Blue pill buddy tells me he f~~~ed my ex 15 years later

[MrMeParticipant 651]

Professor Chaos wrote:

Appreciate all the responses…Brilliant as usual.

Meh…I’m over it. I’m sure she’s got herpes, kids, and stretch marks by now.

And my buddy…whatever, don’t see him much and I’ll be sure to watch what I say around him now because I can’t trust him.

To all the young lurkers out there, I was 21 when this was going on. MY STORY ISN’T UNIQUE, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO EVERY MAN AT THAT AGE WHO’S DATING.

This situation didn’t happened to me (to my knowledge) but I would have acted exactly as you did:
Not give a f~~~ at first, and then adjusting my view on said “friend”.

You cannot trust him. I would probably keep on hanging out with him when the other bros are around but I would put him down of my list of important people in my life by a factor of 100.

He is not to be trusted, but you can still kick his ass on the tennis court.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

That is one of the things you take to the grave. No good to ever bring it up.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

I’ve had so-called enemies do much less bad s~~~ to me than that. If that is in any way a friend, I guess I’ve been doing it wrong.

F~~~, society’s standards of brotherhood and friendship have plummeted into the abyss, and from where I sit it just looks like it’s getting worse by the day.

[OldBillParticipant]

Do you seriously think he was the only one she was f~~~ing while “dating” you?

She’s not your “ex” either. No ring, no “ex”.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Guy is a dick.

Was he upset at you when he told you? Sometimes a disclosure like that is a vindictive move someone makes (I’m mad at you right now I’ll tell you this to p~~~ u off)

[bladeParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

Do you seriously think he was the only one she was f~~~ing while “dating” you?

oh f~~~ yer . If she is going to f~~~ his mate on him it is pretty obvious there were more c~~~s behind the scene .

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Chaos bro it’s a vagina from 15 years ago . Did that vagina really mean that much .

One thing i would ask ya mate if she was giving him regular blow jobs (more than likely) and cumming home and tongue kissing you . Yucky . He might not tell you this because he would feal bad .

But i garuntee he has done more than bang her once .

That chick would of been banging around from day one .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

He’s not a friend.

Don't care

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

OldBill wrote:

Do you seriously think he was the only one she was f~~~ing while “dating” you?

I did as a blue pill 21 year old in a society that teaches us that women are pure and honest. Looking back on it…no way.

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She’s not your “ex” either. No ring, no “ex”.

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Your right Bill, Ex isn’t an accurate description. A girl that I (and probably a bunch of other dudes) was f~~~ing regularly.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

If they haven’t been for 20 years in jail with you or in the battlefield, they are not your friends.

You have no friends, forget about that bulls~~~.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Yes she’s a slut but he also betrayed you as a friend. I would never have sex with a friend of mine girlfriend even if we are not that close, if I respect you I don’t f~~~ your chick. There are millions of women out there so no need to risk a good friendship for a whore. Watch him from a distance.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

ghost wrote:

Who cares. She was a slut. End of story.

Lol.

[TheWolfSheepFearSpectator 459]

I had basically the same problem just more complicated, my buddy made out with an ex of mine right around the time we started dating. Didn’t know if it was before during or after and obviously my ex was still going to parties and s~~~ or they wouldn’t have met so who knows. But either way I keep him at a distance ever since. Look out for yourself first Noone else gives a f~~~

Please God smite the wicked now

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

I hate to say it, this has probably happened to most guys. We just don’t find out about it. Happened to me about 12 or 13 years ago. Like the guys here said, he wasn’t the only one she was banging either. True friends are EXTREMELY rare.

[MenckenParticipant 693]

He was not a true friend 15 years ago, but he may be now. People can change. Most everyone here changed, specifically those who were formerly married. Careful who you judge.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[HermitParticipant]

Old thread, but I think it’s worth reviving. I know there are plenty of you guys who have chosen celibacy, but for those, including lurkers of course, who still have sex, just never give your emotions to a woman. Do not get emotionally involved with a woman. F~~~ ’em and forget ’em. Sex does not equal love. It’s just sex and obviously women must believe the same thing because I doubt they love all the guys they f~~~. They’re all whores. Some are just more honest about it than others.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 12]

just never give your emotions to a woman

nor a man.
While a Man is allowed to be sad, hurt, angry…
sharing or living sadness and anger…

never leads to any good.
have your emotions. Yes zou are humand and are allowed.
But control the consequences.

