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    Bullhammer
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    I made exactly the same experiences. They try to keep you from working out because of the several reasons u already told. A few months ago i spoke to a really beautiful young woman who even admitted that a fit guy is very nice to watch (sexy, hot, turns her on…) but she does not want one as a BF at all because next to him she would feel herself fat and ugly…and this Girl was one of the hottest i ve ever seen.
    I’m sure there are many women out there who insinst of beeing the “more attractive” one in a relationship.
    In every relationship there have to be compromisses, thats life, but there shall never be foul compromisses and I would never ever give away my barbell, my pullupbar or my powerrack, not for the best woman in the world.

    Like Henry Rollins said: “[..] I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred Pounds [..]”

    #303622
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    Awakened
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    In every relationship there have to be compromisses

    For most women, compromises mean that you are going to do what she wants you to do, and if they do give in a little bit, the bitch will not forget nor let you. This is all part of that “Happy Wife, Happy Life” bulls~~~. Don’t fall for it!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #303625

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    Throughout my life I have had times where I was going to the gym for about 3 or 4 times a week. I was gaining muscle rapidly, eating well, and doing the right exercises. Recently I set-up my home-gym in my man-cave. Weights, cardio-apparatus, dumbells, you name it. So, now I got even more time to work out should I prefer so.

    However, I noticed (mostly) FWB’s, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends from the past trying to keep me from working out like I do. It always started when I had a time where I starting lifting fanatically. Comments went from:

    “I like a sixpack, but I don’t want you to be massive”
    “I like you as you are”
    “Why do you work out 4 times a week?”
    “Where do you need al these powders for?” –> (just proteins)
    “Oh so you are one of those gym rat powder guys?”

    Funny thing is, whenever I asked them why they don’t want me there, they kind of avoid the true reason of their questioning.
    In my mind it boils down to:

    – I’m increasing my SMV (Sexual Market Value) while she is not increasing hers. She is being a lazy c~~~, slowly getting fatt while I’m getting tighter and muscular.
    – In essence it comes down to her insecurity of losing me, because I will likely attract other women. Therefore likely dumping her ass.
    – Having less time to spend on them. (not the main reason)
    – If she wants to keep me as an FWB, she will have to “match” my market value (but she doesn’t want to).

    So basically they try to keep you down so they can be lazy. They don’t want to work out and be fit. But should you prefer to be fit, they are surely going to be insecure about losing you. Women want you to be fat and provide. If I work out, it will not really benefit her apart from the fact that I look good to her, her family and friends. As I increase my SMV her insecurity will grow. Never ever as any women motivated me to go to the gym.

    Fellow MGTOW’s, this is how far female manipulation can go. Don’t let their shaming tactics put you down. Have any of you “gym rats” ever had to deal with these things?

    What does this prove to me:

    – women are lazy
    – women are manipulative
    – women are not honest
    – women are jealous
    – women are insecure
    – women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

    PS: I always kept training and never turned down a dumbell because of a women. And I never will. Infact I might even level up my work-out just to p~~~ them off.

    Yea Man you pretty much have said it here.Any one who trys to derail your efforts for health and well being is not your freind. They are your enemy.Ive worked out all my life. (Not big ,just in shape.) Dont let no bitches stop you from being the best ,the most you can be!

    #353712
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    Lifting as been my passion since i was 13 i am now 44 took 11y off because of back pain now i am back.

    A few women that have self confidence issues will try to stop you from lifting why because a guy with broad shoulders small waist a good chest is damn sexy and most men today don’t look like that.

    Lift for yourself and f~~~ what theses women say. At 44 i still believe i can change my body, i have about 20 more to drop and i am gonna look amazing.

    Look at Jean Claude Van Damme in the new kickboxer movie he is close to 60 gary daniels b movie star, the cast of the expendables.

    If you train age is but a number eat good you don’t even need supplement a good training program, some good cardio eating below your calorie requirements and that is it

    Also fat people and women are the worst they can’t do it so they will try to stir you off your goals f~~~ them.

    #362716
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    Stargazer
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    I’m surprised that all your woman want you to be fat, because I was under the impression woman want their guys to be Conan, Hercules, or He-Man types. I thought woman like muscle.

