Do I try another relationship?- Advice needed

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Jack123 wrote:

So, I’m considering my options… Do I give an exclusive relationship a go, enjoy the first 3-6 months and run when crazy shows its ugly head or run now because she’s upset I’m still sleeping with other girls?

Get the f~~~ out of there unless you wanna deal with the whoops i am pregnant now marry me scenario where your family (and hers) badger your ass to marry the bitch and could cut you off if you don’t or you will be forced to pay this aging c~~~ child support if she has your kid.

Either way unless you feel like paying in some way then get out while possible.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Jack123Participant 324]

blade wrote:

Does anyone understand or support my decision you ask.

Was this thread a s~~~ test?

Absolutely not a s~~~ test. I’m struggling with a real issue here. I asked for an opinion, I got a unanimous opinion to run. I read everyone’s opinion and considered them. I replied on page 2 of this thread with my appreciation for the replies.

I respect the advice and am not turning my back on MGTOW. As I said, I think my situation is very very common and the run advice which may be true is extremely hard to follow. I therefore opened up the ‘see how it goes and then run’ option. No doubt, I’ll update this post 3-6 months from today and say I got bored and/or she turned into a bitch and then I can comment on whether it was worth it. Yes, people will say I told you so. Hell, even I am saying I told myself so! But today I am not bored and today she is not a bitch so I have chosen to not run… yet!

[Anonymous 0]

The most likely ignition source is near the falopian tubes.

[Better without YOUParticipant 234]

Agree with many and what they have already said. The red flag is all of the gifts and good behavior. She needs not you per say “but someone” to be a pawn to her check off list. Once you end it she will start again with someone else in 2 weeks minimum. So, since she will get over it very very very f~~~ing quick that should make it easier to cut her lose. Oh, and never get married!

Maybe don’t cut it loose per say, but just state you are not ready and think you need time apart and maybe she will tone it down so you can just enjoy each others company like Riggs and Cole( I had to google Cole) couldn’t remember her name.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Man, you have to know a s~~~ test when you see one.
Let’s get serious.

Jack123 wrote:

Last night she got a bit soggy when she asked me if I was seeing other people.

Remind her that she’s not married and neither are YOU. And there’s a REASON you’re not married. It’s so that you don’t — ever — need to explain yourself or apologize for banging who you want.

She should ASSUME you’re seeing other women. ALL. THE. TIME. Don’t even try and change her mind about it. Whether you are or not is none of her f~~~ing business. And until she makes you an offer you simply can’t refuse, it will not change.

You’re not getting suckered into that s~~~ test.

Jack123 wrote:

Absolutely not a s~~~ test.

Oh yeah. It absolutely IS.

“I was wondering… are you seeing other people?”

“Are we married? Did you propose marriage and kneel down with a ring? NO?? Then you should ALWAYS ASSUME I am seeing other women.”

( I can’t believe you didn’t catch it! )

Jack123 wrote:

She is 30 and she needs to consider how she’s going to play it. Biological clock is ticking and she needs me to be honest with her if there’s a chance this is going anywhere or if she should be looking elsewhere.

Total s~~~ test.

“Should be looking elsewhere” for what??? A sperm donor? She can look elsewhere if you’re not going to be that guy.

“If there’s a chance this is going anywhere” is classic textbook phrasing. Why is she putting that decision on you? Are you the only participant in this situation? No she is too. If you’re upfront with her, she can now make up her own mind to exit.

There are no limits to the stunts women with baby rabies are capable of.

blade wrote:

Just remember. Whoops.

There is no such thing as “whoops”. 12 forms of birth control for women ( 14 if you count swallowing and anal ) and that means an “oops” pregnancy is a woman’s fault and she deliberately allowed herself to get pregnant every f~~~ing time.

Her Body. Her Choice. Right?
Means –>> her responsibility.

A “whoops” is an unwanted pregnancy.
100% choice for women means they can 100% avoid an unwanted pregnancy.

Tabasco sauce in the discarded condom is a MUST here.

Jack123 wrote:

I have chosen to not run… yet!

