Do I try another relationship?- Advice needed

[chirParticipant]

She is being reasonable because she is looking at the long game. She can feel her eggs drying out. She is in the onset of baby rabies. I would suspect she has other men as backups ready.
She is hunting for the best beta to be a father and support her spawn and she has her sights set on you.

A few minutes of pleasure for 30 years of suffering until death with only a few bright spots of happiness if she allows it.

Or a life of freedom.

Your choice as always.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[Tao-SkyParticipant 129]

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Unless a women is butt ugly and a truly horrifying person the chances are close to 100% that she has multiple backups under the guise of “friends” waiting in the wings – these are the blue pill saps she cries to when you displease her.

Pull a stunt or back off and watch for who she’s “friending”, these are the dudes who’ll be hitting her or blue pilling her when you’re not looking.

Remember behind every pretty smile is a viper in training…

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Jack123 wrote:

Last night she got a bit soggy when she asked me if I was seeing other people. I said I go on the occasional date with other people because we haven’t agreed that we are exclusive. She reacted reasonably, she didn’t have a meltdown, she just said it’s upsetting to hear that I am still seeing other people but reiterated that it was my choice and she respects that. She is 30 and she needs to consider how she’s going to play it. Biological clock is ticking and she needs me to be honest with her if there’s a chance this is going anywhere or if she should be looking else where.

She knew what she was getting into prior to dating you. So what’s changed? Stop focusing on what your getting because that can stop on a dime. Focus on what she wants and is that what you want. Once it becomes about her, then it will be about her. As you said the bio clock is ticking so you suspect what is up. Do you want kids, do you want to pay for kids?

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

Don’t listen these guys, they’re just jealous.
Marry her as soon as possible before she leaves you.

It beats being dead inside and feeling nothing at all…

Don’t want to be all emo.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

You know whwt to do OP. considering the knowledge you’ve acquired, you should know better OP.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Phantom wrote:

In short, paying child support for a dead kid now that I have never seen.

Ok, I’ll bite: WTF does that even mean?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Ok, I’ll bite: WTF does that even mean?

It is a long story & I can’t give too many details for privacy reasons…

In short, I was made to believe that she had a miscarriage. Long after the baby had been born, I “caught” wind of it.

After it was all said and done, it was 100% mine & that she had lied about it, and I have never seen him.

Of course, I was then ordered to pay child support.

I really am not at liberty to disclose more details beyond this.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Phantom wrote:

I really am not at liberty to disclose more details beyond this.

Understood and privacy respected. Honestly, I thought it might have been a typo or something. 🙂

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Understood and privacy respected. Honestly, I thought it might have been a typo or something.

I wish it were a typo. I fell into the baby trap, oops pregnancy/lost, wrapped up in a bunch of other s~~~ ploy.

Gave me a whole new meaning to, cluster f~~~ of epic proportions.

Why I said in my other post, Baby Rabies is a Bitch!

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

You sir need to urgently read some introductions people posted, you are heading down a dark and dangerous road and once the golden pussy loses it’s luster you will be entangled deeper than you can possibly imagine.

Mine started out perfectly reasonable and nice, and sexy and wonderful as well. 14 years later she tells me she always wanted someone else she has been keeping in touch with during the entire course of the relationship.

You are not special to her, you are a tool an asset. You are a purse she wears to impress her friends until the purse is empty or goes out of season after which you will be discarded.

Watch her carefully and see what she does, don’t listen to what she says just observe her every action. She will betray herself through her actions.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Trivium wrote:

She will betray herself through her actions.

The smokin’ gun right there^^.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

The OP is expiriencing Cognitive dissonance because he wants to beilieve shes special but knows shes not accompanied by a psychological response to the sex hes expiriencing.Hormones are effecting his brain function.On one hand he wants to dump her but on the other hand his mind on the sex drug will strongly influence his subsequent decision-making. Op, you WILL get f~~~ed.Im sure you thought your first gf ever was eveything you said about this pseudo relationship.

what happened. Did this relationship outdefine MGTOW.DID this relationship out define femminism.Your going to be that guy because eveyone else just couldnt get along but you and her figured it out! Since a bitchs pussy outweighs our words perform the honesty test.

Stand on a street corner, call her and tell her you lost your job and your jobless , “they took eveything”, you have no where to go have no money and need a place to stay.Then ask her to stay at her place until you can sort it out. If you get to finish that sentence before she hangs up and she says ok maybe you found the f~~~ing unicorn. If not walk your ass back home for asking us a dumbass question.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Maybe sittin on a street corner if she doesnt answer will sober you up.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

Don’t listen these guys, they’re just jealous.
Marry her as soon as possible before she leaves you.

Phantom wrote:

It beats being dead inside and feeling nothing at all…

Don’t want to be all emo.

That was playful banter by the way…I got a kick and a chuckle out of your whole post.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

There’s an inverse law in the relationship world that I’ve yet to see a name applied to. It goes like this:

The degree to which a woman makes you happy at the beginning of a relationship is directly proportional to the the degree of misery she will bring you once you commit to her.

And I have to agree with the guys who advise you that, because she’s been a decent person to you, that she deserves equal respect of the time and attention she’s given you — so let her go without drama.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Question Jack123: Are you tripping right now? Are you high? Is that it?

Suggestion: You better get your ass and your head wired together because right now it sounds like you have lost it.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

PistolPete wrote:

Question Jack123: Are you tripping right now? Are you high? Is that it?

If that is the case, perhaps this song will be helpful…

Slip out the back Jack123

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi Gents,

My heartfelt thanks to all the replies. I consider each and everyone of you my brothers. I am very grateful for all the advice in this thread and the whole MGTOW movement. I have read, watched and listened to MGTOW content for over a thousand hours since December 2015.

Execration’s post about cognitive dissonance is right on point. I do believe that even though things are great today, they won’t be in the future. She will turn into a beast, I am 99% certain of this.

I love being single and I don’t want kids or marriage. I consider myself a highly aware MGTOW that engages in casual sex and I question my willingness/ability to engage in short-term relationships (hence the creation of this thread).

It cannot be denied that the story that I have told has been told a million times over and it will be told a million more times. A guy gets burnt, finds MGTOW and swears off relationships… until he meets a girl he likes. What is this man to do? Run you say, run as fast as you can!

I understand and accept that the run option is the unanimous answer and I appreciate everyone’s input on my dilemma. If the MGTOW movement is going to grow and we are going to help young men faced with this situation, we will lose people to the ‘f~~~ MGTOW, I found a unicorn’ mentality. To this issue, could the answer then be, recognise the signs of crazy, keep reading MGTOW, don’t fall in love, don’t move in together, wear a condom, have fun until it gets boring or she turns crazy and then RUN.

After all, we always speak about Leonardo DiCaprio as being the poster-boy MGTOW and he is always engaging in short-term relationships until he dumps when he’s bored or they show crazy.

I really hope I don’t get flamed but here it goes. I have decided that my own way is to keep seeing this girl until the bored/crazy stage kicks in. Does anyone understand or support my decision?

[bladeParticipant]

Good luck with your decision. Doesn’t bother me what anyone does.No one is in control of you.Glad you read the advice and hoped it gave you some knowledge. I wish you the best.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Does anyone understand or support my decision you ask.

Was this thread a s~~~ test?

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

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