Do You Ever Regret Not Being A Father?

[WallyParticipant]

I would have loved to have been a father at one time, but as time passes I realize how difficult it is to raise a child properly. As many of the Gents have said it is a screwed up world, as it always has been. I am amazed how carelessly people have children now without even a thought about how to take care of it, when these people can barely or not even take care of themselves. In my work I come across many special needs children, and it pains me to see how many times the disability was because of some carelessness on the part of the parent (mother by way of drugs and alcohol) during the pregnancy.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Women have taken the joy of fatherhood away from us with their unbelievable claims. They say ‘its better for a child to live with his/her mother rather than his/her father’, thus making courts biased towards moms.

Never did they ‘give’ us the right to be ‘fathers’. Even the so-called happily married man, so proud of his children, has very little value as a ‘father’ in the family.

I have a divorced single-mom neighbour living with her mother. She has told both of her children (a 2 year old and a 5 year old) that their father is dead. But in reality he isn’t; he visits every two days a week, gives them money and clothes; spends time with the children before returning to the other side of the city…. I’ve never heard the children call him ‘father’.

I think there’s more regret to being denied the right to be a father, than there is in not becoming one.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 42]

Now a days, being a father is a ride past the gates of hell, tied to the bumper!

I like kids, I’ve been liking them since I was one. Adults are nothing but decayed kids, the innocents is gone, the spiritual blight is well established…

[RoyDalParticipant]

Do You Ever Regret Not Being A Father?

No.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

This is one of the many times where I find so much use out of this site. I love all of you brothers for being a part of this site. The answer is yes for me , and that is related to having a son , and for myself. I am a basketball junkie(now just fitness junkie). I grew up without having a father around , but when I was a young man I excelled at sports(All of them) , but LOVED basketball. I was always taller than the other kids growing up , and dominated at it. I got really good at it because I would take my ass to the hood and play , and usually get my ass kicked by better players , but I had a singular mentality to get better at it , and I did. Good enough that people I played with ended up playing pro ball , and I got looked at for my shooting ability even though I never made it. To this day I only see one pro that shoots a basketball as well as I can(Steph Curry , and he’s a far better dribbler than I could ever be). About the age of 35 after having spent so much time trying to play pro ball , and into my second career choice(Wine) , I started to regret not having a son to take with me and teach the game to. Another regret related to this is personal – I truly feel that if I had a son when I was younger it would have forced a greater responsibilty on me and made me grow up a lot faster and perhaps learn realities that it took me awhile to learn. I see so many of your posts about how f~~~ed up the world is now , and how little choice we actually have in the matter anyways and that gives me a great relief because my Catholic upbringing always taught me that my job in this world was to procreate and raise a good Catholic….seems impossible in this day and age.

[RennieParticipant]

Thought about it. But it just doesn’t make sense to have kids these days, for a number of reasons.

[narwhalParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

The way I see it, regretting not having children is like regretting not having walked on the surface of the sun. I’ve never been given a choice to walk on the sun, and it’s impossible to do it anyways. So it is for men having children.

Men can’t have children. They are their mother’s children. They are the village’s children. They are the state’s children. They are never the father’s.

I get that you are trying to emphasize your point, but that simply isn’t true. I’m not saying I have 100% control over my children but to claim kids never belong to the father is highly inaccurate. Yes, father’s are being pushed out of their kids lives and many play a lesser role then they used or want to and should, but they still often play a major role in their kids lives. I certainly do, and I am far from the exception.

sidecar wrote:

All the father get is the bill.

And through some careful planning and self discipline I have never gotten that bill.

Do I regret never getting that bill?

HELL NO!

Father’s have always gotten the bill. If a man doesn’t want that he certainly shouldn’t look to have kids.

From my point of view, I’m not going to blindly recommend someone become a father. I don’t know that I’m going to actively discourage it either, to be honest. I would prefer to provide as much information on the subject as I can so that other’s can make their own choices on facts instead of fantasy. I think about this a lot when I consider what I will say to my kids when they reach the right age.

I do not regret being a father. There have been plenty of bad times no doubt, but it’s also brought me some of the greatest moments of my life. I know many father’s have had it way worse then me, and many have had it far better. I wouldn’t question anyone’s desire to not have kids, nor would I really question someone’s desire to have kids (unless I knew who the potential mother is).

