Do you guys still get jealous?

[MostymanParticipant 11]

I guess this a question for those of you who, like me, are not getting laid right now (and maybe not anytime in the foreseeable future). Do you guys feel jealousy towards anyone you know that is? The last few days have a been a whirlwind of reinvention and seeing women and relationships in a whole new light but I still want sex. I still get jealous when I think of my married-with-kids family members, co-workers, friends and other peers. I even get annoyed and angry when I see couples in public or a work. I feel like a loser, a failure and that I’m missing something I’m rapidly losing time to pick up. The Red Pill will then usually flood my brain with another dose and I realize I am far better off the way I am since I have lost nothing to women and I don’t have to deal with any of their BS. But it hurts. I’d rather be alone but it still hurts to be lonely. Gaming or jerking off or something usually alleviates it but not when I have to work. Do these feeling ever go away or will I feel like this my whole life?

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

I felt Jealousy in my late teens, early twenties. It has gone away completely- Thankfully!
It is a very destructive emotion.

When I uncovered my Ex’s infidelity- I dumped her- no looking back! No Jealousy!

Like the Lyrics “Take a deep breath and deny that you could love her like that!” (or similar)

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[DkaiksterParticipant 90]

No offense, but I actually hate people who get laid. I had too many chances to get laid and I rejected all those and am still a virgin. Hopefully, I always will be. So, jealousy? Not a chance. Not in my teens, not ever. And I am proud of that.

When I see couples at places and my friends hooking up with their girlfriends…. or even spending too much time talking to them over the phone, I begin losing respect for those people. I do admit that sometimes I do fantasize about getting married but my reasoning always stops me from these destructive thoughts. But having sex with someone? That is something that never crosses my mind (Unless I am watching porn, in which case, you are thinking what you are seeing and things like that. But don’t get me wrong, watching porn does not make me jealous or want to have sex with a woman…. or a man if you are thinking I’m gay. Porn arouses me, I masturbate to it and cool myself. About 15 minutes of fun, that’s all.)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

No. Because pussy is not as priceless as they pretend. It’s a worthless commodity which grows on trees and is available to any man anywhere for less trouble, effort, money, investment and time than most would have you believe.

Hugh Grant had supermodel Elizabeth Hurley at home, but he went out and got himself a $60 BJ from Marvin Hagler in a wig because Liz wasn’t getting the job done at home.

You have to ask yourself: in what Universe would a man be “jealous” of that?

You must remind yourself, this is EXACTLY how *they* want you to feel. Worthless unless you’re “getting laid”. Associating this to your own self-worth. Instilling mountains of doubt in you. Making you feel like a “failure” who’s “really missing out” on something – as if you should be “jealous”. These people are communicating that sex somehow the pinnacle of success. But is it?

Men have a need to get our nut like we need to take a p~~~. When you really gotta go, are you “jealous” when there is no fine 6-star Hotel bathroom around? Of course not. You are just as content to take a leak behind a tree, or pull into the nearest greasy gas station to get the job done. And quite often this can be even more satisfying.

When you realize this, all of your ill-feelings and emptiness on the matter will vanish instantly. When I arrived at this conclusion myself (after having no real problems “getting laid”) I wondered how the hell could it be possible they ever got away with it? Now it’s a joke, just as it should be to you.

Always remember, ANIMALS consider not getting laid “a problem”…
because the pinnacle of their success in the wild – is breeding.
The kind of people who behave as if sex is the pinnacle of success, have something seriously WRONG with them.

For humans (especially human males) the highest standards we can achieve have NOTHING to do with the hole in which you shoot your spunk. It’s all a great big f~~~ing LIE. Consider the way a woman expects to be celebrated and wants a “shower” (of GIFTS!) for merely having unprotected sex. That’s all she did! She bent over and let a man ejaculate in her, and she expects to be celebrated for this! With a big party! And she invites all of her friends and splatters it all over Facebook…. “LOOK!! I WAS EJACULATED IN!! IM SPECIAL!! CELEBRATE MY ACCOMPLISHMENT!!

Rats, c~~~roaches and chickens “give birth” too. Are you jealous?

… but if you build a hot air balloon to fly over a city, or start a successful million-dollar business with 50 employees from nothing, will that self-centered bitch throw a f~~~ing party for you?

I believe that makes the point.
Don’t give it another thought.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RabidcavemanParticipant 57]

Remember also, the STD problem. STD’s, I believe, are God’s punishment for throwing ourselves around to each other like animals.

Try to look at a woman, and then imagine how many c~~~s have been inside her. 10, 20, 50, 100? THAT should be enough to make you say, “NO!”

Nine Inch Nails did a GREAT song back in the ’90s called “Reptile”. Read the lyrics and keep them in your head when you start looking at women, and imagine the “seeds from the 1000 others”, dripping down from within.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Precisely. Beginning in the early 90s (around the time of SexAndTheCity) it actually became fashionable for women to go bed hopping. Not just “acceptable”, but fashionable . How can a man be jealous when they are throwing vagina around so freely? Just think of the 7 football fields of dick that went in and out of her.

