Blue pill buddy tells me he f~~~ed my ex 15 years later

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Professor Chaos wrote:

Out of nowhere one of my buddies, a guy would consider my best friend back in the day, admits that he f~~~ed my ex who I was in a 2 year relationship with while we were dating.

Should have told him you broke up with her because she tested positive. He might want to get checked.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Mencken wrote:

He was not a true friend 15 years ago, but he may be now. People can change. Most everyone here changed, specifically those who were formerly married. Careful who you judge.

You right, people change, for example from alive to dead.

I trust dead people. Those f~~~ers are harmless.

Keep thinking that “people change” bulls~~~ and i bet one day you corpse will be recovered from a ditch.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Firstly, my ex wife cheated with a Chad while we were married- just so you have perspective.

Your friend and a girlfriend you had at the time hooked up for a sexual encounter. I believe neither party has any obligation of fidelity until you are married. For me, the bigger betrayal is the 15 year secret – had he told you after it happened I do not see any issues; all parties being consenting adults. It would then be your choice to continue the relationship with either party if the terms and conditions that you impose on the relationship are not satifactory.

But, the lie of 15 year duration is the bigger issue. He unilateral took away your ability to make an informed choice about continuing a relationship with either party.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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