GF or wife trying to keep you from the gym

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Throughout my life I have had times where I was going to the gym for about 3 or 4 times a week. I was gaining muscle rapidly, eating well, and doing the right exercises. Recently I set-up my home-gym in my man-cave. Weights, cardio-apparatus, dumbells, you name it. So, now I got even more time to work out should I prefer so.

However, I noticed (mostly) FWB’s, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends from the past trying to keep me from working out like I do. It always started when I had a time where I starting lifting fanatically. Comments went from:

“I like a sixpack, but I don’t want you to be massive”
“I like you as you are”
“Why do you work out 4 times a week?”
“Where do you need al these powders for?” –> (just proteins)
“Oh so you are one of those gym rat powder guys?”

Funny thing is, whenever I asked them why they don’t want me there, they kind of avoid the true reason of their questioning.
In my mind it boils down to:

– I’m increasing my SMV (Sexual Market Value) while she is not increasing hers. She is being a lazy c~~~, slowly getting fatt while I’m getting tighter and muscular.
– In essence it comes down to her insecurity of losing me, because I will likely attract other women. Therefore likely dumping her ass.
– Having less time to spend on them. (not the main reason)
– If she wants to keep me as an FWB, she will have to “match” my market value (but she doesn’t want to).

So basically they try to keep you down so they can be lazy. They don’t want to work out and be fit. But should you prefer to be fit, they are surely going to be insecure about losing you. Women want you to be fat and provide. If I work out, it will not really benefit her apart from the fact that I look good to her, her family and friends. As I increase my SMV her insecurity will grow. Never ever as any women motivated me to go to the gym.

Fellow MGTOW’s, this is how far female manipulation can go. Don’t let their shaming tactics put you down. Have any of you “gym rats” ever had to deal with these things?

What does this prove to me:

– women are lazy
– women are manipulative
– women are not honest
– women are jealous
– women are insecure
– women try to keep you down for their own benefit –> thus making them selfish

PS: I always kept training and never turned down a dumbell because of a women. And I never will. Infact I might even level up my work-out just to p~~~ them off.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Recently I set-up my home-gym in my man-cave.

Not to sound incestuous, but as a child my mother kept me from excising or eating healthy. This is one of the reasons my life is so messed up is this, along with others things I was denied, prevented me from have a solid foundation, and thus screwing up my life.

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Faust For Science wrote:

THE SKANKSPANKER wrote:

Recently I set-up my home-gym in my man-cave.

Not to sound incestuous, but as a child my mother kept me from excising or eating healthy. On of the reasons my life is so messed up is this, along with others things I was denied, prevented me from have a solid foundation, and thus screwing up my life.

That’s f~~~ed up man. Seems like a hard lesson learned.

On the bright side, we now have near full control over our life (apart from society). Plus being MGTOW surely demonstrates a having gathered a certain kind of wisdom, therefore i’m sure every MGTOW is on their right path no matter what past events had unfolded before. I don’t think there is one single MGTOW undamaged, otherwise we wouldn’t be here.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

On the bright side, we now have near full control over our life (apart from society).

Oh, that is only the tip of the iceberg. I could go further. And my mother was not the worst. Not even close. But, that is for another thread. I am alive now. I have some health problems, but my weight is okay and I carry myself well. I got a bit of a gut, but it is not noticed.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I think you nailed it, bro. Women are attention whores, they constantly need to be getting it and if you’re their bf, it’s more on you than anything else. SMV has a lot to do with it, same thing like if a woman wants you to get her breast implants, it’s a sign she’s about to divorce your ass and be more attractive when she finds your replacement. She knows a good looking man is all it takes for your average carousel rider to f~~~, and then you might realize what a piece of s~~~ she is, how out of shape, lazy, and that she can’t cook worth a f~~~. Once again….

YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD! Keep hitting the weights, bro.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[HitmanParticipant]

keep working out brother ! bunker-man ,MGTOWER ! russky,i live again , i learn , KM and co. ( great rock band name KM and CO. ) ..Ned Trent,Jan, Faust , Lucifer ..Snake ( f~~~ you man ! ..love you dude ,, ) ..prefer peace ,..crazy canuck., bigboy ,, allright , ..i’m bad with names 11.000 to go …Skankspanker , don’t sweat those bitches , sweat ON them ! .. CHEERS BROTHER-MEN!