    Bumping this thread to point out that women DO like muscle… on the guys they’re f~~~ing. Once you become the protector provider, you’re not the f~~~ing guy any more and being muscled up just makes you more appealing to OTHER women.

    #362732
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    Anonymous
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    Bumping this thread to point out that women DO like muscle… on the guys they’re f~~~ing. Once you become the protector provider, you’re not the f~~~ing guy any more and being muscled up just makes you more appealing to OTHER women.

    [/quote]
    Women like muscles but you will rarely see women go out with a muscular guy, there lack of confidence, they will go out with skinny or chubby men. They see fit men as too much maintenance.

    Beach body is in. But who cares if people train to get women that is simply stupid when they get a women they stop training and become fat again.

    Weight lifting is a passion, a way to stay fit as we get older, improve and keep strong posture, keep the fat off, flexibility and more. Anyone that trains to get women is an idiot and do not have the real passion to lift.

    #372734
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    After reading this thread I finally realized why I made so many women angry. I have an insanely high metabolism and thus I go to the gym to gain weight not lose it. I am muscular and fit and though can not achieve ripped (due to body type and metabolism) but all the time women push food on me and I always say thank you may I have another so I can achieve my ridiculous calorie count for the day. They get angry and try to put me down one way or another. Now I see it is a selfish and/or jealousy thing.

    #374742
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    The Chest Guy
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    MMA fighters and boxers know this well. you don’t train you don’t win, or worse. you could get seriously hurt. but all she cares about is the extra 1-2 hours of away time, and how it is just the WORST. women kill MMA dreams like the manson family.

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6Ql_wJr9M82NZZaBo8Ztlw

    #389150
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    Mister Stealth
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    Bumping this thread to point out that women DO like muscle… on the guys they’re f~~~ing. Once you become the protector provider, you’re not the f~~~ing guy any more and being muscled up just makes you more appealing to OTHER women.

    Couldn’t have said it better myself.

    Steel sharpens steel

    #402157
    Joey Brooks
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    So basically they try to keep you down so they can be lazy. They don’t want to work out and be fit. But should you prefer to be fit, they are surely going to be insecure about losing you. Women want you to be fat and provide. If I work out, it will not really benefit her apart from the fact that I look good to her, her family and friends. As I increase my SMV her insecurity will grow. Never ever as any women motivated me to go to the gym…


    – women are lazy
    – women are manipulative
    – women are not honest
    – women are jealous
    – women are insecure
    – women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

    So who picked this woman for you? Did YOU pick her? Sounds like someone made a really bad choice in their life and does not want to accept ANY responsibility for blowing it.

    My wife (we lived “as married” 16 years, married 6 as of now) and I met in our late 30s. We were both never married, no kids, and were previously considered to be “dating machines”. I dated over 200 women, my wife…never asked her for a number but I can assure you she dated over 100 guys and is still buddies with many of them. I actually like most of them and hang with some of them.

    We are both in our late 50s now and I am usually trying to keep my abs up with hers. She is the gym rat. I am more into outdoor sports. She just hired a personal trainer after the holidays because her 6-pack is currently a 4-pack and I still have all six! So she is pulling out the big guns to catch up. If i posted a photo of her you would not believe she is pushing 60. I mean, she is still REALLY hot.

    So let’s go over the list:

    – women are lazy

    My wife works about 50 hours a week and hits the gym 4-5 days a week for at least 2 hours each session. Life happens of course and sometimes she might not feel good or have a doctor’s appointment keeping her from the gym, but as a rule she hits it hard. She also loves to cook and serves up healthy meals with joy. Not what I call lazy.

    – women are manipulative

    In the world I live in, EVERYBODY is manipulative. We all push for what we want, accept certain trade-offs, and sometimes willfully bend to the will of another person without calling it a manipulation. There are no BS games going on in my household. We ask for what we want, refuse what we don’t, and rely on friends to fill in the gaps. For instance, my wife loves going to the movies – me…not as much. So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. I do extreme distance sports sometimes more than she can handle. I go on a 150 mile bike ride I either go alone or with one of my few friends who can do that stuff. Sometimes they are female. No problems.

    – women are not honest

    3+ BILLION of them and not ONE honest one? Maybe I got the ONLY one? There is no reason to lie in my household. She wants something from me she just asks. In 21 years I have never busted her in a lie. It would be silly to go that route with me.

