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Hi everybody,
I thought I would share my story since I can’t really discuss my experiences anywhere due to the political correctness and misandry going on in Denmark were I live.
Two years ago (I’m in my mid twenties) I started dating women (basically I wasn’t very interested in dating up until that point as weird as it may sound). I was totally naive having almost zero experiences with the opposite sex but sexual urges and socialisation made me take an interest in this domain of life. I knew I was probably not very attractive so looking for ways to figure out how this new world works I joined the seduction community. My first 9 months (approaching women every week) was basically rejection non stop.
This was also the time when I learned the norms of modern dating. Feminism and the sexual revolution has decreased the value of ressources – these days looks is the most important criteria (if you’re ugly you practically have to be a high status millionarie or similar to compensate). Women in DK judge men very harshly – even publicly – it’s not uncommon in public transport situations to have a group of girls who sit and point at guys and laugh at how ugly they are – everybody else let’s them get away with it – it’s shocking to see how little people care but I guess it’s just a normal bystander effect and blue pill ignorance.
Of course, girls are very confident and outspoken here – even the really ugly ones – because they have way better reproductive odds and have beta males all over them all the time.
I’ve seen butt ugly girls saying that they only want to date guys like “heath ledger” – so basically women are no longer dating guys in the same league (looks wise) as themselves instead they all believe that they are entitled to the 20% hottest guys because now they’re liberated and don’t need a provider so might as well only go for the hot guy right? Well, sure that just means that birth rates are gonna fall and you may end up having to visit the sperm bank or stay single a lot longer (I’m aware you can view this differently, feel free to share your point of view).
The average women is getting laid much more than the average guy in a lifetime perspective. I have to agree with Black Pigeon Speaks that this promiscuous feminism is having some serious negative impact on our society. In conjunction with the self-destructive immigration policy we’re destroying the social cohesion in our european societies…
I don’t think it’s fair that women are given equal rights when considering the fact that they have a higher reproduction value. Plus if you’re a real feminist and you believe that there is zero difference between the sexes and that they should be treated 100% equally – why do women freak out when a guy “s~~~-test” her back?
Girls will s~~~-test guys with really harsh and cruel remarks (because guys have no emotions right so you can just treat them like a piece of s~~~?). If I ever s~~~-tested a girl the same way I’ve been s~~~-tested I bet she would start crying – tbh I once tried this when I was out in the nightlife and one did start to cry while the others were shaming me (I was only saying stuff that they were telling me???? WHAT THE F~~~??? Oh, you didn’t think your words could hurt me too because I’m a man? LOL.
Anyways… 9 months of rejection lead me to take a bootcamp with a PUA company. This got me a wave of results in the months following. However, I still felt that there was an underlying disrespect and lack of empathy with me as male. Women would flake, s~~~-test endlessly, talk about how desperate guys were and how they just f~~~ed a new hot guy last weekend. Women would also s~~~-test very subtly and ridicule me and other guys for not getting laid. Wow – I thought – women are not as nice and empathic as I was brought up to believe.
At this point I was trying to change everything for the sake of women’s approval – I did many social skills courses, changed clothing, read 24 books on dating and tried them all out in the field one by one, improved my social circle, created an interesting lifestyle – I also did a bunch of other bootcamps and met some of the best PUAs worldwide – all in all I’ve spent near 8000 USD during my 2 years of gaming and trying to become more attractive to women and that project failed (but I’ve learned a hell of a lot in the proces despite not reaching my main goal of finding a girlfriend).
2 years have passed and I have seen some results here and there but honestly the effort-to-reward ratio is so bad that I’ve now decided to give up entirely on danish women. I’m done. I will chase women no more. I will no longer make my decisions around women. It’s time to find a new purpose. Time to move on. I accept that I’m not the type of guy that danish women wants and I’m withdrawing from this domain of life to give more space to others.
During these two years of experimenting I’ve also felt more lost, indecisive and out of balance with my masculinity than ever before. I’ve also been depressed and suicidal many times because of how women have treated me even when I’ve put in my best effort. I earn more than the average women in my demographic and my GPA is in the top 5% of the country but I’m still not good enough for women here. I’ve cried, I’ve been contemplating suicide so often… Women are not worth all of this pain and despair!
It’s a very sad situation because these issues could never be discussed publicly in Denmark because a male like me would be ridiculed and ignored. Feminists and other opponents would also individualise every word I’ve said claiming that it’s me who is the problem – and only me.
