Being a Human Utility and Friend Zone Instance #1,316,595

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Wow, that’s what you would call a double whammy, huh? Double f~~~ed/friendzoned by two chicks in one go?

At least you said, no, later on, the first is the most important and possibly hardest, if you feel the urge to be, “nice”. One thing women have always been experts in, is trying to guilt trip or use some “ethic/morale” bulls~~~ on you, which they don’t even themselves abide by. The second you see through their bulls~~~, it’s like getting a new mutant power.  Tough resisting the biological urges sometimes, luckily a quick shake with the head can clear your mind, and see the s~~~ flying out of their mouths, again.

 

Also, wut @ the PA trolls? I guess spies come in all the time?

 

 

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

It’s not happening again, that’s for sure. Subliminal bolded “no” for good reason. Don’t lose faith in me just yet. I was the way I was for years, facing horrible consequence if I didn’t stay the same way I was. Years of emotional abuse did this to me, but I’m fighting to get out of that mindset. I stumbled, did something stupid…I completely agree with everyone on that. I know for sure in my mind what is the right thing to do, absolutely. I just let myself be fooled a little. No, not a little. Quite a lot. A 10% payment for work of this level is absolutely unacceptable. I need to look at my past and tell it to screw off, really. Like I’ve said before, reading this page actually does better for my mental state than any psychiatrist I’ve ever had did.

I understand brother.  I totally get it.  Respect yourself because no one else is going to do it for you.  YOU establish YOUR value, not some f~~~ing c~~~.  You don’t own any woe-man a damn thing.  YOUR time/resources/labor ARE valuable.  Why else would some f~~~ing gash ask for your help?  Obviously they wouldn’t if they could handle their own s~~~.  YOU set the price!  NO NEGOTIATING!  NO COMPROMISE!  NO SIR!

“Ladies I’d really like to help you but I will be b~~~~-deep in a hot young thing this weekend.  Unless you can beat that deal I’m afraid I can’t help you.  Sorry!”  <make disingenuous sad face>

The best thing you can do at this point is do a 180 on them.  It will send their hamster wheel careening off in to the ditch.  Grab a cold beer and enjoy the show.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

For me, I feel like it’s a personal evolution, a maturity, if you will.

I’m certainly getting better at seeing through women’s games and lies, but sometimes I still sucker back to how I was for many years before.  I’m not quite sure what it is, either.  It sounds rather pathetic (because it is), but I get freaky flashbacks to my mother, grandmother (dad’s mom), and several other women in my life screaming at me and shaming me for being a horrible person for not being available 24/7 like some human tool.  It stuck to me, and I hated it, and still do.  If anything, like ol’ Palpatine says, “your hate has made you powerful.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Stop that s~~~ right now. The situation you found yourself in is not because of your mommy or daddy or any s~~~ like that. When you find yourself in a situation YOU DONT WANT TO BE IN…. ALL IT TAKES IS THE WILL TO CHANGE THAT S~~~. You can’t be helping chicks move for $20 and post the experience here knowing you’re doing s~~~ you don’t want to do, knowing that it’s bad for you…. and then you explain why?? Don’t want to hear it.

No excuses. No explanation.

If you keep doing what you’ve always done,
you’re gonna keep getting what you always got.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Chris it takes time to “de-program”.  However don’t fall in to the trap of making excuses.  Condense every situation down to a binary decision, “true/false”.  Take the grey out.  “Do I have this woe-man’s respect?  NO! F~~~ off c~~~!”  “The price for my services is woe-man drains my b~~~~ dry and does it with a smile and a rusty trombone.  YES!  Stop the grinnin’ and drop the linen!  Only thereafter do you get my services!” (Or cash up front at YOUR price if applicable)

You get my point.  Do you honestly think these bitches will remeber or appreciate anything you did for them when they are crying over Dick McBadboy in 5 years after he knocks them up, beats them, cheats on them, and leaves them?  Put this s~~~ in its proper perspective and the rest will start to click.  You won’t even have to think about it when you find yourself in these situations.  Refuse to be a useful tool for wimmenz.  Let THEM know why the are or are not worthy of YOUR TIME, LABOR, AND ATTTENTION.

Remember, if she ain’t spreading or paying MGTOW got no time for her silly s~~~!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

I get freaky flashbacks to my mother, grandmother (dad’s mom), and several other women in my life screaming at me and shaming me for being a horrible person for not being available 24/7 like some human tool.

You need to stop using that as an excuse for continuing to make a chump of yourself, because it is no excuse.  Instead understand that it’s a learning experience teaching you why you need to tell these people: “No.”

The whole reason why they screamed at you to get you to do things for them is because they knew it worked.  Doing what they want won’t ever make them stop screaming and shaming, it only teaches them to scream and shame louder next time.

The only way to end the screaming and shaming is refusing to respond to it.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

saying no to women does take some practice, but as you’ve already seen, it feels pretty good. It’s addictive and one of the few addictions that actually benefit you. Practice…practice…practice…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 11]

Megachris: You have not failed you have gained valuable negative information to paraphrase Robert Goddard.

Red pill is a process it’s ok as we’ve all had less than perfect interactions with women.  Practice setting your boundaries as I think that may help you move forward, and it gets easier with time. Tell people no just for the hell of it until it becomes second nature. I remember when I began to work on my boundary skills. It was awkward at first, but it’s now second nature. As a consultant, I have to tell executives no sometimes when I have prior commitments. Like women, CXOs do not like being told no, but I do it anyway as I have to. I have not lost any clients either. Boundary skills are very useful.

I really don’t like women as friends as they are not capable of reciprocating.  I do have one female friend I will do favors for, but she reciprocates.  Strangely, she and I came close to getting married 20 years ago, but her hypergamy saved my bacon.

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