hot girl at work

[lonestar77Participant 406]

I try hard to avoid talking to this girl at work, but every time I walk by, she starts some chit chat. I know she’s single and would really be into me asking her out. Anyway by the time I go back to my desk, I have a quarter chub and bang my head on my desk for a few mins. After about 10mins of that, the urges subside and I’m back to my happy MGTOW self. I’m afraid I’m going to have a relapse and end up hooking up with this coworker. I don’t even want a relationship, just a pump and dump. And I know what a recipe for disaster that can be at work.

Just got to stay strong and stay aware that avoiding this chick is for the GREATER GOOD of my life..

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Oh my word, you sound EXACTLY like me right now. I posted something similar to this about a month ago. She doesn’t talk to me as much now as she did at first, but she still makes little jokes with me here and there like a cute young girl would. Oof. She has this particular scent that I can pick up from her (not overwhelmingly bad either) and it drives me nuts. She’s 19, which is around where I find them most attractive. I see her almost every day, and I love it and hate it at the same time. I can’t wait until I’m not AS driven as I am now (being 27 years old now, that could be a while).

[RennieParticipant]

Got one of those at my work. She used to try to strike up conversation, but I just stayed away from her and now she never says anything.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

Yes Megachris the struggle is real… day after day after day etc. I just turned 39 and the urges I get are the same if not worse than when I was in my 20’s when I see a hottie! If you work out that makes it worse since you will have more testosterone built up. Anyway that’s what separates us MGTOW’s from all those blue-pillers/manginas out there. It takes a real man to use logic and sense in making a decision, not just with our dicks which can easily ruin our lives in a fraction of a second. Even though it can be pretty f~~~in’ hard when you are faced with it day after day!!! Especially after I just decided to look her up on FB and noticed pic of her in tiny jean shorts with over the knee socks…. wish we had cold showers here at work..

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

lonestar77 wrote:

If you work out that makes it worse since you will have more testosterone built up.

You know, this will sound REALLY stupid, but I didn’t actually know that…though it makes perfect sense now! I try to say “meh, I don’t need her…” Truth is, I don’t NEED her, but good mercy she’d be nice to have for several rounds. Doesn’t help when she comes in wearing white and form-fitting pants, either. UGH.

…And they tell us MEN to dress “professionally” at work. Granted, she’s only a student worker, but STILL. That just makes things worse.

The female students here at my job are either incredibly attractive and intelligent and I have to keep telling myself “AWALT, AWALT!!!”, or they’re obnoxious feminist gender studies chicks that hang “art” in the hallways that say “DOMESTIC TERRORISM” with posters about rape, and “art” of SHIRTS hanging that say things like “you raped me, daddy. Why?!”, or “I withdraw my consent, you are now raping me!” I’ll have to get a picture of this.

Point of that last paragraph being that while I don’t think this particular chick falls in the latter category (at least I KNOW she’s not a gender studies major), I’m still going to convince myself she is.

And as I submit this, she just came in. Go figure. Thought I’d have ONE DAY to…recover. LOL

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Been there, done that. I brought her to my house and the minute she opened the door I saw my job fly out the window. Later, she fell asleep with her head on my lap…very uncomfortable for my woodrow.

You have to make a decision, your job or your chub and you know what the right decision is.

That chick at work talked me down and told others I was worried what people would say…damn straight I was.

And I kept my job and am now comfortably retired at 55.

Go for the money, blow off the honey.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

Go for the money, blow off the honey.

That’s the best thing I’ve heard in a while!

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[qeeqoParticipant 1168]

There now myself. I have defriended this woman on Facebook about 6 days ago and removed everything, she still has my phone number and email, but so far so good. This one threw out self descriptors like, “I never forgive”… my personal favorite… I’m a really screwed up girl and I’m really weird, I had a dui and I hope you don’t hold that against me. “I love beer and wine, thank God I had whisky in my car after the accident. All my f~~~ed up head sees is her pretty face. Treadmill, exercise, treadmill, exercise… Daddy don’t wanna go back to turmoil plantation. I expect it to just be like the flu that should be over soon. The moment you think you’re impervious they go into head f~~~ stealth mode right under the radar. Next thing ya know, ya got half a chub. F~~~ing women!

“A particularly attractive woman is an object of terror”, Carl Jung

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

The funniest things about these kinds of chicks is that if they show any kind of interest in you, and you don’t return the interest, they eventually just “give up.” Then, when you show any initiative to maybe reciprocate that interest, she wants nothing to do with you. If anything, that proves how easy women can get over the guys they fancy.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Control your urges! She’ll work hard for a little while, then will try to convince people to do her work for her, that should end your urges will fast.

Try drawing a graph, on the far right, draw a circle, this is called the circle of bulls~~~, on far left draw a straight line, until it touches the circle, then from the far left start with 1,2,3,4,5, to 10, 10 should be touching the circle.

