Do you guys still get jealous?

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

gash has the power you give it. if you judge yourself against the broads you have slept with or the broad you are shackled to then that is your measuring stick. remember the grass is always greener. and you imagine a lot of contentment in dudes with a broad but i have stood there and listened to the bickering. what is worse than worrying about how people judge you being alone is the feeling of being trapped in a relationship. you are there because of kids, insecurity, fear of losing your belongings, but that empty feeling of being trapped is huge.

that nagging bitch voice always echoes in my mind and I think thank god I don’t have that parasite on me.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

I get the Tom Leykis analog, but it just doesn’t really do it for me since a urinal is just an object while a woman is an actual person. If I use some urinal in a nasty bathroom that looks like it hasn’t been cleaned in months I am not going to get any diseases or have any problems, provided that I wash my hands really good and don’t touch anything lol. With a woman I could get an STD, a child I don’t want with her, or accused of rape. Also no matter how bad a urinal looks I can pee in it, it doesn’t need to look cool lol, however with a woman it is different.

[OakTreeParticipant 2]

<cite>@rabidcaveman said:</cite>
Remember also, the STD problem. STD’s, I believe, are God’s punishment for throwing ourselves around to each other like animals.

Try to look at a woman, and then imagine how many c~~~s have been inside her. 10, 20, 50, 100? THAT should be enough to make you say, “NO!”

Nine Inch Nails did a GREAT song back in the ’90s called “Reptile”. Read the lyrics and keep them in your head when you start looking at women, and imagine the “seeds from the 1000 others”, dripping down from within.

Wow. How different that song speaks to me after swallowing the red pill. Thanks!
My first post on this forum btw. On the topic:
No I am not very jealous. What I feel mostly about people who get laid is I feel sorry for them. Because the reason they get laid is because they are in a relationship that hasnt been going on for long, yet. (At least the majority of people)
But still long enough to put up with the bad sides of female behaviour. I try nowadays to joke about (among other things) the theme of pussywhipping. As a way to bond with my male peers and at the same time prepare them for potential red pill talk in the future. Most men realize in some way that they are getting pussywhipped over time and are able joke at their own expense. It’s a way for them to cope with subconsciously becoming her slave. By repeating the message (with humour) and showing them I am going MGTOW (in actions, not words, until they are ready) and actually enjoy it. I think I can help them wake up.
“How come he has no girlfriend, live on his own and seems so confident/happy about it? Well I guess he hase a lot of time to do stuff he enjoy and I never have that…” (I notice people are pondering my life style choices with some confusion and it also seems to spark interests in girls that I myself want nothing to do with. I guess they see a potential candidate for taming :P)
I am showing them (the men) there is another way and that it actually can lead to happiness. At least thats what I am trying. I have a very utilitaristic personality and since I have given up on many world-related subjects, at least I can help enlighten other men. They possess the ability to be thankful after all.
If my grammar is off its because english isn’t my native language.

[MostymanParticipant 11]

That urinal analogy is interesting and it makes sense. Women are kind of like sperm depositories. Obviously we have to get cum inside of them if we try to have kids (we generally don’t do it in our hands and then insert the wad inside them) and so we try to do it via vaginal intercourse. For my whole life I coveted vaginal intercourse as the end-all-be-all of male pleasure. Yet then I thought, are the inner vaginal walls really that much different from your hands (which, with fingers, is technically “ridged”) to rub your glans against? Maybe it would be best just to stick to toys, which are designed with heighted pleasure in mind. Plus, you can have those things any f~~~ing time you want and don’t have to pay them any money or listen to them or get stressed out by them. I still envy guys that have had full vaginal intercourse but considering how much I have to deal with my mother, the last thing I would want is another woman getting in on my free time and creating rules for sex.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Not a jealous at all. Women are a pain. The sex isn’t even worth the bs a guy has to go through. I suggest you get a piece of paper and write two columns. One is the benefits of being in a relationship or marriage and the other pain that it can cause you. Of course you want a bigger list for the pain it can cause you. You need to write it down don’t do it on in your head.

Another way is to change your beliefs about women or being in relationships. You can also list the properties in life in order of importance. For me relationship is at the bottom of my list.

You can still love people, but just changing who you love. You can love the follow MGTOW man, no homo.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[KeymasterKeymaster]

For me relationship is at the bottom of my list.

Yep.

That’s because it doesn’t pay or reward you as other more worthwhile & important pursuits. It only COSTS.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MostymanParticipant 11]

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
Yep.

That’s because it doesn’t pay or reward you as other more worthwhile & important pursuits. It only COSTS.

Indeed. I often think of how stupid it is for guys to boast of their sexual “successes”. I think: what do you have to show for it? Do you have a medal or something? And if this woman is “yours”, where is she now huh (banging other guys?)? All you have done is submit to a millions year old genetic program and have only lost time, money and energy because of it. Plus if you have nothing to show for it, why I should believe you anyway? If you want to prove to me you’re a man then it’s fisticuffs I say!

