Do I try another relationship?- Advice needed

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi Gents,

I’m 12 months single and have been on the pump and dump road since my breakup. It has been a lot of fun…up until now. I met a girl about 2 months ago who is doing everything she can to lock me up. She pays for dinners, sucks and f~~~s like a champion, cooks me dinner and even buys me presents. She is sweet and I am enjoying her company. Needless to say, I like her.

Last night she got a bit soggy when she asked me if I was seeing other people. I said I go on the occasional date with other people because we haven’t agreed that we are exclusive. She reacted reasonably, she didn’t have a meltdown, she just said it’s upsetting to hear that I am still seeing other people but reiterated that it was my choice and she respects that. She is 30 and she needs to consider how she’s going to play it. Biological clock is ticking and she needs me to be honest with her if there’s a chance this is going anywhere or if she should be looking else where.

So, I’m considering my options… Do I give an exclusive relationship a go, enjoy the first 3-6 months and run when crazy shows its ugly head or run now because she’s upset I’m still sleeping with other girls?

[bladeParticipant]

Give the exclusive relationship a go i am sure it will work and you will live happily ever after.

GET OUT NOW before she goes whoops i am pregnant.You might think you got this figured but she is probably has her plans in motion.

Just remember. Whoops.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 54]

I doubt many on here will say,yea jump in head first!(bad pun).
But seeing she has been respectful to you, you should be honest and not waste her time.
Robbing some one of time is a great offence againts the Father of us all.
Father Time. imo.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Jack123 wrote:

I met a girl about 2 months ago who is doing everything she can to lock me up.

Everyone of them I have dealt with, are always in such a big ass damn hurry…

Where’s the fire?

[Anonymous 54]

Phantom wrote:

Jack123 wrote:

I met a girl about 2 months ago who is doing everything she can to lock me up.

Everyone of them I have dealt with, are always in such a big ass damn hurry…

Where’s the fire?

If shes 30 and wants kids, she knows time is running out.She should have started planning this at a younger age. Feminist rob themselves.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

Feminist rob themselves.

Indeed…then blame men for it.

[Anonymous 43]

pump and dump has so many flaws it is laughable

Go ahead pal, keep stickin yer doinkus in the pencil sharpener

Prediction! Yr special snowflake is right now trying to buy pregnant pee…now that she knows you are not exclusive. Her mind is buzzing into overdrive to hook you. She is running out of time. Maybe she can whack you and still look good enough for one more dude in a couple years.

u get hooked and then she claims miscarriage…but you were such a good daddy in waiting, lets try again in a month.

What is it with you guys, is it a power thing to get some woman to suck you off, because that is the most powerful thing a man can experience…There is so much more to life once you set yourself free from such sophomoric activities.

Imagine the rush of power as you drive up to a building with your name on it, and you have people working for you. You take a part of their talents to maintain a business. A chick sucking on your p~~~ing thingy, pfffft insignificant to owning a business.

That is the relationship you need now amigo. Spewing spooge is for chumps. Telling chicks to go away is so much more gratifying.

my advice is to stay the f~~~ away from women. Not worth the 18 year baby thing, not worth the STD thing, not worth the jealous husband/boyfriend with the AR15 thing. not worth the tied down thing. not worth losing half yer s~~~ thing. And the money…OMG the money. I already figured out that instead of the child support I’ll be paying until 5/7/20 I could have a sweet Miata…and I have a much easier deal than many dudes here. Right now, I am paying some c~~~ I never want to see again about $1 hour, 24 hours a day for a kid who told me to f~~~ off to my face.

Let’s quantify your future disaster in terms of cars.

Imagine paying this c~~~ $35,000 a year for life between alimony and child support? She calls you on her birthday and you gotta buy her a new Mustang, every year…for the next 50 years or more? Meet me at the dealership…I see a red one with my name on it! every f~~~ing birthday, and you have to do it with a court ordered smile on yer face. Don’t forget the big red bow. lol She drives it for a year no oil change, no tire rotation, burnout at every light, overrevs the f~~~er, rubs the bumpers into gas pumps, then parks it in the backyard, keys in the ignition. Gets the new one from you. Drives that one for a year hard and fast, park it and waits for the next new car.

