Haven't dated in 40 years

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Welcome Swimcat,

I would be interested in hearing what your wife thought of feminism as it came into prominence, etc.

How does your daughter view feminism, etc?

As others have said, be cautious. The power of the P is strong.

Peace brothers

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

Feminism is not about equal rights and opportunities. Its about power. Its about who is going to wear the crown. Don’t underestimate their determination to push their agenda. When you read what they write and hear what they say, its frightening. I have two nieces that are ball busting man haters. I had to unfriend them on facebook. The feminazi propaganda just got to be too much. My sister whines. ” No guys ever ask them out. I don’t think eithier one wil ever get married” I wonder why? MGTOW is a big step in the right direction. Men , especially single men, will have to be better organized to represent our interests. My wife and I never spoke much about it. She was a teacher and like most teachers she voted Democrat. I actually have two daughters. The older one is a college prof and very liberal. She is married. So she’s no big radical. Like I said my younger daughter is a military officer, so she’s much more conservative. We try not to get into political discussions when we get together.

[Mr. CrowleyParticipant 384]

Swimcat, I believe women such as your wife is a part of americana now. Much like the white picket fence, the hardworking honest family that had traditional roles, a time and place when cars were cars men were men and the women knew it. My Gen Y is screwed.
It’s great you’re getting out and discovering the world again! Keep staying busy!! Idle hands are the devils workshop.

Punks- Not Feeling Lucky Since 1971

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Swimcat wrote:

Feminism is not about equal rights and opportunities. Its about power. Its about who is going to wear the crown. Don’t underestimate their determination to push their agenda.

That helps me understand that you get it.

I feel for the younger generation men. They have never known anything but a feminist society.

I am the oldest guy and every June we hire a young engineer. They are all indoctrinated. They have no chance.

Even with your age and wisdom you actually stand less of a chance.

If you choose to enter the playing field you will be destroyed. And you have everything to lose.

Welcome

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 54]

Mgtow 3. You could “retire” with your wife’s memory,and leave it at that. Side step learning what women are like these days. Could a warm memory be better than today’s cold reality.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Condolences regards your wife, as has been said you will be vulnerable , see hookers of you want sex.

You are the target, the world has changed so much..

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Swimcat wrote:

I have two nieces that are ball busting man haters. I had to unfriend them on facebook. The feminazi propaganda just got to be too much.

OK that’s good. At least you SEE it for what it is. I was concerned you were stepping into dating again after 40 years oblivious to this.

Swimcat wrote:

Even if it means going total MGTOW. I just have too much to lose and too much at stake.

+1 for MGTOW.

And +1 man out there has his head on right.

I had more than a few scares in recent years, but one in particular. It was then that I made a personal vow that no woman would get the upper hand again. Whatever it takes – whatever it takes – to preserve your sovereignty.

I would wish you luck, but luck is not a factor.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

OMFG. I have no doubt Terrance Popp is telling the truth

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Swimcat, you watched that video? Crazy, hu?

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Anonymous wrote:

money money money! Pay for my car loan, I need a car repair I need a new car….Lets go on vacation together Ive never been to paris rome London Vienna Moscow lets to to all the places oh your house could use some freshening up lets look at new curtains carpet paint windows, your furniture is so 1990’s lets go shopping and spruce your place up oh look chrome and glass, wicker and wood and microsuede, you know this is not a good part of town, lets look at new houses, this house feels like your dear departed wife is still here oh look this one is only $599099 and its so close to the beach and the shopping and th nightlife oh lets just go look at it oh your furniture wont do in this kind of house, you need furniture painted white, and look your old car is so old lets look at something more fun, like an Audi convertible, it is so nice and I feel so much safer in this car its more reliable. your convertible is nice but I would like a suv like an audi q whateverit is, you want to keep me save don’t you? oh look at our back yard, it is so plain, as need a walking path, you know a marble walking path so we can walk out and enjoy the sunset, and a pool would be good to, we can swim after dinner and enjoy the day together, and we need a pool house, so we can have a place to change and a place to put a fridge and pool toys and maybe a guest room for when your friends come over and we can string up some pool lights shaped like pineapples and you can have a big built in grill and a stone bar for when your buddies come over, and we need a big screen tv out there so you can watch football or baseball from the hottub, yeah hot tub honey, we could just chill in the hot tub, honey my sister needs help paying her taxes her husband hid money from her and divorced her and she needs $45000 or the irs will put her in jail. oh thank you for saving her you are the best

Just warming you up for what you will hear, because this s~~~’s coming

Oh dear god this was so realistic it’s terrifying. Reading this fiction actually gave me a f~~~ing headache.

[,Participant 1301]

Married 28yrs before She filed. Married in ’80s and dated that HSsweetHeart 9yrs before.

Dating is Dangerous, Especially now.(*now for you swimcat and now in our times) Its too fn easy boys. They are using treble hooks and worse, they taser the ponds and see who comes up fat n ea$y.

I’m just starting to start right. and I’m behind. Got a few to cast off right now.

You can always backslide but you really need to experience self enjoyment, life enjoyment, for a substantial amount of time first. Train train train yourself NOW.

