Have you have received any support from your woman in times of crises

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

I’ve had women who wanted support from me when they were going through hard times, but when I’m the one who needs help, I tend to get the cold shoulder. It doesn’t matter how much of a Chad you are or how much money you have, the moment women sense any kind of weakness (as they see it), their attraction level drops to dead zero. I’ve seen it hundreds of times.

Once, when I was struggling with a difficult decision, she said, “I’ll support you no matter what.” That’s the best I can come up with, but it’s something I guess.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[revistaParticipant 232]

When my mom and dad died(13 years ago) within a month of each other my girlfriend at the time dumped me 3 weeks after.she said i was miserable and bringing her down.i laugh about it now but at the time i was devastated.i bumped into her 5 years after and she said id “been abit snappy” with her,thats why she had to break up with me.i laughed and walked away.

[Anonymous 1]

Nope. Women will expect you to make every sacrifice to keep a smile on princess’s face; but don’t you dare need any emotional support, that’d mean you’re not a “real man”. To your point, expecting support from a woman will only result in her shaming you and making things worse.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

My dad was ill for a short time and finally died. Same time I started a new job working away from home and my mum was distraught. I had to call her every night and she was on loop with grief we always talked the same conversations and she constantly needed reassurance on things. I was always closer to my dad than my mum and she needed me to help out and support her, even over the phone at night after a hard day at work in a new job hundreds of miles away from home.

My girl at the time had her attention taken away and she always said I’d become a mummy’s boy and always pandered to what she wanted. In reality I was supporting a grieving parent and also dealing with it myself. Girlfriend turned it into all about her and used shaming language to get me to put her on a pedestal and tried to compete with attention I was giving my mum at the time. The c~~~ made me feel like I was trash and doing it all wrong. Family comes first always. Got rid of the c~~~ and never really called her out on how s~~~ she treated me. Zero support she argued with me and berated me with no apology. She wanted me to entertain her and act like life was rosy. Selfish little bitch.

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[Sky-OParticipant 18944]

During times of crisis:

The primary guy is looked at by Pumpkin differently.

He is watched for continued signs of weakness. Calculations are made. His role could be diminished if he does not get out of the crisis.

Pumpkin begins checking in more frequently with her orbiters. She f~~~s her side-Chads harder. And she initiates contingency plans to extract from the crisis zone.

They are narcissistic, calculating and tactical.

Crisis means no more pussy.

In times of crisis, a man is as good as dead.

Some guys don’t figure it out until there is a crisis.

And amidst the crisis, they at least find the truth.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

When my ex and I were just living together about two years into the relationship my grandpa died. We were really close. She had traveled with me to visit him nearly every week before he died. I was really depressed once he passed and she was supportive.

Later that year big layoffs at my company and it included me. Again she was supportive. Came home and took me out to eat and to a movie. Told me not to worry. In three months I found another job.

I thought “she’s amazing. she really loves me. So supportive.” So I started saving up for that ring.

Later after we were married when I was really unhappy with my life and job severely depressed I got no support. I had a severe ear infection that caused permanent hearing loss; she refused to take me to the doctor. She said she had two kids to take care of; wasn’t her job to take care of me. Oh and she got pregnant at one point and had an abortion against my wishes. Later I put together she had been cheating and probably had the abortion because she knew it might not be mine.

She refused to sleep in the same bed. She slept in the guest room. I remember one night laying in bed thinking: “I have never felt so alone. I have nobody to depend on.” Actually that wasn’t true my parents stepped up to help when things hit the fan though she had alienated them for years.

When I felt at the lowest point of my life she cheated and hit me with the divorce. Oh and said she wanted me gone ASAP.

[Anonymous 12]

I have!

And i am not kidding either.
my power was shut down because long terl joblessness.
2,4k… she paid, no questions asked.
Same situation and my money was running low… she bought me truckloads of Food.

why did she do that?
i had brainwashed her into getting a Job
“stop bitching about money and running errands for the man, start working for a paycheck”

in one year she amassed 12,3k of financial reserves, and it was pretty much due to me pushing her in that direction.
So she paid some of it back.

rare, but it happens.

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talking about finances here.
emotoional support or just being a shoulder to cry on… nope, never happened.

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