Are you guys literally being *chased* incessantly by women?

[boisdevieParticipant 257]

I don’t get chased or hit on because women don’t know how to actually do this. I’m on a dating website and most women won’t even send men messages because they’re conditioned to have the men do all the work (i.e. chasing) and they think that men ‘enjoy the chase’ (which for me at least is bulls~~~).

[Anonymous 11]

Incessantly, thanks be to God, No!

Like Bunker said they all look like Walmart walruses at our age. Whenever it does happen, I just politely remove myself from the situation no matter if she’s ugly or attractive.

I just can’t handle the drama and problems they all bring aboard.

@boisdevie: I am currently researching dating sites for MGTOW purposes. They are a waste of time. I’m on a safety break for my vision.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Nerevar wrote:

Code Bunker (AKA “Stealthy Mgtow”) wrote:

Yes, at my age the walmart women seek a retirement guy.

They are the grossest women on the planet.

Is this actually the standard for people who shop at Walmart? http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/

I always have a blast watching this

The employees aren’t much better and sometimes worse.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[AttonParticipant]

I have the luxury of not having to leave my home often, at least for the next year or so.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

Its the undesirables nobody really wants that realize they have to make the first move or they won’t ever get noticed.

That’s what I get , and I do dress in suits for work because I have to. I get ogled a lot , but the only approaches I get are from trolls I’d never stick my dick in.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

It depends what means being “chased”.
Women throwing some signals of interest, like smiling to me or starting a conversation even if I don’t know them? Yes, it happens, quite often.
But that’s all.
In my experience women will never “chase”: women just throw some signals hoping you’ll show interest for them and you’ll make the first move – women are NOT interested about doing more, for a good reason: they want commitment, they want a man who is ready to do some (or many) sacrifices for them – this is, in women’s eyes, more important than our look or money: a woman know that she’ll never gain the access to your resources if you don’t show you’re willingly to put her on a pedestal. That’s exactly why women always expect the man doing the first move and that’s never gonna change. Also, even if it could happens “often”, it happens at a rate that is like 20x lower than the opposite, due women have a way lower sex drive than men.
I’m talking about public places: I don’t use facebook or dating sites.

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[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I found myself about 3/4 back in the look and height line …. Barry Manilow was behind me.

It wasn’t until I became ‘obvious’ in a financial sense that …. I won’t say chased .. but .. targeted by females.

The good news is it takes very little effort to become invisible to them.

I used to get women with charm, wit and lifestyle. Now I just go my own way.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Toronto is great being left alone for the most part. I did have a few women hit on me. Once on elevator believe it or not I want to get the f~~~ out as quick as possible. I did feel a cashier feel my hand no joke, it was real creepy. I had a few young women around 15 sitting way too close to me so I had to give several dirty looks. I had a older women hit on me at the grocery store weird.
My next door neighbor tried to get my attention. If I was coming back from somewhere most of the time she was coming back also. And many times when I was leave she was doing that too. It stopped after I got p~~~ed off and gave her a dirty look. She is real cute and all but way too young and if we had a argument and she called the cops and get a restraining order I would have to move.

I wish I had a cap that says mgtow monk and women will leave me the f~~~ alone. Since mgtow is getting popular more women who sees would get it. it would probably p~~~ them off because I see pussy is a useless piece of trash.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Whether to my benefit or detriment I was born with the “don’t bother me I’m thinking” default facial expression. This tends to keep most people from bugging me.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

No, luckily. I keep my business secret enough, simply because I found out less “tittering” goes on. I know who to tell and and who not to tell about new endevours. Mainly, tell guys, not women. And the guys you tell can’t be blue pill f~~~s who might just get jealous.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Nerevar wrote:

Is this actually the standard for people who shop at Walmart? http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/

I always have a blast watching this

Thanks for posting – i’ve never seen this s~~~ before. I just spent the last 5 minutes cringe-laughing my ass off.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Keymaster wrote:

she wants to “plan another getaway – alone this time” and hints to come for a visit.

I said “GREAT!!! Let me know your dates, and if I’m in town, we’ll have a drink.”.