Ok. Then do it.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

there no such thing of being a father especially in america, like i said, legally legally they are her’s kids. not yours kids, so no i can easily adopt one, and problem solve, my cousin, have a kid and he go through hell to be able to see his own kid, another guy i know, flew from new jersey to somewhere in georgia, because that mother of his child took his daughter away from him and try to use that system to make him pay, all that while, f~~~ing other dudes, ect, so no i don’t regret not having kids, beside this world it’s f~~~ up

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9550]

There’s no chance in hell I’m having a wife and kids and have my life more ruined than it already is. I HATE kids with a mean passion! I cant’ stand it when I’m out at a store or restaurant and I have to hear that little brat screaming and crying to where the whole place knows the kids is doing that! They’re also extremely expensive. My dream is make money and have it all to myself outside the government. I want to make my own money and have fully control over MY life. I want to have a nice home filled with manly electronic toys (HDTVs, weight room, game room, neon signs, arcade/pinball, my hobby room) and having a wife and kids would destroy that dream forever. So why I should I have a kid that I can’t stand that is going to noisy up the house, cost me a load of money, and hate me in the teen+ years?

My best advice is hang onto your own money, and put it towards your own happiness, REAL happiness. I mean when was the last time a woman or kid made you happy?

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Anonymous 54]

No women has ever made me happy.A house filled with manly things. Thats the ticket!! A woman being there will result in pink wicker furniture,chick flicks and you and your manly world being your life in the garage or cellar. F~~~ that s~~~!!!

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I don’t regret being a father. If not for my daughter – I’d have no reason to go on.
Or should I say I don’t regret it yet. Once she grows up into a teenager – I don’t know how I’m going to be able to counteract all the toxic programming on two days a week. I’ll try to do my best though

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 11]

I was visiting my friend with a hybristophile daughter last night. She is hooked on meth and has left the state with warrants out for her arrest.

My neighbor has a grandson that stays with her at random intervals. Every time his car is there gasoline magically disappears from my Mustang. It’s always about 5 gallons a very common gasoline container size. It only happens when he is staying there. He’s about 17 or 18 years old.

No, I have zero regrets.

[Anonymous 42]

What’s the obsession about linage? Like it’s a man’s duty to throw his life away on this feminized female glorifying f~~~ed up human race? F~~~ that! I’m doing whatever the f~~~ I want! Chaining my soul to the bumper of gynocentralias bus is not going to happen to me! Let them use horse sperm for all I care!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22525]

Anonymous wrote:

well said. They are never a Mans children.They can be stripped away from you. You will not be allowed to see them. They will be turned against you and will not want to know you as adults. Men cant have children. My self i never had the desire to have them, but i must admit i feel left out of being a grandfather. Oh well i guess you cant have one with out the other.

I would rather have my heart carved out with a spoon that experience that, while being forced by the state to fund that torment, or face imprisonment.

I feel there is a special place in hell for those that turn children against their parents. Especially, when that parents is the one being forced to pay for what is happening.

[GambitParticipant 178]

Nope! F~~~ that!

I like hanging out with my younger family members from time to time, but to be with them 24/7 would be a complete pain in the ass. I never wanted to have kids because I know that entails more responsibility. Not to mention, kids are expensive as f~~~ to raise. And with them being raised in this f~~~ed up world is unimaginable. I might’ve had kids if I were born before the 1900s, but in the late 90s/200xS, this world has become a completely f~~~ed up place to raise your kids.

My parents want me to have kids and keep nagging me about “it’s your duty to have kids, it’s gawd’s will, blah, blah, blah.” If that were true, great religious figures such as Buddha and Jesus wouldn’t have remained single throughout their entire lives. And childless as well.

My dreams are better suited for the single life because even without the gynocentric laws surrounding fathers, my dreams take time, money, and effort to pull off. If I want someone to hang around me for that, I’ll get 2 or 3 dogs! At least they’ll love me no matter what and won’t be taken from me by the gynocentric state!

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Faust For Science wrote:

Even if a man helps to conceive a child, society does not allow that man to be a father to that child.

sidecar wrote:

The way I see it, regretting not having children is like regretting not having walked on the surface of the sun. I’ve never been given a choice to walk on the sun, and it’s impossible to do it anyways. So it is for men having children.

guys said it all.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Have you guys seen the “Who’s your daddy” game. It’s hilarious.
You can either play as baby or as daddy. Daddy needs to make sure the baby survives until 4pm and baby is trying to kill itself. Check it out – it’s worth the laugh

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22525]

I do not find anything fun about infants suffering.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

yeah I’m surprised it hasn’t been banned yet. And the plot is twisted. And no, nothing funny about infants suffering, but you got to see it to believe it. it’s pretty funny. teaches you a thing or two about parenting, that’s why I’m guessing it’s still out there.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

As a teen fatherhood does appeal to me one day but i generally don’t want to be shackled down in a legal contract with a chick. Not only that but the ideal of giving up my stuff plus additional alimony just because of her vagina is not very appealing either. As for the future i do not know if i am gonna have a kid or not. And if i fell into the trap of marriage there is no way in hell i would have a joint checking account plus id need a legally binding prenup but that is another story.

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