Girls who cancel last minute

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

TheRunningMan…

Great post, you covered pretty much all of it. However I have to disagree on the replying part. Whatever lack of respect she might take from your non-reply, doesn’t outweigh her lack of respect for cancelling 2 hours before.

I’ve had girls hit me up after ‘last minute cancellation’ of their own plans. Whether it be same day, night before, 2 hours before. With the advent of tinder, it became more prevalent. It also makes you see them for what they truly are. I don’t even bother with ‘dating’ anymore. I do have 1 girl I see once a week, but that’s it. Comes straight to mine, and then leaves same night. No staying over, no lavish nights out. Even this has a used-by date for me.

Keymaster…

Another EPIC post Sir. Even with FWB’s, you have to do the exact same thing. No exceptions. Had one last month do almost verbatim. Feeling like it would be a flake, 2 days prior, I sent this :

***Welcome to the i[Name] booking service. To confirm Tuesday night with [Name], reply ‘Yes’. To opt out of future messages, reply ‘STOP’***

She replied within 30 mins ‘Yes :):):)’.

On the Tuesday morning, she texted me with

‘Oh hi! Sorry I’m going to be stuck in meetings all evening, sorry :(:(:(‘

Step 1 : Block
Step 2 : No Reply

bagosand….

LMAO, had a good laugh at your post. Especially the part in bold, and the ‘before she put Chads’ 12 incher in her mouth that same night’. Simply LOL, but very true my friend.

[Anonymous 13]

This whole dating thing is REAL simple.

If they like you they’ll HELP you.

You don’t need to jump through hoops or bend over backwards. If you do, it’s already game over.

So, if she flakes, or acts distant and aloof, in fact if she’s anything other than a joy to be around and wants to be around you, then GAME OVER.

Here’s some better advice.

Don’t date.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

A c~~~s busy life contains of, netflix and playing on their phone.

Most of them are too broke, to be “Adventurous.”

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[narwhalParticipant]

It would also be nice to have a secondary plan in place.

Sorry! Something came up and can’t make it.
No problem. My buddy has a spare ticket to the game tonight and now I thought I couldn’t make it. It’s going to be awesome!

Ok. Then do it.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

ZERO TOLERANCE for flakes.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Dating is worse than trying to eat dog vomit.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Keymaster wrote:

“flake and die”.
She “lol-ed” and said NO WAY would she flake on me. “See you tomorrow!”

She never heard from me again, and my phone exploded for days.

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.

Flawless Victory @KM, with the number of stories you have I’m surprised you even talk to women at all.

I might still be tempted, but naah! The desert calls, and the compound won’t build itself.

I tried once. A third of a life, a quarter century. However you measure. I’ve lost too much time, but I can try to make up for it.

I understand how fisherman can succeed. That’s not food, it’s just bait with a giant hook buried inside it.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

All good advice here…
I once had a girl cancel on me two hours before a date
because had to move dirt from her front yard to the back,
because her mom was going to visit in a week or two and she just couldn’t let her mom see it.. I kid you not…
Her number could not have been deleted fast enough!

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

A few months into a manipulation-ship years ago, I was done dealing with Pumpkin’s last minute changes of plans, her being flaky and putting my life on hold for a bunch of random, not even believable & totally fictitious reasons.

So towards the end, I stopped responding to her texts, didn’t answer my phone & went covert.

LOL. She would call a few times a day and Tex 15-20 times a day.

One her voicemails she left, she would say things like ‘I don’t know what’s going on with you right now. . .’ and ‘You just keep ignoring me. . .’

Until, finally – she cracked and gave up. (which I knew would happen)

One night at about 11pm I heard a car pull into my driveway and it was her.

I opened the door after she knocked and she came in and that was the beginning of a three day, non-stop f~~~ fest.

And it proved my theory at the time that they only want what they think they can’t have & will go nuts if they don’t have control of a situation.

She had been trying to maintain control via texts & calls while she was out securing orbiters and I just went into total shut down mode and it sent her into a frenzy.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

One I was dating actually laid the groundwork for her lies on the first date.

“I work for the coroner’s office so when a fresh body comes into the office I’m usually called, bla bla bla.”

I let myself get cancelled on 3 times before I ended it. What can I say, I was hooked to the pussy.