Enjoy your memories swimcat as its a wonderful life still but in a totally different manner.

with joy/without hate

[RegularJoughParticipant 258]

Anonymous wrote:

money money money! Pay for my car loan, I need a car repair I need a new car….Lets go on vacation together Ive never been to paris rome London Vienna Moscow lets to to all the places oh your house could use some freshening up lets look at new curtains carpet paint windows, your furniture is so 1990’s lets go shopping and spruce your place up oh look chrome and glass, wicker and wood and microsuede, you know this is not a good part of town, lets look at new houses, this house feels like your dear departed wife is still here oh look this one is only $599099 and its so close to the beach and the shopping and th nightlife oh lets just go look at it oh your furniture wont do in this kind of house, you need furniture painted white, and look your old car is so old lets look at something more fun, like an Audi convertible, it is so nice and I feel so much safer in this car its more reliable. your convertible is nice but I would like a suv like an audi q whateverit is, you want to keep me save don’t you? oh look at our back yard, it is so plain, as need a walking path, you know a marble walking path so we can walk out and enjoy the sunset, and a pool would be good to, we can swim after dinner and enjoy the day together, and we need a pool house, so we can have a place to change and a place to put a fridge and pool toys and maybe a guest room for when your friends come over and we can string up some pool lights shaped like pineapples and you can have a big built in grill and a stone bar for when your buddies come over, and we need a big screen tv out there so you can watch football or baseball from the hottub, yeah hot tub honey, we could just chill in the hot tub, honey my sister needs help paying her taxes her husband hid money from her and divorced her and she needs $45000 or the irs will put her in jail. oh thank you for saving her you are the best

Just warming you up for what you will hear, because this s~~~’s coming

#1- Efforts noted, your a big help.

#2- STOP!! I damn near had an anxiety attack reading that!!

Shit tested, Brother approved.

[RegularJoughParticipant 258]

Anonymous wrote:

Mgtow 3. You could “retire” with your wife’s memory,and leave it at that. Side step learning what women are like these days. Could a warm memory be better than today’s cold reality.

Well said. Very positive statement here.

If I had a wish, it would be to look back over a 40 year successful marriage and feel good knowing my future was bright, even without my wife.

Of course, we all know, that bright future is only bright without another woman in it.

Shit tested, Brother approved.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

One of my biggest fears is how my kids will react to me be involved with another women. Besides the threat to their inheritance, they just can’t imagine me any other way. I KNOW they would be very suspicious of any women I was getting cozy with, especially if she was younger than me. My oldest daughter would welcome her with all the warm feelings of a rattlesnake. My father in law survived his wife and married a women my wife couldn’t stand. I miss the sex, but its just too dangerous to venture outside of my comfort zone.

[BullhammerParticipant 10]

I’m new to this Forum, it’s high time that somebody creates such a place for all the man who finally woke up from this illusions, lies and i would even say terror.
First of all i want to tell u my condolence!
Second, I’d recommend way #3 for it’s the most comfortable and lucky one. But I guess there is nothing wrong to fool around with some of those golddiggers as Long as 1. she is hot, 2. she is no coworker, 3. u dont impregnate her (vasectomy=perfect idea) 4. do not get emotionally/financially involved to her 5. do not get trapped (fe in the domestic abuse trap). U can do it with clear conscience because they propably are just reaching for ur wallet or emotional energy so they try to utilise u, so u try to utilise them.
don’t care too much about what your children think about that, they will understand u and in the end the most important Thing for them is you to be lucky (it should be that way)
Wish u a lot of happieness and success Walking this new and for sure very exiting and peacefull way of life.

[Anonymous 3]

Swimcat wrote:

I had always heard but never experienced that single women have an intelligence network that puts the CIA to shame.

That is the gossip network, with social media as the main backbone. Info can literally spread to thousands of people around you in the blink of an eye.

Anonymous wrote:

money money money! …

I totally agree with that reply, every word of it.

Swimcat wrote:

Men , especially single men, will have to be better organized to represent our interests.

We have to mass-going-to-our-ways because society is beyond repair. We have to care for our own survival, and our friend’s survival (if/when it’s possible). Any “representing of interest” is what MRA do, and results in nothing more than calling trouble upon one’s head. But, when we all are going Galt (You know Atlas Shrugged movie) then marriages and relationships completely dry up, and they will ask it even more frequently “Where are all the good men?”. If anything, this might make a change decades later, but we don’t really care about it. We have our own peaceful lives our way.

Swimcat wrote:

OMFG. I have no doubt Terrance Popp is telling the truth

Yes he is, in all of his videos. I like and respect that guy, saying truth in a funny way with beer in hand.

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

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That is the gossip network, with social media as the main backbone. Info can literally spread to thousands of people around you in the blink of an eye.

That also means that just one of them can easily torpedo your future dating prospects with impunity. Scary.

[Anonymous 3]

Rennie wrote:

That also means that just one of them can easily torpedo your future dating prospects with impunity. Scary.

Yes, this is true. and I don’t care for dating for obvious reasons, but in the very same way, it is easy to torpedo any other life aspects this way.

So, better to not share any vital information with anyone. Less naked points on you that gossiping enemies can target. This is the stupid-simple truth.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

I promised to tell you guys about my trip to Florida. Back in February the company gave me three weeks leave due to my circumstances. The night before I left on a cruise I went on a date with one of my girlfriends from high school. I knew she had moved to Florida years ago and I was FB friends with her. She was divorced years ago. No kids. I contacted her by FB asking her out and she said sure. Fact was she barely remembered me. I last saw her 44 years ago. So we went to this great restuarant in Miami Beach and then walked around the beach area and saw the sights and nightlife, didn’t go in any clubs. So when I take her home, we pull into the parking garage of her condo, and she says” Swimcat, after I went through menopause it really hurts to have sex. I want you to see you again when you come to Florida. So as not to dissappoint you, put the car seat back and pull down your pants.” Like to blew the back of her head out.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

My condolences and applaud for making it for 40 years. Though it is usual that in my country it is pretty normal to see couples married for 40-50 years, but its still not an easy thing to do.

You might have had to sacrifice so much in that time, and granted that your wife sacrificed a lot too.

For that, you have my respect.

As for your question, you are free to follow whatever path you choose. We don’t force anything upon anyone. You as a man are sane enough to know female nature as it comes. I trust you’ll take the best decision for yourself and your children.

And, welcome to mgtow.com.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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