Have you have received any support from your woman in times of crises

[freedomParticipant 5129]

whether it be emotional or anything else?

I am over 30 and I have never experienced it, even the one I did everything for, when I needed help, she made it all about herself and even whined about me not being myself.

I don’t remember words like “It will be fine, I’m right with you” or “What can I do to make you feel a bit better”, nothing, in their eyes you are suppose to be a superhuman with no problems and no concerns, they are the only ones allowed to not being themselves.

Look let’s be honest with ourselves, yes we are men but we do have our s~~~ty moments, why would you want someone who is not just not supportive, but also makes you feel worse?

[Anonymous 54]

Hahahahahhah….

[rightturnclydeParticipant 705]

Support? EVERY major crises in my life was caused by women.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

rightturnclyde wrote:

Support? EVERY major crises in my life was caused by women.

Thisssssss

I repeat “WOMEN HATE MEN, always did and always will”

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Hahahahahhah….

2nd that!

rightturnclyde wrote:

Support? EVERY major crises in my life was caused by women.

2nd that!

Carnage wrote:

Thisssssss

I repeat “WOMEN HATE MEN, always did and always will”

2nd that!

I see we all agree!

I call the board to the next issue at hand!

Has a woman ever taken advantage of you then drop you like a stone? Into a rock crusher?

[Anonymous 54]

Ive been laughed at and called a loser.

Is that support?

I have nothing to compare it to.

Struggle alone.

Celebrate alone.

Women intentionaly sabotage celebrations anyways.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

freedom wrote:

I don’t remember words like “It will be fine, I’m right with you” or “What can I do to make you feel a bit better”

Yes. I have heard this many times. It comes from psychos. Stage 5 clingers. You don’t want that f~~~in s~~~ trust me. Usually I tell them to stfu and get the f~~~ away from me when they start that. I need space bitch. I need to breathe.

Don't care

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Usually when you celebrate success they will just say “ah that’s cool, so anyway I was saying…”

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Yeah, I have actually with former g/fs, couple times… but I’ve certainly met the ones who make it worse too. Overall I’ve never met a woman I could say I could rely on.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

freedom wrote:

Usually when you celebrate success they will just say “ah that’s cool, so anyway I was saying…”

Then you say are we gonna f~~~ or not cuz if not I’m outie 5000

Don't care

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8286]

What woman?

I’ve always had to face my darkest days alone.

By the way:

I remember seeing a post about Barbarossa saying that women resent it when men want sympathy & support from them. We have to be rock solid at all times so they can lean on us for support—while it’s totally okay for them to be hopeless and needy. It’s totally unfair. So I think it’s better to rent than to buy when it comes to romantic relationships with women.

If you give a stray dog your half-eaten cheeseburger, it will be your friend FOR LIFE. I wish I could say the same for humans.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[X11Spectator 4520]

When I was blue pill orbiting I was ready to quiet on building up material resources and wealth around me.

The women I was orbiting stepped in and got me back in the game and on the hamster wheel.

My blue pill interpretation was they were looking out for my best interests and progress.

I see now the true meaning of their “kindness”.

[Anonymous 54]

FunInTheSun wrote:

If you give a stray dog your half-eaten cheeseburger, it will be your friend FOR LIFE. I wish I could say the same for humans.

I would be your freind for life for half a cheesburger.

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

The answer is no. An emphatic no.

She looked at me in disgust, and with a species of contempt I’d only save for my worst enemy. The level of revulsion in her eyes I’ll never forget.

Of course, she was f~~~ing Chad at this point, so she had no emotional investment in me anymore, despite more than a decade of history.

The answer is no. Women do NOT support their partners.

For those of you worried about dying alone…a few days after your terminal diagnosis, cupcake is outta there.

The answer, is no.

[TwistParticipant]

xW – decades – ZERO
Rebound – ZERO

But that was only my experience, NAWALT.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

I’d think they had my back, but it was only to stick a knife in it.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

A long time ago, I got sick and needed to go to the ER…I called my then wife to accompany me to the hospital because I was scared it might be something major…

Guess what? I waited and then I went alone to the ER…My then wife had some excuses why she cant come with me…Which I later found out was non existent…

She can go on vacations and parties and other events without me but when I needed her most, I was left to fend for myself…So much for the vow, in sickness and in health…Bunch of lies…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[TwistParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Guess what? I waited and then I went alone to the ER…My then wife had some excuses why she cant come with me…Which I later found out was non existent…

So the final straw with Rebound – I had just had serious eye surgery, most major of my life. Rebound had been recruited to drive me to next-day post-op appointment. Note that I could not drive – I could not see. Still fully dilated, no clue if surgery had been successful or if I’d wind up blind – so I had a bit of concern…

5pm night before “I am not driving you tomorrow. I have an important haircut to do and I am not going to lose the money”

Me – “WTF?”

Rebound – “well you say you have so many friends, let’s see if any of them will drive you”

Me – Get the f~~~ out.

Rebound – you are abusive.

Follow up – she doubles down the next day, saying she knew I wanted to f~~~ the doctor (yes – a pretty woman, but I had never met her prior, and f~~~ing her was not high on my list of topics that day)

Nuts.

But NAWALT. Go ahead. Take your shot.

[Anonymous 43]

support when I had problems? I worked very hard not to have problems. I maintained the tools and machines necessary to keep the house running. I kept the kids on schedule and on task for homework, I took care of the chores so that everyone had what they needed.

The few times I had difficulty, the c~~~ added to my troubles. I was suffering from ulcers, slowly bleeding out from the inside, developing anemia. Anemia at a certain point leads to slowing down, cant catch breath, tired weakness. F~~~ she accused me of being lazy, and would bust my ass, riding me like some sort of horse all the time. She was telling family and friends I was dying, and had consulted with a funeral director on a Monday about when I was going to die, later that week, maybe Thursday.

A colonoscopy showed what was happening to me, and the fix was easy. Then I was loaded down with how could I be so wrecked and so irresponsible to let a little thing like bleeding out get in the way of performing my duties. She was more upset that I wasn’t going to die of some horrible cancer, like she told her friends and family. It was my fault for not dying of some tragic reason.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

This is a very timely post for my current situation.

My father has been recently diagnosed with a terminal illness. While I love my mother, she has only made his impending passing that much more difficult. The situation has been turned from his care and needs to being all about her and how it has impacted her life. I spend more time defusing the drama she causes as I do taking care of essential business.

A few weeks ago I admit that the emotions of the situation made me temporarily waiver. I wondered if maybe having a partner or children might make the sacrifice and risk worth it.

Suffice it to say it isn’t. My mom and sister have only added drama and complexity to a simple situation. Even my dad has admitted that if it were not for me he’d feel hopeless.

He has even admitted that passing peacefully alone is not that bad.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 43]

My Mom, to her credit, was there for my father anytime he was hurt. She took care of him when he was sick. She was at his side right at the end, when he was declared dead.

The ER people worked on him for a while, and she was right there. An ER nurse told my mom that she was the first wife she had seen in 20 years to keep her s~~~ together and stay with her man. Most women either fell apart completely and had to be sedated, restrained or were admitted to the tank, or wives just didn’t go to the ER.

My dad had his unicorn. Lucky man.

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