Have you have received any support from your woman in times of crises

[TwistParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

She was more upset that I wasn’t going to die of some horrible cancer, like she told her friends and family. It was my fault for not dying of some tragic reason.

I came back from my first physical in a decade. Was concerned that my BP and Cholesterol were both elevated.
Informed xW.

She flew into a rage at doctor, then made me a baloney and cheese sandwich.

Ah, the days of true love.

Couldn’t make a sandwich to save her life, btw.

They WANT you dead. Believe it.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Nope will be the answer.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[HowardParticipant 164]

Unless it’s an extremely minor vent, NO! I was having major issues at my work and my xW just rolled her eyes at me anytime I wanted to talk about it. I found out soon after she was riding the c~~~ carousel.

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

Near the end of my 11 year relations~~~ (total waste of a decade) I was having bad lower GI pain. Was popping tylenol and advil like candies just to cope with the searing pain that made me contemplate suicide at one point. This was the first time I ever had any problems during our relations~~~ and she suddenly looked down on me like I was some useless disabled bum. Then she starts talking about a big Thanksgiving dinner at her mothers house. I told her I can barely think straight due to pain and was definitely not interested in travelling an hour to her Mothers for dinner. She could see how much pain I was in but didn’t give a s~~~ and started an argument about how I never spend time with her family. Truly unreal

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

When women are supportive of you in a relationship it is short lived and better not interfere with anything she has going on. They can help you for a moment but it will become about them soon enough and they will get p~~~ed off that they even have to think about you

Eyeswideopen wrote:

My father has been recently diagnosed with a terminal illness. While I love my mother, she has only made his impending passing that much more difficult. The situation has been turned from his care and needs to being all about her and how it has impacted her life. I spend more time defusing the drama she causes as I do taking care of essential business.

While my father was dying a brutal death and my wife and I had to travel hours to check on him the support alternated between short lived temporary compassion and total f~~~ing craziness that just made everything harder. Because it took twenty months for him to die living and working 5 hours away was brutal. I started making the trip on my own because it was a lot harder dealing with my ex. It was more time and energy taking care of a neurotic wife than a dying man. He had no wife to nag him at the end.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

SUPPORT FROM A WOMAN!!!

My Father recently had a MAJOR Heart Operation. My ‘Loving’ Mother, STILL made everything about her. Even bad mouthing him, behind his back.
She wondered why she never saw me for 15 years.

The ONLY support a woman understands, is the support SHE leeches, from MEN’S taxes.
Oh, and the support she gains from that piece of metal, that is hidden in her bra.

AWALT.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

freedom wrote:

emotional

“Emotional support?” My response is laughter – just like Old Sage. Never once. When times were really tough. I realized I lived on an island.

When you’re in the pit of despair, you can’t turn to a woman. They are already of the opinion they are the only ones who “suffer” any real hardships. It’s actually a joke.

freedom wrote:

anything else

I came from a good family of two married parents until Dad died. They were there when I needed them – for anything else. But for struggles and the biggest personal battles, I had only myself.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10922]

Nope not once. When I was married I had a hernia operation where they implanted a mesh in the front for repair. When I got home after the surgery I lied around and did what the doctor told me, AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE. The wife made it a point to ask me to go down in the basement and switch the towels from the washer to the dryer because in her words “You haven’t done anything but lie around all day” So I thought she was joking and she came back with, “the doctor didn’t say anything about you not being able to take the stairs” So I decided to be a smart ass and show her that “I was a man” and that I could do it. It wasn’t that bad and it didn’t hurt but that’s not the point.
Wouldn’t you know it, when I got back up the stairs the bitch said, “Since you’re up make me fresh coffee” Lord knows if she would have had a paper cut it would have been the perfect excuse for her to expect me to wait on her hand and foot.
Marriage? NEVER AGAIN

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 3]

Forget a crisis. If you are sick or injured, they take that as an opportunity to mock and insult you. Meanwhile they feign illness and injury all their lives.