Even spoke about this to a couple female friends and they all agreed that she was messing around with someone else.

I ignored her for a week straight and she “Demanded” an explanation as to why I stopped talking to her.

She’s still waiting on that explanation.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Lurch wrote:

Just another example of my own personal philosophy:

“Do NOT listen to what they say, SEE what they do as that reveals their TRUE intentions!”

I follow the old cliche, Actions speak louder than words.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[BeerParticipant 11832]

What I’ve learned from experience is if a girl cancels on you, there is one of two ways to play it.

1. If she flat out ghosts you and leaves you hanging with no call or text or anything, she is dead to you. If she contacts you after the fact or you bump into again and she says something about it…let her know its not a big deal you ended up going out with some friends instead and still had a great night, and never throw another offer out to her again nor entertain any offer she might give you. She blew her one chance per life time. Everybody has a cell phone these days, there is almost no excuse for someone to just ghost other than they simply don’t give a f~~~ about you at all.(maybe if she got rushed to the ER or her house burned down or something…but odds are that didn’t/won’t happen)

2. If she calls/texts and seems to have a legit excuse, no problem, but leave the ball in her court. Let her know she is going to have to call/text you if she wants to reschedule sometime and don’t pursue her. Basically if she was interested and s~~~ really happened she’ll hit you up, otherwise all she wanted was a little bitch cuck orbiter and if you aren’t willing to do that she’ll f~~~ off.

[NomadParticipant 44]

What I’ve noticed about all women that I’ve ever met anyways is that they can’t ever be straightforward. They have to come up with some dishonest excuse as to why they can’t do this, or that. They don’t tell you why. They don’t give any honest answers. I have noticed that if she comes up with some excuse as to why she can’t do this with you, she has another dude lined up that she’s going out with at that time…

Life's too short to spend with promiscious women. Enjoy your passions while you still can!!

[NomadParticipant 44]

I’m a younger MGTOW, so I have a question for the older MGTOWs… Can a list be made of the female mind games, & manipulation strategies so I can recognize what’s going on while it’s happening, & not be blindsided by it?

Life's too short to spend with promiscious women. Enjoy your passions while you still can!!

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Nomad wrote:

I’m a younger MGTOW, so I have a question for the older MGTOWs… Can a list be made of the female mind games, & manipulation strategies so I can recognize what’s going on while it’s happening, & not be blindsided by it?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Invite two more women at once. Tell them all the first one to show up gets the spare ticket or whatever. None of them will flake. On the contrary, they’ll all be early and dressed to the nines. Not because any of them want to see the show or whatever, but because they all want to win.

Nomad wrote:

Can a list be made of the female mind games, & manipulation strategies so I can recognize what’s going on while it’s happening, & not be blindsided by it?

Not necessary. Just refuse to play their game.

You don’t have to know the rules of mad queen chess when you’re playing go.

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

The female will search high and low to find a babysiter, money, clothes, transportation, etcetera, to get to you.

this is the real truth. great reply & YES awalt

[lod9Participant 10]

I’ve learned my own way that if a girl wants you she WILL find a way to get you. If she doesn’t reply at your messages, it only means she is not really interested. I noticed it in my own life experience: don’t waste your time ghosting and with manipulation games, if a girl doesn’t look attracted almost immediately, then next her! There are a lot of them less hard to get

[Anonymous 38]

Don’t block her – blocking suggests ‘I’m mad at you’ and that you can’t control your urge to respond.
You want the state of mind where you don’t give a f~~~, where you’re comfortable enough to be honest that you’re just irritated by her. Because that’s the truth.
When you’re fully RP, it’s easy because you aren’t expecting / hoping for something different. AWALT. You’ll just laugh at her attempts to excuse / manipulate you, and just ignore it. You’ve got 101 better things to do with your time.
Say “stop f~~~ing texting me” and watch how crazy she gets. You can threaten to block her if she won’t stop. It’s fun to take the power back from these entitled bitches.

[Anonymous 0]

Over the years, I’ve had a few girls cancel on me last minute. If their excuse seems genuine enough, I give them another chance but I let them plan it all out. I want to see them make an effort. If they rely on me to plan the evening over and over again, then that’s not happening and they can go back to their cats.

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