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

(Doing crunches while typing this)

Yeah woman want you fat and disgusting so they can “claim” you. If you are still in shape you are still a liability and not fully controlled.

I remember hearing from an ex when I got my six pack not to share pics of them. She found them while scrolling thru pics on my phone. Meanwhile her friends pulled me away in a party to “show them the goods” while she was in the bathroom. Good friends she keeps huh..

Another ex told me I should get “plump” after getting a new job and relax. I can still relax and be in shape dammit!

The richer you are the worse you can look however…

[VettenParticipant 110]

Yes, we all experience that.

I’m off to get a whopper and a movie.
Ah… I’m 50….even if I had a six pack…. the girls would be looking for that wallet bulge in my ass. ha.

Regard to all mgtow.

You guys rock.

Hi to hitman, Ilearn, Roy Dal, Keymaster, MgTower and all the other guys.
Sarcasm…ahead…
And f~~~ you to the one guy who always tells everyone else to f~~~ off.
Damn, I love that.

Why do I see a bar where when you walk in everyone instead of saying “Hi” or “Hello”
it’s “Hey, f~~~ you!” and the women are all confused and s~~~. But the men get it as a greeting so satire.

Skankspanker-
Good for you keep up the good work. Do it for yourself. I’m 50 like Bunker Mode been working hard lifting for the last year. I’m #220 w/ 33″ waist and I do it for MYSELF.

Bunker Mode-
I read somewhere guys meet and greet each other with extremely derogatory words but don’t mean it, true.

Women greet other with extremely complimentary words……….and don’t mean it.

Gotta love the truth!.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Although, I haven’t run into this personally, I agree with what you’ve pointed out. I’ve run into women in the past who also have some infatuation with trying to get me to eat more. This seems to go along with them worrying about you raising your SMV. They want to eat too much and not work out so they try to sabotage the man so that he can be kept from improving himself and thus his SMV.
I know you said that you work out at home so this doesn’t apply to your particular situation but another theory could also be that women tend to see gyms as potential meat markets. Those who belong to a gym and encounter the problem you have noted, are not only raising their SMV by working out but are also being seen by other females who DO care about their appearance and health and may show an interest.
Anyways, keep up the good work.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I notice how girlfriend’s wife’s and mothers try to keep the males in their life by trying to weaken and shame them for exercise because it will increase their value.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Cheetah84Participant 39]

My brother (married) has exactly the same problem..his wife just gets fatter and fatter..and complains that he is “too big”? She even told him to stop taking protein powders because it would mean they (trying for a baby soon) would have a boy. (she clearly wants a girl first). (BAT S~~~ CRAZY)

Man if you knew the s~~~ I say to her over-handedly and underhandedly…I call her out on being a overbearing “mother” rather than a wife..funny thing his he defends her when she acts like a ****.

She complains, but I KNOW she brags to her other friends “how strong and big my hubby is”.

He hits the gym I think to get away from her…he is a school principle..after a loong day (yeah right 6hours max) he has a few hours to himself to lift hard and drown out the monotony of being married.

Stay strong brother, lift for yourself only..the SMV is just added bonus I think..like when someone hands you a beer and its opened already? haha you can do it yourself, but its opened so drink up!

[Anonymous 5]

Many years ago when I was married I got overweight and decided to do something about it.
I decided to cut down on food,,,,,,pretty simple.
I told my Ex I was feeling unhealthy etc and she seemed to go along with it.

Come the first evening meal she cooked up a huge batch of spaghetti and put the biggest plate of spag in front of me she’d ever served and just sat back and looked straight at me.
I was totally blue pill and just thought she was bat s~~~ crazy or on her period or just thought it was one of those strange inexplicable behaviors/mysteries of women.
What the f~~~,,,,,,,,,, I didn’t need a fight at the meal table in front of the kids and I felt like eating it anyhow.

Red Pill knowledge actually predicts a woman will be insecure enough to isolate you from your peer group or any group you can discuss your relationship dynamics, that she’ll constantly level you and keep you less appealing to other women. (Unless of course she wants to dress you up as an accessory of hers)
There’s nothing mysterious about a female partner not wanting you to go to the gym. It’s objective management.
No amount of sixpacks or height or any other attribute will increase her sexual desire for you once you’re owned. That all gets biologically extinguished on ownership and women have no idea why.
Ask any super athlete or movie star or financial tycoon who’s been married for any amount of time,,,no matter how tall, how rich or ripped.
You’re her resource and your health or happiness only matters if it affects your monetary output.

