Friends Zone = Backup Plan

[corkwonderParticipant 125]

have anyone else noticed that women use the freinds zone as a backup plan they will f~~~ around in their teens to mid 30’s with – bad boys – womeanizers – sports stars ect trying to get one of them to put a ring on it

but if they can’t get one to do that they than turn to guys they have know for a long time in the friends zone just before they hit the wall and can’t get a man

like this http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3681929/Lisa-Snowdon-finds-love-friend-15-years-unlucky-relationships-George-Clooney-Gary-Dourdan.html

[Anonymous 11]

I have both noticed and experienced that.

The only problem with being the second choice is that one is NEVER the first choice. When the All-Star returns to the game, the bench warmer gets sent back to the bench.

I was talking to an exGF yesterday who did that to me about 20 years ago. I was her second choice after Chad one and got bucked out as soon as Chad two, who features violence, arrived on scene whom she is still with.

Her gobbler neck is coming along quite well though, thank you. Oh well, at least I got to sample the goods pre-Wall.

As far as the article, that Lisa Snowdon trollop is an alpha widow. Her friend will be out in the cold the first time any alpha c~~~ comes a’sniffin’ around. I think this is a gyno-propaganda story. It makes women swoon and encourages blue pillers to keep hanging in there as tools for these women.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Pretty much what drove me off female “friends” in the first place.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Textbook Alpha F~~~s, with Beta Bucks waiting on the bench.

Thanks Rollo Tomassi, for his insightful explanation of his observations in evolutionary psychology.

I remember reading SMV / SMP (sexual market value/place), and something like righteous karma of beta bucks, where he explains how men are waking up and refusing to participate in women’s duplicitous plans.

There was an article by some feminist explaining how women need to date all the bad boys and enjoy all the tingles in their youth, then settle for a chump that believes in equality. I believe she said “nothing is sexier” than a chump slave who believes that feminist crap.

Rollo wisely points out that men reach their peak later in life, because as men we need to build value by doing and grow our potential through achievement. Women on the other hand have intrinsic value awarded to them at the beginning in the form of youth and beauty, they need to MAINTAIN their ever depreciating value which they never really earned.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

my ex moved away to be with me so she was isolated from “friends”. but i came to find out that she used f~~book in order to keep all of the orbiters within her gravitational pull. i did some recon one day when she left it up and spied on her conversations. she announced to multiple orbiters about things not working out with me and her intention of leaving the area. all of them were so willingly jockeying in line and being good little emotional tampons it was quite sickening. one asshole that now lives in colorado, which is half the country away from here, talked about how they would have beautiful babies and that my daughter and this sloot were always welcome to be there with him. he also mentioned how “it’s too bad things never worked out between them” when they lived in the same home town. can you believe the level of simp this idiot was displaying? things never worked out because she was never interested and he’s still pussy begging for this now worthless single mother who’s approaching the wall. i felt like responding and telling him that my daughter has a devoted father in her life that would like to keep it that way and he can f~~~ off. but although it’s his fault to be a mangina it’s not his fault that this particular whore is taking advantage of his attention, so i didn’t say anything and just allowed it all the adjust my perspective on the whole deal.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

[Anonymous 42]

Funny thing about the friend zone with women, when you’re MGTOW and don’t fall all over their every desire, they have a way of disposing of you all together, they have no concept of actually having life long friends, everything is all about instant gratification and gluttonous narcissism that rules their motives, these stupid c~~~s have let solid lifelong partner material slip through their fingers and never realized it, and never will, they hit their terrible 40s all alone stinking of narcissistic man repellent.

I gave up on the whole f~~~ing thing!

Baby, bathwater, tub, sink, and pluming out the f~~~ing window!

When I have to clean up someones mess to make my life comfortable? LOOK THE F~~~ OUT!!! I’ll attack a sticky little jelly spot with a f~~~ing SAND BLASTER!!!

[ConstantineParticipant 4417]

Cool avatar, Corkwonder.

And yes I’ve noticed it many times. I haven’t had too many experiences like it myself, thank God, because I’ve never been patient enough for that kind of game. But I’ve encountered it enough times to know what bulls~~~ it is, and have friends who’ve gone through it too.

It’s one of the many, many reasons why I absolutely loathe romantic comedies. Movies in that genre parade that crap with merry abandon – if anything, they’re partly responsible for encouraging women to behave that way. They indoctrinate women with wrongful messages and inspire unrealistic expectations. If a guy is truly worth it, he’ll still be there for you, even after you’ve snubbed him multiple times and proved yourself to be a superficial c~~~…that kind of s~~~.

Did you see Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy? In addition to just being a crap film, it was one of the worst examples of that motif that I ever saw. Girl rejects a nice guy because he doesn’t have a spaceship, “suffers” neglect at the hands of the ship’s owner, then thinks it in her right to go back to the nice guy because she’s been “wronged”. She even uses that mind-control gun on the captain, then when he goes to use it on her, has the nerve to say, “Won’t work on me, I’m already a woman.”

F~~~ that.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[Anonymous 6]

My female friends = Zero, the secret to happiness.

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

they have no concept of actually having life long friends

It is quite a foreign concept to them. I’m always glad to see that exGF go. She was at one point of some use to me as I was able have her pick up my surplus eggs for a home cooked meal. Now, Chad the control freak started developing issues about that. His loss not mine.

I replaced them both with a man who smokes pork quite often. I’m rewarded with a pound and 1/2 of slow smoked pulled pork BBQ per dozen eggs.

