F~~~ Thanksgiving!

[Krab_AssParticipant 267]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

I believe that I’m a pushover that is morphing into a man who only does things that he wants to do.

I would agree ZFG. You will feel more liberated (going your own way) but it will have a price. You will have to keep your distance from people who want you to do their bidding and treat you like a ‘utility’, and then dispose of you when they are done. I know – because I have ‘lived’ this life now for approx. 3 years. Seeing things for what they really are can be sad and depressing, but is also clarity that allows you to avoid being ensnared by sociopaths.

If I were you, I would sit down with your mother (or communicate how you feel most comfortable, if it is by phone or letter…etc….etc….) and lay it all out. I am afraid (and maybe I am wrong) that if you dance around the subject or tiptoe (soas to avoid hurting feelings) – always choosing to avoid family get-togethers – people will push only more to see what is going on with you.

Good luck and always remember – you have friends and a pretty cool support group here.

Oh – there is another thing I wanted to say yesterday (Thanksgiving) but the site was down for upgrades / repairs – I AM THANKFUL FOR MGTOW!

"I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character!"
~ Theodore Roosevelt

[mrpropmechParticipant 216]

I pretty much said f~~~ thanksgiving as well. Was supposed to go with my dad and brother to his gf family gathering. Probably 30 people or so. I’ve been stressed the whole week it’s been a s~~~ty one for me was not even there 2 mins and felt an anxiety attack coming on. Walked back out and sat in my car, and then left. I couldn’t handle it. So much f~~~ing noise everything was amplified I just wanted out.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9642]

Thank god Thanksgiving is over this year. Nothing worse than my dad’s side of the family consist of my VERY immature aunt and her 4 loud, obnoxious, controversial, conceded, overly Christian belief and argument teenage kids. A family just likes to act intolerant and stir up fights and arguments just for the sake of it. I hate my dad’s family! My aunt is 50 years old and still acts like a 10 year old with a laughing problem.

Even the Thanksgiving Day Parade on CBS was a drag. Nothing but reporters and commentators that won’t shut up for even 5 seconds, boring Broadway performances, too many TV ads, and not enough focus on the parade. It was so boring, I had to drift away and go online to watch Trump speeches on YouTube. At least that always makes me feel good. Trump for president 2016!

I’m just now worried about Christmas at my mothers. It doesn’t matter what, she loves to make me feel guilty by making me at fault for everything. She wants me to do things, but I don’t know that, she doesn’t want me to do something and I don’t know it, but I’m guilty of everything anyway and she nags to death about it. So Thanksgiving was a drag and so will Christmas.

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[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

I had a great Thanksgiving My Own Way. Grilled steak and sides, with my dog and the voices in my head. No stress or drama. I actually weigh less today than yesterday, and I feel awesome and very thankful.

All you brothers dreading Christmas, remember you have a choice.

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Holiday that annoys me, is New Years, c~~~s getting excuses to have a girls night out, go clubbing, and of course the obnoxious behavior bulls~~~. Oh, I just can’t wait for that one!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[FahraynkParticipant 67]

On relationships vs family… The problem is with relationships… you take SO much more crap which means your doing SO much more work, and all your getting in return is sex. With family, its just holidays and occasional visits with people who annoy you, but in return you get someone to arrange your funeral and pick you up from the hospital and good food ect. Things that you would not want to bother your friends with.

So I think as a cost benefit analysis family is worth the price, but relationships are not.

Weddings are another story though UGH I HATE family weddings.

[HimeoParticipant 471]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

So brothers. Do you think I’m delusional, arrogant, or self-centered? Are you celebrating Thanksgiving? Why? I’ll appreciate seeing your thoughts.

I think you’re arrogant and self-centered, but you’re young and I don’t hold it against you.

I celebrated Thanksgiving, and holidays, and birthdays this year. Let me tell you why.

007 (Reborn) wrote:

I’d rather die as a truth teller than to live as a coward.

I respect that. But the issue at hand here isn’t your death. It’s theirs.

Your young, so you don’t realize this yet. But there will come a time when you won’t have those people around anymore. You won’t be able to call them on the phone 24 hours a day. You can’t write them an e-mail, or a letter, or shoot the s~~~ with them on voice chat over a video game.

Maybe you had a s~~~ty family. That sucks. But I didn’t. My parents and siblings and distant relatives were good to me. I care about them, and I know there will come a time when I won’t be able to enjoy their company.

You know what makes those awkward social interactions at Thanksgiving tolerable? The knowledge that these people will all die. That I’m going to die too. That this might be the last chance I have to show them I care about them.

I think that’s the right way to look at it, and the right way to live your life.

Just my two cents.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

Despite the typical brainwashed female entitlement I had to put up with, Thanksgiving wasn’t so bad. The pumpkin pie my mom made this year was exceptional and the highlight of the holiday for me. Sorry others had it pretty rough…sucks.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Thanks for your replies everyone. I ended up spending Thanksgiving with some of my real friends. We ate lots of food and got super drunk on riesling wine. It was my favorite Thanksgiving ever. The next Challenge will be X-mas, I’ll likely go my own way. Thanks again guys.

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