I expect nothing from women, and even that would be an improvement over what we actually get from them. What a piece of trash gender. If they were men, everyone would despise them. Even women hate each other, because they don’t want to give out pussy passes to each other.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

I was diagnosed with stage 3 throat cancer in 2010. Talking to my soon to be ex wife about the cancer, my fears and unfairness of me getting that kind of disease.

She told me it was my fault due to my lifestyle, tobacco and liquor use. No emotional support at all.

She never took me to a chemotherapy or radiation treatment. I was too sick to drive after the chemotherapy so I had to call my Dad or a friend to take me to the treatments.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[ghostParticipant]

Is this a joke?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I just posed this question in the cotext of a different discussion in another thread.

For me, the answer is never. Now I’ve heard of women who have let men leech off them and women who have been divorce raped in court by their ex-husbands… but it’s very rare and, I believe, more a case of “should have gotten out but I love him” rather than being a supportive partner helping an otherwise strong guy get through a tough spot.

I would be stunned beyond words if I were in a relationship and my business or health collapsed and the woman I was with dug her heels in and carried me through it. Stunned.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Anonymous wrote:

Forget a crisis. If you are sick or injured, they take that as an opportunity to mock and insult you. Meanwhile they feign illness and injury all their lives.

Unfortunately my mom is at this stage now – mocking and insulting my dad because he does not feel like eating today.

Now that I think of it, when my time comes, hopefully decades from now, I will just hire any help that I need or go into hospice. At least the people there are paid to look after me. I can die in quite contemplation.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

No, no and more no.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Two Time Winner wrote:

I was diagnosed with stage 3 throat cancer in 2010. Talking to my soon to be ex wife about the cancer, my fears and unfairness of me getting that kind of disease.

She told me it was my fault due to my lifestyle, tobacco and liquor use. No emotional support at all.

She never took me to a chemotherapy or radiation treatment. I was too sick to drive after the chemotherapy so I had to call my Dad or a friend to take me to the treatments.

TTW

I am sorry you went through that brother.

I ruptured my disc between L4 and L5, and it was pretty much crushed entirely (around 85%) on one side, and about 50% on the other. I was in a lot of pain and the material left was pressing on my sciatic nerve.

Same story as yours with my wife. I could see the look of disgust in her eyes at my newfound weakness.

Throughout the process I only received empathy from other men who had similar situations, or knew friends with the injury. Even afterward when I began dating again after the divorce, if after listening to their every trivial hardship detailed in length to me, if I would even briefly mention what I went through, they could find no empathy. One woman actually told me I must have been putting out bad energy for that to happen to me… as if the very real cause was unimportant to her.

Glad you are out the other side now.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

American Dad had an episode that exposed red pill truth, “Shallow Vows”.

The one where they renew the vows. He admits the only (ONLY) reason he married her was for her looks. She is p~~~ed. But we learn she only married HIM to take care of her.

“I didn’t get married to take care of others, I got married to be taken care of!”

“And I don’t want to be married to an ugly wife!”

“You know dementia runs in my family.”

(smiling) “You’ll be dealing with that alone.”

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TwistParticipant]

Reading this thread gives new context to the dreaded fear of “dying alone”. Seems like the best exit strategy to me.

“Aren’t you afraid of dying alone?”

Ha.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

You took her drama away by not dying. All the s~~~ she would have had after your death.

Nice, eh?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

Yup I have seen this happen. Shows you the true nature of them. Guy worked a hard factory job all his life, got his kids through college, had a nice house, kids, pets, had like ONE hobby (fishing) he could only do maybe once or twice a year, and in the end, as he is going and suffering,

IT IS ALL ABOUT HER AND WHAT HE IS DOING TO ALL HER MONEY.

AWALT: self-absorbed, narcissistic, solopsistic bitches.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

No empathy for men. Complete empathy/sympathy for women.

THe societal programming about weakness in men – you are faking, you are a wimp, suck it up, stop complaining, you’re trying to get out of soemthing, real men power through,….

She breaks a f~~~ing nail or gets a paper cut and you hear about it all damn day. Can you get that for me, my finger hurts.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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