There is a great satisfaction to be had from NOT “getting laid”. Just like the rewards are GREATER for you to never nave been divorced – than any benefit you would get from signing a marriage contract. $250K is the cost of raising a child to 18. $250,000!! Imagine what kind of top-flight vagina (and a hired housekeeper) you can enjoy over a couple of decades for that kind of coin. Buy yourself a sports car or another house(!) and you’ll be “getting laid” much easier than you think.

Even then, you would have to wonder if it’s worth it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[arnquistParticipant 11]

I still feel jealousy. But, after being cheated on so many times, I’ve become mostly numb to it, and I can choose to ignore it.

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

I wouldnt call it “Jealousy” but more envious. Believe me it fades with time as well as age dude. In my 30s it was more of a challenge but now I have more of a “If it happens great, if not, thats fine as well.” Especially when you remember all the bulls~~~ you have to go through just to get laid and even more bulls~~~ to get it on a regular basis. Look, we are all heterosexual men and social human beings. As such we all have basic biological needs. You can’t kill that off nor would I want too. I would say the most challenging thing for me personally is not just the sex (which was difficult at first) but mostly the small things. Like the smell of a woman, or the feeling of her warm body touching mine. I dont want to get all sappy, but its things like that basic human female touch that you come to miss the most. But I swear to God the torture of having to deal with some harpie just to satisfy those basic urges is just too high a price to pay. Only if its the right one would I ever even dream of getting into a relationship with her. If it gets really bad sexwise just pay a pro or find some drunken one night stand type of girl in a local bar. When I was in my 20s I swore I would never pay a pro. I figured if I had ever gotten to that point then I might as well cut my dick off and be done with it. But that was then. I had no way of ever imagining that feminism would turn most of Western women into what they have today become. So I really wouldn’t feel bad about it now at all. I look at it this way. If I lived in a desert I would probably have to pay to get water shipped in. Well my friend, we are all in a desert now.

[mdomParticipant 18]

I do, but when awareness kicks on i don’t feel nothing.

[MostymanParticipant 11]

Thanks guys. I feel quite a bit better and hopefully will even more over time. You know, I always believe that the true measure of a man should be in his doing what he wants, whether he has a woman or not. And a man should be able to weather any storm, including loneliness.

[SoldanoParticipant 108]

I can’t speak because i do get laid.

But here’s a thing i learned.

Sex is just sex. It’s over- rated.
It’s just 8 minutes and after it’s over, nothing has changed.
Sometimes it’s even a little bit awkward.
F~~~ing a model or a fattie doesn’t feel any different.
It’s pretty much like taking a p~~~.
Feels good but as soon as it’s over you forget about it.

It’s desire that is strong.

[Anonymous 0]

I can’t remember that I’ve ever been Jealousy. It is just a thing that I observed by other people and I dind’t understand their behavior.
I just thought that must be Jealousy.
Like MGTOW o2tosin already mentioned, it seems to be a very destructive emotion.
In my case, when it came to such situations somebody means that he has to tell me that I have to be jealously. Ridiculous.
I never did understand why I should, most of the time I went away just thinking leave me alone with my thoughts.
I absolutely agree with the opinion of MGTOW Soldano

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

You’re right ! I was in love with a woman some years ago. She told me she had more than 30 men in her bed at 22 years ! I was joking about it : I said wow, more than a soccer team then ! I loved her but hey, when I made love with her, I though about all these dicks in her vagina and it made me sick 🙁 Now, I don’t care but at that time, I was a romantic guy and it hurted me.

I know that women love sex like men but she is a very pretty girl and it was so easy for her to have a man for a one-shot sex-relation 🙂 I knew I wasn’t unique and I was a number in her long relation-ship list.

F~~~ that s~~~ty ‘sex in the city’ … even here, in France, that s~~~ was popular !

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
Precisely. Beginning in the early 90s (around the time of SexAndTheCity) it actually became fashionable for women to go bed hopping. Not just “acceptable”, but fashionable . How can a man be jealous when they are throwing vagina around so freely? Just think of the 7 football fields of dick that went in and out of her.

There is a great satisfaction to be had from NOT “getting laid”. Just like the rewards are GREATER for you to never nave been divorced – than any benefit you would get from signing a marriage contract. $250K is the cost of raising a child to 18. $250,000!! Imagine what kind of top-flight vagina (and a hired housekeeper) you can enjoy over a couple of decades for that kind of coin. Buy yourself a sports car or another house(!) and you’ll be “getting laid” much easier than you think.

Even then, you would have to wonder if it’s worth it.

