GF or wife trying to keep you from the gym

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I find this goes hand in hand with this:

Then women that cook will often cook really fattening meals, and you get fattened up and your SMV declines.

The women that don’t cook will usually want to waste money and eat out often, and thus achieve the above effect.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I love how Joey acts like if we all do what he did, we could have a selfless woman who makes 4X what we do, never mind the mathematical impossibility of this.

NAWALT. Not-all-women-are-like-that. LOL. Hilarious.

BUT THEY ALL CAN CHANGE.

Marriage is a s~~~ty legal contract, regardless of how “perfect” the woman is that you marry. MGTOW isn’t about women being bad, its about how the system incentivizes women to be bad.

Sorry, but I’m not going to ever do that f~~~ing dice roll again that she won’t change. You can find the “right” one, and then she changes because she has legal and financial incentives (courtesy of gynocentric society) to change for the worse.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BoskParticipant 111]

I feel sorry for you as all american women seem to be really f~~~ing assholes.

[narwhalParticipant]

Didn’t read everything, so perhaps this was already mentioned. A woman who doesn’t want you working out isn’t just telling you that she wants your SMV low so you stick around. No, that’s not all of it. She is also letting you know that if the reverse was true, that if her SMV were to rise, she herself would be out the door.

Seen it plenty of times. Husband puts up with wife’s weight. Wife loses respect for husband. Wife decides she wants to lose weight. Wife loves the attention she gets from her new guy friends. Wife says she isn’t appreciated enough and leaves husband.

She thinks you’ll do the exact same thing she would do.

Perhaps the only exception I’ve seen is when both have a strong interest in the gym. Wife is confident husband is content with her SMV. Wife gets the attention at the gym, but everyone know’s she taken by a big dude, so don’t flirt too much.

Ok. Then do it.

[Modern Day WarriorParticipant 499]

It’s probably a few things:
1. If you work out then maybe she’ll have to.
2. The increased SMV already addressed.
3. Her need to control your behavior.
4. You’ll end up with more testosterone, making you harder to manipulate.
5. You’re spending a little time making your life better instead of spending all of your time working to make her life better, even though you’ll probably be more fun for her in bed if you’re in shape.
6. Because women are illogical, unpredictable, irrational, and overly emotional. In other words who the f~~~ knows why a chick would want to stop her guy from bettering himself and improving his health? God knows I’ve never stopped a woman from exercising. I kinda doubt anyone has.

"One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact." - Neil Peart

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

I workout 6 days a week for 2 hours and I would not give it up. I don’t do it though to appeal to women. I do it to be healthy and fit. Also, for me I’m 46 years old. I developed a bad right knee with a torn meniscus behind the knee where it bends. My doctor told me I would definitely would have to have knee replacement surgery if I didn’t do something. I lost between 40 and 50 lbs. I also added swimming, yoga, and meditation to my list. The deal with knee surgeries it’s better to get it when you in your 60’s because it only last for about 10 to 15 years. So would I quit because of some woman. Hell no. I love working out but for me I’m lucky I love because now it’s something I have to do. The good news is my knee is a lot better and I hope I can avoid surgery later on.

[TBL225Participant 168]

Joey Brooks wrote:

The Skank Spanker wrote:

So basically they try to keep you down so they can be lazy. They don’t want to work out and be fit. But should you prefer to be fit, they are surely going to be insecure about losing you. Women want you to be fat and provide. If I work out, it will not really benefit her apart from the fact that I look good to her, her family and friends. As I increase my SMV her insecurity will grow. Never ever as any women motivated me to go to the gym…

…
– women are lazy
– women are manipulative
– women are not honest
– women are jealous
– women are insecure
– women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

So who picked this woman for you? Did YOU pick her? Sounds like someone made a really bad choice in their life and does not want to accept ANY responsibility for blowing it.

My wife (we lived “as married” 16 years, married 6 as of now) and I met in our late 30s. We were both never married, no kids, and were previously considered to be “dating machines”. I dated over 200 women, my wife…never asked her for a number but I can assure you she dated over 100 guys and is still buddies with many of them. I actually like most of them and hang with some of them.