Or you can keep on pumping and dumping until you hit the wall…lol Honey I’m pregnant are the most horrible words ever to float inside a single guy’s ear.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

You need a vasectomy and you need it yesterday.

As far as relationships are concerned, don’t bother. Nothing good ever came from a relationship. You can do all the fun things with a woman without being in a relationship with her. You also don’t need to be f~~~ing anyone else to refuse to be exclusive. It’s a position to take, not a practice to make.

The important thing about pumping and dumping is the dumping, not the pumping. So long as eventually there’s a dumping, it doesn’t matter how much or how little pumping you do. And while you’re pumping, dumping must always be an immediate option, even if you’re not actually exercising it yet.

Right now she’s in the phase where she tries to get you hooked. Recognize the bait for what it is, and don’t get hooked. Sooner or later she will inevitably push for a relationship or commitment or some such bulls~~~ like that. That’s the time for dumping.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Let her go. There are many reasons for doing so but yes she does deserve an honest answer. And women wanting kids is a biological drive for them the same way that having sex with many is for us men. The fact that the former is lauded by society and the latter demonised is part of the double standard society we live in.
And it will get harder to leave her the longer you leave it. Men aren’t robots. We have many noble intentions to protect and nurture its just only unicorns will appreciate that instead of using it as a beta bucks set up. The alternative is to regard her as a unicorn but if you are going down that road keep in mind what Rollo Tomassi says about committed relationships requiring the highest level of game than any.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

It sounds like you’ve had the best part of this relationship.

When the woman starts to make noises about exclusivity, that’s your sign that the plane is slowing and starting to lose altitude for its final approach.

The landing is the roughest and most dangerous part of the flight… and you can guess what’s waiting for you at the end of that runway. Right now you’ve got a parachute and the chance to pop that back door, grab your bag of cash and pull a D.B. Cooper.

Bail out and vanish. Boom. Gone.

Do yourself a favor and remember her as she is now, not as the venomous creature that she’s about to become. If you let this happen, it’s going to be 100% your fault.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

The wife tells the husband that she made a decision to divorce him for his friend. She reminds the man that she will get all of his s~~~. The apartment, the child, the country house and his car, and asks him why does he answer nothing? He needs nothing of this? The man tells: “I have all I need” And what is that? (the bitch asks) – The safety belt.

PS: For those who still want a mail-order bride from Russia or Ukraine))

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Tao-SkyParticipant 129]

I have a buddy at work just like you. He was doing well at just casually dating and now he feels he’s met the one because of how well he’s getting treated. I’ve warned him that once she moves or god forbid he gets married her behavior WILL change but even after a bad divorce and crazy ex he’s already too far gone and I’m praying for him (he’s under the illusion she’s going to support him – closer to the truth is she end up pregnant one day and he’ll now have three kids and two ex’s to pay for, he already has two kids and most of his six figure pay check gone).

The guys are right – she’s almost got you hooked and I can hear the escape clock ticking 3-2-1… done..

Women are like weeds they grow on you and look ok at first then they surround and strangle you. In a little more time your penis will be unable to escape the almighty vagina – you don’t realize it bro but you’re already hooked and she’s made the decision for you.

Take a step back and see how she reacts. Then you’ll have your answer:). She’s sure she’s got you hooked – sex is clearly off the hook because she’s in reel’em in mode – that will stop once the commitment kicks in.

After 6 months she’ll have you in little boy mode which happens to all but the strongest men and it maybe you who’ll get dumped as she steps gleefully back on the c~~~ carnival. This is dangerous because eventually your mind and heart will become more hardened and bitter which is bad for your well being and health. Dump her while it’s your choice or if you can’t at least test her over and over again. The fact your even asking this question here means she’s got you hooked already and you want confirmation. As the commercial says; you can pay now or later but you’ll pay one way or the other if a women is involved….?

Run….
Run son ??

[Anonymous 43]

lubliu video!!!! prekrasno, brat! kakaya suka!

ummm I don’t get to practice Russian much here in Kansas. funny because Moscow isn’t that far away. lol

I love the video, well done brother, what a bitch!