[MickMgTowParticipant 31]

Protect your valuable juice from these vultures and live a wholesome and guilt free existence. They view your juice as a commodity to blackmail the state for freebies and handouts. With my left hand I can sleep with any broad I want. I don’t have to attach myself to all that emotional baggage. It is empowering to know I am not selling my soul to visit a sweaty stink filled hole and a lifetime of imprisonment.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I have nothing to be jealous about.
I’m 26 years of age with a steady job, house, car and I don’t base my existence on chasing tail like most of the gimped out punching bags who’ve choked on the blue pill.

[AlexIsAfraidSpectator 113]

How can I be jealous when theirs no one to be jealous of?

[TheBardParticipant 974]

I know exactly how you feel as I am the same way. I quit dating 3 years ago so it has been 3 years since I have had sex. I am not jealous, but I do feel envious. I only have sex with women I am dating so the fact I quit dating means no more sex. When I do see couples out to do miss my time with my first girlfriend. It wasn’t just the sex it was the cuddling together after sex or just watching tv, going to the movies, out to eat, sitting in her front room on our lap tops, taking the 2 year old girl she baby sat the bounce houses and child theme parks. So when I see others with that I do get envious especially when at a convention and I see couples cosplaying together, having each other to hug and kiss while waiting in line for auto graphs, and having sex when going back to their rooms. It feels like I am loosing time to since I am 26 and really have only had sex between 2010-2011 and it wasn’t a steady year since there were breaks up. I am in my 20’s, my sexual prime and not doing it. But not having sex does not make you loser. The media just makes that up to help sale mens products by making it seem like if women aren’t interested in you you are worthless. Women want you to feel like not having sex means you are a loser so they can control you.

Gaming and Jerking off are great distractions and when I am at home it is much easier to suppress. I can be watching a romance anime or playing a game or reading a comic with an attractive female in it and it is still easy to not feel too bad, but when I am out that is when it starts to come back. After typing this I am going to go back to playing a game with a woman character and not give a s~~~ about not having a girlfriend and not having sex. If I go to see a movie or go bowling and see a couple there though that is totally going to make me feel envious. Just because you don’t have a girlfriend though doesn’t mean you are lonely and that is what we need to remember. Besides from not wanting to get attached to some woman I will never see again another major reasons I don’t sleep around is because I don’t want to get an STD, get accused of rape, or have a child with some woman I don’t know or like and have her milk me dry for 18 years. So to me that is worth not having sex even though I miss it. I once asked my doctor if not having sex really does cause major problem likes on tv and he said no. That is the reason we can masterbate is because we can’t always have sex and that is our bodies way to deal with it. It would be nice to have a girlfriend again and would be the easiest way to get a daughter, but considering what a pain in the ass American woman are and can’t be trusted I am sticking with adopting for a daughter and my fleshlight for sex lol.

[Tbowden1Participant 195]

I’ve always found the Tom Leykis analogy of a toilet to urinate in the best representation of how you should feel about women when it comes to jealousy.. they are simply a sperm repository. They provide a place to fire off some man juice which you are biologically hard coded to do.. BUT.. you are also biologically hard coded to take a p~~~ when your bladder is full.

When you go take a p~~~.. it doesn’t matter how nice the urinal, it doesn’t matter if its in the nicest hotel on the planet, or a dive bar down the street.. a urinal is a urinal. You take a p~~~, and you leave.

Are you jealous when another guy comes up and p~~~es in that same urinal? Are you jealous that there are other guys p~~~ing into urinals when you aren’t? My guess would be no..

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I’ve always found the Tom Leykis analogy of a toilet to urinate in the best representation of how you should feel about women when it comes to jealousy.. they are simply a sperm repository.

Absolutely! When I first heard it, I fell back into my chair and looked at the ceiling as if I had just tripped on one of the greatest analogies in the universe. It was a TRUE “OMG” moment. I have even said it right to a chick’s face when she complains guys can’t “keep it in their pants” or “guys will f~~~ anything that moves”.

I don’t even care what company I am in, or what the setting is. I don’t even look for another way to say it: “honey, men have sex like we need to take a p~~~. When you really gotta go, do you drive around lookimg for the prettiest (or best) bathroom? No. You pull into the nearest greasy gas station and get the job done. And sometimes it can be even MORE satisfying.”

It COMPLETELY shatters her belief system on the spot. Some girls will laugh. Some will get SO offended. But ALL of them will shut the f~~~ up on the spot…. and begin reflecting (in their minds) on all the times she held out for “love”, thought he cared about her, how she thought it as “romance”, or she found her “soulmate” — when all every guy was doing, was taking a squirt in her.

Then you can change the subject or go back to what you were doing,
while quietly enjoying the fact that this will fester in her mind….

…. forever.

It’s so awesome.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I’ve been more of the type to be jealous of people in relationships, not who is having sex or what not. That jealousy is all but dead now as I observe the men around me that are in relationships and how it is dragging them down and robbing them of their freedom.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[Author]

Posts