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As most of you know, I work at a university. This university is full of pretty cool guys and women that still look absolutely ridiculously good (because they haven’t hit that wall yet).
My department now has a new student worker who is one of the most stunning women I’ve ever seen. I mean, good mercy. She’s 19, has an INCREDIBLE body, and is surprisingly NOT going for gender studies like one of our other student workers. She’s going for Accounting or some business-related thing like that.
…And THAT’s where I backpedaled. I DO NOT talk to women about my personal life and do NOT talk to them about anything other than work-related things normally. But she asked me what classes I was taking when she noticed my math book and saw it was Finite Mathematics. She said she was taking that too, and that we should study sometime so we could pass it together. I then had to work with her to create files and labels, and she started talking about almost every movie I liked. She’s apparently a huge comic MOVIE fan, but wants to learn about the actual comics themselves. Me being a comic buff, I could have educated her for hours (but I actually DID avoid doing that).
She also asked me how old I was (27), and she thought I was closer to her age. She said I “looked younger and was a lot more energetic than other guys my age.” Again, I slapped myself mentally for even TELLING her any of this stuff.
She asked what I thought about my future plans, like my career goals. When I said “city/state management” (which is VAGUELY true, but that can mean anything), her eyes lit up. “OOOH, that sounds COOL!”, she told me. “Shoot,” I thought, “I was trying to sound boring and uninteresting here.” Usually women find THAT work field boring and it’s a turn-off because it’s not something like a police officer, firefighter, doctor, lawyer, military boss…you name it. She then said “are you planning on getting married?” I knew the answer to this one, and it was actually a truthful one.
“Haven’t found or been with anyone worth marrying.” I said this because, well, that’s the truth for ANY woman today, really. There’s none out there worth devoting your life to. They all want a financial slave…but I didn’t say any of that because I didn’t want to get in trouble with any of my superiors.
I talked to her about these things two Tuesdays ago. She had to leave for a week to go on a trip that had to do with her father’s health.
She came back on Wednesday this past week, and would say hi to me when she’d pass me every once and a while. She then at one REALLY random point asked me, no joke:
“So…do you believe in soul mates?”
I paused, looked at her weird, and simply shrugged and said, :”I dunno!” …Then there was SOMETHING about the way she looked at me and the way she smelled (which was ridiculously enticing), to where I added, “What about you?” Strike two. She just answered, “oh, I was just curious what YOU thought…” She then walked away, but then as she passed me the next time, she smiled and said “oh, and to answer your question, I do believe in them!” I gave a look at her of “huh, interesting” and went back to my work again.
I dunno why I’m posting this, as I know a lot of people on here will think “ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND!?” I know I was. I knew I was being stupid. I knew I was being “typical guy,” but she kept COMING BACK…which is NOT something I’m used to. I’m used to answering nonchalantly and them never coming back to say or ask anything more.
I remember Keymaster telling me around the beginning of this year (around when I first joined) about one girl I was talking about…he said something like “girls don’t come up just to say ‘hi.’ They WANT something from you.”
All I’m stuck asking myself is “what exactly is she wanting from me?” I know some may say, “who cares?” I agree to that, and I’m not obsessing over it by any means, but it’s something interesting I’ve been thinking about over the weekend.
On a side note, speaking of how well she smelled, I could pick up her scent almost 30+ feet away. Like, I knew when she’d be coming down the hall almost 30-45 seconds before she’d come up to my desk. I felt like fragging Wolverine or something. Is that one of those biological chemical reaction things that guys that are attracted pick up on, or am I just losing my mind there? That’s another interesting thing I want to know about.
Anonymous1“ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND!?”
Well, ARE YOU?
😀
Jokes aside, don’t overthink the situation. Don’t think with your dick either. Knowing what she wants from you would be ideal, but that will come with time. Besides, if she is as pretty as you say, she might as well be f~~~ing someone already on the side, and is after you for something else. Or she is after you for the f~~~ing part (have no idea how you look like, but I’m guessing you look like a Matthew Goode, but blonde).
Anyway, enjoy, but keep your eyes (and ears) opened.
Cheers and good luck.
I think you have to weigh out the benefits and risks
Some MGTOW will tell you to, not communicate with women other than when absolutely necessary, i would say there is a good reasoning behind that but at the end of the day it is up to you and what you want
The more people you let into your life the more risks you will have orbiting around you, but i would say that most people don’t want to live a life with no one around at all, and with no friends at all, so pick your friends and relations wisely ^-^
She asked what I thought about my future plans, like my career goals. When I said “city/state management” (which is VAGUELY true, but that can mean anything), her eyes lit up. “OOOH, that sounds COOL!”, she told me.
