Going your own way sometimes means ghosting from your PARENTS??

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22557]

I believe there is a point the some here are missing. Many adults that live with their parents do not have the means to live by their self. It is either live with the parents, or homelessness.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

neverAgain wrote:

Meister wrote:

They even went to the pigs and filed a missing person report.

that’s hardcore ghosting!
do they still think you’re missing?

No.
I wrote them an email that I want to be left alone.

And yes, I am hardcore about my monking/ghosting.

Monk

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Cut bad s~~~ from your life, anything including parents. Sometimes you have to Ghost from your parents. Parents don’t listen to you. They don’t care what you want to do, they want you to do what makes THEM happy. And they always hammer that same “when are you gonna settle down?” bulls~~~ and don’t care how many times you’ve told them you won’t.

Ghost them. I haven’t seen my mom since 2009, and my dad has passed away although we were on good terms. “Family” thinks they can get away with some seriously repulsive s~~~ because they are “family”. Don’t buy that s~~~, don’t let them treat you like s~~~.

This holiday season I ghosted on my whole family. Yeah, I’ve seen enough repetition in these family get togethers to know what to expect. Same old same old. Pretty f~~~ing boring. I don’t go to them for the same reason that I don’t watch the same movie 100 times, not even one I really like. Ghost on them all, but more importantly, cut that bad s~~~ from your life, no matter what or who it is.

thanks brotha.
i appreciate your advice,
Cheers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Stargazer wrote:

I dumped my parents long ago. My mother was a sociopathic bitch and my father was a spineless worm. Good riddance.

DF I was thinking that’s probably what my kids think of me. I just started a thread in the political forum same subject really ghosting from parents. I skipped Thanksgiving and I skipped Christmas until today. Had a very late lunch with them and left after a couple of hours and a lot of argument. Good to see you sir

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Faust For Science wrote:

I believe there is a point the some here are missing. Many adults that live with their parents do not have the means to live by their self. It is either live with the parents, or homelessness.

in this case, just consider dealing with your parents as your job, since you get paid in the form of housing.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Knight of the Apocalypse wrote:

Walked away from mine. Dad is a complete asshole and mom is just f~~~ing stupid. Only family I keep in touch with is my brother.

Junior is that you?
Oh wait I dont have any sons. I’m the wrong complete asshole.

OT
Sometimes you have to be a ghost to almost everyone. It really doesn’t matter who or what they are in your life, if you are not interested in keeping a bond with them, vanish.
Become a spectre

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 22]

Blue Skies wrote:

That’s what i’m doing because my parents hate that i have so much freedom and want me to settle down and follow what they want me to do.

I thought you were talking about my parents, LMAO. I decided that I will keep traveling, enjoying my life, doing whatever I want to do, whether they like it or not.

I still keep in touch with my parents but I can tell they are not happy with my decisions.

But who wants to live in the same place for decades, and ‘settle down’ ? Not me.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

blade wrote:

Dude stay by your parents because one day they will be dead and gone then you will have regrets

I’m seconding this! All my close relatives, except mother, are dead. I have never been close with the both father and mother, but I have realized that there will be a day when no one pick up the phone and the key will be the only who open the parents house’s door. And this is changed my mind. I had a feeling like I’m getting mature. Because only mature person can rebuild relations with the parents as it should be. Not many parents are wise. Unfortunately you are realizing it only with ages.

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Suggestius wrote:

Because only mature person can rebuild relations with the parents as it should be.

Well that leaves me out unless I hire a spirit medium and get a Ouija board.

“Hey Dad how are things in hell? hot enough for ya”? “F~~~ you you douche bag”!

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

My parents are completely cool with whatever I choose to do with my life.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Pete, I dunno if you are sceptical to such things or not. Eight years ago I had a pen pal from the US. He was 46, if my memory doesn’t fail me. Now I can say he was a real MGTOW. Unfortunately we hadn’t a chance to meet in person because he died of cancer. He came to me in the night dreams exactly in few days after his death. I didn’t even know he is dead! So don’t mess with such things! 😀

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Thanks man–I know better than to fool with that crap. Besides I’m a Christian I believe when you die you go one of two places and there is nothing in-between.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

I ghosted from my parents for quite some time. It made sense as they would rather see my brother and his wife and kids and I lived 40 miles away. I would visit occaisionaly but I was married and had my own stuff to do with my wife.

My dad died shortly after I got married and I was glad he lived to see me marry as he worried about me being a “Loner” and he knew I lived the party lifestyle. All drugs were Heroin as far as he was concerned. Before I was maried I would sometimes go out on a Rave and then decide in my high mind that I should go and visit my parents. I would sit in the kitchen and talk about anything that came into my head. We had some good conversations on these occaisions. I made them laugh, I don’t know if they realised I was still high, I think they must have.

One day I wanted to bake some hash cookies and they had gone shopping in town so I got to work. However, they came back early! They saw the cookies and said “They look nice let’s have a taste” They took one each. I didn’t know how I could have refused them without owning up to doing drugs in the house. I went out and came back a couple of hours later not knowing what I’d find. The house was quiet except for the TV being on. I went into the lounge and saw them both on the sofa absent mindedly watching TV but you could tell they were stoned out of their minds. My mum and Dad were cuddled up on the sofa like teenagers, so much in love and really peaceful. It was so nice to see them both relaxed instead of busy and worrying all the time. They really looked happy and in love with each other.