The mere thought that you might be increasing your sexual appeal will send her into a hamster spin,,,,,, your health comes a distant second, especially if she’s a financial beneficiary to your demise.
They evade responsibility for their own health,,,that’s what pills and doctors are for.

So much for all that feminine mystery that Blue Pillers have been rationalizing with since the dawn of history.

[perpedes66Participant 259]

Hi all,

all you said opens my eyes. Lost 20 kg and over 50% bodyfat in one year(I can see muscles I have never seen before).

…..and my wife goes crazy.... no…. it is some kind of hate.

– why are you doing this BS?
– the neighbours/friends think you are ill.
– before you look better.
– it is unhealthy !????!
– not enough time for the family business
– counting calories and eating healthy is unmanly.

I never felt so good in my live! I can think clearly now that the whole haze is gone. I will never get overweight again.

https://www.itsuxtobefat.com/wp-content/uploads/exercise-quotes-motivation.gif

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Anything you do to better yourself that doesn’t also benefit a woman is something they can’t have because it only increases the gap between you two in terms of desirability.

If you’re equal/lower than her she immediately doesn’t have to try hard. Can let herself go and replace you easily even if you do ditch her. If you’re already equal or greater than her she knows a man like you doesn’t come by often but once you continue to improve further her insecurity will grow with it to the point of desperation.

[God is DeadParticipant 63]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

– I’m increasing my SMV (Sexual Market Value) while she is not increasing hers. She is being a lazy c~~~, slowly getting fatt while I’m getting tighter and muscular.
– In essence it comes down to her insecurity of losing me, because I will likely attract other women. Therefore likely dumping her ass.
– Having less time to spend on them. (not the main reason)
– If she wants to keep me as an FWB, she will have to “match” my market value (but she doesn’t want to).

Bingo. Sounds like a comment I heard the other day from one of my neighbors on the way out to my car: “What is WRONG with that kid? Is he anorexic? That’s NOT healthy!” Well, judging by the look of your kids, I’m a lot healthier than your future diabeetus-embracing tubbies. So I started a new workout routine and I’m starting to trim the fat and build muscle, you jealous bish?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Funny thing is, whenever I asked them why they don’t want me there, they kind of avoid the true reason of their questioning.
In my mind it boils down to:

– I’m increasing my SMV (Sexual Market Value) while she is not increasing hers. She is being a lazy c~~~, slowly getting fatt while I’m getting tighter and muscular.

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Have any of you “gym rats” ever had to deal with these things?

YES! In my opinion, this is a “top ten” topic and I don’t know how I missed it previously.

I was very athletic for many years. In top form, and shared exactly the same observation – many multiple times over.

Mothers of girlfriends would shove cakes, pies and cookies in my face – even after I just ate one or three. – and they would practically be “offended” if I wouldn’t gorge myself. I wondered where was this coming from? And over time, I arrived at exactly the same conclusion.

They were trying to lower my SMV(!) and eliminate the competition in a backhanded way.

I would wake up at 6AM to hit the gym before work, and suddenly the GF would roll over and say “you don’t need to go to the gym” like she was Obitch Wan Kenobi trying a Jedi Mind Trick. In every way, you nailed it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9540]

I’m surprised that all your woman want you to be fat, because I was under the impression woman want their guys to be Conan, Hercules, or He-Man types. I thought woman like muscle. My mother renewed my gym membership earlier this month because she doesn’t want me to gain weight and be unhealthy. She takes good health to an extreme.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[MastaParticipant 10]

Haha It’s amazing how they all use the ‘same lines’,… I had exactly the same from my ex when I started getting visible results from the gym;

> only girls go on diets and watch what they eat
> your a show off/getting a big head
> don’t get any bigger muscles you’ll look stupid etc….

[Buller100Participant 2189]

It’s about control, they are scared another women will want you and they lose their annuity stream.

[MojinatorParticipant 33]

This isn’t just a gym thing, it’s a keep you from anything thing, any hobby or interest it doesn’t matter, they will try and separate you from it, even if that hobby led to your meeting or in the case of a gym the initial physical attraction, they will draw you away from it and fill your time with shopping, time with HER family doing the inanest s~~~, just stuff you don’t want to do and they will guilt you over and over, you either fight like hell or give in and do what SHE wants you to do.

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