I never had a girlfriend but if the single life is anything remotely similar to relation”s~~~” lol well I guess it’s ruled out – at least with danish women.
I have too much self-respect to continue to date women here. There may be red pill women out there but the promiscuous feminists who f~~~ hot guys and treat the rest like s~~~ are making it difficult for me to give the few, sincere women a fair shot.
Btw, I think it’s absolutely hilarious to see how much women care about appearance when most ugly guys are in a far worse position than an ugly woman will ever be. Ugly women get laid. Ugly guys don’t unless they are extraordinary socially/economically etc. I’m also at a point were it’s starting to get absurdly funny when women talk about boyfriend issues or not having enough good candidates… WTF? Are you kidding me??? Don’t you see how privileged you are???
Of course, it can be hard to choose a good man but imagine having zero candidates and almost no one showing you any interest? Women don’t get how lucky they are. At the end of the day relationships can mean a lot to most human beings and I would have taken a woman’s salary anytime in exchange for a relationship (all though I know it’s not as simple as that just trying to make a general point here and women do have better reproductive odds so that’s not an entirely incorrect generalisation).
I hope my viewpoints fit within the MGTOW realm – most of my perspectives are inspired by personal reflection after watching “The Red Pill” and following Black Pigeon Speaks and related channels.
Btw, when I talk about ugliness I think it’s largely an objective thing and I accept that I’m ugly – My only hope was that women of equal ugliness would date a guy like me but they’re to self-deluded to do so it seems.
I’m also done participating in social circles were women exploit men and insult them. S~~~-testing without any serious intention of giving you a fair shot. I understand that some women are not like this and I’m still socially interacting with them but I set boundaries much more frequently now.
I like to think of myself as open-minded and I may change my opinion in the future but this post is a reflection of how I have felt the last two years and I really needed to get it out there because more than anything I WANT TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE. I WANT TO GO MY OWN WAY.
– Andy
GYOW in you’re twenties is a good move, it saves you the blue pill hell of not being good enough. In you’re thirties the tables turn, you will be thankful for your freedom. Also women sense your frustration, letting go allows you to think with the big head for a while.
"Society is to blame" Denton
Anonymous18I only read halfway to your introduction.
Nothing personal brother, I just don’t want to go in mini-red pill rage moment reading about the entitled skanks.
If you want to have sex with women treat them like s~~~.
If you want women to completely ignore you act insecure.
If you want a woman to fall in love with you ….. become rich.
If you want to be happy go MGTOW.
Peace.
Good introduction for two reasons:
a) you do a great job of illustrating the 80/20 rule.
b) you learned that they are not worth the time/effort/energy it takes to gain their meager reward.These are two valuable lessons for a young guy. Don’t waste your time. And time is the factor that catches up to all of them—the wall awaits and it is merciless.
As a young guy you have urges–I get it, but in Denmark you can always just buy it and move on.
Welcome aboard.
$8000!?!?!?!
Oh, the escorts you could have enjoyed……
The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau
Anonymous5Welcome.
Trust me, the States is not greener. Probably the same color as Denmark.
Women are, society is.
Go your own way!
Doesn’t matter if you are handsome and rich.
In the end “I’m not happy” is all you get, being ugly is a blessing in disguise sometimes.
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
PUA will eventually become MGTOW because of the cost benefit analysis.
Unless that PUA wanted to scam other men money teaching game.
There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.
Hi Danish-dude,
I thought your story was really superb. Thanks for sharing it here.
You mentioned that you had a “wave of results” after your PUA courses but nonetheless concluded that there is an “underlying lack of respect and empathy for you as a male”.
This lesson has cost legions of men their life’s savings, children and future to learn.
So I think for the cost of a few university courses (plus your time and effort!) you have LEARNED some GREAT life lessons while a young man.
Ultimately this sets you up for a wise start in life because you appear to have learned a lot about female nature that we have observed too. You can apply this to be careful.
I don’t see any mention of children (or desire to have children) in your post. Not asking, just remarking. It’s a tough decision for a young man in this climate.
It was hard for me in my mid20s, a young man tends to feel he needs a girlfriend and sees his friends pairing up. He visualizes his future with a woman. But one thing I’ve learned getting older is NO MAN HAS TO pin his WORTH on having a woman in his life.
Once again, I really liked your post.
I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.
If you base your emotions on the sad and pathetic ever changing whims of a woman. You will suffer and die do literally anything else in life and you will get better.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
No Wife - No Strife
hookers get a good looking one and when you finish tell her she was no good
Anonymous3Your young so stop wasting your time & life energy on the useless pursuit of a ” girlfriend ”
Stop this mental masturbation about how ugly you are & how privelaged they are.