Girl needs some aloe for that burn, well played!

[experiencedParticipant]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

My next door neighbor tried to get my attention. If I was coming back from somewhere most of the time she was coming back also. And many times when I was leaving she was doing that too.

Agreed, the coincidences are never coincidences.
The laydeez are hard wired that this is important stuff.
I enjoy catching the rigorous predictable “getting you into their peripheral vision” tactic.
To have a dime for every time something 90 degrees away coincidentally caught their attention. They want to happen to see if you notice them. The more advanced ones get p~~~ed if you won’t give them more than peripheral observation. Always the upper hand, they always want the upper hand and we’re not supposed to know this.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 0]

I am not being chased. I live a bachelor life in a 2 room apartment at a reasonable price, got enough money for my booze and a fast internet connection.

I do go out sometimes, but I noticed something. Women just bore me. And my sex drive is not even that high. If it hits, I will just take it into my own hands.

I do know women, and I get favorable responses, as I am not bad looking and over 6 feet tall, but there are 2 subsequently acting strategies I employ whenever a woman pretends to be into me.

A) The let’s-see-how-far-i-can-go strategy. I basically don’t give a s~~~. Talk to them like I would talk to one of my guy friends, being profound and profane in rapid succession, over and over. I do think I am quite brilliant compared to the other chumps they talk to usually, and with this in mind I am just having a good time. This has led to sex before, but if it does not and she wants to use me as an emotional tampon, I use strategy:

B) “Operation emotional tampon” As someone that is mentally damaged as I am, I do have a lot of material to bugger her with, and even if I do not get the deep connection and “friendly help” that would follow if I told a male friend, this still works very well for venting. So yeah, most women don’t bother me with their problems, and I have a great time being brilliantly depressed. Turning the tables here.

Well I guess this just works for me. I am an incredibly open person, and I hold nothing back. This has made me enemies, but also a lot of friends.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Depends on which class of women, and how desperate they are, to annoy you.

Most make it too obvious, they want you to ask them out, or want to start a more “intimate conversation”(them probing you), So they more or less prepare a big airport opening to try “let you know”, that they want you to approach them and ask them, I always play vague and joke to dodge around. Then there are the more desperate bunch, who will try throw themselves in front of you, and often annoy you, and be obnoxious, because in their minds, they think being a “strong woman”(pest), will grant them favourable attention.

I luckily don’t go out too much, to get myself in annoying situations, any more.

Also, not dressing up, helps too.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eric Lauder wrote:

It depends what means being “chased”.

Yeah I was going to say that earlier too.

They are are more aggressively looking to be pursued rather than doing any chasing.

“Aren’t you going to ask me for my number?”
“Here’s my number. Call me sometime.”

She doesn’t actually do the chasing or the calling, she wants you to do it. I would be more interested if they weren’t so passive-agressive about it. I can’t stand that “chase me” attitude.

The girl who said “OK a movie, but it’s not a date” lived overseas now. When I was last in Germany, she actually wanted me to drive 650K across the country to visit her for a weekend. As if didn’t already plan my trip and had nothing better to do but spend 3 days on the road, rent a car, $400 in gas, 2 overnights…. and when you get there, she won’t even cook dinner.

It also depends how many women you interact with, and where. I have a friend who has been on his own since college and didn’t have lots of exposure to women (like I did) because he’s in construction, but he has “girlfriends” in different states and even other countries who he sees occasionally. Sometimes they fly to visit him, but he doesn’t fly to visit them until work takes him there.

Burgundy wrote:

they want you to ask them out

Exactly.

Etrangere wrote:

the only approaches I get are from trolls I’d never stick my dick in.

That happens more than I would care to count too.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GreekDragoonParticipant 460]

‘Chased’ is a relative term, as others pointed out women don’t chase but they give ‘hints’ that they want to be chased. Those hints can get really, really creepy if not downright stalkerish.

I am in my late 20s and although I don’t have a steady and well paying ordinary job (good luck finding that in Greece these days) I do have some respectable income from writing for a variety of foreign sites. It’s not steady income by any means but with the current shape of the economy that’s more than most Greeks on my good days.

