Do you guys still get jealous?

[The PrisonerParticipant 21]

I don’t get jealous about sex, whenever I want sex I just call up a nice escort.  It is kind of like ordering takeout, do I feel like Japanese or Italian, the choice is up to me.  So I never get jealous about the sex that couples are having.  I can see most husbands being jealous of the sex that there wife’s lover gets.  Which brings me to couples, and truthfully I actually feel sorry for the men.  Sometimes I see couples that are obviously in love, they look sweet together.  Then I wonder when the guy is going to find out about that threesome his wife did with your girlfriend and his best friend a few months back.  I see older couples, married, and the guy has the look of an abused soul in his eyes.  You can tell the only reason why the man is still with the woman is because he enjoys living indoors and eating to much to pull the trigger.  His wife may have cheated on him a few times, emasculated him too many times to count, for these men relief is no were in sight.  So am I jealous of couples?  No, I do however feel sorry for the men.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

Depends.

It almost never happens, but every once in a while, maybe a few times a year, for just a split second i feel a little jealous, but then i start to pity them as i think about the price that they are paying for that pussy…

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

“I don’t know where it came from to try and make a man feel like he is missing out unless he banging a new chick every month, but goddam it, I’m on a crusade and anyone who pulls that s~~~ in my presence will be shamed back until they understand the modern vagina is worth less than the gum under your shoe.”

 

I think this has come from the modern mass media and shows like Friends. Popular shows like that have a massive impact on society whether we like it or not and the Joey and Chandler character created this imo. Joey gets sex all the time = coolest man on the planet. Chandler gets none = complete loser to be pitied by all – created this idea that getting pussy makes you a made man in the eyes of society

Even I still succumb to this thinking at times because it has been drummed into me and is all around us in modern media so it is about changing the way you think

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Right on. Funny you mention it, I watched an episode on some retro station while I was having dinner out That Friends show is a REAL social disaster now looking back. I can’t believe how much of it seeped into the culture.

CHEERS was my favorite show of all time. Better than Seinfeld IMO. But not the Kirtsy Alley s~~~. I’m talking Sam and Diane and the dynamic between them. The Sam Malone character is totally lost and non-existent today. It was a much more accurate depiction of the jock, the ingenue, the bitch, the stud, the dummy (Woody and Coach), the “losers” (Cliff and Norm)…. you could actually learn something from it. Especially how real gut-level attraction works.

She drives him crazy, he drives her crazy and you can’t rip them apart. Classic formula. It was Rhett Butler and Scarlett Ohara. Han Solo and Princess Leia. Shrek and Fiona. Mr. And Mrs. Smith. They all wanted to f~~~ing kill each other, and it was real “chemistry”.

Then f~~~ing “Friends” came along and introduced the pathetic mangina. The lesbian wife of Ross. Awkward and lame dating situations. Terrible seductions and dialogue. Bulls~~~ “dating etiquette”. Gender-neutral politically-correct lets all-get-along and not hurt each others feelings, friends-first f~~~ing gay horses~~~ that just doesn’t work. Guys apologizing for EVERYTHING. It was enough to make me puke, really. It wasn’t even funny. It was the DEATH of chemistry.

On TV, every husband is a bumbling fool. And as Bill Maher points out, the only “smart” men on TV where Frasier and his brother and both of them were gayer than little Richards underpants.

Today, you are expected to be the stupid non-thinking moron and any indication to the opposite doesn’t fit and p~~~es women off.

So when I see a “Ross” walking 10 paces behind his wife at Walgreens on the weekend, NO. Im not “jealous”.
I thank my personal God it isn’t me. Each and every day.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

“I don’t know where it came from to try and make a man feel like he is missing out unless he banging a new chick every month, but goddam it, I’m on a crusade and anyone who pulls that s~~~ in my presence will be shamed back until they understand the modern vagina is worth less than the gum under your shoe.”

This stuff starts to happen as early as middle school due to peer pressure amongst boys. Everyone lies about getting laid and how often, when probably 90% of them are full of s~~~. Gets even worse in High School and even mentioning the fact you are a virgin can lead to endless ridicule by people who are actually virgins themselves but keep it under wraps. College seems to be a more tolerant atmosphere for people who are still virgins and this fact becomes public knowledge, unless you are living in a Frat house.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[rasputinParticipant 52]

@mostyman

You are contradicting yourself here:

Basically, I no longer care about women anymore but I just wish I knew that one woman was interested in me sexually before I die.

Either you don’t care or you do. Its a binary position and it looks like you are still on the ‘does care’ side. Thats ok, it took me a pretty long time and a bunch of pain to lose all hope 🙂

The trick for me was to start with this assumption; I’m undesirable and don’t have anything to offer a potential mate. I will spend the rest of my life alone.

Once you are at that place decide what you are going to do. One option is eat a bullet. Another option is to figure out how you are going to expend the time and energy you have available until you find out what kind of cancer gets to kill you.

I started working out heavily and was planning to join the military, volunteer for front lines somewhere and die and in battle, assuring me my place in Valhalla. It was still a suicide plan but longer term and much more socially acceptable. Sometime while I was in the first phase which was get into good shape a girl noticed me. Because I had absolutely nothing to lose it cost me nothing to be very forward about asking her out, making all of the “first moves” and eventually losing my virginity to her. But at the same time if she had rejected me that would also have cost me nothing since I already was moving forward without her.

If I had a time machine I would go back and slap the s~~~ out of the past me for being such a pussy and tell myself to get on with my life much earlier than I did.

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