She then said “are you planning on getting married?”
“So…do you believe in soul mates?”…. “oh, and to answer your question, I do believe in them!” I gave a look at her of “huh, interesting” and went back to my work again.
Is that one of those biological chemical reaction things that guys that are attracted pick up on, or am I just losing my mind there? That’s another interesting thing I want to know about.
Hi there. Working at a college can be tough when those pheromones on a “must get man so I can get kids and do nothing else with my life” 19-30 year olds show up. And yep, it’s all chemical reactions. You can always say “I’m not interested in you.” or try to drop the gay bomb, but she smells blood in the water so you’d better back away fast!
You said “city management” and she heard “money with possible prestige.” You said “not married” and she heard “chase him down.” She did the soul mates question to see how much of an idiot/sap you are. Expect her to drop the “you’re my soul mate” line at some point even though she doesn’t even have enough life experience to be able to drink yet. She will not respect you and, being young, will f~~~ anyone who feels some new-agey “spark” with her. She will not stop following and pestering until you force her to go away.
Tell her you don’t want to date her. Straight up the next time you see her, just do it. If she asks why explain that you’re a “confirmed bachelor” who is “not interested in women” and stick to it. If she doesn’t listen avoid her, but be sure to state you’re not interested in her before you start avoiding her. If she keeps following you and you told her you’re not interested (especially more than once!), you can call “sexual harassment” and get your work hours changed at HR to avoid her. That’s the good thing about PC campuses- they generally will listen to stuff like that in the interest of political correctness.
Remember: pretty at 19, ugly at 25. The earlier they peaked, the faster they hit the wall. Period.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.
Resign and f~~~ her
Or
Ask her to leave and f~~~ her
Or
Retain a lawyer, get the snip, record everything, don’t be alone, yes means yes, Rape.
Or go about your day
FANTASTIC points, all of you! This is exactly why I love this site!
I’m guessing you look like a Matthew Goode, but blonde).
I laughed at this WAY more than I should have!!
It’s not really right for a 50 year old guy to tell a young 20 something to not f~~~.
So, just make sure you wear your rubbers.
Just remember she has c~~~ on tap.
Often these types use you for resources.
They are princesses.
I would always look a the hot ones, know they were full of themselves and hit on the average gal with the huge boobs.What’s actually funny is that she is one of those that not everyone would consider “attractive.” I mean, I think she’s a knockout physically and has a great face to go with it, but I have strange tastes.
I DID think about the fact that she does indeed have guys on tap if she wanted to, though.
I think I MAY have caught her on some things…here they are:
She said before that her guy friends thought she was “weird” because she loved comic book movies. Either 1) they’re those jocky club-going Jersey Shore type dudes that only want prissy prom princesses, or 2) they’re non-existent. I hate to say it, but I think it’s option 2. I want to give the benefit of the doubt, but I’ve learned NEVER to give a woman the benefit of the doubt or ANY leeway. I want them to PROVE themselves, and NO woman has thus far.
I also decided to do a personal “test” before she went off on her trip about 2 weeks back. I told her that she should add me on her social media, whatever she may have. I knew that either that would scare her off, she would say yes, or she would claim she doesn’t use anything. It was kind of the latter of the three. She said that she has
, but she doesn’t use them much. Now, I know women. Of COURSE they use social media sites. She can’t be THAT different…I literally only know one other woman that doesn’t use social media because she’s a little socially awkward (unless you count DeviantArt)…and that woman has Asperger’s (which, oddly enough, makes her VERY different from other women).
After saying she doesn’t use any apps much, she said she’d add me on those things when she came back. Didn’t happen, but I honestly don’t care. I knew that wasn’t COMPLETELY true.
On the topic of “soul mates,” I’m a spiritual (Christian) guy, and ever since I was a teenager, I only half-believed in that concept. I always thought that some were meant to have someone, and some were meant to be alone.
What you could do is game her an play hard to get….tease the f~~~ out of her….Tell her where you will be and see if she shows up.
Good luck man, enjoy your youth.Though I don’t like the “chasing” game and won’t really do it anymore, I DO love playing “hard-to-get.” I’ve never been any good at it, but seeing them TRY is even funnier.
Resign and f~~~ her
Well, if everything goes right anyway, I’m applying for a job within the University’s UCT department (that’s their computer tech department). Completely different location. Pays over $1,000 a month more than I’m making now…and potentially over 40 hours, if needed. I’m fine with that. If she tries to keep in contract with me (doubtful), it would be interesting, no lie there.