They never mentioned the incident I don’t know if they realised they were stoned. My mum outlived my dad by 14 years but she never got her life together. She just watched soap operas all day and couldn’t bear to be alone at all. She would visit my brother in the village on a daily basis and I think it got a bit much for him. I unofficially cut her out of my life for years when it became obvious that she only wanted to see me if no other relative was available. I grew resentful.

She died this year and I thought it was good that she could be reunited with my dad, (I strongly believe in the afterlife-see previous forum replies). Thing is, now she’s gone, I keep thinking to myself, “Shall I go over and see Mum?” then realise I can’t cos she’s dead now.

I would like to hope that all members of this forum could make peace with their parents before they die. Give them a chance to know your real views and how you feel about your MGTOW lifestyle. You never know, they may actually understand more than you expect. Might be a good idea to take over some “Sppecial” cookies for them to try before you broach the subject thouigh 🙂 !

It's Time to get Wise

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

PistolPete wrote:

Thanks man–I know better than to fool with that crap. Besides I’m a Christian I believe when you die you go one of two places and there is nothing in-between.

At Pete and Seggestius,

I so want to start a topic on this but it’s not really MGTOW material. I see MGTOW as a philosophy that helps men deal with the f~~~ed up world we live in now. I don’t know if there is space in the discussion for topics that deal with what happens outside of this world. I probably need to find another forum for that subject but I don’t know of any.

By the way, I strongly seccond Seggestius’s warnings about ouija boards and occultism in general. Good advice.

It's Time to get Wise

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Greg Honda wrote:

I don’t know if there is space in the discussion for topics that deal with what happens outside of this world. I probably need to find another forum for that subject but I don’t know of any.

Oh come on. Why not? I see administration is a quite loyal to us. Try 🙂

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Go for broke Greg…we’re behind you 100%

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Suggestius wrote:

Greg Honda wrote:

I don’t know if there is space in the discussion for topics that deal with what happens outside of this world. I probably need to find another forum for that subject but I don’t know of any.

Oh come on. Why not? I see administration is a quite loyal to us. Try

I have some pretty extreme experiences in this area that those who haven’t also experienced will see as the ramblings of a fool.

If you haven’t personally witnessed the other side of reality you will never understand how real it is. I have tried to tell selected people over the yaers what I have experienced and they first think I’m jokeing, then realise I’m not, then think I’m lieing, then realise I don’t lie. And then they get scarred and freaked out. Everyone I’ve tried to share with has asked me never to bring up this subject again. They can’t handle it. I wish I could find someone who has been through the same thing as me so I can…Unburden myself I guess.

I don’t think this is the place.

It's Time to get Wise

[bladeParticipant]

A spiritual gift greg honda .

My advise as far as ouiji boards go don’t play with them .

Done properly even can end in a unwanted spirit . Must be opened with prayer and shut down with prayer . Alot more to it but there is no guarantee who is on the other line .

I had done a few when i was younger with a friends mother who had a lot of expierence in this . Just my strong advice don’t f~~~ around with ouiji boards .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Going your own way especially means ghosting from your PARENTS.

In my case, I have the typical c~~~ mother. I told her never to contact me again, and then I left. I’ve been away for a year, and STILL she is trying to call my phone, and use mutual contacts to contact me.

When she noticed I was getting ready to depart, what she initially tried to do was to push the behavioral buttons that she installed over the course of my lifetime up until then. Every conversation was riddle with double-meaning and hamster clouds- “Don’t you care” “You weren’t trained this way” “You’re just like your father” “You are worthless” “I will not allow this”.

Then I realized something. I really did not care. I realized that the “emotions” I was trained to feel, I did not really have at all.

I’ve never seen her at a stunned loss for words, but when I said “I really don’t care. I have a goal that I have set. I will accomplish what I decide for myself, and I will not be deterred”, her jaw dropped. It may have been part of the act, but that’s the first time I’d seen that one.

After years of acting like a nasty wench, then began the tears. But, no effect. I didn’t care, and now I knew it. I now knew exactly what was happening, and what I wanted. I have not, and will not fall for the “sweet act” she’s now putting on.

So yes, in general, parents are the first ones you have to ghost.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Jackinov wrote:

Going your own way especially means ghosting from your PARENTS.

In my case, I have the typical c~~~ mother. I told her never to contact me again, and then I left. I’ve been away for a year, and STILL she is trying to call my phone, and use mutual contacts to contact me.

When she noticed I was getting ready to depart, what she initially tried to do was to push the behavioral buttons that she installed over the course of my lifetime up until then. Every conversation was riddle with double-meaning and hamster clouds- “Don’t you care” “You weren’t trained this way” “You’re just like your father” “You are worthless” “I will not allow this”.

Then I realized something. I really did not care. I realized that the “emotions” I was trained to feel, I did not really have at all.

I’ve never seen her at a stunned loss for words, but when I said “I really don’t care. I have a goal that I have set. I will accomplish what I decide for myself, and I will not be deterred”, her jaw dropped. It may have been part of the act, but that’s the first time I’d seen that one.

After years of acting like a nasty wench, then began the tears. But, no effect. I didn’t care, and now I knew it. I now knew exactly what was happening, and what I wanted. I have not, and will not fall for the “sweet act” she’s now putting on.

So yes, in general, parents are the first ones you have to ghost.

wow…
thanks for sharing your story brotha.
great advice
Cheers.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

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