    – women are jealous

    My wife and I have one rule and one rule only: No exchange of bodily fluids with other people. Young and old dudes hit on her at the gym all the time. Once in a while she gets a crush on someone herself. She wants to go have a coffee or something with a beautiful, interesting guy…what do I care. SHE SHOULD BE GETTING HIT ON. And I bet it not only makes her feel good but I benefit as well. Any sexual energy she generates with some other guy comes home to me. On the other hand, I met a super-fit woman in a local park who is getting into some distance sports herself about a year ago. I told my wife about her on Day-1 of our meeting. Over the course of about 8 months I exchanged phone numbers with the new “girl friend” and we are starting to do some things together. Since my wife worries about me doing just about everything alone she is happy I have the company. I had a bit of a crush on this woman before we started hanging out and guess what? All of that sexual energy went home to my wife and will continue to do so.

    – women are insecure

    It’s YOUR job to make the woman feel secure. I have a wife AND a girlfriend and my wife has no doubts who she is leaving a party with EVER. I have a few female buddies from before my wife and I met and have made a few new female friends since we met. Not one word or cross look. Why? Because my wife and I are both secure people and know good and well if the other person wants to screw around there isn’t a thing we can do about it anyway. Given our history of dating and screwing lots of people before we met, I can’t see either of us straying at this point but who knows really. I make her feel secure by TELLING her, daily, how hot she looks, how much I appreciate the long leash she gives me, and look her in the eyes and tell her how much I love her.

    – women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

    Haha! That’s a good one! My wife tries her hardest to build me up and encourage me to have fun so I can be a happy guy around her. And thanks to her income, which is roughly 4x what I make, (we have a separation of property for her sake), I live a lifestyle several levels above where I would be otherwise. I pay my own way and half of OUR bills, but not any part of all the stuff my wife buys for herself. And lately, because the “Unaffordable Care Act” has been stripping my vacation funds for the past few years, my wife foots most of the bill for any vacations we take while I try to find a better job with benefits.

    So how did we manage this miracle? Simple. Neither one of us WOULD ACCEPT ANY LESS than what we found in each other. She can keep all of her “boyfriends”, I can have “girlfriends”, neither of us drinks or does drugs, both are college grads, and both of us kept our bodies and grooming at a high level to be as attractive as possible to the opposite sex. So when we met, we were both ready. Nobody had to change or improve. And we didn’t jump into bed until we really got to know each other and our orbit of close friends – about 3 months of dating first. This prevents doing something stupid while “mesmerized” by brain chemicals.

    I guess the short version of this is to not be foolish when CHOOSING a woman. Picking the wrong girl is on you my friend. Shoulda let her walk. I know, I know…she changed.

    If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

    #402359
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    There are a few issues I take with your post,

    (we have a separation of property for her sake),

    Why do you have this if you are happily married? Does not make any sense

    Sure not every single women on earth does this but if the majority does? (how many did you test run before this one?) I don’t keep count but all the ones I have come across in my 30 something years aren’t even remotely close to that hence why I’m single.

    #402405
    Joey Brooks
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    There are a few issues I take with your post,

    (we have a separation of property for her sake),

    Why do you have this if you are happily married? Does not make any sense

    We got separation of property legal work done BEFORE we got married. My wife works long, hard hours so she can make lots of money because the things she likes to do are generally expensive. I don’t work very hard or many hours each week to make just enough money to pay my share and enjoy a lot of time off to have fun in the outdoors.

    Bottom line…my wife is not stupid. I’m like a loveable surf bum. Why should she risk half of her hard labor on me? I could get a brain tumor and totally change my personality making me impossible to live with, or maybe it makes me start screwing every woman I can get my hands on? Getting the legal work done FIRST is CHEAP. And smart. I can’t be married to a dumb woman.

    Sure not every single women on earth does this but if the majority does? (how many did you test run before this one?) I don’t keep count but all the ones I have come across in my 30 something years aren’t even remotely close to that hence why I’m single.

    Yes, the vast majority of young women just want a sperm/money donor so they can have children. This is not their fault, it’s biology. This does not make them automatically bad or un-dateable. But if you marry one, you better want kids and 21 years of hard labor. Some men do, most don’t, and that is why this MGTOW place exists.