We are both in our late 50s now and I am usually trying to keep my abs up with hers. She is the gym rat. I am more into outdoor sports. She just hired a personal trainer after the holidays because her 6-pack is currently a 4-pack and I still have all six! So she is pulling out the big guns to catch up. If i posted a photo of her you would not believe she is pushing 60. I mean, she is still REALLY hot.

So let’s go over the list:

– women are lazy

My wife works about 50 hours a week and hits the gym 4-5 days a week for at least 2 hours each session. Life happens of course and sometimes she might not feel good or have a doctor’s appointment keeping her from the gym, but as a rule she hits it hard. She also loves to cook and serves up healthy meals with joy. Not what I call lazy.

– women are manipulative

In the world I live in, EVERYBODY is manipulative. We all push for what we want, accept certain trade-offs, and sometimes willfully bend to the will of another person without calling it a manipulation. There are no BS games going on in my household. We ask for what we want, refuse what we don’t, and rely on friends to fill in the gaps. For instance, my wife loves going to the movies – me…not as much. So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. I do extreme distance sports sometimes more than she can handle. I go on a 150 mile bike ride I either go alone or with one of my few friends who can do that stuff. Sometimes they are female. No problems.

– women are not honest

3+ BILLION of them and not ONE honest one? Maybe I got the ONLY one? There is no reason to lie in my household. She wants something from me she just asks. In 21 years I have never busted her in a lie. It would be silly to go that route with me.

– women are jealous

My wife and I have one rule and one rule only: No exchange of bodily fluids with other people. Young and old dudes hit on her at the gym all the time. Once in a while she gets a crush on someone herself. She wants to go have a coffee or something with a beautiful, interesting guy…what do I care. SHE SHOULD BE GETTING HIT ON. And I bet it not only makes her feel good but I benefit as well. Any sexual energy she generates with some other guy comes home to me. On the other hand, I met a super-fit woman in a local park who is getting into some distance sports herself about a year ago. I told my wife about her on Day-1 of our meeting. Over the course of about 8 months I exchanged phone numbers with the new “girl friend” and we are starting to do some things together. Since my wife worries about me doing just about everything alone she is happy I have the company. I had a bit of a crush on this woman before we started hanging out and guess what? All of that sexual energy went home to my wife and will continue to do so.

– women are insecure

It’s YOUR job to make the woman feel secure. I have a wife AND a girlfriend and my wife has no doubts who she is leaving a party with EVER. I have a few female buddies from before my wife and I met and have made a few new female friends since we met. Not one word or cross look. Why? Because my wife and I are both secure people and know good and well if the other person wants to screw around there isn’t a thing we can do about it anyway. Given our history of dating and screwing lots of people before we met, I can’t see either of us straying at this point but who knows really. I make her feel secure by TELLING her, daily, how hot she looks, how much I appreciate the long leash she gives me, and look her in the eyes and tell her how much I love her.

– women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

Haha! That’s a good one! My wife tries her hardest to build me up and encourage me to have fun so I can be a happy guy around her. And thanks to her income, which is roughly 4x what I make, (we have a separation of property for her sake), I live a lifestyle several levels above where I would be otherwise. I pay my own way and half of OUR bills, but not any part of all the stuff my wife buys for herself. And lately, because the “Unaffordable Care Act” has been stripping my vacation funds for the past few years, my wife foots most of the bill for any vacations we take while I try to find a better job with benefits.

So how did we manage this miracle? Simple. Neither one of us WOULD ACCEPT ANY LESS than what we found in each other. She can keep all of her “boyfriends”, I can have “girlfriends”, neither of us drinks or does drugs, both are college grads, and both of us kept our bodies and grooming at a high level to be as attractive as possible to the opposite sex. So when we met, we were both ready. Nobody had to change or improve. And we didn’t jump into bed until we really got to know each other and our orbit of close friends – about 3 months of dating first. This prevents doing something stupid while “mesmerized” by brain chemicals.

I guess the short version of this is to not be foolish when CHOOSING a woman. Picking the wrong girl is on you my friend. Shoulda let her walk. I know, I know…she changed.

So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. ….Wut?

[OldBillParticipant]

TBL225 wrote:

So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. ….Wut?

Wait a minute. You quoted a 5000+ word post in it’s entirety to post a three letter question?

