, yeah, it can happen, it can nudge you this way instead of the other. After a while, that is…

I had heard about MGTOW and the red pill even before sinking to that low point, but I simply was not ready for them. As others have pointed out, perhaps there is not much you can do. He will get here (literally or figuratively) when he is ready. Make it an if.

[Anonymous 1]

Awesome as always may 7. My condolences for being stuck in Illinois.

To the OP. Tell your friend to get a fleshlight and be done with it already.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

“Stay single or die”.

Well, f~~~, I think I finally found my new sig.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

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