Start getting laid. If you have to spend a few bucks so be it.
A reset is coming soon. You will live to see the day when the ones who are rejecting you will beg for the attention of a man.
Feminazies will b relegated to the dust bin of history & the rest will have no more status then a piece of furniture.It will get worse before it gets better,but this type of s~~~ can’t last too much longer.
MGTOW is the future And the future is NOW!!
Anonymous14It’s the same everywhere man, you are way better off going your own way and paying an escort every now and then if you feel like it. Women are just not worth the trouble anymore, and things are not likely to change for the better any time soon. You are young though, I am sure by the time you are my age (mid forties) there will be awesome Sexbots, women will become obsolete shorty after that as most will be completely useless to society after we create the artificial womb.
Hello and welcome, Danish Dude!
We are like brothers from another mother.
It is exactly the same here in Germany and it already was like that in the 70’s and 80’s.
And you are not “ugly” maybe just average.
LOL.
Strange things will happen once you show off your wealth.
I invite you to read my story – the link is in my profile.
And I look forward to your posts in the future.
All Women who have now rejected you, will one day turn their heads when they see you.
You are wealthy and become more attractive in your 30’s while THEY LOSE THEIR LOOKS day by day.
We call it the wall.
Most c~~~s don’t score their 20 per cent alpha male by that time and then they will become bitter and lonely witches.
These women will be invisible to men after they hit the wall. And then they are looking at you… You are then expected to take the worn out party slut with all of her baggage and cumulated expectations from the 67 dicks she had inside of her before you came.
These bitch-faced wrinkly c~~~s then want you to have the dick size of dick #08, the car model of dick #12, the face of Mr. #44, the voice of fling #27, the wallet of her ex #65…
And so on. You are never good enough and you have to listen to her insulting comparisons 24/7 until you kick her out.
I am 6 foot 3, tall, blonde, blue eyed, non-smoker, non drinker, white soft skin, full hair at age 50…
That hasn’t “helped” me none.
C~~~s “came in floods” after I became a VISIBLE business owner in my town…
Money is all that women are after and that is why so many men burn themselves out trying to please these insatiable pieces of scum.
You are not ugly, just not rich enough for her endless list of “demands”.
Stay MGTOW and you’ll be good and set for life.
And tell us your “single case” experiences and life observations in detail whenever you feel like it.
Your stories help other brothers to see that they are not alone.
Depression is over!
You are home now!
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I can’t post this often enough but this man is not “unattractive” and not “poor” and he went through exactly the same s~~~ We and I had to go through.
C~~~s even use the same words and phrases in German…
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
Let me LOL about you topic title:
Denmark: No Country for ugly men
New:
Denmark: A country full of bitter looking women who perceive average men as ugly.
I go out in the streets and think I live in “Scarecrow Country”…
And this is not a matter of personal perception: Watch an old 1970’s TV show and you only see mostly attractive and “normally sized” women sitting in the audience.
The Resting Bitch face is real.
They are ugly, NOT YOU!
About RBF “Resting Bitch Face” – the constantly angry and bitchy face women have
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
Is dating still worth it?
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You sound a bit down on yourself. It could be a blessing in disguise. I’ll tell you why. I’m average looking (some might say ugly) and I was a bit overweight when I was young so females never gave me any attention. Since I was 18 I have focused on me, being stupid thinking I’ll attract a hot chick eventually (before mgtow dawned on me). I’m in my late 30s now and what it means is I’m in decent shape and have a decent job, a house that’s almost paid off and live a good life and have looked after myself. Two of my friends who are the two best looking were caught by women in their early 20’s, they are now unhappily married with wives who have blown out. They hate their lives! Now I’m in my late 30s I’ll remain single and semi retire by the time I’m 45. My good looking unhappily married friends will still be working! So what I’m saying is focus on improving yourself through work,education, fitness etc and you end up loving your life! Also you will find that women will give you attention but what ever you do don’t give it back.
Anonymous5Dude, one more thing, looks only matters when you’re in middle School, or high school.
Once you’re out in the real world, your looks means jack s~~~. There’s alot of good looking men who can’t get laid.
When I was in high school, alot of chicks used to dig me. Some said I was handsome, some said I wasn’t ugly, blah blah blah.
Money is everything.
You can never lose women chasing money, but, you’ll lose money chasing women.
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