I cannot disagree with anything the previous posters have advised. Analysis of cost/benefit and risk/reward should rule over what your little head is demanding.
Good luck with the transfer and pay raise. In your shoes, I would make that my goal, but not getting laid if it meant risking getting kicked out of school with a “sex offender” innuendo following me around for the rest of my life.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
I think it was RoyDal who said “The lure is irresistible, but there are hooks and they are barbed.”. Wise words, my brothers.
Men are programmed to mindlessly take the bait when it’s dangled in front of them, that’s why you’re obsessing over this colleague. The challenge is to rise above it, think with your head and ignore what your heart and loins are telling you. If you then decide to pursue this girl romantically, well, at least you will have done so with a mgtow mindset and I’m sure you’ll take every measure to protect yourself.
Get her to suck your dick and we can post it on a 18+ section of the site.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
I would keep it going, get the pussy and run !..just me though. .if you’re really a nice guy, friend zone her afterwards. .maybe get a nice little f~~~ buddy out of the deal. .up to you. .risky business. .what’s it worth to ya ?
I would keep it going, get the pussy and run !..just me though. .if you’re really a nice guy, friend zone her afterwards. .maybe get a nice little f~~~ buddy out of the deal. .up to you. .risky business. .what’s it worth to ya ?
It could be the “little head” talking, considering I haven’t really had any kind of “action” in almost a year now.
Never S~~~ on your bread and butter homie. Having engineer on my work tag gets many stupid conversations with women that are waiting for me to take the bait, hooking me up with their sister, etc.
No thanks fell for it before and it’s fun but not worth more than a six figure job. All it take is a harassment charge and a trip to HR to get you back to MGTOW.
Its clear that you are enamored by her presence. But think about your career /$$ before pu$$y.
Success is the best revenge.
If your job means nothing to you and you really think she is worth more than your paycheck go right ahead..
If your job means nothing to you and you really think she is worth more than your paycheck go right ahead..
Just got my 2nd annual raise, and I’m working for the state. That’s certainly the logically more important thing.
Tread carefully. That new car smell can hide a world of trouble underneath the hood.
Realistically, if you f~~~ her, one of two things is going to happen:
a: Things go well for awhile and then turn to s~~~, with the potential of losing your job.
b: Things crash and burn shortly thereafter, with the potential of losing your job.Do you really, really think if she cried rape or sexual harassment that the college would believe a word you say, if you’re even allowed to defend yourself?
I read your post and you sound smitten. Figure out a way to get your head out of the fog before its too late.
Do you really, really think if she cried rape or sexual harassment that the college would believe a word you say, if you’re even allowed to defend yourself?
I read your post and you sound smitten. Figure out a way to get your head out of the fog before its too late.That’s exactly what I was thinking. Working at a university, my “innocence” would be impossible to prove. I’m simply physically attracted, and I’m accepting it at that. I don’t really get emotionally attached to anyone anymore (I try my best not to). If I don’t see ’em, I don’t think about ’em much, if at all.
No worries, gentlemen. My big head is thinking over my small one! 😛
Why don’t you just tell her straight up?
Tell her that you like her and are really attracted to her but in the current social climate it’s too dangerous to become involved with women, it’s a simple cost benefit analysis- possibly losing your job & a relationship which has a high likelihood of failure/destruction by false rape claims or going solo, not investing in what we know to be a perilous money pit, keeping your job, etc etc.Don’t get dicknapped. Remember the wise words of Spock; it’s highly illogical.
Never ever ever ever, f*ck a co-worker. Never.
There’s plenty of tail out there, do not jeopardize your livelihood ($$$) for pussy.Just rolling down the road
I like pussy as much as the next guy and I can empathize with you wanting to f~~~ that 19yo senseless, but you work in a university for Christ’s sake. Haven’t you even stopped to think about that?
You’re not only thinking about s~~~ting where you eat – and I can’t blame you after reading your descriptions of her – but you’re contemplating f~~~ing a 19yo co-worker at ground zero of the Rape Culture hysteria. Beginning to understand?
And getting another job at another location won’t help at all because you’re still working for the university.
Leaving aside the very good chance that your little hottie eventually goes mental on you, there are going to be a horde of nasty, jealous, washed up, “career” women at the university sharpening their knives and typing up complaints once the new pretty girl starts seeing the guy in the office.
You’re laying your b~~~~ on an anvil and handing them a sledgehammer.
Still, if I was in my 20s, I’d be thinking about tagging her. Don’t know if I would, but I’d be thinking about it.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
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