Are you guys literally being *chased* incessantly by women?

[cnmcdeeParticipant 125]

They realize A. You have a good paying job, and B. Your single, and not interested.. It’s like fly’s trying to get through glass..

You feel like you don’t even want to be in public you feel so awkward as they constantly try at you.. I find the best solution is to only talk to a female if she is on the other side of the order counter, or till, or family. Other than that don’t talk to them!

[Anonymous 3]

Well, I dress in simple clothing and use a cheap smartphone. How would they know how much money I have? It seems like most people with any money do the same as me. I used a basic phone for as long as I could, but I got a cheap smartphone mostly to read e-books off of and check weather.

I think most of you guys are out there trying to attract women, so you flaunt wealth and chat them up, then afterwards try to pretend they are chasing you and forcing you into marriage or something.

In my experience, women suck at conversations and will never make a move for much of anything, especially if you pretend you don’t have any money.

[HitmanParticipant]

bro, i get these f~~~ing women asking me some STUPID s~~~ just to get a conversation going.
annoying as hell.
quick answers at best.
then i gotta go !

[HitmanParticipant]

Nobody Recognises Superman

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Anonymous wrote:

I think most of you guys are out there trying to attract women, so you flaunt wealth and chat them up, then afterwards try to pretend they are chasing you and forcing you into marriage or something.

I agree with this. Its the “look-at-me-Im-rich” or “drool-over-me” mentality that’s kiling us lot. Much like the females’ “look-at-me-im-pretty” thing.

It might just take a good spank at the back for us by ‘real life’ to learn that its not really worth it. Experience is education you know.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

The trollops don’t typically chase me on account of my height and frame.
If anything, they’ll just ask stupid questions or questions that have no “right” or “wrong” answer. It’s irritating and pathetic to say the least.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Yes, at my age the walmart women seek a retirement guy.

They are the grossest women on the planet.

Is this actually the standard for people who shop at Walmart? http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/

I always have a blast watching this 😀

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Hitman wrote:

Nobody Recognises Superman

Yeah, just put glasses on and you’re invisible.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s a little hard to call it “chased” when so many women these days can barely do better than a slow waddle.

With that in mind, chased? Often.

Annoyed? Constantly.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I wouldn’t say I’m “chased incessantly,” but I get hit on quite a bit. I don’t dress fancy…usually jeans/hoodie or shorts/tshirt depending on the weather. I don’t have a smart phone, I don’t ever wear cologne, and I don’t wear or own a single piece of jewelry…basically I have no expensive accessories. I have a pretty nice car, but its one I bought used, got a pretty good deal on, and paid cash for it so realistically I still paid less than a lot of people pay when they finance a crappier brand new car with s~~~ty credit.

Its generally fatties and single moms that hit on me though…its not like I’m getting young hot women hitting on me. Its the undesirables nobody really wants that realize they have to make the first move or they won’t ever get noticed.

I also find that I get more female attention when I have my work clothes on. If I stop somewhere on the way to/from work and have on a shirt with the company logo and my badge as I make it a habit to put it on when I’m leaving for work and not take it off until I get home and put it back in the same spot I put it every day so I never lose it, women know I make decent money just based off the company I work for.

Obviously, as I can tell when I’m wearing work clothes, if they get even the slightest hint that you have money that draws more attention from them, but I also think just being a confident and happy dude goes a long way as well. I used to be quite a bit more grumpy all the time when I had my last job because I hated what I did 5 days a week, but since I left that job I’m just a more relaxed and happy person, and I also noticed I’ve been getting hit on more even though I wear the same type of clothes I’ve always worn.

I’m also in my early 30s…so I’m at an age where a lot of women +/- a few years of me are catching the baby rabies and are desperate to find a guy. I think this plays into it as well as I think I was approached by women twice from the time I was 18 until my late 20s…even when they were interested they’d usually have someone let you know so you can come make the first move, or they’d do something stupid to get attention…they’d almost never just come over and say hi and try to start a conversation. In the last year its happened at least 10x, plus I’ve had more women giving me the eye or trying some cheap form of flirting, but I just play dumb to them because I really don’t want to bother lol.

[Charles BSpectator 251]

Nerevar wrote:

Code Bunker (AKA “Stealthy Mgtow”) wrote:

Yes, at my age the walmart women seek a retirement guy.

They are the grossest women on the planet.

Is this actually the standard for people who shop at Walmart? http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/

I always have a blast watching this

That’s definitely the standard for most people that go to Walmart.

As far as “being chased by women” I’m never chased by women, because most of the time, I tend to dress like the people at Walmart. Just in casual, boring, simple, clothes. However, on some weekends, when I go see a movie or something on the Las Vegas strip, I do tend to wear nicer clothes to avoided being carded constantly (I’m 25, but look like I’m 14.)