Now take the above and add the fact that I recently begun taking care of my body (lost 15 kilos of fat and took some light muscle) with the addition that I always liked being well dressed in public (nothing expensive, mid of the line attire and shoes, no jewelry and a mid tier smartphone to keep track of my work).

To cut a long story short, I do now look like a ‘catch’ which draws the female of our species like a flame attracts moths. I noticed that cashiers and waitresses are now always smiling when talking to me irregardless of age, in the metro there is often an unspoken ‘race’ between women of who is going to sit down next to me and sometimes I even get the odd aggressive ones.

I would be f~~~ing delighted of all this back in my blue-pill days but now its getting downright annoying, especially if I get an aggressive one after me. The gypsies are the worse of the aggressive type, the others know how to take a hint but these ones just won’t quit; to give a comparison to the USA audience, our gypsies can be seen as our very own hood rats. Princess syndrome but with far fewer STDs that are countered by a large family and plenty of criminal connections.

TL;DR

In bad economic circumstances the females will begin flocking to those who are average.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Eric Lauder wrote:

women are NOT interested about doing more, for a good reason: they want commitment, they want a man who is ready to do some (or many) sacrifices for them – this is, in women’s eyes, more important than our look or money: a woman know that she’ll never gain the access to your resources if you don’t show you’re willingly to put her on a pedestal. That’s exactly why women always expect the man doing the first move and that’s never gonna change.

Actually it’s because built into the hardware of every woman is a massive innate fear of rejection. Because back on the plains of Africa when were were all barely out of the trees a rejected monkeywoman was sabertooth catfood in short order. And if she somehow did manage to avoid predators, she’d starve anyways without a provider.

This is why women always approach men indirectly: if they never ask a direct question they can never get a direct refusal, and so in their minds they haven’t been rejected. So instead of asking you out or asking your phone number or whatever they’ll apprach obliquely (while also unsubtly trying to determine if you are a lucrative chump): “Where do you work for a living?” “What do you do?” “That’s a nice motorcycle / car / boat. Is it paid for?” “I haven’t seen you around here before.” Or they get one of their friends to approach you instead: “I know this great girl for you. You should meet her some time.” And so on.

This fear of rejection also explains why they keep asking: “Where are all the men?” They cannot handle asking the correct question: “Why have all the men left us?”

Also, even if it could happens “often”, it happens at a rate that is like 20x lower than the opposite, due women have a way lower sex drive than men.

Hahahahaha! No. That’s just a myth created by the victorian suffragettes and racist preservers of “white virtue”.

The historical view of women is closer to the truth: women are far, far randier and earthier than men while men are far more intellectual and self controlled than women. It’s the reason why the historical color for male children is celestial sky blue and female children is carnal flesh pink.

And there’s a reason for it. As a man you continuously produce unlimited sperm for decades. You can afford to wait or apply yourself to things other than breeding. You have time.

Women don’t. A woman has only a limited number of eggs, and they have a very limited shelf life. From a practical standpoint she has only a few dozen opportunities to reproduce her genes at most, and her genes know it. So her genes have her programmed to want to f~~~ the most physically prime specimens she can get her hands on and f~~~ now! Now! NOW!

Of course she is also programmed to try to extract the most resources out of men as she possibly can to support her offspring, which explains the other aspect of female sexual behavior – gold digging.

Oh, and do I need to say it? AWALT.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I don’t know to be honest.
(i never gave a f~~~)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

GreekDragoon wrote:

they give ‘hints’ that they want to be chased. Those hints can get really, really creepy if not downright stalkerish.

ABSOLUTELY downright stalkerish. One actually flew across the country to “surprise” me at work clear across the country. She booked a hotel and everything… and pretended like she was “oh just on vacation”.

I had a new girlfriend at the time too…. and this girl shows up like she was my girlfriend. Never even dated or slept together! Most awkward creepy s~~~.

She even bought me a WAY expensive gift and expected me to entertain her and go out while she was in town.

She elbowed herself into my life and letting her down turned out to be a nightmare.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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