Point is, the closer she is to a 10, the more bulls~~~ you have to deal with, plus since it’s at work, she probably wan’t you to fight for her since other guys are after her.
Peace!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

By the way, lonstar77:

Women will always flirt with a man, even though they secretly want nothing to do with him!

Always keep that in mind!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Man, this is exactly why this website is so wonderful. You get to share thoughts that you would never share with people face to face AND you get replies from people who understand you and give you support/advice.

My tactic in dealing with this is similar to what I told Limpan in his “My mind is making me miss her” post.
In your case it would be “My mind is making me WANT her”.
Always think of the worst.

John Woods 13 wrote:

If a really hot girl would give you the best sex you ever had, then drug you, steal all your money, give you all kinds of diseases, and invite a few of her gay friends to butt rape you, would you miss her? I guess not. You would like to experience the sex again, but you wouldn’t because of the risk.
Think of this when you missWANT her, because if you get back together she will drug your brain with dopamine, take your money, give you depression and heart disease and eventually will invite a few of her government friends to divorce f~~~ you for the rest of your life coworkers to help in getting you fired.
Hope this helps.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

The hot girls at my job have always had plenty of men falling over themselves to “help” them.

Even though I had good “boundaries,” and kept a professional distance, non of them would “pull their own weight” or do their fair share, when I had to work with them.

Besides the eye candy, what a waste of space!

The ones who stayed on, got promoted to positions of authority. They destroy a work place. What a nightmare!

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

The hot girls at my job have always had plenty of men falling over themselves to “help” them.

That’s the one good thing about my workplace. I’m one of the only men here, and the rest of them are nearing retirement age. I’m arguably one of the youngest guys working here (never thought about that until just now). Most of the women, at their youngest, are in their early 20s, or like the student worker I mentioned, 19.

Funny I’m talking about her and I just heard a short bit ago that they may have to cut her due to budgeting reasons. Part of me is sad because she’s the best looking woman we’ve had in this office in the 2 years I’ve been here (and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with eye candy), but another part thinks that at least my raging testosterone won’t be driven wild by her every literal SCENT. I feel like a fragging animal with her around, and I don’t know whether I like it or not.

[Anonymous 11]

I don’t s~~~ where I sleep if you know what I mean. I don’t have any social relationships with people I work with. I keep everything totally professional. There are too many enemies who will use anything against you.

Why would you want to look at the same c~~~ for 8 to 12 hours a day and then deal with her s~~~ after work?

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

lonestar77,
Been there. Office vag is a blast.
But consider the old “risk-benefit” equation.
Any vagina should provide you with benefit while exposing you to little risk. Office vag, on the other hand, still provides benefit, but it exposes you to high risk.
Now that I’m older, I wouldn’t touch office vag if it were 11 out of 10 and was into every kinky thing imaginable.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

If she were a guy, would you converse?

Or are the words coming from her mouth a load of crap? is anything she saying remotely intelligent?

probably not.

So, how would you react to a guy spewing out absolutely retarded s~~~?

Just stop trying to please her in a conversation; treat her as if she were any other person.

Her, “Look at my brand new high heel shoes”
You, “Uh huh….”
Her, “Aren’t they pretty?”
You, “Uh huh…”
Her, “Are you listening?”
You, “Yup”
Her, “Don’t you care about my shoes?”
You, “Nope”
**End of conversation**

or on a day when you have less energy:
Her, “Look at my brand new high heel shoes”
You, “Meh…”
**End of conversation**

Avoiding women just because they are women is still being influenced / controlled by them. So, avoidance is never the solution; and in my mind not very MGTOW.

In the long run, i suggest that you listen to MGTOW talk shows ( tom leykin, Terrence Popp, ect ), maybe even female talk shows ( to see their true disgusting nature); just enough to start getting the hang of reading exactly what women are saying when they are talking. browse about the forums and before you know it, you’ll be able to read women like an open book… and see the absolutely disgusting reality.

When you see how every other word that comes out of their mouths, is coated full of manipulative cry baby crap… you’ll find it extremely difficult to have any conversations with them… lasting more than a few words.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Does this help ?

I try to remind myself often. It helps.

Frank V.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

I’m pretty much the opposite as most of you here. I “s~~~ where I eat” and have done so through most of my career, against the advice of most people. I absolutely refuse to go out somewhere and meet women, ask for phone numbers, try my hardest to impress them, etc when I’m trying to get some. Work has brought in an endless amount of vag that requires no work. Of course there has been “drama” but it goes away as women, especially decent-looking ones will find a different job, or have a baby with some other guy because I wouldn’t get suckered in.

Can be risky business. But I have quite a few accomplishments that came with no strings and no effort. I’ll live.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

I’ve been down this road when I was 21 y/o, i’m 40 y/o now, and i will tell from experience this does not end well.

Just my 2 cents worth!

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