[MajorHeelsParticipant 47]

Want a simple solution ?

 

Channel ALL your sexual energy into YOU, your dreams, your desires and follow them with EVERYTHING YOU HAVE.

I personally GUARANTEE in 1-2-3 years from now, you will look and feel like a MILLION dollars and you will probably be Earning somewhere near the SAME.

Then, guess what ?

MONEY DOES BUY ALL THE PUSSY YOU CAN EAT 🙂

[jambearParticipant 282]

Tons of great advice already thrown in so Ill keep mine brief.

The jealousy your experiencing is just the programming you have received over life trying to make you to go back to the plantation and become a beta-male provider. Fight its hold over you and eventually you will overcome it till its a non issue all together. Plus escorts do a better job and for cheaper than a girlfriend or wife could ever hope to do.

[rasputinParticipant 52]

I’m currently married with children so I only get jealous of my single permanent bachelor friends.

But about getting laid I was pretty uptight in my teens and mid 20s.  And had all kinds of complexes about how no girls would ever like me for many damn reasons.

But at one point I concluded that I would rather spend the rest of my life alone than change who I am, even if who I am isn’t desirable to women.  And after that when I no longer gave a f~~~ how women judged me suddenly they started to pay attention to me.

But then I somehow got married and ended up with children…so yeah short lived freedom 🙂

[creativeParticipant 1]

I’m new to the forum but possibly MGTOW is not for you. The gist of it is ‘going your own way’. It ain’t for everybody. You need to evaluate the benefits of those relationships v the drawbacks. For me I know they are negative so feel no pain at all. You may find them more positive than negative. You have to do what is right for you.

[Rock St.EddieParticipant 129]

Very sensible from the creative. Just like wisdom, MGTOW is not for everyone. It doesn’t come from reading a blog post. It doesn’t come from a website. It doesn’t come from a dozen videos on youtube. It comes from the individual heart. All that we find here only serves as affirmation the heart doesn’t lie.

[DybbukParticipant 182]

One point that everyone seems to miss: most guys aren’t fanatically trying to get laid in order to satisfy a biological urge. It’s about validation. Gettin’ with hot women increases a guy’s esteem in the eyes of others, and much more importantly, in the eyes of himself. He sees it as irrefutable proof of his value as a human being, and in his mind it gives him the ultimate “one up” on any fellow males who aren’t getting laid. This is why hookers are not the answer. The urge is satisfied but no validation is had.

This desire for validation is a pathology unto itself. It’s a symptom of narcissism and immaturity. But it’s a fact we must understand when dealing with fellow males. Urinal analogies won’t do the trick against this particular pathology.

 

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That’s a damn excellent point form Dybbuk.
So Lets even take it one step further.

Gettin’ with hot women increases a guy’s esteem in the eyes of others, and much more importantly, in the eyes of himself.

I don’t see a damn thing wrong with that,… certainly not in the way I see a man beating himself up when he is NOT getting any. That’s what I have a problem with. Guys who are 21, eat a bullet and think they are nothing without it. This is part of the manspiration for our website. To save men’s lives.

Lets repeat it again…

Gettin’ with hot women increases a guy’s esteem in the eyes of others, and much more importantly, in the eyes of himself.

And NOT getting with women lowers a man’s esteem in the eyes of others, and much more importantly, in the eyes of himself.

Which one is a more serious problem? The guy with the “one up” attitude is doing fine. It’s the guy who digs himself a grave for not getting a screw who MUST understand that sex can be ordered like Pizza. He needs to understand and see her as no more than urinal. It’s the lesson he hasn’t learned actually. And it will save his life.

Who gives a s~~~ about guys who validate themselves that way?
We must care about the guys who berate and suicide themselves for the opposite reason.

I could have personally saved Elliot Rogers life (and 6 others) if he understood the urinating analogy.

It’s important.

The guy who gets some trim is not a problem. The kid who blows his f~~~ing brains out because he’t NOT getting what he could get for $100 is the problem. The narcissism and imaturity is with all those who behave like he is an invalid or a defect of nature. Like he’s a LOSER. There is a very clear difference in thinking you’re a winner because you get some… and a “loser” because you don’t.

I will not tolerate the latter. And this thread is entitled “do you guys still get jealous?” Jealous of what exactly. Not taking a squirt in a woman’s sinkhole which any man can do in 30 minutes for $100??? No.

Time to put it ALL in the perspective where it belongs. EXACTLY in it’s place.
It’s taking a p~~~, and no more than that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

@keymaster even $100 isn’t worth it. The amount of time and effort to get that $100 isn’t worth it. Sex is meaningless these days because women had too many dicks inside her. What man in their right mind would want a whore as a girlfriend? At least in the past women women had only one or two penis in her, not dozen.