Occasionally, this makes women stare at me. I never get more than stares though.

[bob__Participant 946]

They realize A. You have a good paying job, and B. Your single, and not interested.. It’s like fly’s trying to get through glass..

You feel like you don’t even want to be in public you feel so awkward as they constantly try at you.. I find the best solution is to only talk to a female if she is on the other side of the order counter, or till, or family. Other than that don’t talk to them!

Solution: Don’t get a “job” that involves producing something for other people and don’t let women even know you exist. Be a hermit and work at home for your own benefit and nobody else’s. If you’re self sufficient you never need or want to be in public.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Matters where I am. Where I work right now, it’s easy not to be noticed. I go to my room and I go to work which is in a caged facility, within a walled compound, inside a FOB in the middle of a warzone. On top of that, I work nights.

When I was in Kuwait, as soon as I went out to the mall, yes, I was being chased like every American, Brit, Aussie, or other Western Civilized Nationality.

When I am in the PI, like every foreigner, I have to beat the women off with a stick.

In the States, I try to ghost, but I always get unwanted attention from single moms that smell money of any kind. Mostly cashiers and waitresses.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Anonymous 3]

There are so many threads on here with dudes whining that women only want loser/thugs or won’t have sex and will flake all the time. Then there is a thread like this which says the opposite, where posters claim they are being chased by women and pussy is thrown at them constantly.

Sure there are different posters in these threads, although not necessarily, I think I have seen some overlap in names, but it is contradictory overall.

Frankly, with my real life experience, I just call bulls~~~ on this thread and the notion that women chase. Although I would say Beer’s post is likely the most accurate.

You guys aren’t being chased, stop with trying to make yourself sound like some e-stud. If you are being “chased” it’s by some desperate fat 38 year old single mother skank, and certainly isn’t something to brag about. Don’t emulate women’s behavior of delusion, hyperbole and outright prevarication. If you want help avoiding the 38 year old skank single mothers, then be outright with it, and the answer is, again, don’t let them know you have money, which they won’t if you don’t try to make it known. Good luck to you.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

There are so many threads on here with dudes whining that women only want loser/thugs or won’t have sex and will flake all the time.

I think the wanting to f~~~ loser/thugs is more in reference to young, decent looking women. Once they catch baby rabies, pop out a kid with a loser and realize they f~~~ed them self, or hit the wall they’ll f~~~ a “normal” guy, but us “normal” guys don’t want that beat up dirty pussy with baggage in tow, and/or are well aware they just want to marry/make (more)babies/divorce rape and go on with their lives.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Women almost never bother me anymore.

But past experience looks and status (like your job) can make a big difference.

For most men, women expect men to come to them and try their luck.

Either way you can alter how you look.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Charles BSpectator 251]

I think most of the time if men do get chased by women, it’s either because they’re wearing very nice business clothes coming back from some formal event or they’re in a foreign country where those women value foreign men.

In my experience, most of the time I don’t even get as much as a look across the hall from women unless I’m wearing really nice business clothes coming back from a job interview.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Beer wrote:

phoenix wrote:

There are so many threads on here with dudes whining that women only want loser/thugs or won’t have sex and will flake all the time.

I think the wanting to f~~~ loser/thugs is more in reference to young, decent looking women. Once they catch baby rabies, pop out a kid with a loser and realize they f~~~ed them self, or hit the wall they’ll f~~~ a “normal” guy, but us “normal” guys don’t want that beat up dirty pussy with baggage in tow, and/or are well aware they just want to marry/make (more)babies/divorce rape and go on with their lives.

This.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

YES. Especially after I pulled back and stopped paying attention to them. Old acquaintances, flings and exes especially. Even some who weren’t particularly nice to me and were totally neutral started behaving like “there was something there”.

I actually got an “I love you and miss you” (not kidding) from a chick I hadn’t seen in years – but I knew her for 15 years and the nicest thing she ever said was “OK a movie, but it’s not a date”.

Now I’m like “OK you can blow me , but it’s not a date”.

I noticed a marked turn around when I was about 33.

Another single Mom was in town who I was in the 10th grade wth. Like a long lost sister. She had her 13 year old daughter with her, and is divorced. We meet for a drink, it’s fun, we catch up, and then within months she wants to “plan another getaway – alone this time” and hints to come for a visit.

I said “GREAT!!! Let me know your dates, and if I’m in town, we’ll have a drink.”.

She got the message and didn’t even reply.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[experiencedParticipant]

LAYDEEZ chase the scent of resources because resources are their goal.
Your pursuit of career associated goals gives off that stank.
It’s nothing personal.
Professional appearance coupled with professional focus and then they’re thinking about you.
When a man is intrinsically focused they pick up on it.
Right when you’re focusing hard on something, they’ve GOT to get between you and it.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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