Going your own way sometimes means ghosting from your PARENTS??

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Going your own way sometimes means ghosting from your parents.

That’s what i’m doing because my parents hate that i have so much freedom and want me to settle down and follow what they want me to do. The ironic thing is, my parent argue so much, i am very surprised they are not divorced yet.

I just spent Christmas with my parents and i am considering not seeing them next Christmas (or other holidays)…

is this normal? what do you guys think?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Absolutely.

I haven’t talked to my parents or other family members in over a decade.

That was by far the hardest part of going 100% monk.

They even went to the pigs and filed a missing person report.

Monk

[Anonymous 0]

I live in the same town as my parents. In fact, they live right up the hill from me. I can see their house from mine. But I only stop up to see them once a year or so, when another family member comes into town.

I told them, “I’m available for emergencies and to help out. Feel free to call if you have a real problem. But I’m not doing the ‘dutiful son’ thing and stopping up three times a week anymore. I did that for a few years, and now I’m done. I paid my dues, and now I’ll see you when I see you.”

I run into them occasionally at the supermarket or post office. We say hi and continue on our way.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

I’m divorced and I already have two kids.
Even with that, I sometimes have problems with my parents due I’m GMOW, and sometimes I have to somewhat ghost them.
I cannot even imagine how tough it could be for a guy who never had been married nor had kids.

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[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Yep perfectly normal. I ghosted on mine for the holidays. I told them last year was the last time I’ll do long road trips to visit other family members I don’t like. They did not believe me so I did not visit. I used to hear the same bulls~~~ over and over on why I haven’t settled down. Every time that happened, I hung up. If it was in person, I left. They are too afraid to bring it up now because they know I will leave.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I dumped my parents long ago. My mother was a sociopathic bitch and my father was a spineless worm. Good riddance.

[bladeParticipant]

Your parents are probably from a different era . Have understanding . To much abandoned ment in the world today which the affects are obvious . Learn to let s~~~ s~~~ go in one ear and out the other . To much normalisation as well as the rest of this feminist s~~~ going on in society . I have sibblings that abandoned my father years ago which i have wittnessed his pain . My father is elderly and the two siblings that have abandoned him in there fifties .

Goverments are just loving the divided family unit . Easier slaves to control .

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[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Eric Lauder wrote:

I cannot even imagine how tough it could be for a guy who never had been married nor had kids.

that’s me.
just imagine my life.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[bladeParticipant]

Dude stay by your parents because one day they will be dead and gone then you will have regrets

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[Anonymous 1]

Great topic and on point for this time of year.

Had the same thoughts myself today. I cannot stand my mum’s behaviour, and I’ve found it really difficult to go ghost on my family. I’m yet to achieve that.

My mother is a kept woman and hasn’t worked since she met my dad.

She is a drama queen and at the centre of all family conflicts.

Few years ago my dad was diagnosed with cancer. She called everyone in her phone book to elicit sympathy and attention, but when I went the house a few days after a big operation, she was shouting and screaming at him about an old lamp he’d thrown out, that she still wanted to keep.

Crazy woman, but my dad has stuck by her. He’d choose her over anyone. no questions asked.

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

If going to spend time with your parents during Christmas stresses you out….. then don’t do it! Mother’s in particular will play the guilt card on you, but don’t allow anybody to manipulate you in that manner. The Christmas Holiday is an opportunity to decompress and relax. If you enjoy being with your family then by all means do so. If however you dread being around them, then don’t and don’t feel guilty. Enjoy doing what you want to do and be with the people you want to be around. My 3 brothers totally understand it when I opt to spend a few days camping and hunting in the woods with my dog versus putting on a silly red Santa tie and drinking cheap Merlot with family.

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

Meister wrote:

They even went to the pigs and filed a missing person report.

that’s hardcore ghosting!
do they still think you’re missing?

All good things come to an end.

[Anonymous 1]

53ClicksUp wrote:

Mother’s in particular will play the guilt card on you

I went round for Christmas day and tonight my dad text me informing me that my mum’s in bed with a migraine because of all the hard work she put in on Christmas day. She’s lived a very privalidged life thanks to my dad.

*Shakes head* f~~~ing unbelievable.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

blade wrote:

Dude stay by your parents because one day they will be dead and gone then you will have regrets

It pains me to disagree with brother Blade. My parents disowned me in my late 20s. They chose not to have anything to do with me for any reason–even though for a number of years we lived in the same town. I was cool with this. It was their choice. They are long dead now and I have no regrets at all. If someone thinks I’m the turd of the family and doesn’t want to have anything further to do with me why should I regret anything—they–do?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

great discussion guys!

53ClicksUp wrote:

If going to spend time with your parents during Christmas stresses you out….. then don’t do it!

solid advice, thanks

blade wrote:

Dude stay by your parents because one day they will be dead and gone then you will have regrets

problem is:
50% of the time, my dad is an awful person, tough to deal with

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

I went round for Christmas day and tonight my dad text me informing me that my mum’s in bed with a migraine because of all the hard work she put in on Christmas day. She’s lived a very privalidged life thanks to my dad.

*Shakes head* f~~~ing unbelievable.

haha
sounds like my mother

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[neverAgainParticipant 1662]

PistolPete wrote:

My parents disowned me in my late 20s. They chose not to have anything to do with me for any reason–even though for a number of years we lived in the same town.

here’s my opinion,
once a man is all grown up, 30+ yrs old. Their parents can’t disown him. Only he can disown his parents since his parents depend on him more than he depends on them. If the reasons are justified, then he should disown his parents.

All good things come to an end.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Yes. I walked away.

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[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Cut bad s~~~ from your life, anything including parents. Sometimes you have to Ghost from your parents. Parents don’t listen to you. They don’t care what you want to do, they want you to do what makes THEM happy. And they always hammer that same “when are you gonna settle down?” bulls~~~ and don’t care how many times you’ve told them you won’t.

Ghost them. I haven’t seen my mom since 2009, and my dad has passed away although we were on good terms. “Family” thinks they can get away with some seriously repulsive s~~~ because they are “family”. Don’t buy that s~~~, don’t let them treat you like s~~~.

This holiday season I ghosted on my whole family. Yeah, I’ve seen enough repetition in these family get togethers to know what to expect. Same old same old. Pretty f~~~ing boring. I don’t go to them for the same reason that I don’t watch the same movie 100 times, not even one I really like. Ghost on them all, but more importantly, cut that bad s~~~ from your life, no matter what or who it is.

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[Knight of the ApocalypseParticipant 326]

Walked away from mine. Dad is a complete asshole and mom is just f~~~ing stupid. Only family I keep in touch with is my brother.

"Just ignore everything women say and nothing will annoy you ever again." - Cu Chulainn

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