[HeadbangerParticipant 410]

Professor Chaos wrote:

So I’m getting drunk on Saturday watching football at bars with a few lifelong buddies.
Out of nowhere one of my buddies, a guy would consider my best friend back in the day, admits that he f~~~ed my ex who I was in a 2 year relationship with while we were dating.
I wasn’t mad at the time because I was in NFG drunk mode. I also wasn’t surprised because she was a big time slut.
But why did he tell me? Kind of a dick move, right? Should have just left sleeping dogs lie.
I think this is a sign that I should let go of my blue pill friends regardless of how long we go back. All of their lives still revolves around pussy which is a foreign concept to me in my red pill world. I can’t even relate to these guys anymore.

That shows that he has no respect for you. That is a betrayal. He is not your friend. Personally, I would’ve kicked his ass.

She asked "Describe our relationship using only two words." I said "Our what!"

[HeadbangerParticipant 410]

Hermit wrote:

Old thread, but I think it’s worth reviving. I know there are plenty of you guys who have chosen celibacy, but for those, including lurkers of course, who still have sex, just never give your emotions to a woman. Do not get emotionally involved with a woman. F~~~ ’em and forget ’em. Sex does not equal love. It’s just sex and obviously women must believe the same thing because I doubt they love all the guys they f~~~. They’re all whores. Some are just more honest about it than others.

Celibacy is the way to go given the times we live in.

She asked "Describe our relationship using only two words." I said "Our what!"

[TicParticipant 4329]

This is a good thread.

Bitches are not loyal. Not since the dawn of civilization.
We just didn’t know it until the internet came and people started telling their stories. And now everyone has access to knowledge that was not available before to this scale.

I think internet is the worse thing that could happen to women. It exposed them for what they are.

God bless peace and freedom.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

you said your girl was a slut. I don’t disagree that she was a slut. I just disagree that she was your girl.

There’s an expression shared widely here before: She wasn’t your girl, it was just your turn.

She’s the slut because she took turns with you and your friend (and who knows how many others). Your friend just cut in line and f~~~ed her before it was his turn… when it was still your turn. He didn’t steal your girl. He just kinda cut into a line of dudes waiting to f~~~ this girl and didn’t wait his turn to f~~~ her like everyone else did…(???)

It starts to sound a little ridiculous here when you imagine this line of guys all trying to cut in front of each other and be next to f~~~ this girl. It’s seems a little ridiculous that any of them would want to f~~~ her at all. It’s like cutting in line to go splash your dick around in a public toilet in a 3rd world country. Who knows what the hell is floating around in there??? You might want to f~~~ her if you didn’t know how nasty she was. But if you know, and you still get in line, especially if you cut in line…???…!!! Then your dick comes out of the toilet as nasty as they toilet was.

If you’re going to be mad at him, be mad at him for NOT TELLING YOU how nasty that hole actually was so you could get the hell out of that line!!! He knew she was a slut and could have saved you from sticking your dick in that toilet anymore than you already did.

Sorry to be so coarse here. I’m trying to distinguish a point.

Aside from this, you could be mad because you made an emotional investment in a toilet masquerading as a worthwhile person. It was your mistake and you have some legitimate reason to be disappointed for having made it. He just helped prove she was a unworthy of your investment, but didn’t tell you when it could have saved you from making that investment, or at least from making that investment as big as you did.

The point is that she was unworthy of that investment wether that guy f~~~ed her, or not. Just being WILLING to f~~~ someone else made her unworthy. If it wasn’t that guy, it would have been any number of others. But even if she could not have gotten anyone else besides you to f~~~ her, but she was WILLING to f~~~ someone else… she would still have been unworthy of that investment.

You made an investment mistake all of us have made. Learn from it, as we all did. Your blue pill soon-to-be ex-friend is just a symptom of it. The reason not to trust him is that he didn’t tell you she was unworthy at a time when telling you would have benefited you (which was as soon as he knew she was willing to f~~~ someone other than you). If he knew she was willing to f~~~ someone other than you who was not him, and he didn’t tell you this, he’s still not friend material. Him or some other guy doesn’t matter. Same symptom, and he failed to tell you that she was not worthy.

When I was 21, hormone charged and blue pill, my best friends and I all traded info on who the sluts were. That way, we could all get in line, sometimes compare notes over a beer later, and none of us ever made any emotional investment. It was not unlike what we do here at MGTOW, where we advise each other to all GET OUT of line, and NEVER make that investment mistake again.

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