It’s just easier to wank it or just not even bother with that. Sex takes out a lot of energy from a guy. That’s why men usually fall asleep after sex. Are these women worth that kind of energy? I don’t think so.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[KeymasterKeymaster]

YOU understand it. I understand it. Sex is a worthless commodity available to any man anywhere for less trouble , effort , money and time than most people would have you believe. But I can’t tell you how many people don’t understand that.

You know even if a man got 3 different pussies in his ENTIRE LIFE people would shame him for this.
… but 3 is more vagina than your grandfather and great grandfather had – put together.

(you get my point)

I don’t know where it came from to try and make a man feel like he is missing out unless he banging a new chick every month, but goddam it, I’m on a crusade and anyone who pulls that s~~~ in my presence will be shamed back until they understand the modern vagina is worth less than the gum under your shoe.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

<p><p>I have heard that men use sex as way to feel loved. When a woman has sex with a man she is completely vulnerable. This means to a man that she loves him because she’s completely Vulnerable. Since women are very emotional especially with sex it’s true. That’s why guys think need to have as many partners as they can.</p><br />
<p>However that’s not really love because there is no foundation. Building a foundation takes time. People these wants things quickly. They don’t want to put effort into most things. Just look at feminist how much effort do they put into their things? Barely anything at all.</p><br />
<p>Validation is dangerous. When people expect validation from others it can ruin their lives. People will expect more and more just like taking a drug. Then the person will get full of himself and get c~~~y.</p><br />
<p>I had many chances to have sex with at least a dozen women. I had to put zero effort to get it since they were approaching me with flirting and etc and even one asked for sex. I didn’t see the point even I put in the effort. It’s like building a website partially built and move onto another one. It’s just a waste of time, effort and energy. That’s why I refuse to sleep with every single of them. Some of them were even married or had boyfriends.</p><br />
<p>True love is very difficult and requires a lot of effort which most people these don’t want to do. They blame others for their own short comings. That’s why I laugh at feminists. These women aren’t happy and will slowly get even more depressed. I welcome feminism with open arms! Let these women drown in their own miseries.</p></p>

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[MostymanParticipant 11]

@rasputin See that’s the kind of thing I don’t get. I basically don’t try to do anything with girls anymore but they don’t seem to care. I’m actually quite curious as to how girls start caring about a guy who doesn’t seem to care. Hollywood often portrays women as going for the “dark, mysterious loner” but I guess it doesn’t work that way IRL. Basically, I no longer care about women anymore but I just wish I knew that one woman was interested in me sexually before I die. Then, perhaps I would get more satisfaction making her suffer without.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Jealous of people getting laid?

Is sex fun? Hell yes. Is it worth the work? Hell no.

I was feeling lonely one Saturday and figured I go out. However I usually grocery shop after work that day. Well, all it took was looking at guys with their wives/girlfriends pushing the carts around like drones. Or the wife bitching at her husband in the parking lot about how the groceries should be put in car.

Go to Target or Walmart and look at the men. Tombstones in their eyes. Home Depot? About to drop lots of money and time p~~~ing away a weekend to landscape the yare or put up new doors because cupcake wants to.

Last night, 0235: “Get out of here you f~~~ing loser. Get the f~~~ in your car and never come back. You’re never going anywhere in life.”

Online dating profiles consisting of a 100 point bullet list from post Wall slags.

I’m too old and taken too many red pills to deal with any of this.

 

Yeah, I want this so I can have a five second orgasm. As someone stated on another thread here, women’s time is over.

 

PUA’s and others who think their worth is based on how much pussy they get can continue to wear a jester suit and be the court fool for a whiff of vag. I will be listening to my refrigerator hum.

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@mostyman

See that’s the kind of thing I don’t get. I basically don’t try to do anything with girls anymore but they don’t seem to care. I’m actually quite curious as to how girls start caring about a guy who doesn’t seem to care. Hollywood often portrays women as going for the “dark, mysterious loner” but I guess it doesn’t work that way IRL.

It’s like this.

Just a neutral, unaffected, indifference. Like having zero pulse about a female in your presence. Look at her like she smells bad. Like she is slightly annoying you – or stinks. The more attractive she is, the more she will notice. It comes naturally when you don’t care that she has boobs, vagina or ass. When a woman is a sexless being, there’re really not much to her, and you kind of wonder what is this thing doing talking to me?

Basically, I no longer care about women anymore but I just wish I knew that one woman was interested in me sexually before I die. Then, perhaps I would get more satisfaction making her suffer without.

That’s a nice wish but you’ll be waiting a while.
They don’t care about finding you sexually attractive.
They are concerned about you finding THEM sexually attractive.

Women don’t want YOU. They want you to want THEM.

It only works in one direction:

MEN >> WOMEN >> CHILDREN >> PUPPIES.

As men, we are not permitted in the world to receive (or expect) attention, love or desire. We are at the TOP of the chain, and everyone else is expecting to receive these things FROM us. In all other ways, we are at the bottom, and about worth as much as a dogs~~~ in the eyes of the world.

Have an excellent weekend.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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