Thats’ not your decision. You can stay exactly where you are. SHE can “run” and find another sperm donor if she wants. But getting “soggy” when asking if you’re seeing other people doesn’t mean SHE is not seeing other people.

You should also assume that SHE is…. just like she should assume YOU are.

Totally different now, isn’t it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

I’ve got a better question. Should I cut off my own dick?

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Her assets are now at laser speed in depreciation,you’ve had her best and the times were good now its time to move on because its not yours its just your turn.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Keymaster wrote:

There are no limits to the stunts women with baby rabies are capable of.

I would upvote that to the stars if I could!^^^

[Anonymous 11]

DarkRyu wrote:

I’ve got a better question. Should I cut off my own dick?

Only if you have two or more because that would be weird, save the best one.

[Anonymous 43]

[Anonymous 43]

im fading fast here…jack is going to continue to dip his wick until he is bored, and then run?

good plan, my man.

do ya understand that you may be done with her, but she may not be done with you? more specifically she may not show pregnancy for months before she tells you. imagine boinking her in late september, and she tells you today, end of November, she is having twins! and u were bored and done with her yesterday. I guarantee you will not be bored with the letter from her attorney declaring u to be the father next week.

the time to run is going to have to be a complete surprise to her so she cant sperm jack you. run while the uterus is empty, not when u are bored…lol totally unquantifiable condition there.

[Jack123Participant 324]

May 7 2020, I respectfully disagree.

If you use a condom and rinse it out in the bathroom (which I do) then you’re probably not going to get sperm jacked.

Further, the pregnancy problem point is always going to be brought up even in pump and dump circumstances. Unless you go monk mode or get a vasectomy, girls will always be able to get pregnant. I just don’t understand the difference between pump and dump (which is MGTOW approved) and what I am doing. I am not living with her, I am enjoying myself, I don’t owe her s~~~ and she swallows my load on request.

I still don’t understand why I should run when things are good. Unless I missed the memo, short-term relationships are also MGTOW approved if you are treated well, don’t mix finances, don’t live with them, don’t marry or have kids. If I said I met a unicorn and I want her to move in and we’re getting married then I expect someone from this forum to come to my door and knock me out. Hell, I would knock myself the f~~~ out!

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I’m going to go out on a limb here, being a tad late in the conversation.

Jack123.
Do as you please, that’s the beauty of “Going Your Own Way”. It’s YOUR way.
You have apparently made a decision, now for good or bad, you need to stand by it, and reap whatever “rewards/benefits” you receive. The onus is completely at your feet alone.

Of the almost 18k MEN that are members of this site, most will tell you to get the f~~~ out of the situation ASAP. Then ask why you are willing to put yourself in such a potentially dangerous position.
Is that not to be expected?
I believe you are not really asking for advise, just reinforcement for your decision regardless of whether or not it is positive or negative.

The term “relationship” is subjective and has only 3 end results, Positive, Neutral, or Negative.

There is no “TRY”, just DO or DO NOT- Yoda

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Jack, you’re asking for trouble at this point. You know the gifts and good behavior won’t last. Prolonging it now will just make a breakup more difficult later. And it’s dishonest to lead her on.

[Quiet DesperationParticipant 66]

Friend don’t be sucker-punched twice GET THE F~~~ OUT!

[Jack123Participant 324]

SimpleLife wrote:

Jack, you’re asking for trouble at this point. You know the gifts and good behavior won’t last. Prolonging it now will just make a breakup more difficult later. And it’s dishonest to lead her on.

Yes, I agree the good behaviour will not last. We all know this. Stay tuned for my next update when she turns into a bitch and I walk the f~~~ out. I appreciate the advice that running will be difficult if I delay, however, I think running is more difficult now when things are good.

Surely other MGTOW’s have been in my situation, they find a girl who sucks and f~~~s them for 3-6 months until things turn sour and then they run. I think my situation is pretty standard.

[Tao-SkyParticipant 129]

Why not call her on it before it happens in a nice way and perhaps you’ll get more mileage out of it? 🙂

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