Yes, camel f~~~ers, pork, the other white meat. Dare to bring your goat raping asses over here to do something about it, and I promise you will learn there are no 72 virgins awaiting you. Bacon is slowly cooking too you child molesting goat f~~~ing filthy perverts.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

This s~~~ is the reason i am not friends with women like i said in my other post about it is well. The friendzone is a bench for future use if i ask a chick out and she brings up about us being friends (which we are not) then it is over since i don’t have time to wait and have better things to do in life.

There is no way in hell i will end up hooking with some bitch who friendzoned me as a teen only to discover their gaped out holes in their late 20’s and early 30’s wanting a kid.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

corkwonder wrote:

have anyone else noticed that women use the freinds zone as a backup plan they will f~~~ around in their teens to mid 30’s with – bad boys – womeanizers – sports stars ect trying to get one of them to put a ring on it

but if they can’t get one to do that they than turn to guys they have know for a long time in the friends zone just before they hit the wall and can’t get a man

like this http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3681929/Lisa-Snowdon-finds-love-friend-15-years-unlucky-relationships-George-Clooney-Gary-Dourdan.html

excellent finding.

friend zone is like a male servant with no sex.

i wonder if married men that get zero sex feel like they are in the friend zone even tho they are married?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Female friends are the biggest cons!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 54]

I don’t get the whole concept of haveing female freinds. When she says Mabey we could just be freinds,that means she dont want you. So why stick around? To watch some other dude f~~~ a girl you wanted ?Sorry I just don’t get that.Plus you get used for chores ,or an emotional dumping ground.Plus you can’t speak freely cause there’s a girl around. Don’t get it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Noticed? It’s a predictable formula. They actually have a NAME for that guy:

“Justin Case”.

Justin Case is the guy(s) she keeps at arms length for as long as possible:

• Just in case she gets fat.
• Just in case she gets dumped.
• Just in case she needs a date on national holidays
• Just in case she needs someone to go to a movie with.
• Just in case her plan to trap him with a pregnancy doesn’t work out.

At least one actually expected me to BE Justin Case – whom I have known since she was 15. She knew she was hot and she kept them all at arms length, but just close enough to have someone to go to a movie with…. then she would say “you can take me to a movie, but it’s not a date”.

Fast forward 18 years, and it’s a totally different song. She’s 33, her eggs are drying up, she flirts up a storm, little winks, love notes, and signing emails with “XXX” thinking some sucker is gonna come running.

That’s when Justin Case gets to say “you can give me a blowjob , but it’s not a date.”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Keymaster wrote:

Fast forward 18 years, and it’s a totally different song. She’s 33, her eggs are drying up, she flirts up a storm, little winks, love notes, and signing emails with “XXX” thinking some sucker is gonna come running.

These women will not give us the time of day when they were new and in their prime. Now, when they are hitting the wall, they offer their bodies like a used car dealer trying to sell a lemon.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Faust For Science wrote:

These women will not give us the time of day when they were new and in their prime. Now, when they are hitting the wall, they offer their bodies like a used car dealer trying to sell a lemon.

They don’t even remember. That’s the kicker. They hit 33 and it’s like they have AMNESIA about the last 20 years. Ask a MAN to tell you about the time he got “friend zoned” when he was 16, and he can tell you all about it.

But she will have a 33rd birthday and actually call Justin Case up like she has no memory of how she behaved like he wasn’t good enough. It’s truly remarkable.

When it happened, the “friendzone” didn’t even bother me that much because I had other options, and always treated girls well. I also had a feeling it would come full circle one day. If I showed interest and she wasn’t, FINE. But don’t even THINK about calling me years later because I once asked you out. She’s embarrassing herself. It’s almost shameful.

There have been a few women who actually FORCED me to say out loud:
“If it didn’t happen back then, why would it happen NOW??”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

These women will not give us the time of day when they were new and in their prime. Now, when they are hitting the wall, they offer their bodies like a used car dealer trying to sell a lemon.

Coming to this realization when I got to be around 30 is one of the things that has really turned me off dating the last few years. I’m not interested in my pick of land whales and single moms, and the ones that managed to keep themselves fit in looking good past their late 20s have obviously had a disgusting amount of c~~~s in them because they know they’re hot and have been playing the game for a solid 10-15 years at this point.

On the flip side of that I met a smoking hot c~~~tail waitress recently who is 10 years younger than me who has been trying to get a mutual friend to set us up…of course…after she found out from him what I do for work lol. The SMV of women my age is plummeting and I’ve got women 10 years younger than I am who are in their prime trying to get at me. In a demented way I feel like its my duty to throw her some dick, just to help out a 10 year younger version of me, so in 10 years when that chick is looking around at guys her age to try and find some beta bucks to marry, that guy will look at her and say f~~~ off whore…I got a hot 22 year old pursuing me…why would I want you know when you were chasing after the bad boys and the older guys with money while I was busy studying and working and trying to get established in life, but now that I’m a success and you are trash you want to come slithering my way?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Beer wrote:

I was busy studying and working and trying to get established in life, but now that I’m a success and you are trash you want to come slithering my way?

Yeah. Pretty much.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[STORMParticipant 738]

Just realize this much, girls don’t have “guy friends” they have girl friends, guy “friends” are actually in the relationship reserves tank. Big wake up call to anyone who thinks they have a friend that is a girl. They have a motive for everyone, and it’s never in your best interest to be a part of their methotical sociopathic plans.

If we listen to a female at all, It's no longer to find out if they're crazy, we know they're crazy, It's to find out what flavor.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Luckily for me
I don’t make friends easily 🙂

I refuse to be a part of anyone’s “back up plan” but my own.
Welcome to my version of the “friendzone” ladies.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Author]

Posts