Blue pill buddy tells me he f~~~ed my ex 15 years later

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

So I’m getting drunk on Saturday watching football at bars with a few lifelong buddies.

Out of nowhere one of my buddies, a guy would consider my best friend back in the day, admits that he f~~~ed my ex who I was in a 2 year relationship with while we were dating.

I wasn’t mad at the time because I was in NFG drunk mode. I also wasn’t surprised because she was a big time slut.

But why did he tell me? Kind of a dick move, right? Should have just left sleeping dogs lie.

I think this is a sign that I should let go of my blue pill friends regardless of how long we go back. All of their lives still revolves around pussy which is a foreign concept to me in my red pill world. I can’t even relate to these guys anymore.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Well… regardless of your red pill outlook now; as far as I’m concerned he’s not your friend and probably never really was.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Professor Chaos wrote:

Out of nowhere one of my buddies, a guy would consider my best friend back in the day, admits that he f~~~ed my ex who I was in a 2 year relationship with while we were dating.

I would say the explanation for him telling you is that he was drunk, but if you’ve been friends with the guy for 15 years, I’m sure he’s been drunk around you in the past.

Man, that would have pi$$ed me off. I would have felt the greatest sense of betrayal by that.

I have no other words for this – betrayal.

Resident cynic.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

You guys are putting it off on his friend—wrong any blame goes to the slut girl friend. Did the man betray his friendship—yes but I say forgive and forget. Now they can compare notes on f~~~ing her!

[AwakenedParticipant 35216]

Professor Chaos wrote:

I can’t even relate to these guys anymore

I think the bigger picture is if you can’t relate to them anymore just what is your “friendship” all about anyways ???

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

PistolPete wrote:

You guys are putting it off on his friend—wrong any blame goes to the slut girl friend. Did the man betray his friendship—yes but I say forgive and forget. Now they can compare notes on f~~~ing her!

I’ve had friend girlfriends throw it at me before and would never even consider it. Ever.

Pete….Do you have any blue pill friends left?

[Anonymous 43]

they should call her up and ask who was better…loser buys the next round

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

Awakened wrote:

Professor Chaos wrote:

I can’t even relate to these guys anymore

I think the bigger picture is if you can’t relate to them anymore just what is your “friendship” all about anyways ???

Golf, sports teams, the past are common interests but our lifestyles are very different.

[Sky-OParticipant 18952]

Maybe he waited 15 years because if he had told you after he f~~~ed her and you confronted her, she would have said she was raped.

And he would have spent the last 15 years in prison.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Professor Chaos wrote:

Pete….Do you have any blue pill friends left?

Only one—but I can tell even now one day he will join us! The table is set and the facts are in motion. Soon now he will swallow the red pill and become one of us. Right now he is as blue pill as they come but as I said the tide of events will overcome him—and when he is crushed by the bitch he is married to I will be there to provide support and answers. It will be nice when he joins our ranks,,,he;s a good guy.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

A good idea.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

He f~~~ed her while you two were together?

He is an absolute f~~~ing arsehole with no honour who clearly is not a friend. What sort of friend does that?

Yes she is a skank c~~~ but what else is new? Takes two to f~~~.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

Id blame both. Guy shoulda not done it and told the guy shes tried to screw him.

Cant trust him and not her.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

Wow.

On friendships. I have noticed that I’m beginning to distant myself from my bluepill friends as well. Just not being as close because it’s hard to respect, and I would suppose, trust, a bluepill friend. It’s like they are cucks.

I had a friend of mine, really good friend, friends since before I went MGTOW. Girlfriend broke up with him. So he’s going through all those emotions. Wants to hang out all the time. I show him a lot of MGTOW stuff. He seems to get better, start gaining more sanity. Next thing you know, his ex is coming over again, and after that, they have plans to move to a new city together. Also the whole, when a woman comes into the picture, they always seem to disappear. That woman is the highest priority.

It’s the lack of self respect that bothers me. Also, yeah, can you really trust a cuck? And how hanging out with someone who is cuck, how does that influence me and my mind? I think it’s natural, if you go through a big time growing up phase, and MGTOW material will definitely create that. You start kind of outgrowing your friends. Also, values have changed. People who I used to think were wrong, now I see them as right. A change in values can also affect friendships. How can I be friends with someone who has values that I consider wrong and unhealthy. It’s like going sober and being friends with a drunk. It’s not really that feasible.

Anyway, as far as your situation. I have no idea. I read the other post, I honestly don’t know. I couldn’t be angry about it, like betrayal. I just see it more as weak behavior. And it’s hard to hang out with weak people when you are strong/sane. It was 15 years ago. I honestly don’t know bud. I will say this, it happens a lot. I know in highschool, I saw it happen more than once. Friends going out with friend’s exes behind their back, also hooking up with someone’s girlfriend who they were friends with. I think this is one reason a woman likes a man who is social and has a lot of friends. It gets her into the circle, and then she has more options than she would on her own. I can’t say this behavior isn’t normal. But even if it is normal, bluepill/cuck behavior is, can a normal man be respected?

And on bringing it up. Maybe he’s been bothered by it emotionally for a long time and just finally admitted it while drunk. Just needed to get it off his chest and couldn’t hold it in any longer.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[Sky-OParticipant 18952]

If he had told you 15 years ago, you would have confronted her (during your own blue pill illusion), then she would have said he raped her.

You would have believed her while in a blue pill fog, kicked his ass, comforted her and then supported her through the legal process of making sure that he was held responsible in court for the rape.

He saved himself 15 years in prison and your friendship.

Slut’s are sluts and are always going to be sluts.

If this is ONE time that you know she cheated on you, based on your blue pill friend’s admission and you had been with her two years:

Then, doing the math over here, she cheated on you at least three times a year for two years which is a total of six times.

Her hole was ready. She was a slut and you would have known that had you not also been blue pill at the time, 15 years ago.

It’s not like he filled her up with a load then told her to go home and get you to f~~~ her an hour later for a double creampie experience.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

PistolPete wrote:

You guys are putting it off on his friend—wrong any blame goes to the slut girl friend.

I agree, I would be MORE pi$$ed at the slut, but this was 15 years ago. I’m sure she is out of the picture. The so called ‘friend’ is not.

Resident cynic.

[ghostParticipant]

Who cares. She was a slut. End of story.

[Professor ChaosParticipant 489]

Appreciate all the responses…Brilliant as usual.

Meh…I’m over it. I’m sure she’s got herpes, kids, and stretch marks by now.

And my buddy…whatever, don’t see him much and I’ll be sure to watch what I say around him now because I can’t trust him.

To all the young lurkers out there, I was 21 when this was going on. MY STORY ISN’T UNIQUE, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO EVERY MAN AT THAT AGE WHO’S DATING.

[GregB0Participant]

Your Bud Was “manning up” and figures that his telling you evens out his sleeping with your ex. He probably even said something like “it’s not like either of us are dating her, right?” and then proceeded to offer a highfive or fist bump.

You are beyond him now, pick up new friends who will be support you and bring up old stories that can only bring you down.

Thanks and hang in there.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 11]

That’s a tough one to take.

The slut made her choice, and he followed his dick. They were traitors.

It has been fifteen years, but I’d trust him as much as I trust women. It’s probably best that you know though.

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