I wonder if jack123 got the answer he wanted, or was he baiting the bear knowing we would all be clamoring to boot him in the head.

seriously, jack, you are an adult and you will do what is best for you. for those of us who have been down that road before, seeing you do what we did is like watching a huge car crash/pile up on a highway in the fog and ice…we see you driving 70 mph towards the back end of a truck you can’t see yet.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

RUN THE F~~~ AWAY.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Jack123 wrote:

Hi Gents,
So, I’m considering my options… Do I give an exclusive relationship a go, enjoy the first 3-6 months and run when crazy shows its ugly head or run now because she’s upset I’m still sleeping with other girls?

Why should you run at all? You are the man, they are females. Enjoy them, f*ck them. She is upset because she counts on you. It’s a natural female instinct. She needs a male next to her, not the man. Wants to play this game? Ball is in your court now!

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t get to practice Russian much here in Kansas. funny because Moscow isn’t that far away. lol

As I understand there are two dozen Moscows in the USA! lol Take some practice more. (Censored version!) Ya na svete poyavilas, shtob na yakhte huyi sosat! AWALT or NAWALT? lol

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Jack123 wrote:

I met a girl about 2 months ago who is doing everything she can to lock me up

Jack123 wrote:

So, I’m considering my options… Do I give an exclusive relationship a go, enjoy the first 3-6 months and run when crazy shows its ugly head or run now because she’s upset I’m still sleeping with other girls?

You come on here and don’t know what to do. Really ??

Either you haven’t been paying attention or you have an incredibly short memory ????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[RoyDalParticipant]

When I was about three years old, my dad told me not to touch the toaster. He said, “don’t touch, hot; don’t touch, hot, hot.”

I disobeyed him and burnt the living s~~~ out of my fingers.
I never touched something I knew was hot ever again.

It took me many repetitions to learn that “relationships” are also “hot.” Learn from my mistakes and do not repeat them. To not touch the relationship!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Anonymous wrote:

u get hooked and then she claims miscarriage…but you were such a good daddy in waiting, lets try again in a month.

The last one I had anything to do with sexually, did this very thing to me…

Except, I didn’t find out til way after the birth of the dead fetus.

In short, paying child support for a dead kid now that I have never seen.

Exciting? Don’t you think?

Made me go Monk. The straw that broke the camel’s back s~~~.

[Anonymous 11]

blade wrote:

GET OUT NOW before she goes whoops i am pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:

I doubt many on here will say,yea jump in head first!(bad pun).

Phantom wrote:

Everyone of them I have dealt with, are always in such a big ass damn hurry…

Where’s the fire?

Unless she’s a Unicorn I say no. Stick to your pump and dumps and just be a asshole. Plus 30 is past the expiration date anyway.

Run motherf~~~er…. Run!!

Anonymous wrote:

Go ahead pal, keep stickin yer doinkus in the pencil sharpener

sidecar wrote:

As far as relationships are concerned, don’t bother. Nothing good ever came from a relationship.

Sparticus66 wrote:

Let her go.

Stargazer wrote:

Right now you’ve got a parachute and the chance to pop that back door, grab your bag of cash and pull a D.B. Cooper.

Bail out and vanish. Boom. Gone.

Do yourself a favor and remember her as she is now, not as the venomous creature that she’s about to become. If you let this happen, it’s going to be 100% your fault.

Tao-Sky wrote:

The guys are right – she’s almost got you hooked and I can hear the escape clock ticking 3-2-1… done..

Anonymous wrote:

we see you driving 70 mph towards the back end of a truck you can’t see yet.

Nerevar wrote:

RUN THE F~~~ AWAY.

RoyDal wrote:

When I was about three years old, my dad told me not to touch the toaster. He said, “don’t touch, hot; don’t touch, hot, hot.”

I disobeyed him and burnt the living s~~~ out of my fingers.
I never touched something I knew was hot ever again.

Phantom wrote:

The last one I had anything to do with sexually, did this very thing to me…

Except, I didn’t find out til way after the birth of the dead fetus.

In short, paying for a dead kid now that I have never seen.

Exciting? Don’t you think?

Made me go Monk. The straw that broke the camel’s back s~~~.

Don’t listen these guys, they’re just jealous.
Marry her as soon as possible before she leaves you.

[Anonymous 8]

Run for your life, not hers.

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