Girls who cancel last minute

[Anonymous 3]

That was a huge red pill for me. We made plans to do something at 1:00 pm on a Sunday. At exactly 1:00 I got the call telling me she decided not to go.( this was 5 yrs into the relationship ) I quit right there. I was super p~~~ed for a long time but never went back. That was my last LTR I don’t participate in such things anymore. MGTOW

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Zero tolerance.

When I use to date, I had an answer for this:

“F~~~ the whole thing”.

Of course, they would be completely shocked I didn’t give a f~~~.

More proof of why I’m not going to compete with a God damned iPhone.

Fuck this planet.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Keymaster wrote:

Spend enough time in the field, and any man will calculate the flake rate is roughly 75%. Three out of four times you can expect this s~~~ test, and it’s just to see how you’ll handle it.

But you can stop it before she tries it, and you make her feel like a piece of s~~~ – before she can do it to you.

“You’re definitely going to be there, yes? Because I don’t tolerate flakes”.

EVERY one of them will say “Oh yeah definitely! I’m not like that!!”. So now you have her cornered. If she STILL doesn’t show, postpones or cancels – you make sure she never hears from you again. No explanation. No reply to her text. No acknowledgement of her apology no matter how desperately she blows up your phone. No more discussion. She does not exist. SHE f~~~ed up and she knows how.

It’s ALL on her, and you don’t need to say another thing.

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There was a girl (much younger) who I have a history with – for years. She’s usually very cool, very fun, very easy going and reliable. We hadn’t chatted in a long time, and she very enthusiastically wanted to meet after work one night for a bite to eat.

We arranged a time, she confirmed, I wrote back “flake and die”.
She “lol-ed” and said NO WAY would she flake on me. “See you tomorrow!”

As regular as her period, 2 hours before we were supposed to meet the next day, she opens BEGGING for an apology, because she had to “take care of her mom’s dog”.

She never heard from me again, and my phone exploded for days.

She didn’t think I was serious. They never do. They don’t think you have the b~~~~ to just forget about her altogether – and permanently cut her off. Especially if she knows you already.

“WTF?? ARE YOU SERIOUS?? HOW CAN YOU DO THIS YOU F~~~ING ASSHOLE!!!!”

Music to my ears.

I’m not the asshole here. SHE is, and she knows it. With no effort from me ( because I set it up to be all her fault if she flakes ) it festers in her mind for days / weeks / months and you stand out as the ONLY guy who doesn’t f~~~ around.

You just can’t cave or give her a second chance – no matter what.

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.
If you need to have the last word, let that ^ be it.

Women think you’ll be there no matter what. They think they can treat you like an “option” for as long as they want, and you couldn’t possibly be sincere. When they realize they are wrong, this is the kind of thing they WILL remember when they slam face first into the wall. It’s ALL their own fault.

Fuck this planet.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Nomad wrote:

I’m a younger MGTOW, so I have a question for the older MGTOWs… Can a list be made of the female mind games, & manipulation strategies so I can recognize what’s going on while it’s happening, & not be blindsided by it?

Simple my young friend.

When a woman opens her mouth, you need to assume 1 and/or 2 things:

1. She’s lying
2. She wants something

If you decide to engage, I’ll refer you back to bagofsand’s picture.

Fuck this planet.

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi gents,

This thread is gold. I wish I found it 15 years ago.

I have wasted a whole lot of time and energy going after girls who were not interested in me. This has caused endless amounts of pain and loss of self-esteem. I am afraid that many men do this because they read garbage PUA/blue-pill advice on how to get women. The advice typically states that men should chase chase chase and persistence eventually pays off.

I’ll never forget when I was a club rat and running around chasing girls, I watched in awe at a scene which unfolded before me. A group of chads were standing in a group, laughing loudly and acting alpha. None of them paid any attention to girls, they didn’t approach, dance with or look at anyone. I watched as a group of sluts slowly inched their way closer and closer to the group. The chads did not move. The sluts moved so close that eventually a conversation was struck up and I’m sure some f~~~ing was had later that night. It was beautiful.

That night in the club was a life-changing MGTOW moment for me. Never chase. Stand strong, don’t pay them any attention and only f~~~ them if they approach you and sit on your dick. The same rule applies to girls who cancel last minute – ditch them instantly and only f~~~ them if they literally drive to your place and put your c~~~ in their mouth. If you chase, you are doomed to fail at life.

[Anonymous 3]

Yes! It is a great thread. Indifference, subtle disregard & if necessary, feigned civility ( with a touch of sarcasm ). It works for me, but canceling at last minute is definitely a game changer. Bye, Bye miss American pie
MGTOW

[GetaPoasParticipant 73]

Can’t say I’ve been ghosted like that. Moreso it’s they just sort of fade-out before it even reaches that point. But not before they send me nudes, nudes I never asked for by the way as why would I need to see saggy bitch-t~~~ with stretchmarks when I can look up any porn ever? What, am I supposed to keep a collection of thots I managed to woo?

It’s dumb… but what’s even dumber is how women have the f~~~ing nerve to say men are the one sending all the dick pics. I don’t need to show my dick to prove anything. Occasionally I might send it to be polite if they showed me their pussy or something lol. Maybe they like the thrill of I’m just petty and vindictive enough to plaster their nudes online. Women do get jealous when I tell them stories of the way I harassed and abused some of my exes and wonder why they didn’t. You…you want to be? The f~~~ is wrong with you?

But that doesn’t work the other way around. Post my dick online.

Everytime I touch mu’h peepee to traps which totally aren’t gay.

[MasterAnglerParticipant 42]

They try to pull this chase me bit so they feel important. The things I have discovered since I’ve gone mgtow are kinda scary.

Last time a woman flaked on me I dumped her that night. It went from I love you sweetheart to honking and screaming outside my apt at 1 am with her 10 yr old daughter in the car with her.

Interesting how men are supposed to compromise all day long. But if she doesn’t get her way there will be hell to pay.

[C LeafsParticipant 9]

Looking back, I can’t believe how naive I was when it came to this subject. I would always make 2,3,4 even 5 attempts at rescheduling a date/meeting with a woman even after being cancelled on each occasion, each with a different excuse.

Ever since I realized that a woman will go through hell and high water to be with you if you she wanted to it’s made my life much less stressful. If she cancels, so what? There will come another that won’t. Any woman that is willing to play with your time isn’t worth anything at all.

Reading through the read I have to tend to agree with the others who will give the woman a chance if she makes the attempt at rescheduling. I find most will talk the talk of rescheduling but only the ones who want you, will. Usually if she attempts to reschedule without specifics I just give her the “Let me know” and let her make the next move. You win some, you lose but you’ll never fool me twice anymore

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