    Your choices are: Just date around and don’t get into legal trouble with them or get them pregnant OR wait until all of the silly family s~~~ is over for them and fish for older women with kids old enough to not need a baby sitter. Or…become a Monk. Personally, I would rather have sex with a shriveled up 90 year old than be a monk. We all make our choices in life of what we are willing to give up to be happy. It’s personal. And yes, I got “lucky” in a sense – but…I POSITIONED MYSELF to be lucky. I didn’t just sit around complaining.

    If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

    #402414
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    So basically they try to keep you down so they can be lazy. They don’t want to work out and be fit. But should you prefer to be fit, they are surely going to be insecure about losing you. Women want you to be fat and provide. If I work out, it will not really benefit her apart from the fact that I look good to her, her family and friends. As I increase my SMV her insecurity will grow. Never ever as any women motivated me to go to the gym…


    – women are lazy
    – women are manipulative
    – women are not honest
    – women are jealous
    – women are insecure
    – women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

    So who picked this woman for you? Did YOU pick her? Sounds like someone made a really bad choice in their life and does not want to accept ANY responsibility for blowing it.

    My wife (we lived “as married” 16 years, married 6 as of now) and I met in our late 30s. We were both never married, no kids, and were previously considered to be “dating machines”. I dated over 200 women, my wife…never asked her for a number but I can assure you she dated over 100 guys and is still buddies with many of them. I actually like most of them and hang with some of them.

    We are both in our late 50s now and I am usually trying to keep my abs up with hers. She is the gym rat. I am more into outdoor sports. She just hired a personal trainer after the holidays because her 6-pack is currently a 4-pack and I still have all six! So she is pulling out the big guns to catch up. If i posted a photo of her you would not believe she is pushing 60. I mean, she is still REALLY hot.

    So let’s go over the list:

    – women are lazy

    My wife works about 50 hours a week and hits the gym 4-5 days a week for at least 2 hours each session. Life happens of course and sometimes she might not feel good or have a doctor’s appointment keeping her from the gym, but as a rule she hits it hard. She also loves to cook and serves up healthy meals with joy. Not what I call lazy.

    – women are manipulative

    In the world I live in, EVERYBODY is manipulative. We all push for what we want, accept certain trade-offs, and sometimes willfully bend to the will of another person without calling it a manipulation. There are no BS games going on in my household. We ask for what we want, refuse what we don’t, and rely on friends to fill in the gaps. For instance, my wife loves going to the movies – me…not as much. So she often hits the movies with one of her old boyfriends who loves movies. I do extreme distance sports sometimes more than she can handle. I go on a 150 mile bike ride I either go alone or with one of my few friends who can do that stuff. Sometimes they are female. No problems.

    – women are not honest

    3+ BILLION of them and not ONE honest one? Maybe I got the ONLY one? There is no reason to lie in my household. She wants something from me she just asks. In 21 years I have never busted her in a lie. It would be silly to go that route with me.

    – women are jealous

    My wife and I have one rule and one rule only: No exchange of bodily fluids with other people. Young and old dudes hit on her at the gym all the time. Once in a while she gets a crush on someone herself. She wants to go have a coffee or something with a beautiful, interesting guy…what do I care. SHE SHOULD BE GETTING HIT ON. And I bet it not only makes her feel good but I benefit as well. Any sexual energy she generates with some other guy comes home to me. On the other hand, I met a super-fit woman in a local park who is getting into some distance sports herself about a year ago. I told my wife about her on Day-1 of our meeting. Over the course of about 8 months I exchanged phone numbers with the new “girl friend” and we are starting to do some things together. Since my wife worries about me doing just about everything alone she is happy I have the company. I had a bit of a crush on this woman before we started hanging out and guess what? All of that sexual energy went home to my wife and will continue to do so.

    – women are insecure

    It’s YOUR job to make the woman feel secure. I have a wife AND a girlfriend and my wife has no doubts who she is leaving a party with EVER. I have a few female buddies from before my wife and I met and have made a few new female friends since we met. Not one word or cross look. Why? Because my wife and I are both secure people and know good and well if the other person wants to screw around there isn’t a thing we can do about it anyway. Given our history of dating and screwing lots of people before we met, I can’t see either of us straying at this point but who knows really. I make her feel secure by TELLING her, daily, how hot she looks, how much I appreciate the long leash she gives me, and look her in the eyes and tell her how much I love her.