“Wut?” indeed.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[TBL225Participant 168]

OldBill wrote:

TBL225 wrote:

So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. ….Wut?

Wait a minute. You quoted a 5000+ word post in it’s entirety to post a three letter question?

“Wut?” indeed.

I do it all for you, brother. Hope you enjoyed!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Faust For Science wrote:

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Recently I set-up my home-gym in my man-cave.

Not to sound incestuous, but as a child my mother kept me from excising or eating healthy. This is one of the reasons my life is so messed up is this, along with others things I was denied, prevented me from have a solid foundation, and thus screwing up my life.

Whose of us who lived that life might call it child abuse.

[SoaringTigerParticipant 32]

I have noticed such behavior in the past as well. To me, it also smacks of angst of feeling “obliged” to reciprocate, which I actuslly think is fair.

The craziest argument I heard was from a friend of mine who married a really hot chick and two years and 25 pounds extra later on, she told him flat out: “You don’t have to spend an hour in front of mirror every day, so you should be thankful as I am doing that for you”..

Yes, some women equate make up in the morning to you staying in shape.

Irrational reasoning to the core of what is defined as lack of ration.

Man small, why fall. Earth’s call, that’s all.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

“I need you to smell fish on me… SO YOU CAN ACT RIGHT”

-RIP Patrice O’NEAL

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Joey Brooks wrote:

Execration wrote:

…so sorry if were not going to take your account of how shes perfect.

The thing that makes us “work” is the fact that we both have rich lives OUTSIDE of the relationship. She does not NEED me, and I do not NEED her. She has her money, I have my money. She has her friends, I have my friends, and a few of those are “our” friends. Very few. She goes to the gym, I go ride my bike, hunt, fish, surf, skate, whatever. It’s the IMPORTANT things we have in common. TRUST is the big one.

there is absolutely no reason to lie to each other as we are totally free to do whatever we want to except for ONE thing, which is more about disease prevention than any form of jealousy.

One sure way to remain alone is to wait around for the Perfect match.

You just described friends with benefits.

You’re not financially tied… sounds like you do most things separate…

What was the purpose of marriage?

[The DudeParticipant 7]

Never let a woman come between you and the iron. I would leave the relationship for the iron. The iron never lies, the iron never cheats on you, the iron always improves you, the iron makes you a better man. I pick the gym 100% of the time.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Yes I agree with the OP – I also had this happen with my ex bitch.

When I wanted to go to the gym she didnt want me going there. It was because she didnt want other women noticing me. A home gym was the compromise.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Funny thing is, whenever I asked them why they don’t want me there, they kind of avoid the true reason of their questioning.
In my mind it boils down to:

– I’m increasing my SMV (Sexual Market Value) while she is not increasing hers. She is being a lazy c~~~, slowly getting fatt while I’m getting tighter and muscular.
– In essence it comes down to her insecurity of losing me, because I will likely attract other women. Therefore likely dumping her ass.
– Having less time to spend on them. (not the main reason)
– If she wants to keep me as an FWB, she will have to “match” my market value (but she doesn’t want to).

Yep this is what exactly happens everytime.

Every time I became involved with a women, me working out 4-5 a week becomes an “issue”.

What is funny, is they will always argue for their “me” time. Examples include: going to the spa, getting a tan, or going to the nail salon.

It is all a game to get more attention from other men.

Meanwhile, I actually workout because I mentally need to.

It helps me keep sane in a chaotic world, besides I love to play sports and it keeps me athletic.

What I find, is women workout for all the wrong reasons.

I workout to invest in my future, my health.

You only have one temple, you better take care of it.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[General RipperParticipant 101]

If you have any blue-pill bros, keep an eye out, as they will do this to you as well.

I was told by a long time friend that there was nothing to me, and I needed a cheeseburger. Coming from a guy with oneitis, is overweight, smokes, and can’t hold down a job.

I’m in the best shape of my life currently. Better than what I was in the military over a decade ago.

Old acquaintances will do the same s~~~ to you when they see you’re moving forward, and they’re still doing the same old s~~~. Crabs in a bucket.

Women sense my power and they seek the life essence. I do not avoid women. But I do deny them my essence.

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