    – women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

    Haha! That’s a good one! My wife tries her hardest to build me up and encourage me to have fun so I can be a happy guy around her. And thanks to her income, which is roughly 4x what I make, (we have a separation of property for her sake), I live a lifestyle several levels above where I would be otherwise. I pay my own way and half of OUR bills, but not any part of all the stuff my wife buys for herself. And lately, because the “Unaffordable Care Act” has been stripping my vacation funds for the past few years, my wife foots most of the bill for any vacations we take while I try to find a better job with benefits.

    So how did we manage this miracle? Simple. Neither one of us WOULD ACCEPT ANY LESS than what we found in each other. She can keep all of her “boyfriends”, I can have “girlfriends”, neither of us drinks or does drugs, both are college grads, and both of us kept our bodies and grooming at a high level to be as attractive as possible to the opposite sex. So when we met, we were both ready. Nobody had to change or improve. And we didn’t jump into bed until we really got to know each other and our orbit of close friends – about 3 months of dating first. This prevents doing something stupid while “mesmerized” by brain chemicals.

    I guess the short version of this is to not be foolish when CHOOSING a woman. Picking the wrong girl is on you my friend. Shoulda let her walk. I know, I know…she changed.

    SOMEONE, obviously doesnt Understand how DECEPTION works.Under what conditions do you naturally expect someone to f~~~ you over, you dont and your post wreaks of the same trust alot of people had for their wives so sorry if were not going to take your account of how shes perfect.

    #402439
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    Picking the wrong girl is on you my friend.

    If I have rotten apples or rotten oranges to choose from how do I pick edible fruit?

    I POSITIONED MYSELF to be lucky. I didn’t just sit around complaining.

    This makes me wonder what you are doing here. If you have no bad experiences to caution others about what’s the deal? Not being able to find a respectable partner and just sitting around complaining are two very different things. If some ate fruit that looked good but made them sick I would like to be enlightened to that I do not eat that same fruit and become sick.

    #402442
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    @ joey brooks

    How many Women were wives until they werent?

    Lets make some Approximations.

    In the U.S a Divorce occurs every 36 seconds. Thats

    2,400 a day

    16,800 a week

    Almost 100k a year so A lot of those men SHOULD take responsibility(ask me for Citations) because they knew they were going to get divorced.They should take responsibility and be held accountable to the decisions of someone else that effected them who they trusted! Its their Fault for another persons choice.Hell, the next time I hang out with someone and they shoot or stab me without WARNING , because all assholes warn you first, I should take responsibility for their behavior Except fault is defined as :responsibility for an accident or mifortune.Responsibility is: having an obligation to meet or fufill requirements.Hmmm you sound like a dumbass!

    Was he in control of his wifes behaviour?Is someone olbligated to beilieve anyone contrary to what they say if there isnt cause for suspicion? No people Naturally assume the person they marry isnt going to f~~~ them over.

    Women ARE Lazy

    Women are manipulative theres a book WRITTEN by a Women explaining that aspect of the female psyche.

    Other peoples feelings areny MY responsibility since you beilieve in responsibility

    And name one Women taking care of a man… Wait you cant because your wife has a prenup and you SHARE expenses

    #402457
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    My last bit.

    NO women arent biologically inclined.They are mentally INDISPOSED to accept alternatively. Alot are just selfish.I’m tired of pussywhipped men thinking certain things are Indistinguishable to them in terms of rationale .As a thinking being they understand everything a man does. when it comes to their natural desires that doesnt afford or require of them decency?If a women wants kids and security she can still reason.It doesnt cancel that possibility out. she can help or assist a man in the process and it doesnt MAKE her divorce for capital.

    Its this Princess bulls~~~ where they DESERVE something thats an issue.When you merit recognition you DESERVE it.

    I hope your marriage is as good as you say it iS!

    #402503
    Joey Brooks
    Joey Brooks
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    Picking the wrong girl is on you my friend.

    If I have rotten apples or rotten oranges to choose from how do I pick edible fruit?

    Same thing you do at the grocery store. Keep shopping, try another grocery, or wait for the next shipment. Do you just give up eating apples and oranges?

    POSITIONING to find a decent women is EVERYTHING. If I lived in Eastern Kentucky, I would be much less likely to find a woman interested in her health and beauty than if I lived in Santa Monica, California. Or Boulder, Colorado. I would not “shop” for oranges at the Rotten Fruit Store. I would go to a better grocery.

    I POSITIONED MYSELF to be lucky. I didn’t just sit around complaining.

    This makes me wonder what you are doing here. If you have no bad experiences to caution others about what’s the deal? Not being able to find a respectable partner and just sitting around complaining are two very different things. If some ate fruit that looked good but made them sick I would like to be enlightened to that I do not eat that same fruit and become sick.

    Oh, I have had bad experiences. I didn’t marry them. I gave her time to show her true self. I decided to join MGTOW in order to help some of the younger guys (mostly) who are getting spoon fed the idea that all women are evil and to be avoided. Women are freaking FUN! Sex is FUN! You just can’t be stupid about it like most things worth doing in life. Of the 200 or so women I dated since high school I found 30 or so worth having sex with, two of them were as hateful as any person can be, and the rest were fun to be around and much better to look at than any of my male friends, of which I have very few. You can’t meet quality women while hanging out with the guys. It’s a solo thing.

    Don’t jam the whole fruit into your mouth at once. Take a little taste and see how this makes you feel. Then maybe another taste if the first one goes down OK. Try not to get the woman pregnant on the first date. Get to KNOW her. Ask questions. Give it a couple of months, more if you are suspicious before sticking any of your body parts into her. Some of the pretty fruit is actually good for you! It’s not all rotten. This is my message here.

    If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

    #402511
    Joey Brooks
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    …so sorry if were not going to take your account of how shes perfect.

    Did I use the word “Perfect” while describing my wife? I don’t think so. I am pretty far from perfect myself. We just don’t dwell on our differences. We never talk politics for instance. Not allowed in the house except under special circumstances. We both know where the other stands politically and leave it at that.

    The thing that makes us “work” is the fact that we both have rich lives OUTSIDE of the relationship. She does not NEED me, and I do not NEED her. She has her money, I have my money. She has her friends, I have my friends, and a few of those are “our” friends. Very few. She goes to the gym, I go ride my bike, hunt, fish, surf, skate, whatever. It’s the IMPORTANT things we have in common. TRUST is the big one. This is not something that happens automatically, trust is EARNED. And like I said up-thread, there is absolutely no reason to lie to each other as we are totally free to do whatever we want to except for ONE thing, which is more about disease prevention than any form of jealousy.

    One sure way to remain alone is to wait around for the Perfect match. Get out there and date A LOT. Don’t believe one word you hear for a few months. Just have fun. Then, if you want to progress with this woman, start observing how she treats others, how she talks about old boyfriends or husbands, is she into vengeance? How would she react if you wanted to make a new female friend? How does she act around your current female friends? Oh wait…you don’t HAVE and female friends because we are all too busy going our own way! See where the problem lies for many men? They do not know how to be friends with a woman. This makes the situation for finding a good woman nearly impossible.

    Just trying to help man. I have a lot of valuable experience in this department.

    If you could walk through walls, would you still use doors?

    #421958
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    Yeah I’m a gym rat too. I see the body as a reflection of you overall health. It is imperative that we take care of our temple. I too have been with women who would complain about me working out. The typical response was, ” You need to stop working out and spend MORE time with me.”. To which I would respond, ” If you really want to spend time with me, then you could just work out with me”. Generally, I would just hear crickets. This would always validate 2 things for me: 1) They never really cared about spending time with me, just the MONEY I spent on them, 2) That she is lazy, and doesn’t want to work for anything, i.e. can’t delay immediate gratification. Needless to say, these woman never lasted. If a women doesn’t take care of herself, then how the f~~~ is she gonna take care of my children? Of me?

    Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

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    Bosk
    Bosk
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    My 20 yrs old GF (now wife) was ashamed of me being too muscular when going out with a tight T-shirt.
    To her, I looked like a redneck and “it did not reflect my intelligence”.

    For years, it has been making her wet ;=)

    So yes, they are so insecure… BUT she has to keep the pace or I’ll go f~~~ somewhere else.

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